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Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?

Has he beaten or shouted at you before?

Before you leave, ask him if he will always beat you for these kind of things and others? His reply will determine whether you stay or leave.
And for you to have raised a hand at your man, your character is questionable.
Peace.

HarunaWest:
okay try another rapid antibody test at 3 months mark like sort of a confirmatory test to be on the safe side....cheers

I know I am safe but I will certain run another test in three months time.
I did Malaria and typhoid and it was in acute state.
I will begin treatment immediately.

landmark86:
bros go for check up abeg.
and save urself of unnecessary headache.
when u dey enjoy it nobody nos ooooo

Baba if I have told you would you have come?
Abeg I get one to give you if you are interested.

HarunaWest:
what is the timeline between expose and test day?

About a month and some days.

osamz007:
Gee no enter that place without socks again o

Never Bro

Hahahahahahah hmmmmmmmmmmm

Go and sin no more.

I am indeed free and free forever........


The lab attendant could not believe seeing me in the chair unable to stand but just filled with happiness.

God I thank you.

I feel like running out of the hospital.

Two ladies are pepping at me through the lab window they took their faces out as soon as mine hit theirs.

Aladegba:
Its better they isolate you for quarantine. You might be our first postive test of covid-19. She got it and gave it toyou during sex. Possible she got it from a chinko

You know you are not the lab attendant.

So piss off with your covid-19 from which ever hoe you got it from

I have arrived at the Hospital now. Blood sample taken.
I feel weak and having a racing heart.
Sitting on a chair outside the lab.
God please I need your healing upon my soul.

Went to the Hospital but they have shutdown operation for the day. My heart almost cut as I was stepping into the premise. I went to a nearby LGA for this test reason I arrived late. The hospital in my LGA is in the same City I reside and the city is not a large one.
You can easily see people you know in the hospital more over one of the worker there used to supply my family with garri when I was with my patents. I fear she could easily call them if she sees my result.

I will return to the hospital tomorrow morning to have this test done once and for all.

Blu03:



The HIV virus would be scared of you. Don't worry...

I see the words you highlighted. I am not a perfect human being yet and at this my present predicament, I care less of the errors up there.
I used funny words to communicate most of the times and I knew it when I used AFEARED. Reason for the smiling face, icon or whatever it is called at the end of that very word.
I know there are lectures here and they will come hunting.

Ever since the thought of going for the test my heart beat has been very fast. My arteries pumping enough blood. One thought I am having is to leave my body like that without but then I need to know my status.
God please help me.

I have decided to Go for the test so I will update you people how it went.

Albinoworwor:
No need to panic for fear of the unknown
Go for test today and repeat the test in 3months time.
Test is free in government hospitals
Meanwhile stay away from unprotected sex and avoid use sharp object that is not personally yours e.g blade clippers etc

You go dey alright las las

Thanks man.

On my way there but my heart still doing

Gbom Gbom Gbom

2dice01:
So you think people on faceless forum are doctors that will diagonise you abi


Goan see a Doctor before its too late

I said i am planning to go see the doctor today. I know NL members are not all doctors and even they are they cant do real test except audio.

I have this girl and we don't stay together. I had sex with her unprotected. We do have sex protected except this once and we began dating from last year.
Later i began to feel things moving in my veins, retches coming up then i began to imagine symptoms of HIV.
I have googled and i am reading them.
I feel so weak and so the lady. In fact, she has been on drip the last few days. I am very much afeared
My head inside is very hot. People are complaining of me losing weight.
Could this be the symptoms?
On my leg, there is the swollen with red but just that one
I am planning to go to hospital today for HIV test.

the
governor has allowed most unusually contractors
appointed by the past administration to continue
their contracts.

Who are the unusual contractors allowed by the present administration?

Are they supporting corruption.

bbee:
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I don't only use Publisher Rocket, but with another tool for my research work.

Hmmmmm na wa o
E Co Virus lol

The governor would be saying MONEY WEY I GO USE DO BIZ NA HIM I WANT WASTE? He must have calculated how much he will get by investing that money. In this life struggle to survive on your own and pray to GOD for help.

Abrakatabra people everywhere.

Is that $4600 or #4600?

Well no one wants a cheap LovePeddler.

What do you want him do, say wht he didn't see.

Watching

Jahkye:
chaiii

if you have never experienced what it means to be betrayed by someone you loved and cared about so much then you'll be blaming the man

depression is poisonous and not everyone has the strong will to overcome it so before you start bashing the man just know that depression is very very deadly

And his best friend knows how much he loves this girl and all the sponsoring. Hmmmmm

Agboriotejoye:
When we were telling illiterate bubu and his zombies that the onnoghen matter will not end well, they were shining their dirty teeth. It's obvious now that confidence is at its lowest ebb in the history of the supposed hallowed court. Never has it happened in our history that a CJN will be referred to as OBJ's or Yar'adua's or GEJ's. Not even Abacha was looked upon as having made the CJN his stooge.
It's obvious now that every judgement coming out from the SC will always be looked upon with political undertones due to the interference by Bubu. The only way out is if and when Tanko retires and a CJN emerges by recommendation of the NJC as the norm used to be.

