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VULCAN:
You lack English comprehension apart from the fact that you sound very uneducated.

I wish someone who speaks your native language can translate my post to you.

It went completely over your head.


How

No biatch, it didn’t. And you’re still a big lowlife fuul, if those words are the first thing that comes to your mind after reading this news. You’re probably from the gutters, a useless family and a waste of space. I still pray that something like this a thing happen to you or someone close to you.

..and I can probably write the textbook you study from. Idiat

JudgeKronos:
Na your type Dey give head inside car...
unfortunately I have retired from flirting

Your beast is waiting for you

A beast is waiting for your sisters and future daughters. Fuul

Oga, abeg what are the signs of a potential wife beater? Please let people know what to look out for

franchasng:
Jailing him or charging him to court is a waste of time. Government should take over any child he has currently and just send him to the hangman asap without judgment because this man is the satan we have been preaching agains, damn


Before anybody quote me and talk rubbish, I am also a married man....and I cannot imagine what my wife would do to me to warrant me laying my hands on her to talk of beating her when she is pregnant to the point of beating her to coma, it can never happen....even if she cheated and got impregnated by my gate man it does not matter.....I am still alive, there are plenty younger, sexier, hotter chicks with big ukwu to go for, why fight a wife for any reason It cant happen even if devil bewitch me. Na mad men and poverty striken, wretched men with poverty mindset de beat their wife



and nobody should come here and start talking nonsense that marriage is rubbish or this or that....it is not about marriage, it is the mad men and women getting married out of selfish reasons......marriage is sweet....all my siblings are enjoying blissful marriage....my parents are still enjoying theirs at old age.....most of my friends are.....so ladies before you go looking for tall man with tall qualities, look well......stop rejecting reasonable guys and accepting demons in human form as boyfriends and husbands.


I am a guy and I can tell you that I see some guys and I will be wondering the kind of ladies that agree to date them to talk of marrying them. some people are created to be forever lonely and single, don't glorify them with a companionship cos they will push you to your early grave

VULCAN:
A lot of silly women are barking all over this thread.

A man killed his wife and all of a sudden every man is being tarred with the same brush. All men are killers they claim

The same women will rush to defend themselves when one of their gender commits an atrocity by saying that "not all women are the same"

All these Toxic Third Wave feminists cannot hold a candle to the First Wave feminists who broke boundaries and made great strides in academia, military, politics, civil service etc

You’re a complete fuul. May something like this befall a female close to you

bigcee:
I swear, you're a mad man. Are you trying to justify the evil action of the man or what? I am very sure the man is a reflection of who you're.

This won’t easily happen in the western world. Love them

JudgeKronos:
Some silly emotional comments .. rubbish!!!!!

This article must have been written by the dead woman’s female friend hence the attributes .. angelic, beautiful soul, Madonna-trained etc..
while the husband is the demon.. and marriage is not worth it... rubbishy generation!!

Fact: going into coma after a physical fight with a spouse could be domestic violence but intruding a hospital to remove a life support mask is a premeditated murder and if the husband is found guilty the law takes its full course.

But this uncircumcised female generation wey no get home training only flaunting nyash & boobs on camera.... I pity una

May one of your sisters or daughter befall this, Amen

Nuttella:
Demon possessed man. A lot of people are hosting demons in their body but they dont know, these demons find expression in their body and use them to do their bidding.

Chinalu?

i926:
1. Maybe he found out she was pregnant for another man.

2. She became nastier and made his life miserable through emotional violence. A crime which the society is yet to call illegal.

3. He discovered something nasty.

Men, don't use your physical strength on a woman. But if she hits or slaps you first, you are to give her a punch to knock out her teeth immediately.

If she cheats, kick her out.
If she disrespects you, kick her out.
If she tries to take charge, kick her out.
If she makes your life miserable, kick her out.

By kicking her out on time, physical violence can be avoided this way.

Don't tolerant nonsense from women



Rest in paradise.

