₦airaland Forum

AkinwaleJJ:
That's why communism can't work here in Nigeria! Democracy can't lead to it because the western powers will definitely monitor the movement and eliminate it's goal! Awo never got the presidency because the west could smell communism from far distance and Awo's style of governance depicted it in all ramifications.

Kinematics:
Try ask or confirm if it's true before commenting. The news is 100% true, however flyover is not what Rivers need at the moment.

SearchFirst:
When Sanusi was Governor, he was winning national and international awards everywhere.

Someone should tell me one award this Emefiele has won other than owning the largest Piggery farm in Nigeria.

proclinician:
Who cares about the useless FX restrictions and policies of incompetent monkeys in government. Simply run your matter with bitcoins even if it's 1mUSD. Useless things from the dullard in aso rock to the dumb ministers.

tobechi74:
When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public. Expression of vulnerability is a sign of a weak man. Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in education at an early age especially science and law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.


Girls who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .


Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side. we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

BennyDGreat:
If you take all the zeros away and don't find a way to balance the trade between import and export. It's still practically the same. Nigeria's export must considerably increase

chingle5:
This is why I keep thinking that anything that pays in dollars is the way forward cos I think Nigeria is experiencing abnormal inflation not like that shit they say in economics ie increase in price of things and increase in salaries bt for naija na increase in price of things and fix position in salary which equals to enslavement and suffering foolish country... If school resume I want to focus fully on online businesses... Instead of kill myself on lectures that one useless lecturer will still end up failing me...

222Martins:
The rate i quoted was based on the information i got on Facebook this morning. I don't know the official bank rate as i haven't transacted with them for quite a long time. My transaction is still pending, i am yet to get feedback from GTBank.

I will try withdrawing cash tomorrow and see the outcome. As someone that receives FX Inflow regularly, this news is quite a slap. I may consider moving to a favorable African country for the short term and cash out there, while working on leaving for good for the long term.

222Martins:
I am telling you what i am currently experiencing today and you are saying it is impossible. Transfers i do seamlessly before in less than 5 minutes is now pending for over 4 hours. Gtbank to Gtbank transaction for that matter.

Dangrace01:
The communist movement in China started China afresh Christian's and Muslims were sent out of China and all Bible and Koran seized, very bold move. Africa needs to be started afresh like that who would Bell d cat

The Chinese has been great people from origin do you know that China hid the formula for tea from the British for hundreds of years and there was a law that any Chinese that show the British formula for tea would be killed. The British had to use an Indian to steal the formula.


Communist movement needs military involvement are you in the military

do4luv14:
Thats the truth , its what we are facing as a nation,

imagine to inflation, the endless increase left, right, and Center,

then ask yourself, of what use is Minimum wages, as of today?

Its a big shame.

From my childhood I have been hearing about the jonzing od Nigeria.

In adulthood I am still hearing about this Naija nonsense.

chingle5:
I swear ... Right nw I can't think of anything to buy with it

do4luv14:
Thats the major problem bedeviling us as a country,

yet policymakers are busy adding to it woes,

until the Govvt, make a strong stand, and policymakers follow same, that will benefit us as a countrym

let them make #1 naira Usable, like it can buy a sweet or chewing gum, as before,

then we can move forward, and the Dollr will equals to 25naira, untill then

we will be having 1000 naira to 1 dollar soon

philoxdoctor:
It's been a long time, our Naira value has dropped drastically as the foreign exchange rates increases...Only God fit deliver us like this...

chingle5:
I am here on my bed think of what I can buy with these money which hav been with me for close to 1 week

Dangrace01:
Communist for real?

flyingpig:
bro even people who want to do postgraduate studies abroad hoard dollars. You can't be saving up money only for it to keep depreciating in value every six months (naira).

popo1494:
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CockpitSense:
Please mature responses only.
Where do you think is the best place for a first kiss after just getting a girl to date you.

PS: My house is out of it because I don't wanna yet

Carchoice:
For the past weeks now I have been questioning God if He deliberately put sexual desire in us to make the ignorant and foolish minded ones to lose focus and concentration.

Sex is not only overrated but I’m beginning to see it as demonic. The thought of it takes you away from reality. You get trapped in a loop where the only escape you can think of is sex and more sex. Hence fornicating.

After careful observation and prayers, I realized the problem was/is me. Whatever you feed your mind is what it consciously and unconsciously feeds your body. That is, when you lust after a sexy lady’s photo or see a lady with a nice backside and start to imagine things, you have unconsciously incurred a debt, a debt you must pay. How? Whatever goes into your mind can’t go away easily until you satisfies it (pays the debt) and satisfying it is just the beginning of more to happen. (More debt)


Sex is(soon to be “was”) the only thing that comes to my mind whenever a female comes to my place or calls me. But the past weeks I have been advising myself to stop wasting my minds space and precious time on impurities, then the ladies started coming at me, I would open my WhatsApp and see a text that says

“I am Hot, can I come around”, “why are you avoiding me”, “are you trying to tell me you have not had sex since then?”

