₦airaland Forum

5minsmadness:
What's taradiddle

cococandy:
Surprisingly guys are the one who want to uphold the practice of bride price. Even though they sometimes claim it is exorbitant.
And not surprisingly you're the ones who bring it up when you want mock women. "After I paid your bride price" bla bla bla. Most guys I've come across in this forum bring it up as avenue to mock women whenever the issues of equal treatment being discussed.

Does it take Einstein's IQ to deduce that the only reason why men want it continued is so that you can have something to hold over the woman for the rest of her life? Not that you care so much about culture. You only care about culture when it's the one that massages your egos and put women in a secondary position.

You and OP and the rest of you dudes should spare us your pseudo concern for 'our culture'. We know what you really care about. your fragile egos.

byvan03:
It can be done anyway that doesn't involve that disturbing list.

byvan03:
Just exchange a symbolic item, I have heard of a calabash as the bride price. It gets broken in front of the families to signify a divorce.

byvan03:
The couple should decide how much fanfare they desire without having to abide by any list.

byvan03:
I think the Fulani method of enduring several strokes of cane is more symbolic and significant. If you tell me that marriages instituted on this premise last longer, I will totally see why. No man will want to endure it more than once or twice. A mild version of "catching a grenade for ya" is symbolic enough, much more so than goats, yams, wrappers, kolanuts which eventually gets converted to money if the groom is coming from a far distance. Some demand gold, tricycles for the girl's generation including the grannies amongst them. What of the groom rendering a few years of service to his prospective father in law as bride price, won't that be more symbolic?

byvan03:
Yes, why?

byvan03:
"Unclad wisdom" really? I can't even begin to punch holes on their "Unclad wisdom", too tired for that. The only thing returned is the token monetary price, what happens to every other thing on the list which they also accepted in cash or material? Why should the father be appeased? A culture mostly driven by greed and too much want. My opinion is born out of careful consideration and not prevailing circumstance. What do you think about the entire list being scrapped and the token itself which is always between 5-20k maintained? Don't you think it will make the process less commercial?

Fabulocity:
I won't degrade myself to exchange words with you.
Find another person . I'm not interested

Fabulocity:
Jesus Christ. Pls read the fuckıng thread and stop flying into stupıd conclusions

Fabulocity:
Go through the post very well. It wasn't written to spite or demean Nigerian guys.
Stop jumping into conclusions

Stupedinluv:
All those shameless girls who voted a boy that calls every random girl a bîtch, y' all are a fvcking disgrace to womanhood. You have no self respect or pride in you.

Like they say, stupidd people may forget but the internet never forgets.

queencalipso:
Good luck then if it mks you feel good.

LordScent:
LezzBIAN .... Alaye wad up. You guyz owe us an apology for standing us up yesternight.

queencalipso:
It isn't a horror show, rather a shameful and annoying one.

Note: I wasn't referring to you alone.

queencalipso:
What is wrong with you people for Gods sake?? Washing your dirty linens on nl( public forum) is this how friendship/ r/ship off nl use to be/ end?? Must you rush to nl to disgrace your selves over every little issue that happened off nl just becz you met here!!!

Ew!!! grow up guys, this is just too childish!!


Fear don dey catch me seff...

Put a lid on your brimming emotions, young lady. If this is a horror show for you, then go read one of my sex threads and see life anew

SAINTSAMURAII:
WELL KEEP TAKING MEDICINE IN YOUR DEATH, I AM NOT THE GUY THAT WAS BETRAYED, I CAN IMAGINE HOW YOU FELT WHEN URLANDO REVEALED YOUR TRIP TO ANAMBRA, HMM EVEN ISLOVE GOT FED UP WITH YOU YESTERDAY[b] AND HER LAST WORDS WAS GO AND MARRY, [/b]HMM BRO STOP CHASING AFTER LITTLE GIRLS IN NAIRALAND. ITS NOT MY FAULT THE STORY WENT OUT. DOHR!

Stop rushing me into marriage, my relentless fan. You're the living proof that marriage entered too soon has a disastrous fallout! And I thought you would learn from your parents!

Look at you! You can't even write a single sentence without announcing to the world daddy didn't prioritise your education because he had none.

SAINTSAMURAII:
BLA BLA BLA RUBBISH.
I AM NOT INTERESTED IN DECKER. WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS URLANDO AND YOUR TRIP TO ANAMBRA JUST TO GET UNDER THE SKIRT OF A TEEN.
PLS O DNT VENT YOUR FRUSTRATION ON ME BY TYPING RUBBISH, I AM NOT MUVA AKA URLANDO THAT DISGRACED YOU.

Relax lad, I won't be trading punches with you, It's like shadow-boxing: it means you don't matter. You've always been my mouthpiece--- use and dispose.

Just keep dropping mentions for me, and I'll feed unblinking eyes

And.... I can't be disgraced or smeared by any Nairalander with sex or püssy or fück! My moniker is akin to many things and sex is chief amongst them.

That's why i have never bothered to defend the taradiddle. Miranda's story puts me where I have always wanted to be. It's part of my complexity!

Hope you aren't disappointed

SAINTSAMURAII:
I am not really interested with what the op posted, what i am interested about is how lezz will react. im sure him and thesonofmark are loading their guns as im typing. i just hope the op have enough guards in cammelot to withstand the druids and morgana(knights).

SAINTSAMURAII:
SO WHAT ABOUT THE COMMENT OF LE.ZZ IN THE THREAD THAT WAS HIDDEN YESTERDAY ABOUT DISGRACING THE FAT ALBINO FROM OWERRI THAT CREATED A FEMALE MONIKER TO WOO HIMSELF, HE TOO LIED ABOUT HIS TRIP TO DUBAI, SO WHO WAS L.EEZ REFFERING TO?