GayPontiff:
This is becoming a norm in The US.
That society is just not for thorough bred Africans.
The men who turn themselves in after killing their spouse don't even show any remorse. Only God knows how unbearable what happened that made this man want to kill his family n off himself too.

You can be thrown outta your house for just raising ur voice at your wife.
Our women embrace this new found independence that makes the man seem incapable of playing the role he has always known.

Most cases, these men sacrifice everything to bring their women over and still lose it all.
Not siding these men or encouraging they go on killing rampage, but the death tolls r increasing and these women need to slow down a bit.

My drunkard uncle lost custody of his kids many years ago, he doesn't drink anymore, moved on and remarried..but just like that he can't even go close to his kids anymore. First wife stripped him of everything and is even sleeping around with younger boys. Aunty never contributed to his wealth by the way. She was also brought to come and study and from there she got married to my uncle.

Vinesee:
90% of marital failures are orchestrated by women. Look at home's where women are honest , loyal and supportive, that home always thrives . Many a times women 60% good behaviors makes best of men's 90% bad behavior. We just pray for our own wife's and not someone else.

SamNaijaboy:
You are talking after the fact. Why cant the wife pay for her own things by herself?
Amy assurance she will get student visa?
Let the woman figure all these out and we meet after she has got her green card after 7 years of working hard for her employer after great grades in University and we can then talk. But you need my help and money and then talking about paying me back? Am I a bank? She doesn't know her way to UBA to borrow the "small" thousands of dollars?
Let's face it visa is a big deal. Many even have the funds and have been denied severally. You are given green card on a platter and you are talking what?
LOL. Guys this is how they minimize what is a big deal. Do it yourself if it is easy now? There is one girl I know that has been trying to do GMAT to the US for 5 years now. Everytime her score is always really poor. So she can't even get good grades. E easy?

BRATISLAVA:


Did wife hold a gun to husbands head to pay for any of these things? So why acting like it was forceful?

aribisala0:

You have visite Indra Nooyi's family to conduct research?

nonut:

From the story, you can deduce what truly happened.
The woman cheated on him and had kids with another man.
He found out, confronted her and the silly woman probably felt it was nothing.
He gave her a nice head shot to keep her pants on, in her next life.

genq:


Yes men are 'wailing' and women are getting killed!

What a win for feminism!!

jedisco:


Why can't such men liquidate their properties, send it back home and then divorce their wives? Hehe

SamNaijaboy:
That is the point. Nigerian society expects men to care for their wives. How many here shout "I want a husband like that" when a man buys his wife a car in Nigeria?
Same thing, a husband wants to care for his wife and brings her over and helps her get to her feet abroad. The only difference is that Nigerian society prevents the women from showing their real colors-ungrateful, greedy and transactional.
Abroad, they can show that and get away with it clean

genq:


Useless.

I said useless

CSTRR:
Indra Nooyi is the CEO of Pepsi.
An Indian woman.

Dem no born am well make she misbehave for house.

The same goes for CEOs of many Fortune 500 companies headed by Indian women.

Women with sense. Women of timber and calibre.

While a Nigerian Nurse earning small dollars would become more feminist than Hilary Clinton.

ThePlainTruth:


Do you know the salary of a Doctor in the US and overseas? Why would he see his wife as an investment? He does not need the wife as an investment but as a companion.

Sixfeetbelle:


First, it was 'stop seeing your girlfriend as investments', now the preaching has turned to wife.

Sha, everybody will be alright las las

rusher14:


Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala is very successful Nigerian lady.

We are yet to hear a scandal from her home.

This is all relative.

Frustrated007:
if only the poor doctor knew that he just signed his death certificate the day he married that useless creature.
I'm sure he wouldn't have married "it"

cococandy:
But you are

Hedonini:
It keeps happening, but women would never learn. After all, they can only be reasonable, submissive and level-headed wives 'over their dead bodies'. So shall it be, then.

rusher14:


You'll end up avoiding dropping the soap for a long time.

BRATISLAVA:


Do you live with the aforementioned woman? You have access to her private life? Or you hate anything to do with women so much that you've become adept at fantasy themed fiction like what you just typed out?

Frustrated007:
if only the poor doctor knew that he just signed his death certificate the day he married that useless creature.
I'm sure he wouldn't have married "it"

pipz:



Lol! I’m a Nigerian married to a Nurse and living in Texas. Reading this thread together with my wife. I looked at her after this comment and we both burSt out laughing. We are blessed and covered by the blood of Jesus, no evil shall prevail over our lives nor any more persons. We won’t hear these kinds of news again in Jesus name. May the Lord console this family and keep the kids under his grace. Amen

ThePlainTruth:


Do you know the salary of a Doctor in the US and overseas? Why would he see his wife as an investment? He does not need the wife as an investment but as a companion.

Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

cococandy:
Why don’t these suicidal/murdering spouses just kill themselves instead of looking for who will die with them. I’m sorry to say this happens more with men. Not just black men. White men too.
When they are tired of life, they want to end their lives but can’t just go by themselves. They try to take their wives and kids with them.

pocohantas:


Nah, they don’t at all. That is why we never see much of those couples in old age.

Do you have any uncle or any man in your village with an equally old foreign wife? Makes me wonder at what point these foreign women realize they can’t cater to the whims and caprices of most Naija men.

Last last Naija man will be back home for the only woman that can tolerate his ever needy ego.

Agaracha must come back...

Frustrated007:
calm down?!!
If you know wetin naija girls don show me ehnn.they deserve every evil that befalls them!!!

SamNaijaboy:
You are talking after the fact. Why cant the wife pay for her own things by herself?
Amy assurance she will get student visa?
Let the woman figure all these out and we meet after she has got her green card after 7 years of working hard for her employer after great grades in University and we can then talk. But you need my help and money and then talking about paying me back? Am I a bank? She doesn't know her way to UBA to borrow the "small" thousands of dollars?
Let's face it visa is a big deal. Many even have the funds and have been denied severally. You are given green card on a platter and you are talking what?
LOL. Guys this is how they minimize what is a big deal. Do it yourself if it is easy now? There is one girl I know that has been trying to do GMAT to the US for 5 years now. Everytime her score is always really poor. So she can't even get good grades. E easy?

rusher14:


Hasty conclusion.

Doctor may have been experiencing psychological problems which in itself needs investigating.

BRATISLAVA:
you sound like marriage rests on a woman. Aren't men heads of the home again? Or you need women to blame for your failure? So men are entitled to 90% bad behavior and the woman should put up with it? Lol. You're funny.

genq:


I already knew she had to be a Nurse.

Indian women are high earners - many are Doctors, Engineers, Business owners etc. - same with Chinese Women.

But you see Nigerian women, our money-miss-road Nigerian women, they will become Nurses, earning chicken feed compared to their Asain counterparts, but yet, we can't hear word again because she's now a demi-god!

LONGPREEK:
english please

BRATISLAVA:


It's the same reason men will always cheat.