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| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by smiliyB(f): 10:06am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:Stop getting your heart involve, build a fence no one can penetrate except your spouse. In the way you won't be hurt anymore  |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Chario10: 10:08am On Sep 11, 2021 |
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| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Lhorde(m): 10:09am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:Love yourself,trust me I’m going through so much about love too right now . I learnt to love myself first, build and invest in myself . Doing things that make me happy and also reading to stay focused .I didn’t block her on WhatsApp but I ignored all messages sent to check on me I just want to use the pain to make myself a better person that’s all My heart was broken twice in a year and it’s really not about money ..Cus my women always have anything they want ,anything One said I stopped being caring and later one said I was too caring !.. Lol I just sit back now and make money ...More money 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Hassanmaye(m): 10:10am On Sep 11, 2021 |
fuckboys:Haha bad boy |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Acesexcell(m): 10:15am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Acesexcell: ruffkenny:thanks for this. This is directly for me |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Emmanuel909090: 10:18am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Also want to learn. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by alizma: 10:23am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Welcum:Great contribution but only very few people will understand you. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by ButterBerry: 10:25am On Sep 11, 2021 |
DM me as professional psychotherapist |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by lomprico(m): 10:29am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:position your mind |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Loveknitting: 10:30am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks: Keep getting hurt, your hart will become what you asking for, it just a matter of time. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by h0pze3: 10:36am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Shey with human beans or animal. Coz i don't understand. Local man cannot can again |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by kurlz(f): 10:37am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Emmanuel224: This is not true. You are not cold and without love. Answer this questions I want to verify something. •Do you love nature or artworks? •Do you have parents and siblings or friends, do you love them or feel some emotional attachments or pity towards them, or even for anyone around you? •Do you frown at injustice and hate to see someone cheated or dislike any form of inhumanity? •Are you disgusted at the sight of sensitive or accident scenes? If yes, then you are full of love. Love does not have to be erotic, it can be: The Four Types of Love: 1. Eros: erotic, passionate love. We might as well get that one out of the way first. ... 2. Philia: love of friends and equals. ... 3. Storge: love of parents for children. ... 4. Agape: love of mankind. If you feel any of this then you are not cold hearted. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Coldie(m): 10:39am On Sep 11, 2021 |
By minding your business |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Victerica(m): 10:44am On Sep 11, 2021 |
mirexxx: Are you very logical? |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by babajero(m): 10:44am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:By drinking sniper, because as far as you are alive you must have an affection. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Haipre: 10:45am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Let me just say this but on a normal note, I won't suggest this with those that are emotionally unstable... If I want to avoid having emotional attachment or loving someone, I will definitely look for one flaw the person has... Everyone has one flaw or the other... I will just expand it in my mind that can make me have a distaste for that person.. from there, I have lost all emotional touches to the person... Anytime I see the person, I will just remember that flaw and how it has been expanded in my mind.. nothing can make me go back to loving that person... #PS: like I said.. just the way I do mine, not advisable for everyone 5 Likes |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Liliantalks: 10:45am On Sep 11, 2021 |
smiliyB:it’s really not that easy , especially when sex get involved |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Maobichek: 10:48am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks: I understand clearly, it's difficult and very very difficult but bear in mind that you have been existing before the person came and if you concentrate and calm, you will survive and be happy again, it's a matter of TIME; time heals relationship wound okay. Stay strong, never appear weak before ppl. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Senoiret(m): 10:48am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Hi Lilian for the sake of you bearing the name of the first girl I fell in love and I've always loved until now makes me feel weird... You see controlling your emotions is as difficult as rejecting the urge to eat whenever you see food, our neuron has been wired to secure emotional attachment in degree of ways.. I was the kind of guy that fell in love with almost any girl I see or get closer to, I couldn't handle a friendship without getting emotional after a while, it got to a point I began asking my female colleague In school to give me some space as I was always close to many of them.... Today I will fall in love with amaka, tomorrow blessing, nextweek bunmi, not until I got cautious of myself, took a deep connection to my ideology and found out I was attatched to people based on looks and sensory perception, also your heart could be deceptive into tricking you you love someone, it could be based on looks, gesture from that person or a series of event placing you into an emotional discord, so in trying to find that acceptance, you get over emotional to people you aren't supposed to... Also if you look from a science perspective, Your dopamine level is actually high and the neurons carrying receptors