It hasn’t been easy for me as I was able to acknowledge a problem right before me but the solution to the problem is far far within me. I don’t know what your life problems are/is but for me, fornication is my only problem right now and I pray and pray I can defeat this. (Prayers in cases like this cleanse impurities from your mind)


Whenever you sees someone post “the only thing in our youths mind is sex”. That post is not far from the truth. When you allow your mind to accommodate sexual pleasures whenever it arises, nothing good can stay in that mind. The only thing that will occupy the whole of your minds space is sex and it will lock the doors for other reasoning that will better your life.


A lady friend had been calling me all through the weekdays, I did not pick because she was part of the problem. Yesterday being Sunday I finally picked and she insisted on seeing me that it’s been a while (just one week of no see) I told her I was busy, several times. But she insisted on coming, she even noted that it seems I am avoiding sex that she’ll not do anything funny.(I didn’t believe her ofcourse) but I took it as a challenge to see how far I had gone with my self-discipline. She finally came and a little chit chat and all that, then the devil struck. I was just on boxer, she went on her knees. I will never forget these words that came from her;

“you can’t resist this”.

I fell for it. So many things were running through my mind but I lost.


Then I had a dream around 4am. I dreamt I and others were writing exams, I wasn’t sure what exam it was but it seemed very intense. What I did on my answer sheet was I copied all the questions. I did not answer any of it. And to think the exams were not conducted in a class but outside(you can even go home to answer yours) we were given ENOUGH time to answer the questions. But I was not able to answer any. When time was up, I went to submit and realized it was just me and two others that are yet to submit ours. I had to quickly go through one of the candidates answer script and saw that the questions I could not answer were more like primary school questions but time was already up and the invigilator asked the three of us to wait outside as punishment for submitting late. I immediately pleaded with one of the candidates to allow me copy answers from him which he accepted but immediately I wrote the first line. We were called in to submit our scripts. I woke up and shouted

“I don fvck up” I actually failed a real life exam and it happened yesterday evening.


I’m beginning to feel ashamed to pray to God. I have to work on myself before involving God. Whenever I remember I have a long journey ahead of me, I cringe. But by God’s Grace and his Mercy, I will share a testimony soon, as I did masturbation.


PS. Atheist and non-believers should not derail.

Cc righteousness89

SilverNorGold:
I know this thread wouldn't go down well with a lot of people, but the truth is: there are no Alpha Males on Nairaland. If there's any, then he should be a guest.

Reason? I have gone through several threads, observed people, and nothing Alpha was discovered.

What I discovered is that most dudes are just specialists in a particular area, which to me doesn't make them Alpha.

The Type of Men I Have Discovered so Far on Nairaland Are:

1. Beta Males. These ones are the most common. There are two types:

A. Woke Beta.
B. Sleeping Beta..

A. The Woke Beta Males are trying to transmogrify themselves to the status of an Alpha Male. This is good, but it won't come easy. They include some players, redpillers, misogynists and so on. The good thing is that they're struggling to elevate their statuses, which wouldn't come easy as they need the following to become an Alpha Male: intelligence(not just in a particular field), Money(not necessarily wealthy. But important to maintain your Alphaness), they are Courageous, Blunt, Sharp, Gat the Physique/ good body posture, feared and respected, extroverted, liked by at least half of the Nairaland hot ladies and they don't go about saying they're Alpha.

I don't think anyone on Nairaland has this yet.

B. Sleeping Beta: These ones are yet to realize what's going on. They are Nice Guys to the core and would do most things to impress the ladies.


2. Simps: these guys are dangerous. Like, very deadly. In addition to being extremely nice to women, like the Beta Guy, these guys are equally deadly and ruthless both to themselves and others as they can even kill if their goddesses(that's what they call women they're attracted to) ask them to. They can abandon their family, friends, career, everything to please their goddesses.


3. Real Men: These men are honest, both to themselves and to others. They don't believe in belonging to any movement or adopting any tag. They prefer being themselves. These men are the only ones, to me, closer to becoming an Alpha Male as they don't give a fvck. They're not simps, they don't act too needy around women, neither do they behave like bad boys to attract women. They are simply themselves. They're actually the realest.

4. Dissents.. These type of Male oppose anything and everything to impress women. They would say "I don't believe anyone should act like that" to anything, any ideology while doing the opposite of what they condemn.


This is all I have. Silver and Gold I have not.

eazymoni:
your thinking faculty is is far below par if you think, kidnappers, robbers or our thieving politicians are smart people, think of people like dangote, Jim ovia, davido, whiz kid, osimenh, think of people who stand out as smart, poor people like you are not smart, that's why you think you are entitled to somebody else's sweat, go use your, work smarter not harder, you might just getting a little money to get a little comfortable, stop crying for communism, its in the dark ages. If China is practicing Communism, jack ma will not have 1 million dollars, cos the government will only allow him to have just what he NEEDS. Anyway, like I said before, you are too dull to understand the cross between government and economics.

eazymoni:
Oga what am I dodging here? you were hyping communism which has long been abandoned by sensible nations, then you started talking about Nigerian democracy collapsing....carry your wahala dey go abeg, if you like communism so much, go and stay in north Korea. The world belongs to manipulative, smart and wise folks, that's why they use mentally lazy folks like you. I know you are hyping communism cos you are too lazy to work, want to own what you did not work for, on a communal basis. The world has since forgotten communism and move to capitalism which breeds quality and excellence.