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Properties / Commercial Space Needed Urgently. (lekki- Ajah Axis). by limsycutey(f): 11:05am On Dec 30, 2019
I'm starting a business in January so I need a commercial space immediately. Send a PM if you have any.
Family / Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by limsycutey(f): 2:37pm On Dec 18, 2019
I don't understand this kind of love that makes a partner miserable and unloved. I just don't get why men feel they must break their wives because God made them the head. Both parties must be heard for a marriage to be successful. SBL28 told you the bitter truth that needs to be said.

You don't want your wife to work, what if you lose your job or die (God forbid), where will she start from?

How many husbands drop money for EVERYTHING in the house? That is where the wife comes in. My father does not remember birthdays most of the time, thank God for mother that used to mark them for us. My father was not keen on making the home beautiful because of his upbringing, thank God for my mum in that house using her money to beautify the place. All through school, my mum was always supplementing my allowance.

My father once advised my mother to leave her lecturing job and face her provision store because some of her colleagues were making life difficult for her. Thank God my mother did not listen, now she's retired, driving a nice SUV that she bought herself and earning over N300k monthly as pension. Even my father admitted some months ago that he's glad she didn't listen to him then.

OP, I don't know how you want to do it o but if you know what is good for you, do not be a jobless housewife.

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Travel / Re: Nigerians In Oslo, Norway by limsycutey(f): 10:02am On Dec 18, 2019
Cvv1477, is Norway a good Idea for someone coming with two kids. What are the provisions for childcare?
Romance / Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by limsycutey(f): 8:30am On Dec 18, 2019
Please never lie about your genotype. Just continue praying, God will bring your own man your way.
I have a family friend who is a SS too and she's happily married with two children now.

Keep holding on to God.
Romance / Re: Do I Have Hope On Her by limsycutey(f): 8:15am On Dec 18, 2019
If you are talking about a secondary school student, you need to be arrested. angry So you have even been touching the poor girl already. angry
Romance / Re: Ladies, Tell The Truth Please.. by limsycutey(f): 8:10am On Dec 18, 2019
Of course, na 'pekam' you dey live. cheesy
Romance / Re: We Get Angry At Each Other At The Slightest Provocation by limsycutey(f): 8:06am On Dec 18, 2019
Roadtoyesterday:
So I went to NYSC camp, there is this lady that we had moments upon moments since the very first day, she's everything I wanted. I was very sure it was love I have for her, but the issue is, things I can easily let go for others alway get me mad if she commit such errors. Am seriously obsessed and jealous at every slight chances with her. Same thing applys to her. Sometimes we end up having disagreement for more then 4 times daily, how we get to reconcile I don't know.

Now we passing out, and gbammmm we are angry at each other again, I don't plan saying goodbye before leaving. Been avoiding seeing her for hours now.
Will I regret this? How do I handle this anger issue, could it be because of the location we meet?

Walk away, that is a toxic relationship. The two you are obviously not good for each other.

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Romance / Re: Am I Making A Mistake? by limsycutey(f): 7:57am On Dec 18, 2019
I wish I could look into the brains of those people that told you to stay with him, that he's going to change. Are they blind? Or they hate you so much and they want to push you into a bad marriage Human beings baffle me at times.

Alot of people have advised you correctly already, no need for me to write a long story.
Romance / Re: He Wants To Propose To Her Before Traveling Abroad, Please Advise. by limsycutey(f): 7:37am On Dec 18, 2019
Communication is obviously a big problem with you guys. I don't understand why you did not ask her the reasons for her refusal immediately. On the other hand, she should told you her reasons too.

Don't say anything about traveling, call her up and ask her why she has been saying No. I feel she's being unfair to, she does not want to be with you and she does not want to let you go. .

If she doesn't not give any sensible reason for refusal at the end of the day, CUT HER OFF. It won't be easy but for your peace of mind, sever all ties with her and move on with your life.

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Family / Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by limsycutey(f): 7:27am On Dec 18, 2019
Success02:


When I asked her for the spare key, she asked me with frown face "why do you want the key?" I replied why are u asking me? She said she has the right to ask and I told her what right, she just grabbed my shirt and d rest is slap

Okay.

It was very wrong of her to slap you. And it's good you didn't retaliate, that would landed you guys on a slippery slope.

I feel there is more to it, maybe you have given her reasons to doubt your fidelity in the past. I'm not saying this is a justification for her action, just that there is no smoke without fire.

