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Ekemeze:
If you are making money at home, then you have no issue atall, but if you are still being fed by your parent, as a typical Nigerian man, you've a huge problem ma nigga.

I am also an introvert, so I understand the communication part, it sucks to listen to people sprew absolute trash and still laugh about it. You begin to wonder, are there human beings with brain? Do they even think atall? But then we are talking about Nigeria here, where survival is like war, hence you just can't avoid everyone if you wanna survive.

My advice is, start any online business of your choice, try as much as possible to be consistent in it, and turn it to a source of income. Trust me, you will be just fine.

Thank you.

I have Amazon Kindle Direct Publishing as a side business but never made much money. The highest I have made a given month is $55 though I still have much to learn. Also I have been tempted to go into dropshiping to US but leaving that for now in other not to complicate myself.
I am also trying to start an offline business in the market but fear of will the business work has been my major set back.
The communication aspect really shocks me up.
I try to be consistent with KDP and see how it goes.

Henri244:
Do you masturbate? If yes! Then stop. You'll start seeing changes.

I stopped last year. Although the urge has been there I stopped worrying about it when I observed it destroys my brain cells.

debbydams:
U are lazy. Engage yourself nd meet People

I might be lazy yes but I work too. The only laziness I think is not taking action or spending longer time before taking action. I procrastinate alot and most times end up not taking action.
Meeting new people is really difficult for me and I hope I do this with open mind.
I read people a lot which makes me go in shell or put potential friends off.
I will still learn though.

Bluezy13:
Don't change.
Embrace how you are, but simply use it to your advantage.
Changing would make you live a life that is not yours.

Everybody is different, and there is always a woman for everybody, there is always a comfortable place of belonging to your category of person.
If there is none, create one.

Don't try to maintain conversation since you're not good at it. Simple do what you know how to do best. You are more of thinker, find happiness in it.
You must not be like others.

Thank you.

martinmiller:
Nothing strange is happening to you yet, I know alot of people who has some of the listed.

But then, stop sleeping alot and find something doing. There are many hands on skills you can find around you.

To maintain a proper engagement with pple, read good books for intellectual prowess. There are countless books that will edify your mind.

So when you find yourself indoors, read and read and get lost in a book. infact, when you so love the book you might forget to eat. You are not introvert or extrovert either but buy and large, you so need to get your mind body and soul together, no one can do that for you.

Thank you for this.

But I just cannot spend that much to read. I have done many things to enhance my reading ability but can't just do it. Maybe as someone said, I am lazy.
My father has a collection of different literature books and I have read just few of them. Most of these books I spend one or two months.
Only some few authors interest me like Lobsang Rampa's Chapters of life, the saffron rope and one other book, wants to stay Alive. These were the books I spent less than a month to finish. Others takes me months and most times, I don't even finish them for years.
Now here is another of my problem, if I open a book to read, tears start dropping from my eyes, I began to feel hungry and start to yawn even if I eat now. I feel my head like breathing and my body restless. Not until I drop that book will I have my body in peace and most times when I drop the book, going back to it takes me time.

I believe that I am introvert reason because I don't talk except maybe about football and politics. I do give little advise too base on how I see things. But here is the thing.
1. I just cannot express myself to a woman
2. I lack maintained conversation
3. I can be indoors for the whole day or just stroll by walking some few meters.
4. I don't have vibes.
5. I kill women vibes and men alike.
6. No creativity.

Now I don't know if I am an introvert or just being fearful and lazy. I sleep a lot.

iLegendd:
Click modify, type ChatDîcted, and submit — that's all.

I love this.

Tickles001:
We're in the period of huge sales. If your book is not selling as it should, it's because buyers don't know how good it is.

Contact me. Let's furnish your books with good rev1ew5 and watch the sales rolling in.

how is your charge

ThatFairGuy:
Of course I do.
Biden's electoral Collage and his votes were higher than that of trump if that's what you wanna say.
To now claim any fraud is very undemocratic of trump. He has been doing these ages

Do you expect him act cool if there were fraud?

I believe a country like US shouldn't act shit just to get rid of someone who doesn't buy into their ideas.

In as much as they don't like Trump, they shouldn't have cheated if they indeed did.

You don't expect Trump to just throw in the towel, he isn't a coward.

They should have brought more formidable opponent if they felt Biden wasn't up-to the measure.

