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AwkaetitiBabe:
What's d injustice here? Him getting fired or d maid who got harassed?

The fact he is coming online to paint a conspiracy theory against his bosses maid

That right there is injustice

airminem:
livebyday HELP YOU?

Just asking

My apologies

arukwe123:
so you are a madam

No dude haha

airminem:
Yeaaaaa

As a homieeeee kindaaaa lady, I feel the most important and effective measure is attitudinal change and proffessionalism on the part of the security officers to the way they see and percieve citizens in public, and the right of a citizen too.

What did I just read?

Homie kinda lady? How old are you?

arukwe123:
I'm a guy o.

Yurk



It's all good

arukwe123:
ok. Just mind what you say online. Have a good day

Yes mummy

AwkaetitiBabe:
Guy calm down joh. This one you hammering on such, hope u not a suspect. Na thief dey know thief

Suspect of spotting Crooks yeah

Anyways just can't stand injustice

It grinds my gears that's all

arukwe123:
my question is simple. What if he was not lying. What if he did not intend to rape her. You dont pass judgment by mere assumption. Many innocent people have been killed for this reason. How sure are you?

Bro in criminology there is what is called profiling and criminal behavioral analytics

It's all in the patterns. It is possible to profile a suspect from the accounts of the victim

I can bet my entire career if you do a background search on the OP you will find curiosly he has been in surroundings where a house girl was molested

This is definitely not his first time. I can bet if you speak to his employer you will hear details you are would not believe.

THE OP IS A RAPIST AND LOOKED FOR AN IN WHICH IS HIS MODUS OPERANDI. handle IF SHE DOESN'T REACT THEN HE PROCEEDS. BUT HE NEVER EXPECTED A SCREAMER

arukwe123:
but what if the OP just made a stupid mistake and did not intend to rape her. You ask yourself that. Dont assume. Drop your contribution and move on. If he is a rapist, he will soon be caught, it is just a matter of time. So let matter rest

Bro think of this very slowly

Ask any married man around you ..

If your wife is working and you ask her honey come and eat once will you do it a second time? 99% will say no..

Now let's say you ask a second time and she say no again , will you ask a third time? No married man will ask a third time ..

Talkless of walking up to a total stranger you claim you met for the first time and placing your hand on her shoulder and saying for the third time come and eat

Not just eat from your plate o, not that she has her own plate but your plate and you ask a total stranger for a third time.this time upclose and with your hand on her shoulder?

This man is a pathological liar and he fondled her breast that was what made her scream !

He is used to doing it, it's definitely not his first time, he is the sort that uses authority to threaten a woman for forced sexual favors

I have seen enough cases like this to identify the patterns

Forget this man

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lolzz.. I think he overestimated his charm

Charms indeed

This one is a serial rapist ..Lord knows how many innocent house girls he has done this two since his secondary school days

But karma has come for him finally

arukwe123:
why you carry this matter for head like this. I blame the OP for his stupid behaviour but dont conclude like that. You dont know him to judge like that. Drop your contribution and move on.

Bro I had a friend whose house girl was raped by someone like this and infected with hiv

The poor girl never said anything out of fear till she fell ill and was taken to the hospital!

It was when test results came out we confronted her she was just 13 , after a long cajoling and questioning we found out it was the husbands younger brother who has been molesting her for months

I still get so mad anytime I remember that incident

The little girl is late today

ambassadorgozie:
i have no reason to lie,
tanx alot

Hahahahahahahaahaha

Imagine this nonsense

Better go and seek forgiveness for all your past deeds so you may get a new job coming eventually or else you will wait a very long time

AwkaetitiBabe:
A creep

Yeah

It's his type that rape his elder brothers house maid believing she will never talk out of fear of loosing her job

You asked her to eat thrice ?? Even married men don't pester their wife that much..

You nor asked her to come and rest? Where is it a hotel or an office ??

This guy is a serial rapist who has been escaping but this time.karma caught up with him

He deserves to be arrested

Acidosis:
Don't forget the rule that says you should mind your business 80% of the time. You cannot help someone by force. You asked her to rest/eat the first time and she refused. You asked again, still she refused. Why didn't you let her be?!

You told her to come and eat? Eat where? From your plate?

You told her to come and rest? Rest where? You have a bed for her?

These questions are not without an intention.

Just let go and move on. If you try to take up this case, the above statements from you will keep you in jail for at least 6 months.

Forget that rapist liar

Who asks their wife to eat three times ? Maybe once or maximum twice!! But thrice? And to add salt to the lie he put his hand on her shoulder a third time ? Someone he said he just met ?

This guy is a rapist and a pathological liar

ensamy:
Wetin carry you put hand for her shoulder. Na your friend or wifey ? Na small small e be wan start. From shoulder to breast to pussy. Go find another job and learn your lesson.

Forget that rapist liar

Who asks their wife to eat three times ? Maybe once or maximum twice!! But thrice? And to add salt to the lie he put his hand on her shoulder a third time ? Someone he said he just met ?

This guy is a rapist and a pathological liar

ambassadorgozie:
guy all dis ur yarn nd names won't fetch u money, i know i made a mistake, don't conclude bc u don't know me nd u wia not dia,
much regards nd have a great weekend

Well let me be blunt , you are uncouth , and a serial sex offender and I do hope your name gets into the sex offenders registry .

You don't deserve the job and I am glad it had been taken away .

Next time you learn to respect boundaries of ladies ..

This is something you have done in the past and gotten away with it.

Not in 2020.

Go and seek counselling there is something very wrong with you . Maybe from your secondary school days you used to molest girls ?

You claimed to be an Introvert, which is a lie because the way you went at a house maid you claimed you just met three times to east shows you are no Introvert.

