Family › Re: My Sisters-In-Law Are Causing Problems In My Marriage! What Do I Do? by lessonsoflife: 3:16am On Dec 21, 2019 |
midnighter: I don't understand why you're giving conditions outside of the reality that OP has already narrated to us.
Do they mind their business? No
Do they have their own money? No
Is the woman's husband doing anything about it? No
So all these permutations and circumstances you keep giving don't have any bearing on the reality at hand.
You can't marry into a family that has one male sibling, with a wealth disparity between that sibling and all the rest, be the youngest member of said family, from a different tribe, do your own thing with the guys child and then not expect wahala. Except if your husband is going to shield you, which most of the time they don't .
This is why I said you should give realistic advice instead of basing on your own expectations of how things are "supposed" to be, according to you .
If they think the woman has come to mess up their pocket money then she can prove them wrong by giving them some regard instead of trying to aggravate them further by shutting them out. I was just imagining, does the OP really know how her husband got his wealth? It could be the sisters assisted their brother, they might have sacrificed their savings, what was meant for their children and given to their brother. They might have told their brother if you succeed, make sure you don't forget how you succeeded and all. The man has succeeded and married now the wife want the man to forget his sisters? I once rented a certain apartment. The landlady was troublesome and gives all the tenants headache. But I got along with her very well.. Now all the tenants knows that this woman is not the owner of the house it belongs to her brother. And despite the bad attitude that drives tenant away, her brother still takes good care of her. She told me her brother took her to court to eject her from the house yet it is still the brother that brought foreign doctors to operate on the woman of fibroid of many years. Till today, the woman still receives help from her brother. I believe the OP is economical with the true story. |
Romance › Re: My Husband Is Asking Me To Him The Guys Number by lessonsoflife: 3:51pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Upto this point I am writing, only one lady has commented.
What happened to the rest? |
Family › Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by lessonsoflife: 3:32pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Pussywar: Easily laid when I want to be laid. Your attempt at slut shaming is poor. Try a again, dimwit Not slut shaming dear. And thanks for agreeing at what I wrote earlier. I don't just write because I want to catch fun, i write base on my observations in life, #LESSONSOFLIFE. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu ‘Seizes’ APC Membership Register - APC Youth Vanguard by lessonsoflife: 3:27pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
DID I SEE SERVER IN THE ARTICLE?
WTF INEC N SP COURT. |
Family › Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by lessonsoflife: 10:05am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Pussywar: So your brain just told you to come out here, bash women, display your toxicity and in the end make absolutely no sense? And you feel normal? What is your pussy at war with? You maybe one of those who is easily laid. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Impeachment Doesn't Mean Removal From Office by lessonsoflife: 6:51am On Dec 19, 2019 |
I hope he stays |
Family › Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by lessonsoflife: 4:28am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Damilolacoker: Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.
He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.
The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.
Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore. Let me tell you something ** Online could be the best, freedom ** You feel cut out from making friends hence you wont accept online job ** Many married working class women are praying they have a husband who will ask them to stop working as the man is capable of taking care of the family ** Many married women are laid easily at work place. ** My coworker will resign this month to go take care of her son. The assist manager has been on her for 6 and yesterday she jokingly told me she has settled him. You see these days women are getting more useless. Correct your daughter till you tire, girl wey go spoil go spoil. If you are faithful and your husband too, many of your children would be disciplined and faithful without stress but what do i know. |
Webmasters › Re: How To Get Into Youtube Partnership Programme Easily And Earn With Your Videos by lessonsoflife: 8:41pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
pmedia1: Reach medialounge11 on Skype for a custom service I don't do Skype |
Webmasters › Re: How To Get Into Youtube Partnership Programme Easily And Earn With Your Videos by lessonsoflife: 8:35pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
pmedia1: You get them also
Subscribers comes in naturally when you use a very good vedio Which platform is best to buy views. |
Webmasters › Re: How To Get Into Youtube Partnership Programme Easily And Earn With Your Videos by lessonsoflife: 6:28pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
pmedia1: Step 1: Download a CC video from youtube which should be 3 hours long or up to 10 hours long. You might be wondering what kind of video that can be so let me tell you. Just search "waterfall voice 3 hours" or "fan voice 10 hours" and you will get a lot of search results.
or get a comedy vedio from one of the pupolar comedians...any comedian
Step 2: Upload the video and then buy 500 -1000 views from one of the panels in the sales area. retention up to 70%. After 3 days you will check that your watch time is completed up to 4000 hours.
3.Apply for youtube partnershiship programme after 9 days
Get youtube response in 30 days What about subscribers the 1000 |
Webmasters › Re: How To Get Into Youtube Partnership Programme Easily And Earn With Your Videos by lessonsoflife: 6:18pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
What about Copy right issues |
Romance › Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by lessonsoflife: 1:02pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Vick4rill: This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.
The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.
I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.
l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me. Prayer stopped mine. It can too for you. |
Business › Re: I will create verified US PayPal using US number & VPN by lessonsoflife: 10:34am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Olawrites: Just #3000. You'll own it for life.
The US number n the PayPal account.
