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Education › Re: Edo Government Reduces School Days To Three Times A Week by LifeIssues101(f): 10:35am On Jun 11, 2023

Honestly, students in Nigeria relocate abroad and they are made to drop 2 or three classes below their current grades in Nigeria.

The workload is crazy and the kids learn most times by memorizing without understanding.

Educational games or vocational activities can be introduced in the extra hours to balance their learning skills.

Make book no kill person pikin abeg.

Health › Re: Please Help My Palm Is Strong, It Makes Me Feel Shy When Shaking Hands by LifeIssues101(f): 9:19pm On Oct 25, 2021

I had the same issue. My palm feels much better now.

I always have a hand cream with me. You can use Norwegian hand cream

I wear cotton gloves whenever I’m home after washing and moisturizing my hands.

I also cotton gloves to sleep at night.

My hands are out of my gloves when I have to do activities I can’t do with the gloves.

When I’m not home, I just moisturize all the time

Hope this helps.

Family › Re: That Childish Act You Still Engage In As An Adult by LifeIssues101(f): 8:32pm On Apr 22, 2021

Gepheral:
Nobody is t as talking about smelling their armpits and asses huh

I still mess this up whenever I come in contact with it

Bubble wraps

Family › Re: If there is only one meat in the pot, who should eat it? Father Or Children ? by LifeIssues101(f): 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2021

Honestly, this is on point

Most mothers do not care about themselves

I am a culprit and I need better cane from people like you to remind me ALWAYS

Cos it actually hurts sometimes, we just keep our cool and humble like our mother taught us lipsrsealed

cococandy:
What about you? Are you not deserving of it?
Sometimes you put yourself first too.
I know the thought process that goes into such decisions but sometimes you need to put yourself first too.
Rotate it. Once in while consider the kids first, or him first or yourself first. But not always yourself last.

And this applies to other things beyond the last piece of meat (obviously).

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Family › Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by LifeIssues101(f): 8:39pm On Feb 26, 2021

Honestly, you do not owe anyone that much responsibility. Otedola no be person papa? What was it our parents were doing in their time? Imagine you have kids and a wife to take care of coupled with all the responsibilities. Your wife may not be able to cope and she would be termed a bad woman.

My advice is to do the little you can and everyone (aside from your parents) that is fit to work should go out there and work. When you were in school, lots of people were paying their fees themselves by doing side hustles. If you keep spending money on your siblings, they would be lazy.

The earlier you show them how to fish, the longer your life span. Work, pay yourself, invest, save and the extra is what you can share.

#my2cents#

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Family › Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by LifeIssues101(f): 8:43pm On Feb 22, 2021

You better talk, before someone else takes over.

PAWG:
My money never complete. I want to marry the girl at our front desk but she doesn't even know. I haven't even told her I like her; we just say 'Hi' to each other for now. Better babe hard to find for Abuja

Romance › Re: A Letter To My Future Wife by LifeIssues101(f): 3:36pm On Jan 29, 2021

Awwww! so sweet. I hope you are real though.

Pets › Re: Meet My Indoor Rottweiler - Khal Drogo by LifeIssues101(f): 7:03pm On Sep 30, 2020

NevetsIbot:
I'm a huge dog lover and so far, I have two dogs.. A 10yr old brown GSD "Major" and a 1 year old Rottweiler "Khal Drogo". I have also never seen a dog that wouldn't vibe with me except recently a chow chow that seems apprehensive of everyone.

But this thread is about my boy, Khal.

He's an indoor dog... He's just like the last born in the house.. Lol.. Yeah.. He's that integrated.

You seem so passionate about your dog.

Writing a short story book about this, for early readers, especially kids from 1-4 yrs old, would be a great idea

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Christianity Etc › Re: Folorunso Alakija Anoints her Church Members (Photos) by LifeIssues101(f): 6:55pm On Sep 15, 2020

Kekereekun123:
It is only in Nigeria where a first lady's tailor and friend gets an oil bloc. Next

Family › Re: What Has The Lockdown Opened Your Eyes To? by LifeIssues101(f): 10:31pm On Apr 07, 2020

[quote author=egopersonified post=88174683]Like the topic says, what has the lockdown made you see in a different way or made you realise about yourself, family, friends, work, business, etc.?

For me, I wish I had bought all those hard copy books and board games I have being meaning to get back to, like scrables and checkers and learning how to play chess. Right now, even ludo would be heavenly. I am tired of browsing and reading ebooks all day.

Found out my first child can cook soup and jollof rice without any form of assistance, I always thought they only knew how to fry egg, cook indomie and make eba.

In business, the take out guys( suya, sharwarma joints, pizza spots) are making more money now. Most sit in businesses(restaurants, hotels, eateries) are closed.

You can download scrabble go on Google play store.

Business › Re: My Experience With Access Bank During 14-Day Covid-19 Lockdown In Abuja (Photos) by LifeIssues101(f): 11:48pm On Mar 30, 2020

yesloaded:
This has been my worry and makes me sad

There is alot of account numbers posted today online. Even if you want to help, who do know is genuine?

Family › Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by LifeIssues101(f): 2:59pm On Mar 06, 2020

Keeping the butterflies alive .... This will make you forgive whatever, and stay together forever

Marry your friend, someone you love to play with and spend time with.

Someone you can never get enough of, even when they turn 70

Valuing each other's dreams and working things out in love

So when the kids are gone, you could still enjoy yourselves together

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Family › Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by LifeIssues101(f): 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2020

My daughter was 10 months old when I realized I was pregnant with my son.

I know a lady whose child was barely 4 months old, when she got pregnant for another

If she had a c-section like me, she would likely be advised to have another, cos she might not have healed when enough to push a baby.

Her husband should start saving up for a c-section, miracles happen though, but they have to be careful for the safety of the mother and child

Children bring blessings, especially the ones we almost planned to abort

Don't trade your blessings for temporary comfort

This child might be your 'Bill Gates'.

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Romance › Re: Will You Marry A Guy Or Lady Against Your Parents Wish? by LifeIssues101(f): 9:20pm On Mar 04, 2020*

Your parents have lived their lives

Live yours and be responsible for whatever consequences your decision may cost you

They were responsible for you as a child, now you are an adult, make the best use of life's experiences you have got so far and take a partner, that would be willing to cross the hurdles of life with you, with or without any third party input.

Its your life, your decision and your partner not theirs'

Good luck

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Family › Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by LifeIssues101(f): 8:03pm On Feb 19, 2020

From your story, you seem to be a genuine and compassionate person.

In marriage life happens, and for the sake of your kids, please play safe

Accept what you have and just keeping praying for what you do not have

We cannot have it all, if you decide to cheat, the person might have worse qualities

Pray for her, find happiness in your career or anything else aside cheating.

Love her and hope for the best to keep your home.

With kids involved, you gotta be careful

#My2cents#

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