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worldman: may ur brain never goes dormant God bliss u I luv ur advice thanks u speak like a matured mind thanks

Cutejay: hahahaha@hotel room number. I don't mean bad in that aspect man it doesnt av to be about sex. My signature has nothing to do with this ish please. Thanks for the advice that was why i put it up here for advice and u have given urs its ok.

samuel900: So u don't know what's special if u have sum1 in d Bomb blast of accidents u will no its not easy to cross over

#80million:
*speechless*

that i'm alive on January 1st makes it special!

Royal Roy: You don't see anything about it right?
Try this Mr k2039......
Imagine having a car, u just bought it and u feel so good the first day. Counting a whole year after, then someone buys u a new one exactly a year after. How would u feel? Like its just another car? Or u would be grateful?

Mynd_44: Midnight 1st of January is the most annoying time of the year. Seriously how is it different from all the other days? And yet some over religious people will start running to church so they they as in church at that momment and then got back to what they are doing. I will rather sleep in my house or watch TV

hollas2jnr: Hey mister, it irritates me alot to see such a post; don't b a disgrace to manhood. Why go into a relationship with a girl u do not love, talk more of taking away her virginity. Pls just let her be. Remember, man would always reap what he sows. A word is enough...

BodyKiss: One proven method that has worked for me is not idealize the person. The human brain can't differentiate between reality and imagination, when you idealize about somebody, for example, by always sharing good moments with them together, or even getting married to them in your imagination, you will get fond of them, hence falling in love. The human brain can't tell apart reality and imagination.

cshall1120: I think some people remain single for a long time not because they restraining themselves from falling in love but other circumstances. Sometimes people get their heart broken and are afraid to open up to someone again which prevent this from occurring. In some cases, like you said "sometimes you cant help who you fall in love with" perhaps, one can not help if the people they date, they do not fall in love with. So in some cases maybe these people just may not have met that special someone. In many cases from a woman's perspective alot of the times we have these standards of what we look for in a partner or this ideal of what that special someone should be like and when we come across of date people of the opposite sex if they don't fit into that ideal image or have the potential to meet ours standard. We automatically write them off never giving ourselves the chance to fall in love. Now I do agree that some people just never have been loved and don't know how to love, so they never fall in love. Another point, is that for some people being in a relationship has nothing to do with falling in love with someone; For example, some just have fear of commitment, so they remain single. People can fall in love with someone that does not fit into their culture, religion, social status, etc.., so they don't openly enter into a relationship with someone.

kaboninc: Lady?

slimphemmie: 40 FOOLISH THINGS PEOPLE DO IN
MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP
By Hope ThankGod Emilano
If you find your self doing any of this , its a
sign of imaturity and you need to grow up;
*keeping malice
*rejecting food because ur angry wit ur wife
*abusing each other
*reporting to a 3rd party
*sexual denial, having no intrest in sex
*hatred nd lovelessness
*failure to provide for the family
*night crawling
*naggin nd murmuring
*failure to apologise when ur wrng
*failure to pray togethr wt ur spouse
*failure to 4gv ur spouse A TREAT ONCE A WHILE to spice up the home
*embarrassing ur spouse openly
*comparing ur spouse wt others
*Loving ur siblings, parnts nd childrn MORE
than ur spouse
*failure to go for counseling when ur
marriage is in trouble
*failure to be commited to ur marriage
*thinking of divorce
*keeping things secret from ur spouse
*THREATENING ur spouse wt divorce nd
separation
*shouting or raising ur voice during
discussions
*arguements which no bdy is ready to lose
*taking credit for any good thing that
happen nd not gving any to ur spouse*being
selfish nd self centered
*allowing friends nd familly menbers to
direct the affairs of ur home *not acepting
blame for any mistake
*laziness nd failure to work
*competing with ur spouse at home
*talking abt ur 'ex' boyfrnd or galfrnd often
*unfriendly nd uncaring attitude
*wife battering
*stinginess, loving to receive nd not willing
to give
*drunkeness nd clubbing
*treating ur spouse without respect
*failure to COMMUNICATE and DISCUSS ISSUES AS THEY ARISE rather than PILING UP TO BLAST IT ALL OUT IN ONE DAY
*wasteful spending
*allowing anger, bitterness and resentiment
to take over ur life
*referring to OLD HURTS OFTEN
*taking vengeance of every offence
andrefusing to reconcile.
WISE THINGS TO DO IN MARRIAGE/
RELATIONSHIP;
*put God first
*let communications channels be open
*Love ur spouse no matter what
*Give room for sex nd romance at all time
*pray for each other separately and together
*Accept ur spouse for who he or she is
*forgive generally
*be kind to ur spouse
*submit to each other
*sleep in the same room
*work for each other
*bath together.....To make a happy world.

kaboninc: Damn 55 likes! You really captured the minds of many! Including me of course.hehe

Wahala90: So you think when a woman refuses to cook by refusing to take feeding money she hurts herself alone. What about the children and other relations that may be at home. It is funny how we think we are civilised and yet when we talk it is something else. Please, happily married women should beware. We have so many women who have failed in their marriages and are happy to see the marriages of others fail.

bettymafy: A man refusing to eat his wife's food is like a woman refusing to take "chop" money from her husband because they had a disagreement. It never gets to the man if his wife refuses taking money from him after a quarel, then why should a wife bother her head when her husband refuses to eat her food?

The moral of the lesson is: u only end up hurting ursef if u refuse eating (in the case of the man) or taking money (in the case of the woman). Time to grow up people!

Redmosquito: If it is me, I will sniff the food, shake my head and push the plate aside.

Wahala90: If not eating her food doesn't send the signal of how hurt you are, then a blow on the lip will do it.

IYA NGBALI: that was how I fell into the hands of my second wife

Ayee Idris: You really should read a thread before commennting, or atleast where someone else comment is coming from before posting, cos if u had done that, u would have known d above doesn't apply/relate to my post/posts.

misreal: diz z d most matured $tatment.$o far

Ayee Idris: [/b][b][/b][b][b][/b]

Young Man, pray tell how deliberate Starvation helps me understand the "situation" better than a good old fashioned arguement?

What does it profit a man to satisfy his anger rather than his hunger? See rhyming...anger...hunger.#Poetic Genius