100% verified.... What about the SSN and other documents. |
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Politics › Re: Inec: Apc Can’t Replace Akpabio For Akwa Ibom Rerun by lessonsoflife: 10:13am On Dec 16, 2019 |
If this is allowed to stand, then I believe Akpabio was not rational pursuing his case. |
Politics › Re: I'm The He-Goat Of Edo Politics - Oshiomhole by lessonsoflife: 9:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
So you have been the one sniffing around the anus of Obaseki. Obaseki will mess on that your black face. |
Romance › Re: HOTEL: Look At What I'm Doing Here — The Life Of A Single And Jobless Nigerian by lessonsoflife: 7:29pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by lessonsoflife: 8:40pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Butterscotch92: I know I'm going to receive a lot of bashing here but I don't mind as I'm looking for solution. I've been following other related threads on the topic and it seems most men don't forgive women that cheated on them. I cheated on my man. This happened over a year ago when the relationship was going through a rough patch. Actually I didn't set out to cheat and never planned it. In fact the person it happened with was a person I was confiding in when I was trying to get solutions to my relationship issues. This person was my married colleague that I joined to work in his car. I thought I could get mature advice by telling him. I was weak and emotionally down and on one of such days of crying to him it happened in his car. It happened like 3 more times because I go to work with him and come back with him. But I was overcome with guilt (because he was married and for cheating) that I had to stop. But my mistake was that I didn't cut him off completely. I remained cordial friends with him since he is a colleague and I stopped joining his car. He also moved to another branch. He called occasionally to try his luck but I never gave in. Somehow my man became suspicious by his calls and one thing led to the other and I had to confess. My man said he has forgiven but can't get back together again. I have been following other threads with similar topics and I saw that men find it very hard to forgive a woman that once cheated. In this case I'm truly sorry, I have learnt my lessons and I can never make that kind of mistake again. I don't love the man in question, I never wanted anything from him apart from advice from the onset, I stopped on my own, I only remained friends because he was my colleague. I love my man and will do anything to keep him and win his trust back. I'm not a cheat by nature. I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt and regret. I can't talk to anyone in my circle for fear of condemnation because I'm wrong in every area.
Please is there any hope for me? How do I go about winning him back? How do I convince him that I truly regret my actions? How do I help him heal? Just speaking from experience and what I have observed. In most working environment women who are married are the easier to get laid. They feel that is the only environment they can have sex without their husband suspecting after all, she is going to work. Before you were laid, you have already made that decision long time ago. You used the excuse of misunderstanding to hit the man. Most women believe they are smart but then they are not. I am sure if your colleague wasn't married, you would have dumbed your man. But u know what, after sex nothing is left again. Many women cry at midnight for this same act you have done. Thank you God for blessing your children with good wives. |
Romance › Re: Slay Queen Runs Mad After Sex & Sleeping Over At A Big Boy's House (photos) by lessonsoflife: 8:13pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
What sort of reporting is this. |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Raps (Video) by lessonsoflife: 6:13pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Success makes one happy.
Thank you God for my success in life. |
Celebrities › Re: Cardi B Sings Timaya's 'I Can't Kill Myself' Song (Video) by lessonsoflife: 6:09pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
She can't come and kill herself after all that happened at Ghana. |
Romance › Re: HOTEL: Look At What I'm Doing Here — The Life Of A Single And Jobless Nigerian by lessonsoflife: 4:11pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
iLegendd: I'm leaving the hotel. Money spent, money gotten back. Made only 29 Pounds, 14k, since morning. I'm angry. This is not KDP dashboard. Which is this. |
Celebrities › Re: Cardi B And Her Daughter, Kulture Kiari Cover Vogue Magazine 2020 Issue by lessonsoflife: 9:19am On Dec 10, 2019 |
Soonest, people will celebrate me for what I have done, what I am doing and what I will do.
Congrats to Cardi B. |
Romance › Re: Help A Confused Brother by lessonsoflife: 3:27pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
2special: You're clueless not confused Hahaha na AmPiciling oh ooooo 8 peech |
Christianity Etc › Re: Chris Oyakhilome Celebrates His 56th Birthday Today by lessonsoflife: 8:01am On Dec 07, 2019 |
Happy birthday to you man of God. |
Politics › Re: Bob Menendez Condemns Sowore's Rearrest by lessonsoflife: 7:47am On Dec 07, 2019 |
Where you one of the senator who supported Buhari in 2015? |
Romance › Re: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by lessonsoflife: 8:19pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
Ariza: And I wonder why it is the guy that must work on his conversation skills and keep the communication on.Is friendship/ relationship a one sided thing? Or communication a gender thing? . Communication is actually not a gender thing but then if you cannot hold good communication, your relationship will suffer. Women and men alike will always keep themselves to that person who is bold enough to keep good communication with them. Men who doesn't have this charisma, tends to loss their women to people who do. Many men are suffering from this hence, its not all about academic excellence but some self help work. |
Politics › Re: Amaechi: No Apology For Siting Transport University In Daura by lessonsoflife: 10:01am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Mumu talk. |
Sports › Re: Messi Shows His 6th Ballon D'or Awards by lessonsoflife: 10:32pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
God please, help me to display awards of excellence and great achievements in Jesus Christ's name, Amen. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Things You Can Do To Stay Positive During A Long Job Hunt by lessonsoflife: 7:29am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Hypnotise: 6. Play bet9ja Hahahaha
Youth empowerment abi? |
Politics › Re: Killers Of Salome Abuh Arrested By Police In Kogi by lessonsoflife: 8:18pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
toxxnoni: Boooked The same way C Boy was boooked for foul play. |
Politics › Re: Killers Of Salome Abuh Arrested By Police In Kogi by lessonsoflife: 8:15pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Issokay |