Maybe something like this should happen to your sister or daughter. Amen

This is unfortunate. Nigerian men and cheating. The next news we will hear is that a wife secretly tracked her husband and pour acid on him while in the cheating act. The lover of course will be untouched. The world is changing

Taaaa

See humility!!! If the reverse were the case and with a Nigerian wife, he will get physical and form self importance. This treatment serves Nigerian men right. I wish they would all go through this learning process. Makes me so happy

When you are done being cold Oga, go and beg her. Then cook that food, clean the house and service her at night. THEN your apology will be complete lol

Please you all should continue with your insights. This has been very knowledgeable for me

HisMajesty1:
In about two or three of your post, you've projected Nigerian men in the US to be the lazy stay-at-home type. Is this your personal reality or that's how it generally is in the US. I'm asking because I've heard reliably that among the hardest set of migrant workers in the US, Nigerian men ranks very high in all cadres of jobs. Care to enlighten me?

Most parent prefer to send their male kids overseas to study, in the hopes that they would take care of the remaining family in Nigeria.

When these guys come here, through whatever means- student, marrying an American or visa lottery, their first instinct is to show people back home that they have ‘arrived’. Whatever menial job they do, they always have the Dollars to Naira exchange rate at the back of their mind, so any penny they earn seems big in Naira. They start pricing 2 plots of lands in Nigeria.

Anyone who you seek advise on how to make it in the US will tell you that you have to get schooled and at least, hold a US degree or certification, the higher the better obviously. But these men are deceived by the fast change they earn that they absolutely refuse to go to school. Secondly because they feel it will be too stressful, afterall in Nigeria, they are big men now.

If you didn’t know, anything healthcare is the best profession for immigrants, as long as you are licensed in the US. You can’t be a lawyer or teacher or banker being that it has a lot to deal with customer services, for which your accent is a barrier. Nursing is the most sought after career in the US in relation to job security.

When Nigerian men find a spouse and bring her to the US, they quickly encourage her to do something in healthcare, preferably Nursing. Now being that this Jesus like husband who has delivered her from the hands of Nigeria is encouraging her to go to school, she wouldn’t say no she wants fast money like him. She has to go to school, no matter her age, level of education, degree of embarrassment or stress she would have to go through to learn in a foreign land. Like you are 5x slower than your classmates in everything because it’s a new system..you are a new immigrant. And in the US, you are also encouraged to work at least a couple of hours while in school, to help build your resume and skills. So the ladies go to school, work sparingly and also take care of the household, still so so grateful.

After completing this education, could take anywhere from 4-8 years depending on the degree you pursue, she obviously starts earning more than her husband. At this point her husband feels like he has invested completely so there is no need to work, or to work too much.

For the first couple of years she would be ok because she is still grateful for his support, but as demand and expenses increases, both in her home and in Nigeria, she feels the weight of carry the financial burden of her family, as well as her her innate duties as a woman of the house. She starts putting in overtime and all, all the while asking her husband if there is any career he would like to pursue or certification to get a professional work to assist financially. But the Nigerian men refuses to have anything to do with education. They would rather tell you takes of their containers and how someone played them in Nigeria. If she dares ask him to help out more in the house while she puts in extra work, it is finished. She has become Americanized.

Now this woman keeps going higher in education, due to peer pressure and all. Mind you, her coworkers had the good sense to marry someone in their field or even higher, and they show her pictures of their purchases, expensive trips, that they deserve because they worked hard for it. But this Nigerian man is keeping his wife from attaining that position simply because she is singlehandedly providing for the family.

Sweet bitterness creeps in, that so called gratitude for bringing her to the US expires. Then you hear all these stories that touch.

Hassanmaye:
For where man give me one instance where Nigerian woman brought a Nigerian man to the US?

My coworker. And of course the man acted a fool

ThePlainTruth:
Do you know the salary of a Doctor in the US and overseas? Why would he see his wife as an investment? He does not need the wife as an investment but as a companion.

There was no mention that he is a medical doctor, or that he practiced medicine in the US. And my statement is not isolated to this case, this is what we see in Nigerian couple everyday

ThePlainTruth:
I can understand why. A Naija man has to go through hell unlike the foreign men to make it legitimately overseas. A Naija man has to overcome racism, being treated differently due to his colour and accent, getting a good education, getting a job and overcoming the same challenges at work and then making a Naija woman comfortable like the middle class and upper class foreign women believing he has met the flesh of their flesh and bones of their bones. Then once the Naija women are comfortable and making good money they begin to treat the Naija man like trash. This can mess up the mind of the most gentle man and drive him to do the unthinkable. May GOD give our women wisdom and keep our men away from women that can mess up our mind. For Naija men that have met such women best solution is to beg GOD for patience and for GOD to take control if divorce is not possible.