This first time, don't involve 3rd parties yet. They tend to blow things out of proportion.
Sit her down and warm her sternly, that the next time she tries such rubbish, she won't be so lucky. That the next time she raises her hand to hit you, you are sending her back to her father's house, Permanently.


Some men suffer domestic violence too but are just too ashamed to admit it.

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Romance / Re: Funmilola, You're A Scum!!! by limsycutey(f): 7:14am On Dec 18, 2019
Pele. I hope this experience has taught you an important lesson. That you should be nicer to ladies and avoid making them feel the way you are feeling now.

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Family / Re: Has Your Wife Ever Slapped You? What's Your Reaction? by limsycutey(f): 7:01am On Dec 18, 2019
Success02:
For the first time ever in my life, my wife slapped me twice. You want to know my reaction?

Honestly I was surprised to see my wife slapped me. I thought within myself what could have warranted it.

On Saturday, we went for a party which I was reluctant to attend but I did because I wanted to please my wife. I did all I could to make her happy and to make her feel good but as much as I did, she flared up when I left to ease myself.

She complained that I went with a girl which was not so. To cut the story short I left the party without my wife and we kept distance for some days. Every instructions I gave to my wife since then she would just do it reluctantly and when I needed to get to her office after work so that we could go home together, I would just see that she was not there. when I got back home I decided to get spare key so as to return home from work without waiting for her, I asked her for the spare and she started raising voice on me. I reacted as a man and all of a sudden I got the first slap followed by the second one. Though I didn't react because I don't know what to do.

My question is what will be your reaction if you happen to be in my shoes?

Please explain the bolded before we go on.

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Business / Re: Why You Should Do Business In Onitsha by limsycutey(f): 12:13am On Dec 18, 2019
Thanks for the help you are rendering on this thread. Please can you connect me to suppliers of plastic bottles and other containers for cosmetics. I'm interested in the business. Thanks

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Business / Re: How To Ship Goods From 1688 To Nigeria,sell Online Without Physically Seeing It by limsycutey(f): 10:07am On Dec 13, 2019
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Travel / Re: My Chances In Netherlands? by limsycutey(f): 10:17pm On Nov 29, 2019
azimo:
Get there first and believe every other things will get better

I need the admission to get there. undecided
Travel / My Chances In Netherlands? by limsycutey(f): 6:35pm On Nov 29, 2019
Hi everyone,

Please what are my chances of getting admission into a Dutch university with a 2:2. I studied law but I'm applying for an MBA because even though I have my LLM, my law degree is useless there.

I picked Netherlands because it's the easiest and cheapest option for me because I'm traveling with two kids and my sister (a permanent resident, Married with kids) will be housing us for the duration of the masters, at least until i can get a decent job.

I'm about to register for IELTS and GMAT, I just want to know my chances before investing all that time and money into it.

I have been checking but I can't seem to find any major thread on Netherlands.

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Religion / Re: Dealing With The Powers Behind Barrenness/life Challenges Spiritually by limsycutey(f): 8:20pm On Nov 19, 2019
Ronnygold please check your mail. I need to speak to you please. I can't continue like this in 2020.

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Religion / Re: Dealing With The Powers Behind Barrenness/life Challenges Spiritually by limsycutey(f): 2:12pm On Nov 12, 2019
Ronnygold:
Calling my mom in that particular dream made me so curious. I kept on wondering if evil people were trying to cause enemity between me and my mom. I just couldn't comprehend it.

Then, I put a call through just to say hello to her. As usual she sounded happy but something was missing in her voice. I didn't tell her about anything I was planning or going through. Just a call to say hello. Usually, she would bombard you with prayer as soon as you call her because that is her way of saying hello. As soon as she wanted to start praying, I quickly rounded off the call and hung up.

At this point, I needed someone to talk to. My heart became so heavy. I needed someone to just help me, but nobody was qualified to do so in my mom's family, my prophetess step-sister inclusive.

I wondered if there is this much darkness in this family and she couldn't see it all these years. I believed she was not qualified.

My dad's first son who had been expecting news of me giving birth became terribly sick so I couldn't tell him either. I decided to call his wife just to pour out my heart to her. It was as if they had been waiting to hear from me. I called her and told her all the challenges. She then told me how her husband (my brother) had been disturbing my mom and how my mom replied him that they should keep on praying. She also told him that she doesn't have the courage to ask me about why I have not conceived, that my brother should ask me by himself.

My brother's wife told me not to worry that the end of the evil dreams has come, she told me she will go places for prayers. She gave me time to call back.

