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[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I am cheating with my husband.[/quote]mrs chima

No1 is an excusable cheating. No2 is pure cheating and is not acceptable. There's a difference b/w sleeping around and having a relationship. If you wanna sleep around, fine. If you wanna have gf/bf, fine! And make d best outta it. Wat is d essence of having a gf/bf and still sleep around? It doesn't make sense cos you cant eat ur cake and have it back. Anyone dat tries dat is provoking nature and KARMA, a jealous husband to nature must surely act. Be warned and be faithful, it pays alot!!

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Ozegbe: if this happens 2 tins wil be involved
1. Umemployed graduate wont bother looking for job
2. Those who earn less than 20k will resign.

i dont know sister op is saying o, is she a jobless graduate The best tin to do is to build companies and factories to employ them order than this... David mark is wise enough to reject such an absurd bill. Wat then happens to un.employed graduates that are even 10times bigger than dan d whole graduates put together?? Thumbs up senator David mark, our youths are not lazy, they must work if they wanna eat.....

Sir me no get dis ur gist o, plent friend's friend, sisters friend, friend's sister, sister's sister, younger's younger, Etc full am...

D qweshon should be, wat do I really want in a relationship... If you're getting wat u want, stay. If you're not, GO!!! This is applicable to both parties. Dont worry urself over ur d other want, worry urself over wat u want. The other might not even be worried over wat u, urself wants.

Op, why dont u tell us ur own story, we ol have our own stories.

PHIPEX: And what of when the practitioners base their actions on the same doctrines of the religion? I don't need to study the quoran to understand Islam, I should be able to know the doctrines of Islam by observing the actions and inactions of its faithfuls. Once again, this current issue was not done by Islamic outlaws but by a legally constituted Islamic court of law in defense of its teachings and doctrines.

you make sense. Oya maclatunji, i don try as a x.tian to defend muslim and i've been overpowered, com tak ova less i tak his words for wat it's...

I dont know but i know alot of ppl dat couldn't register due to lack of centers, dat's not just fair. They should know their capacity and maintain. It's fraud wen they overdo. If wat u enter an educational institution with is fraud, I wonder wat d institution itself would be. 9ja!!! Beside, you de work for jamb??

PHIPEX: you can't differentiate a religion from those that practice it, by their fruits we shall know them.

well I can. Every religion has doctrines, anything different from it is not acceptable...

Christian is Good, Islam is Good.... It's just d people practicing it dat are bad....

Wait o, d information follow from nowhere fly come reach u ni Nawa o, oga provide source...
But somehow, wethn de worry dis Jamb boss self? He had vacancy for like 1.5 mil candidates but sold more than 3mil cards. If he's postponing it, he should creat more centers as well, ppl never register finish....

DailyNews: forget lies being cooked by the American and European cultures and norms. Our forefathers and most people in Arab, India, etc never used to have sex before marriage and they lived happily and long.

It is the American/European culture that's destroying this world through their bad/deceiving media- sex marketing on movies, music, adverts, TV, novels, magazines, etc...


There are numerous merits in abstaining from pre-marital sex, take it or leave it but try and practice it if u can, it pays very well.

try and practice wat?, you de virgin family, you know d kind family mi de hana de one we de practice?? Mbok, dakar o.....

DailyNews: First of all- a big CONGRATS to you...you are blessed

On the merits- numerous.

free from possibly contracting HIV, STDs, STIs, etc.

Spiritual- numerous and free from contacting other peoples' life curse and hard luck. Having intimacy with someone means joining spiritually with them, but ppl dnt know, n won't agree. This can further reduce lifespan, blessings, favours, blessings, anointing, etc. So many people have died becos the had sex with someone that carries a death/condemnation spirit or curse.

Economically, maintaining a girlfriend in present Nigeria involves much money- sponsoring dates, outings, buying gifts, birthday parties, etc. If u know how much u have saved whilst abstaining,u will thank God.

In all, u are a good role model, how I wish more youths can follow ur footsteps and we won't be reading and hearing all these heartbreak and several other sad stories abt romance.

I wish u more grace to stand and to finish well

medically nko Body no be firewood o

There is noting greater than coming out plain and be truthful, wat if d man refused to accept d job. D wife should discuss such a ting with him first b4 embarking on it.. But d kind work we go make person get mansions and cars within 3 months, pls where is d chairlady of dat bigcompany??

Oh my good lord, Again?

I dont lie so i wouldn't know wat u are talking about, Liar!!!

KINGwax: Erm.... Not really. But as an african, our culture says no

pls enlighten me, which culture says no?? Who da hell cares about who i wanna date?

Source

Idowuogbo: Kikikiki....u no wot? If u find yaself in a hole, u stop digging. U copy?

Choi... Yua ma real badosky, u know say me never reach ur level na. Oya padi mi, kwusi de vexation 4 ur man biko, huh??