for emotions may be oversaturated and releasing a high volume of feeling whenever you get emotional, it's like a safe bunker for you, it's what gives you joy... But regardless you are the only one that can save yourself from getting attached if not you will cry sotey, your tears will create a crease on your cheek.... Read more from the link https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship/ Liliantalks: 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Rockers4l: 10:49am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Poster I understand how you feel , I have been there before, the best you can do for urself is to apply no contact/ radio silence treatment. You can browse about it.it helps otherwise depression will eat u up |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by frozen70(f): 10:49am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks: There is nothing wrong with loving someone But don't put all your mind there At times it ends in tears |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 11, 2021 |
luminouz:and when she puts herself and her needs first, she's then a "selfish b***ch" 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by phemmyfour: 10:54am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:see and connect with the person less |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by pegix(m): 10:56am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Buy chasing money.. Chase money and you will forget love |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by HRHQueenPhil(f): 10:56am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:best advice in the world ...look for something else to love ..it can be a new business, a better partner, a new hobby , a friend like me ..trust Me, one conversation with me and a weekend can make ur problems go away..if u are feeling low, u can call me at any hour of the day  before u know it, d wound has healed and u can't even remember d name of the person |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Nobody: 10:58am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:ah! when....pls I need it....hope your not a smoker? Tell me which dustbin too |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by fitinwell: 11:02am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Go back to your First Love.. By accepting Jesus as your Lord and Personal Saviour.. ask for forgiveness of your Sins and promise never to go back to your vomit... Lastly get busy winning Souls for Christ. And Matthew 6:33 Will take it's course naturally.. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Ellasure: 11:04am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Life is sadness and joy, hope and hopelessness, fear and boldness, good and bad. One cannot have one wholly without the other because in true living in all societies in the world the good Lord make it so. So, can one stop loving and proceed to hating only ? It is not possible because your human mind and instincts will not permit it. We are not in control of all faculties of the human body soul and spirit that concerns us individually. Can you control hunger of the body? Can you control dirts settling in your sitting room? Can you control the decay of foodstuffs or several perishable items around you? Life is a big circle and an individual is just one in a million in the circle. If you fail to love or hate you die naturally because you don't belong to the circle of humans in the world. Can the world stop rotating? What are the consequences of the world rotation on human? Love is eternal and should be enjoyed. If you come into a circle where you can not find love, kindly move on to another circle of friends and colleagues where the Lord has made provisions of love and favour for you. It not compulsory that the person you showed love to should show love back to you. The other person chemistry may be opposed to your own and therefore no good relationship can come out of the circle. Love abound in every places, situations and spiritual. we have to search for love that favour our life endeavour. If you read in the Bible where Isaac the son of Abraham digged water well for farming but the supposed landlord pursued him after hitting water. The young man had to move on to a new location to dig water well again. It was on the third location that he was accepted and we also learned that he planted crops that year he reaped hundred fold of what he planted. Just imagine if he stayed back at the first location fighting for his right or whatever he would have locked his potentials away in undesired arguments and quarrels. He found love the third time. In the case of humans love, man or woman, if your first, second trys failed move on and remain open to other people to love you by reviewing your life outlook and strategies for success. Please love on. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by zexy2030(m): 11:04am On Sep 11, 2021 |
luminouz:Guy, calm down, you treat emotional issues with selflessness. She wouldn't need this, if she had accepted herself. But she doesn't want to be trapped by love nest anymore and after be jilted. Emotional maturity is giving without expecting a return. Just give what you can loose. That's how to go about emotional imbalance and feelings of not being loved. Love boomerangs if u give it to those the society never cares if they exist. Though don't start what you cannot finish. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by Bmaster(m): 11:06am On Sep 11, 2021 |
 Wetin this administration no fit destroy, E Neva dey exists!!! Now they've come to destroy love |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by NnamdiN: 11:11am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Have too much money. Sometimes excess pride comes with it.... not sure it works for women but wealthy men rarely have emotional attachments. |
| Re: How Can One Just Stop Loving And Having Emotional Attachments by debbydams(f): 11:15am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Liliantalks:create space,thinking u deserve more..engaged yourself with a lot of things that will keep you busy, forcus on your future,no man deserve your tears..having it at the back of your mind that it might work nd might not by so doing once u noticed any smoke, u move nd u won't get hurt too much..whatever feelings will went off.. At this point of my life I don't get bothered about relationship if it will work let it work nd if it dosnt,theres nothing to worry about..I cant kill myself,na money I dey find like this |
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