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Seun, i really dont know what the essence of all this particular thread is all about.
But I aint listening to Nada. And my advise to others,
Dont listen to what you cant handle. Believe on/ in whatever you believe in/ on and if it works for you, Kool
You keep goin on with it.

Love is alot YES but we can't ignore other things.
The catholic and muslim stuff are two worlds apart. Even in the christaindom there are still discrimination let alone ,
Anyway, i hear there's this new religion - Chrislam where couples like you guys worship.

I dont know about you being right but i know that whatever wasnt for you

WHATEVER

I know am definitely going back my country nigeria but its not going to be so soon.

love aint blind nada
its eyes are as wide as this .........

I need a man who can take care of me and my kids.
HE DOESNT HAVE TO BE ALREADY MADE but he must have the basic neccessities to keep me and our home comfortable. Above all, he must have something in his brains. *intelligence*

I suffer for 9jia finish, come jand come suffer small. Now you want me to suffer with one poor man again [na curse].
I will definitely marry a man who is either my class or a bit higher and if that man is termed "already made" Then be it.

I for one do not like stress. Life is too short to be carrying baggage of troubles.
I will peacefully leave the marriage. But its really going to hurt

Stereotype!

Not every r/ship must lead to marriage.
And its not everytime i set my eyes on a date that i should think of marriage.

When i was much younger i dated guys that were party and good time freaks but in my heart of hearts i knew i wld never get married to them.

So i guess i can date someone i know i can never marry

like i said before, its all about choice and motive. If i were looking for a keeper, a ready - made guy would be like 4th on my list.
But if i were looking for fun or material acqusition, its definitely going to be a ready made guy and it sure is going to be a "fat-wallet" Frog...... oops guy

9jia too much ooo

Its always good to have your money's worth. 2K isnt that much if you get good performance in an airconditioned environment, properly organised.
No be say upon ur 2K dem go come pack pple like fish. all manner of sweating and body odour

that would be so unfair. And its over 2 years

[Posted by: Rottweiler
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Lioness,
Thanks. That's soothing
In one of your postings you said you met one Guy from Elf. I seem to know some guys in Elf Port Harcourt. Would I be too inquisitive asking what the guy's first name is (that only). May be someone I know. /quote]

Guys even marry already made girls too. They act LOVE when
the girl  is a citizen of another country -      free citizenship
the girl has a car      ------       free motor
girl's family is politicallly connected  ----- easy access, contract and job influence
the girl who has a good job  --------      no financial hassles on him

I mean it goes on. This thingy is everywhere

hey Rottweiler

I wasnt gettin off on you bro.
I was just making a point and giving my opinion.

Geez! thats a good story. I personally dont prefer ready made guys.
I love to see my man grow through the phases of life.

hatin on your folk aint good bro.

You better check yourself before you wreck yourself

men! its easier said than done.

By the time you get used to a system that works, you'd be tooooo reluctant to carry yourself back to a disorganised system. Its even worse when u've got your family with you abroad or they've all got access to the foreign country then you dont even see any need of going back at all.

God go help us sha

i know dearie

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I`m not contradicting u lioness.But there is a time when a lady is desperate to get married,they don't look at the internal qualities.they look at outward qualities/quote]

i met a guy over 2 years ago while visiting who classed himself made.
What was his definition
He has a BMW, Owns his own house with split unit even to the toilets and works in Elf.
And has cash to burn [according to him] and that was his definition of being made. Duh!

I asked him if he had integrity, manner, if he was a gentleman and he said those didnt matter since his got cash.
How much is this cash you burn
Answer: Enough to take the ladies out and get them shopping
Is that it if you can comfortably buy a car for a girl and not have your account cry, then financially, u've got it to burn.

yeah, i heard march 2006. Funny that i say am going back home and at the same time am getting all my pple out of 9jia

Well......... lets see

Let me just say that being made doesnt give a man the right to hit a woman.
2ndly, there is a difference btw "having basic neccessity" and " being made"
Its a pity that mentality has made us believe that if a person has 10 moillion then he is made.
Readymade is a strong word and i will have to use an example.

A ready made dinner gown, fits you just right. Its so perfect on your body that you'd hardly need to put  any xtra stitch on it.
So until you show me a guy who is complete without a woman, child or love,  Then he is ready made.
But if he owns a car * whether jeep or beetle* he aint made. a car is a neccessity not a luxury
If he has a duplex, he aint made, cos he needs a house.

And who said ready made is only in material things.
An arroagnt guy without manners who own a mansion can definitely not be made in my dictionary

Character matters!!!

kool definition but u need to elaborate on the " got all it takes to make a family".
I think your definition will pass for an average man.

[Posted by: anobscase
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Your asking who a ready made man is?I think i can help out.A ready made man is a responsibbloe man ready to get marriend and have got all it takes to make a family...I think ladies go for ready made men because they think they can eat their cake and have it /quote]

Who is a ready made man

Whats the definition of a ready made man.

thanks man but ill pass.
Tell us all about it when its over yeah

me + Jim Ikye = Murder

Wow if they were in 9jia these eight years perhaps stuff would have worked for them.
Its not so easy living in these countries. Most people are not so priviledged to get good stuff to do. Others just work to pay bills bills bills. But most times it works for people

kool stuff

so how much

common Willis

It cant be that serious in Port harcourt

[Well Thank You! @fancidiva. Its not easy to find " what you want in a Place like PH"... These days men try to play the "Role" Hakeem _Eddy murphy...in coming to America, maybe thats the only way to find a woman.. not after your ready man self./quote]

my point exactly. Its a matter of choice

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I think is a matter of choice, for any woman, “ready made or unready.” or even the one “loaded with potentials”, going somewhere in the future to happen, who ever you want to pick and settle with, its up to you,  my advise will be to just pick  :DHAPPINESS !!.....regardless of where you find it, ready made or unready...  /quote]

I really don't care how nigeria is and how comfortable i am now in Uk.
Being in Uk for over 10 years doesnt make me a briton. Having a red passport doesnt make me british.
Having their fuuny accent doesnt make me acceptable.
Truth of the matter is Nigeria wont change spontaneously. I even doubt if an effective change will begin in our generation. Yet, i love that country. That is the only country i can come out and be myself.
You guys are talking about nepa and all. No one has mentioned the okada {cyclists} and the noise and air pollution from trailers on the road. People honking their cars like a dragon is behind them. In all, home is home.

I am definitely going back.
No security ----- yes but God is he that secures,
No electricity -------  Get a good generator system
No where to start from  -------  get a biz u know will work in 9jia and take it down.

ME I DEY GO ................. not so soon though. Am still loving this place.

Girl thats gooooooood talking

[one more point...... if the guy/ man in question is poor, no education, business, priorities or what so ever...... then there's no need wasting your time with him because he's a dead end...... definitely a no go area./quote]