I just hope Nigerian leaders are not fingered with aiding Biden for electoral fraud if he did engaged in it.

Las Las, Obama never gave up even when Trump has been sworn in why should Trump?

interested

sylve11:

My dear, I just lock up main time. She later come dey chat me up I just follow like say nothing happen.

I go dey blow when she come but na blow e end.

thesilentman:
I'm mad right now at all my fellow men.
I just wanna know, what's the gain there?

Recently I almost couldn't believe my ears when SHE (yeah, my capital letters She; my wife) told me that our landlord wooed her. Even told her to quit the house - cleaning schedule for her own daughter.

Imagine! Am looking at his back right now and I feel like stabbing him from behind. Bleep! all.

Some men are big time scumbags.
Imagine, marriage that's not even up to a month. Imagine that bastard.

Sure, am moving house by month-end.
Bleep all Randy men!

Very bad indeed.

Some days ago, a lady came visiting me in my office and before I knew a colleague has approached her.

I wasnt around but when I came she started asking me of direction to the colleagues hotel.

It hurts really bad but weytin I go do.

She left knowing I was bittered. I later let things be because she is not my wife and I won't marry her.
This is the second girl this my colleague is taking from me.
Life, I just pray God give me a better woman who will not long for sex and things of the world.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Were you dieting prior?

No, in fact I rarely eat.

Kingsasian:
from my personal experiences, I do have frequent cravings for food when I am idle especially indoors for long

I do go out to work and most importantly busy with article writing.

Kingsasian:
It's as a result of idleness

Idleness?
How.

I eat and then experience hungry.
Most times, I eat up-to five times yet I still feel hungry again. I don't know the cause of this.
Has anyone experienced this?

So today, I went out to purchase recharge card for my friend who requested I sent him card.
I was at my hustling area close to a fast food restaurant. So coming from the store where I have bought and sent the recharge card, I saw a man standing behind a vehicle in the restaurant parking space. The driver on the wheel is on revise mode and never knew someone was behind his car. I started shouting from across the road but the driver has his door glasses raised up. The man behind the car was just looking at me demonstrating until the car almost knocked him down. It was the raising of hands by people on the left side of the driver that made him stopped.
After all the begging and all, the driver zoomed off.
Me now forming good boy calmly told the man that please sir don't be standing behind vehicles and that word alone led to the tearing of my shirt.
According to the man, na you don buy the trouble. It took the intervention of people from the community to separate me and the man.
Now this community has the mentality of anything can be done to a stranger with them giving a bleep.
In fact, if I had raised my hand in revenge, I would have been beaten up.

My simple advice almost turn against me.

What a life.

Congrats

Casalindal:
I have stated this over and over I am not single, I’m not here to hook up with anyone, I’m not here to bed anyone, I’m not here to friends with anyone, you don’t have to stop me at the mall or anywhere for a cheap chat I’m not interested, I’m not on your level and the same thing apply you are not on my level.

For God sake you are over 45yrs old if you never learnt anything in live at least by now you should have... as an adult, please and please I’m heavily pregnant I don’t want any man I the one I got here is more than enough for me I definitely believe you are married and your kids or wife might be here please it is your wife I’m respecting the next message from you I will post your picture. Show some decorum

Sorry ma.

Weytin you talk, repeat again.

Zendinho:
Never date your next door neighbor but YOU CAN CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH

Never date a girl you're staying in the same compound but YOU CAN CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH

Never date your boss' daughter don't even chop cos e fit chock you for throat

Never date your choir member but you can CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH

Never date your college in the same office
If you want to date your landlord/landlady's daughter starch one of your account with EMERGENCY FUNDS so that the day casala burst you park out the following day

These are the golden rules to having a smooth working environment.

Really golden.

I just dey reason if I down a royalty free images come use for KDP.
Images that are free for personal and not commercial.

Will I be penalized and how will the owner of the image know it belongs to them.

I see similar image from different sites.

gimakon:
Because they want the US to go down. And they want Africa also to also go down. Don't you understand that part, or is it hard , like very difficult for you to see that part?

Say it again.

iLegendd:
Working from home is the best thing you can ever do. You don't need to wait for a virus to start looking for a way to make money online while you sleep.

Yes, coronavirus reduced income for everyone, but it's picking again. Yesterday, it rose to $132 on Publishdrive and Amazon was higher. That is almost 50k and my share is proximately 30k without doing anything from 13 sales on PD.