Why would they treat the Nigerian men as trash if they are financially equal or God forbid oo, the men are financially superior to their wives? Your prayer is for God to give the men sense to be reasonable and wisedom to know that the wives are not their investment

CSTRR:
There are different kinds of white ladies.
Some are very sensible.

Nigerian women take undue advantage of the gender chaos in THE West.
It is Like they discovered Gold.

Men won't change. They know what they married and they expect it.
In fact, they would be more compromising than if they were in Nigeria.

It's the women that change of their own accord and for the worst.

Trust me, and get this straight, they wouldn’t do that if the average Nigerian men behaved reasonably. Don’t tell me that all Nigerian women have such mindset..women are more prone to having families.

The reason why they act that way is because they needed something to change, hence the men erratic and useless self importance behavior, all the while staying at home doing nothing. What a waste

CSTRR:
They should go back.
You can't benefit from somebody and still be a thorn in his side.

At some point this so called favor he did by bringing her to the US ends. You hear me? It expires. It now becomes a situation of how they can both contribute to the welfare of the family. But the Nigerian man would expect the wife to kiss his lazy staying at home a$$ everyday only because he brought her over. Don’t forget Nigerian women also marry Nigerian men and bring them over to the US. But you don’t her them whining over it

pocohantas:
Nigerian men always talking of foreign women, but never talking of foreign men.

Always comparing Nigerian women with foreign women, but never themselves with the men.

Few days back USA warned her citizens of Nigerians. Everyday one of you is traveling to one country or the other with drugs, tainting our national image and further reducing the value of our passport. You don’t ever talk of these things.

Yet you somehow think you are perfect and deserving of these foreign women?

Like the average young foreign woman would marry just any Nigerian man, so you guys always end up with the retired ones. Keep living out your dreams on Nairaland.

Jesuuuu girl. Hahahaha. You peppered them pepperly. Such ungrateful empty barrels they are, some lack common sense. Not too long ago in a previous thread, they all agreed that the average black men treat foreign women with more respect than theirs, but here they are spewing nonsense. Some of these men don’t deserve anything

CSTRR:
Nigerian immigrant life is nonsense.
Be specific.

Indian women are CEO of fortune 500 companies, yet they don't misbehave at home.

Ordinary Nigerian Nurse would think she has arrived.

The Nigerian men in the US are very very very lazy

crackhouse:
This man must have pass through hell before he took this decision. God help us to get good woman and not the one that will cause us sorrow.

Your sentence wouldn’t have changed if the woman had shot the man first, so goan sit down

CSTRR:
Asians travel abroad too.

Indians, Chinese and Koreans rise to the level of heights Nigerian women dream Of and yet it is always the Nigerian women trying to prove something stupid.

A man that brings you to America likes you.

It's for you to put your head down and remember you are in a foreign land.

It's not the land of your ancestors. You are to maximise the opportunity for the well-being of your seeds.


Dimwits.

You should see Nigerian men here. So disgustingly unbearable. If not for the fact that Nigeria is not habitable to a point, after tasting how easy life in he US is, most of those so called Nigerian women that were brought here by their husbands would have gone back to Nigeria within months of their arrival

Saao:
maybe the boys gather to fight him in solidarity with their mum. What most men goes through in the hands of women, is only God that knows.

For that to happen, he probably was a beast

ThePlainTruth:
Your prayer is on point. The mistake a Naija man makes overseas is that when they help a woman to the top believing he has met the flesh of their flesh and bones of their bones, then once the woman is comfortable and making good money the woman beginning to treat the man like trash this can mess up the mind of the most gentle man and drive him to do the unthinkable. May GOD give our women wisdom and keep our men away from women that can mess up our mind.