The norm has been altered and henceforth subsequent Presidents will bully any CJ perceived as enemy.

CanadaOrBust:
As u said, all elections have errors and shenanigans. But that’s why the bar for removing an incumbent is high. After all the games and maneuverings the umpire declares a result. It is VERY IMPORTANT not to change that result unless the documentary proof is unassailable and the reasons crystal clear. INEC declared Ihedioha the winner and Hope 4th place. That’s the baseline. They were not equal - one was the incumbent, the other came FOURTH! You don’t lightly change that.
YOU DON’T DO IT BY REFUSING TO EXAMINE DOCUMENTS OR BY ACCEPTING CLEARLY FRAUDULENT NUMBERS!

And now they are scheming for a way to lobby one state to APC.

DonFreshmoney:
What is all this review nonsense? When did this bullshit started?

I hope it would not now become a normal thing for supreme court to judge its case twice.. or better still create another court to supersede supreme court...

Prime Supreme Court

Highest Supreme Court of Nigeria lol

Because of greed and corruption, Nigeria highest learned men so to speak are disgracing the nation.

victorian:
The lady boss might be interested in the Op, but in this situation and that environment. Her interest or feelings towards him, if she has? Is irrelevant and she knows it.
I already know how the date will end up as.
She will smile and tell him gently, she likes him as an individual but Sorry she can't date him.
That's all I see there.

My second reply here.

You all are only interested in the lady. The lady won't accept, the lady will suppress the op, the lady this the lady that.
What if the Boss lady accepts, they bang and she go ahead to resign from the organisation and asked that her man be promoted and they marry afterward, happily?
Life has many faces. The Op took this bold step because of LOVE he is ready to end up with this lady as a wife.
The lady if not a hoe is also looking to end up in the hands of a gentle loving man. How can the OP know if he doesn't take is shot?
I love surprises and whether the Boss lady accept or not the event and words would have been registered and they will surely be uncomfortable but then, the OP may retain his JOB and also, have a WIFE.
It is better than just wishing and dying. Afterall one day he may leave the company.

iphi:
I summoned courage to call her just to ask her what was going on in the hospital turned out she was in the O.R, that was why she replied late... Ladies and gentlemen of this humble nairaland Romance section I'm glad to announce to you that she gave me 1 hour tomorrow, turned out she has a date already but she said during break we could go out and grab lunch before her date in the evening... My brothers and sisters this is a win for me...

Congrats man. Life itself is full of risk.

This reminds me of a certain year, I had this superior and I liked everything about her.
I have complemented her a lot and she is always positive about it.
So on her birthday, I planned to shoot my shot. Came to Nairaland and my people advised me against it. Some said I should look for another job but hey, I am a contract staff and I knew she will likely experience a brick wall trying to oust me.
With shaking body I went to her office and called her out in the midst of other employees.
I told her I plan hosting her in my house lol
She said why my house, I was like ha and kept shut. She told me she preferred a hotel but I told her I haven't done a hotel thing before and she was like you can try it for the first time.
Although she later refused after some days because I was not around on that her day again and when I came back I told her " Hey Quality I wasn't around but I can take you out today" She looked at me and hey DID YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT I WOULD GO OUT WITH YOU? I almost dropped death and sink in while she walked away. The following I called her to sit down and she did but fear made me lost words so we sat gazing one another then she left. We were just good at the work premises and I still do love her till now but things are just left that way plus she resigned when she was transfered to Lagos as a branch manager.
Though office romance is a no no for me except fling on coded level but it still brews jealousy when she sees you with other girls or when you see her with other boys.

Congrats again dude.

Well Nigeria is a country anyone can do anything.

Great.
I don't know who are the terrorists.

Moving to another direction.
Waiting for counter claim.

Candrevah:
I want to ask you a question. Will you die if you don't touch her? I seems not to understand why a lot of nigerian guys life revolve around sex smhhh. You people keeps on disgracing Men every here and there because of something that's not worth it nonsense.

Sorry sir

AfroKnight:

That girl is possessed.

Bone her side. When she’s ready she will give her consent. And make sure you get evidence of the consent.

I suggest you find another girl to quench the fire for now.

Na small stupîd girls dey stress man like this. Mature babes will initiate the process sef.

Me I don’t have time. You act like an underage, I kick you out, simple. No be me una go use trend.

Well many ladies are possessed these days. And she do reason like a baby most times that i wonder and try to question her age.
I just sensed that she wants me to get too attached to her. I am o, but she knows my blood is hot too. I have decided to over look her childish behaviour because of the number of years we have known each other.
But then, I may be forced to take the exit but on a second thought i have decided to let her be. Any day i chop her cookie i will quit.
I even noticed she sleeps a lot around which is forcing me now to stop the whole thing.
Women are really demons. Someone will be swearing with the name of GOD that she hasn't slept with any man for years yet na she dey do am pass.
The funniest thing is she tried talking me out of a certain girl which i was dating.
Like you said, she is a kid and i am going to treat her like one.