₦airaland Forum

They should let the young woman rest abegii!! Why are people still flogging a dead horse? Nigerians just enjoy majoring in the minor.

beamie:
Gosh... you are stubborn
The matter neva die down.

Lol, it's Mr. Akinlekanwr who keeps raising the dead.

Akinlekanwr:
I was talking about clothes and that which is their primary purpose. I don't see how that sounds like a verdict against this woman.

You have your opinion about dressing, and other people have theirs too. But you really think anyone that doesn't share your opinion is a "potential rapist"

Where does that place you?

It places me in the position of a ' Potential rapist spotter' thank you... #PicksUpBinocularToSpotPotentialRapists

Akinlekanwr:
Maybe you should go back and point out that which I said that made you feel I "want to assume the role of an authority as far as dressing is concerned."

You said and I quote "May I remind you sire that clothes are meant to cover the body, it is not meant to wrap it."... so you tell me if that doesn't sound like a verdict against the women in the pictures above?

beamie:
No he wasn't. He was just passing off his opinion.

I'm so surprised u r acting so cool with me.

The way u went after that dude was aggressive.

Hahaha... that's because men go to war with men, and men dialogue with women

beamie:
Hmm. Nvm. To the one above.
I'm tired

Ok, your excellency.

beamie:
Are u asking me?
Think about it na.

Well for me, he sounded like he wants to be a self-appointed fashion police; I presume he wants to assume the role of an authority as far as dressing is concerned.

beamie:
Lmao. That statement sounds false.

Which statement...

beamie:
He was just saying his mind.

He didn't make any authoritative statement.

Is that so?

beamie:
No offence oh

I think it's you that's problematic

That era you said was still when nigeria was a primitive country and a grown man like you compares it to the values that should be held in this present era

You're confused, I'm sorry.

dumexteam:


i love this girl
bt telling her is my problems

and when chatting with her she do tell me that she will never hv any relationship with a guy again due to her first date that she got heart broken

any help or advice 2 help me ?

You should know that's normal girl talk... You better ask her out before someone else does. The next time she says she won't do relationship again, ask her if she plans to be a Rev. Sis...

Nairaland comments over Facebook comments any day. Loool. I skipped all the Facebook ones just to read nairalanders'

Deckylicious:
nonsense list. Where is Adichie.


nonsense list. Where is Adichie.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (God bless her heart cos I love her that much) isn't that influential in Nigeria. She's popular but might not be equally influential in the Nigerian society. Even the popularity might be limited cos not many people even understand the feminist cause she stands for. However, a lot of Nigerians are glued to their celebs and blognews outlets for gossips.

Akinlekanwr:
Its no rocket science bro, 'pervertness' came with colonization. I don't know of any form of sensitization about rape back then because there was not really a need for any. I've been in remote villages over and over, and I saw how old women dressed compared to the young ones, by older women, I mean women that probably have grandchildren already.
Yes, you're right, I've done things I'm not proud of, o have you, but for your information, I've not attacked anyone on the basis of indecent dressing. I only have a problem with the concept.
Biblically, Adam and Eve were made, they were naked, but they had no consciousness of it until they interacted with what they were not meant to and then "their eyes were opened" and they covered their bodies with leaves.

Smh.

Is it my eyes or I see two number 5's there. Standing at the far right no. 5, Austin Eguavon and Sunday Oliseh no. 5 bending in centre front.

orble:
Only a potential idi.ot would even bother to reply a thread like this and ask such a question.

*Potential rapist spotted*

Akinlekanwr:
Its not about being an authority to deciding what is right or not right about dressing. I'm not jes going to be a proponent to indecent dressing in the society, we all know things indecent dressing promote in our society.

Maybe you should show me a picture of how these forefathers tied wrappers to actually show the outline of their b.utts, then I'll have an idea of what you're spewing.

Thank you

Mr. Morally upright. Indecent dressing you say... I bet my last kobo that you're a hypocrite. You know the sins you commit in open and in the dark secrets. If we begin to judge you, you will take cover. Better slow down with your morality crusade.

Akinlekanwr:
I agree with your first sentence here 100%. But may I remind you that there were no as much perverts as we have now back then. Things have changed. I can argue that most women that went unclad then were older women in the society, the height of going unclad by a young lady then would be tying a wrapper up to her chest, a little above her bosoms.

Where is your empirical data to prove that there were no much perverts back then like there are now? What statistics did you Base your statement on? OR you just assumed? Back then, was there consciousness and stance against molestation and rape of women that you know of? AND what are your basis for saying only older women went unclad? Do you have proof of that? and what is your definition for older women?

Oahray:
lol. Chai! So you read my post and couldn't detect that it was in agreement with what you said to the other guy? How could you miss sarcasm that's so glaring? I simply described how the average Nigerian likes to take it upon himself to decide what is proper for everyone, based on his own limited knowledge and experiences.

Bros na wa for you o.

Lmaooo... sorry sir... I didn't see it was a different person. I thought it was the same person. I had just woken up from sleep and I thought the dude was being 'further annoying'. accept my apologies on mistaken identity.

Oahray:
Nigerians are a self-appointed authority unto themselves and others. Every man is the Constitution even in matters that are none of his business.

Imagine someone whose forefathers tied wrappers nearly 24/7 coming to say clothes are meant to cover and not wrap the body. As if clothes can wrap the body without covering it.

Smh... do u want me to show you proof that more often than not women went unclad in pre-colonial Nigeria? you get up and say every man is a constitution to himself, indeed. If you think you are a constitution to yourself, I dare you to go and molest a lady in a skimpy outfit if you won't smell jail. You better change your school of thought cos what you're currently spewing is problematic. HOPE you're not a parent yet cos this your mentality won't be good for child-rearing

Akinlekanwr:
May I remind you sire that clothes are meant to cover the body, it is not meant to wrap it.

And what are these clothes doing And let's say it's "wrapping" it as you say, what or who made you an authority on how clothes are to be worn??

Only a potential rapist would even bother to open a thread like this and ask such a question. And those who have issues with these outfits above have serious problems, they need to explore more of life and step out of their tiny corners.

traware:
1.Correct that nonsense
2.I will call of off the bloody wedding.I have no time to "wife up' a "public toilet"

You too correct that thing in your sentence o ye self-righteous one. Call off wedding when u don't know when it was taken and how it got there. it could.have been a disgruntled ex.. her nudes are online so?

Girls have been lying about their virginity since the beginning of the world kmt! The way those their virginity lies annoy me ehn! Virginity does not make one any extra special so why lie

Julietcutie:
no am fine

Lol OK ooo. I'm at your service whenever you need anything

Julietcutie:
oh thank you

Welcome dearie... anything else I could help you with?

OP your English is so off, you need Brighter Grammar

Julietcutie:
what is TTC pls

'Third To Comment' my lady

So this is the Airforce1 guy... hahahahahaha

mirakuru:
don't know why some guys prefer to masturbate than experience the real deal... masturbation itself destroys the brain. now it has led to the death of a young man.

Guy you can lie o... which research did you conduct that showed that maturation destroys the brain.... what sort of fvckery is this

I'm grateful to my ex for fvckin me to stupor

Raine80:
He learnt from me attested by the fact that we are now quite good friends.

Girl can I learn from you as well