If the man can’t help himself by rising to the top as well, then he is a liability and a complete f00l

ablejesus26:
Wrong notion
my late grandmother of blessed memory LADY JANET was a business woman very industrious to the core she was into Palm oil business she sold from Owerri to Aba to Onisha to the now Asaba even to Benin
but still the never faulted or complained about her natural flair as an African woman of being her Family Care giver

although there are some useless Lazy men who just sit and watch their wives hustle
that is not a goal point to say its a must that husbands should do the chores too

its advisable but if the man does not concur it shouldnt be a problem at all for the woman

If her husband can make filth, he must clean up after himself. He is not a goat or a baby.
Can’t you see how disgusting the thought of being with a Nigerian man is now? You don’t think they are being selfish?

ablejesus26:
Where is this mentality coming from pls no insult regarded bcus all those things you outlined are nothing for a woman who values the context of marriage and family

our grandmothers did it
our mothers did it
so are you saying they are fools
if your man is naturally liberal enough to assist with the chores which is good and healthy for the relationship BLESS GOD
but if he does not then BLESS GOD

A Well cultured African Woman would do all these you outlined with joy without the husbands input

i no know why we just keep copying strange and stranger tins
even in some Europe countries like France,Ireland etc Women still value the idea of taking care of their homes

Your grandmothers and mother were not forced into the workforce system to be able to cater for themselves. They were home, with their wrappers sharing gossips with their neighbors. The society we live in now demands that everyone work, this leaves the household duties neglected. So the modern day woman should accommodate a leech & liability of a partner because she wants to keep culture?
We move with foreign guys

Kuns84:
Lol.
Coming from the same dolt who said this:


Nigerian girls must surely disgrace themselves

Like your mom did I guess
What a waste

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

My friend Keep this nonsense to yourself. So Nigerian men are the price then? You disgust me. Stop degrading Nigerian women while looking for cheap Nairaland recognition. If you are using this mentality to run your home, I can bet you 100% that your husband has no regard for you.

One of my pt in his 80’s had slow onset dementia. One day he seemed more clear, was sitting outside on a sunny morning and I started asking him about his past. He looked at me and smiled, said he thoroughly enjoyed his life, did whatever he wanted to do but within moral grounds. He looked so happy and contented that my eyes teared up.

- Stop over restricting yourself people, the person you’re trying to model or live up to could be a sick devil. You absolutely absolutely do not know them lol
-Quick bursts of gratitude to God everyday is what actually keeps you
-You look smarter, more interesting and mysterious when you keep quiet
-If you haven’t been selfish, try being selfish today. You deserve it, you’ll love it
-Your peace of mind comes first


Finally....guess what this life is all about. YOU !! Who knows, your environment and people in it might just be simulations.

argent412:
look at this she dog




you think those female celebrities that their marriage didn't last are happy with it.



look at the case of mercy johnson and her husband.


his first wife divorced him and mercy took over.



till now the woman is still languishing in loneliness, telling people that mercy stole her husband.



women will always loose in a divorced marriage, even if they are given seats in the Senate house.



you think money brings championship.

The ex wife can go to her village, touch any baggar and marry him. Im glad you said she was the one that divorced him. She prolly is ‘lonely’ because she’s broke. Mercy’s husband is a rich dude.

You yourself, if any of those female celebrity even as much as glance at you, you’ll start prophesying. They can have any man they want, rich and poor.
My dear go and sit down, stop glorifying nigerian men, more than half of them are a waste

Start using your brain to study Nigerian women o. Don’t let nairaland teach you what you don’t know

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...
Isoright..how niggarrrrs are bold to get married baffles me...
A real niggarrr will now be in the same roof with one particular pussy for God knows how long
The thought of that shit scares the hell out of me
Coupled with the fact that she won't be allowing me to live my life on the fast lane anymore...she won't allow me smoke my weed, bang other pussy, drink enough bottles.
Not to talk of the fact that my dickkk won't be getting excited for her anymore because my dickkk is used to her already...the love will no longer be there...but we will continue to be pretending that we still love each other probably because of our kids and what society will say
She go dey quarrel and advise me like a mother, sister and wife make i stop those things like alcohol, smoking weed, banging other pussy or make i reduce am..if i nor hear she go come go report to my mum or daddy..or probably person way I dey fear pass for my family...those ones go come call me for family meeting...see wahalar

Oh...lord...help a real niggarr...because with the way he is thinking now..he be like say na baby mama sure me die
Damnnn.......mmmmm...he who finds a wife..finds real dope problem and wahalar

Well ‘niggarr’ get it into your head that no one wants you. If you have a little bit of money, then maybe, because girls gotta eat right?
But if not, you’re just a pungent waste of space to a lady forreal