So, dear friends, use this covid-19 holiday to learn a digital skill that will fetch you money while you sleep.

A word is enough. Working from home is sweet. Even writing books can make you money. So, get started.

A coronavirus is a word for the wise.

Can I publish the same book on publishdrive and on Amazon suppose select is not selected

gimakon:
Bro, this is would I say the biggest challenge the US is witnessing after World War and Vietnam War. They have survived those. This one is a second round of blessing. They would loose money (as usual) but a praying president like trump who looks to God in virtually everything, isn't going to be let down. Let's leave it for God to handle. I only see one nation going down, that country is China.

why will they go down

Pearl1996:
30 hiv test done including Cd4 and PCR, symptoms reducing already. Still negative, moving on with my life. You didn’t answer where you live in the other post. That way people can tell you where to do the PCR.

Feeling most of the symptoms you outlined. In fact, I feel something moving in my body and then I feel hot inside. I feel this movement as then a node would appear. I have gone for first test and its negative. Wanted to go for a second but I decided to wait till three months.
Under my right foot scratches me often.

Did you experience the movement and scratching or itching?

Most times, its like chemical is eating my hands.

Who even sent me go f**k sef.

daewoorazer:
There should be no exception bro...life sweet pass the knowledge of being a carrier....

Don’t trust any of these biatches, they ain’t loyal!

Bitches ain't loyal at all.

I know I am not a carrier and wont be.

Just have to be careful, always.

daewoorazer:
Don’t go man...tell her to come if she’s such obsessed with you....

Don’t be a weakling, if she can’t bring her pvna on a platter of diamond, let her goan fvkc herself

NB: I do hope u are a reg customer of CD

For the CD, not really. I have this babe I kept for serious relationship. I went into her raw and ever since my body system has been doing me one kind.
I have gone for HIV test and non reactive, I am waiting for the next three months to return for the test.

I know I have untreated malaria typhoid fever and I drank one concoction with ROBB diluted in it. But my system is really not okay.

Now I place myself 50:50 on being a carrier.....

Except this babe, I am a certified CD customer.

I met this babe inside a vehicle while on a journey to work.
We exchanged numbers and I didn't call allowing two days to pass.
I called on the third day and it continued. She would be calling sometimes that she had to query me why I haven't called if there is any day I didn't call.
Last week she called and asked why I didn't call her for two days and I told her my phone was faulty. I told her I was busy and that I will call her back.
A thought just came to mind and I decide to return the call but number busy. I waited till 1 am and called back because I know I have done this to someone. I still got number busy there and then, without delay I deleted her number.

Six days now she called and complained that I am not caring. That I didn't bother to call her bla bla bla so I asked her why she blocked my number.

She never thought I would find out.

Now, what is her reason behind this.

I was angry as she was pleading and even asked me to come over her shop when will I pass through there.

I don't know her shop because it is in a different LGA where I work but I know I will locate it with ease.

I don't plan to go. Guys how una see am.

mimilogs:
Okay sir

How much do charge to ship a laptop from China

Chirowman:
let me help you settle your PayPal issues

Which country's PayPal

They have done their worst.
Some day, they too will cry for this injustice. That is life for you.

SpecialAdviser:
They were playing games on people's senses. No quarrel bro. That's what politicians have been doing to the masses.

Like they don't want to put their egg in one basket.

They planned it. Sister stay APC make I go PDP.

If Atiku wins I will have your back and if APC wins you will be there for me.

So even lia Mohammed is romancing with Bukola, I love that young Bukola

NaijaRoyalty:
The source is a credible one , Look up, it's Yahoo News.

Confirmed

Though the writing looks credible, source is needed.

President Abba Kyari is unstoppable

Who says secrets won't be revealed.

P GMB please your tenure is expired o.

We now have a new P


Ahhhh Social media bill.

Blu03:
Cc: 4cks
Well, i get the '...wanting to meet their biological father...' point.
But not every adopted child would do that. If the kid is loyal, he/she would realise that family isn't all about blood but the person(s) who has/have stood by him or her.
Again, before marrying any woman, single mom or not, one has to first study her character...
But the message i'm trying to pass isn't "Guys marry a single mom" but "Guys stop hating on someone who's already going through alot"

If it were to be you, won't you look for your dad? Except for death every child would want to meet with his father. Most times, women hide their character and secrets.