Idowuogbo: Nwoke, pack her belongings to d left mehn.... Which yeye love dey worry u? Imagine, anoda guy dey kerewa ya babe and d same babe go come chop ya oskilala, damn! Dat place go wide o!

you know wat?? Am reading ur siggy right beside ur ears.....

kandiikane: Aha! I was only going by that quote of his oo. Didn't see where he said the girl's been cheating or something. Regarding cheating, when you're stup!dly in love, you'll stay regardless.

she did, with a banker

GraceBestowed: Hia! Please don't have that mindset; when you start to see things that didn't work out as a stepping stone to greater things, you won't do things 'once and for all'

dat's why i call it a 'flaw'

Idowuogbo: YES!!!! O fevk up gan!!! U dey endure nonsense na! Kai, dem don dey call my padi name inside calabash o!

baby me cool down na, chill. No1 is calling my name anywhere, I assure ya am still d man, d very man... Oya, how u wan mak i make it up to you mbok, dont tell me to show her d door

GraceBestowed: ^^ @Les ^^

From your posts, I've gathered that you're a nice guy, willing to do what it takes to make your relationship work.

It's normal for some feelings (trust, emotions etc) to go out the window when you've uncovered cheating in your spouse. Ultimately, you will do what works best for you!

amma nice guy no be small sha, straight forward but with one flaw, i do tings once and for ol, if anything happens to dis relationship, am done with relationship for life unless wen i would wanna settle down(old age)

GraceBestowed: ^^ loool ^^ I've learnt a new one again!

ha ha gracey me don follow u learn to o..

Idowuogbo: U sure sey na Leslo dey type? As in d same Les wey me no? Wow! Na wa o!!! Dat babe don password u.

IDowu mi, na me de yearn, I gallant wella, no shaking. Which kind babe we wan password me abi she smoke bomb? Na one kind yeye love carry me go jam one badosky like dat na so eye do me like opener. No long ting sweedy. Suppose de trust me na. Mak I ask u sef, I fall ur hand??

Morgan1092: I undastandn ur feelns, ladies re just like dat, d do tins d wil regret. D won't even tel u until d hav done wht is in dia mind. Den wen d start feeln guilty, ehee! D may open up 2u. By dat time, its nw ur hrt break, and d claim 2tel u because d can't hide anytin 4rm u, but d hid tins til d gave in. Such is life.

markpenk: Dude... I feel for you. In your best interest though, walk away. You'll find another chic and cope just fine. Right now, your trust is shot... and as long as you've got doubts and are living in fear, that's no relationship. It's a shell of what it once was. Take it from a nigga who's been through the same

thanks dudes... Learnt my lessons sha, am not into her like b4. Still have my reasons for dating her and it's not d initial reason. D chick is just fine ol rounds with nice assets to cover any collateral damage. So be it

fubbyy: I wish I can meet you in person, after my tutorial class, that your girl will be crying everyday for you not to leave

My man the problem is letting a girl know she's your world, pls develop this I no send attitude and you will be surprise of what happens, it works like magic

Every girl I know is the one struggling, you know why? Because am a jerk, a serious one

am a kinda guy dat dont hide feelings, if am angry, u'll know, if am sad, v'll know and if i love u, u must surely know. To be sincere, am proud of her and she meant alot to me and i still showed her dat- my mistake abi?? Well, i prefer dat mistake to being a jerk...

Idowuogbo: Henhen? Les, u don drink punnie water o!

punnie H2O ke Mbok expanditiate more, huh?

Morgan1092: Hmmm! U tried big time, cos i can only tolerate dat n stay wit ha if she had told me b4 i heard it else where.

dat's not even d most painful part, d most painful part is that i told her, see girl, as beautiful as you are, guys must surely disturb u. Just incase you agree to anyone, tell me first and i promise to leave u alone- we had a slight misunderstand about d@ statement... Mak i just stop here cos all is well

Morgan1092: Young Po abi Dae So! b4 u condemn him u wud hav 2 ask how he gat 2 knw abt d gal cheating on him? Did she tel him or he found out him sef?

I found out tru a friend, tho she tried denying at first, she later confessed. D day i made use of her social.N, I cried seeing d number of guys disturbing my lady, it's not easy being a very pretty lady so i give her dat benefit but she abused it. Right now, i dont even know how many rivals i get self but i'll make sure i clear d air b4 taking dat huge step with her.

Young po413: Your babe cheated on you and you are still dating her?na which kind man you be?

she apologised and i forgave tho i told her plainly dat am still fighting to trust her again, and if i cant trust her again, marriage is no no btw us. Tho it's sounds right, i dont follow d ideology dat says there are many fishes in the river, my shark is enough for me. If she goes, dating chapter is closed and i dont wanna be single cos i dont wanna start to chase/toast girls for now, if not, she's long gone....