I called her back like 2 days later and she told me she was warned where she went for prayers not to intervene in the matter in any way. She was told the matter is a very difficult one. She was told that it's a matter of "it is own my thing, I own her and I can do anything I want with her".

Such warning scared her so badly. Then I began to think who is this evil power claiming ownership over my life? I asked her which pastor told her this thing and she said it was just a friend of hers. She said the woman sees vision and has solution to some problems. Then I told her I didn't believe it, so she said she will consult another person.

This other person is a prophetess who told her there is absolutely nothing that is too difficult for God. She however told her that I would have to come over to see her.

She gave me the prophetess number to call. The woman insisted that I must come on the very first day I see my period. To be continued...

Your story is giving me goosebumps. Thank God for victory!!! I'm going through my own spiritual battles too but I must confess that I'm not praying enough. Please come and complete it, may God be with us all. Amen
Health / E.N.T Issue: Next Line Of Action? by limsycutey(f): 6:12am On Sep 22, 2019
So I have
Fashion / 13-piece French Curve Set At An Unbeatable Price! by limsycutey(f): 10:05pm On Sep 19, 2019
French Curves set available for immediate delivery or pickup.

Price: N8500 (they are sold for N1500 per piece in the market)

To buy call or Whatsapp to order.

Career / Oil And Gas (downstream) Salaries. by limsycutey(f): 2:35pm On Aug 17, 2019
Who knows the salary range of Forte Oil, MRS AND Total (downstream sector)? Thank you in advance.
Travel / Re: Securing Visa To France, Applying From Nigeria... by limsycutey(f): 11:04pm On Jun 18, 2019
Good evening, please i want to travel to Netherlands with my kids for the summer, I will be staying with my sister who is a permanent resident. She has sent letter of invitation to us and we are being sponsored by my elder brother who has more than enough to cover the trip in his account. I'm currently unemployed, do I need to submit my bank account statement too? My personal account has good inflow and outflow and I can put a lump sum in it for the purpose of the application, will it be good enough?

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Technology Market / Re: Neatly Used Iphone 5 And Xiaomi Redmi Note For Sale. by limsycutey(f): 2:42pm On Jun 18, 2019
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Technology Market / Re: Neatly Used Iphone 5 And Xiaomi Redmi Note For Sale. by limsycutey(f): 2:42pm On Jun 18, 2019
iPhone 5s

Technology Market / Re: Neatly Used Iphone 5 And Xiaomi Redmi Note For Sale. by limsycutey(f): 9:12am On Jun 18, 2019
Xiaomi redmi note 3 (3gb/32gb)

Technology Market / Neatly Used Iphone 5 And Xiaomi Redmi Note For Sale. by limsycutey(f): 9:05am On Jun 18, 2019
I have a neatly used iPhone 5s (16g) for sale. No issues, it was only used for a few months. You just need to get a charger for it. It's going for 40k.

I also have a used Xiaomi note 3 (3gb/32gb) for sale, it's fine except for a cracked screen. I lost the charger but I got an Araimo charger for it. I'm selling it for 30k.

Will post pictures shortly.
Romance / Re: Please I Need Your Advice On The Issues I'm Facing With My Girlfriend by limsycutey(f): 9:51pm On Apr 26, 2019
Maybe she's getting married on the 31st of December.

Romance / Re: How Do I Stop My Girlfriend From Buying Used Pants? by limsycutey(f): 10:30pm On Apr 24, 2019
I don't like okrika generally not to talk to okrika panties. undecided
Romance / Re: Advise Needed Here Pls.. by limsycutey(f): 10:17pm On Apr 24, 2019
ajokeade920:
my dear, what do you think he will be saying
"Babe,I don't have anything to do with her anymore.she is history" am telling you this guy is head strong and can shed tears for Africa.
Or should I give him space..

Yes, you should, let him make up his mind whether he really wants the relationship or not.
Romance / Re: Advise Needed Here Pls.. by limsycutey(f): 9:01pm On Apr 24, 2019
It's obvious he's still in love with her. Nine years is no joke and since she was the one that left and not the other way round, he's probably still carrying a torch for her. Sit him down and talk to him seriously, tell him he needs to sort out his emotions before your relationship can move forward.
Romance / Re: Pls What Steps Should I Take To Secure A Fully Funded Schorlaship Abroad ?? by limsycutey(f): 7:16pm On Apr 22, 2019
Good evening, please I'm interested too, I will send my number via PM.
TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by limsycutey(f): 10:54pm On Feb 18, 2019
blingxx:


Who still take cw seriously when we have Netflix... Meanwhile who have seen umbrella academy

Started watching it today...

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