You went a third time and boldly placed your had in her shoulder, another lie , you probably tried to groop her .

You should be locked away.

Cheers

DAVE5:
Bros there is no proving his innocence here, any body would stand on the girl's side on this case

Innocence is in the mind, action is the result

He asked her to rest, she refused

After an hour, he asked her to rest again, she refused AGAIN!!!

Then he stood up, from where HE was resting and eating while she was minding her business, then he went close to her(why), then he put his hand on her shoulder(who send am, for what reason, is she his girlfriend/wife, if she no eat how e take affect am)

Is that how you walk around putting your hands on every opposite sex's shoulder even when you are barely know each other

For crying out loud, she is a girl, they were alone, they are not friends according to his story, women are more fragile than men, he could overpower her.

What if he went beyond her shoulder, women bress no far from their should ohh

I would raise concerns against you if you came close to my daughter and put your hand on her shoulder even after she refused your advances several times

His continued intentions after "shoulder touching" are still only known to him alone while his actions has made a statement


I get at least five female workers, I dey fear to dey alone with them, when one was in my office, I purposely tried to leave the office door open so all cld see and I dey quick quick dismiss long talk

Very well.said

He is a closet rapist .. he doesn't respect boundaries . His day of reckoning has come , Lord knows what some ladies have suffered from him in the past

Waste not your pity on this one

Your comment is the best

Carinaflo:
From the story he told, he may not be guilty of rape but he is surely guilty of sexual harrasment.
Guys do not have the right to go about placing their hands on random ladies.
The society needs to educate young guys, we should let them know that touching someone you don't know is a form of harrasment.

I actually believe he isn't as innocent as he claims

His story does not add up , and the messages are pretty much self explanatory.

He may a penchant for touchy feely , sleepy Willy and always escaped in the past

But there is always a day of reckoning

nnamdiosu:
In as much as I sympathize with you, the truth is your story doesn't add up.
Bro trust me, there is something you aren't telling us. Eben the text message you sent to your boss is implicating you....why were you just apologising over and over again?
The fault also came from your side. Someone said she's fine, thrice you are forcing her to eat...

Anyways ..its fine. If your hands are truly clean God will defend you.
PLEASE STOP SENDING TEXT MESSAGES OF APOLOGY TO YOUR BOSS, YOUR PUTTING YOURSELF IN A MORE MESS.
may God help you. Its gonna be fine. Just breath. Breath

Habba bro he is obviously a liar

Nothing adds up about his story

Forget him , it's probably karma for an act he may have committed in the past and escaped

ambassadorgozie:
i was pleading cos i went close to her,
guy chill, i can never tink of rape or sex, how can i do so in an office,
pls don't call me names,
tanx

You do know this nonsense story doesn't make sense right ?

Boundaries exist for a reason and you clearly are used to crossing them

This is a well deserved lesson ..I have a deep feeling you are actually a molester and have escaped this heinous act in the past

ambassadorgozie:
i know, dats why i said i made a stupid mistake,
but my intent was to cajole her to eat or rest, cos she has been working since morning

By putting your hands on her shoulder?

There is something wrong with this picture .

Please sit down and read that nonsense you typed again very slowly

Your intention was to cajole a.hiuse maid by placing your hand on her shoulder? A house maid who works for your boss, whom you had earlier verbally asked to rest twice and she refused and you went a third time to cajole??

Are you sure you knew why you are employed?

ambassadorgozie:
dat was my ist time of seeing her

And you kept insisting multiple times she rest? What was your concern?

It's normal courtesy to ask someone to rest once !! not twice , talkless of a third time and putting your hands on your shoulder!

You sir are a liar

ambassadorgozie:
honestly speaking, i did not,
she wasn't dat appealing to me

This guy is a pathological liar

It's so obvious

You know that we know , so let's keep lying yeah ?

itsme01:
Please keep your unsolicited advise.. perhaps keep the advise in your home where it might be needed

trump, Davido and many other people like Makinde tweets every damn time and they are far better than you in life

so pal swallow your own advise this is the digital age.. keep your dogma to yourself

You got me wrong bro, those guys tweet not 24 hours a day, they even have people manage those accounts while they are busy making money .

Stop wasting so much time on nairaland, please time wasted can never ever regained. Think of it this way, how many hours do you see Seun the brilliant owner of this forum waste commenting ? In a month he may make only two comments .

Use your time well bro, before it's too late.

Cheers

itsme01:




This one is always talking and talking... did Alpha Beta Consulting ever came to lobby him for Tax and Auditing consulting contracts?

This one that hasnt goten a hold of how governance works busy decieving people all around the internet..

Useless PDP criminals are quick to use Price Water Cooper PWC Auditing firm because they are foriegners and bad mouth Alpha Beta doing good business accross West Africa

Even developed countries use Tax Consulting Companies, i know Dubai and Abudhabi uses Solik on tolls

I really dont blame people like Saraki and Ibori who decided not to create jobs by creating businesses instead they buy houses abroad and stock it with dollars


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Has anyone ever told you..

That you talk alot? (A Talkative)

It's not healthy for an adult to type or speak everything that resides within him or her. Having an opinion on any and everything doesn't make you smart, it just means you have alot of.time on your hands bro.

Take this advise from an elder, learn to keep quiet sometimes, just view a topic and move on, no one here what's to know what the person behind the profile itsme01 thinks .

Use your time well bro , time waits for no one, you seem to spend way too much time here, that is very unhealthy. Go out, learn a language, learn a new skill, use your time positively.

My two cents

MedicH:
You're perpetually empty. Rest son. You have a long long journey ahead of u.

You seem to want my attention..

Listen kid, using fancy words doesn't make you smart neither does acting all angst filled make you woke.

You are violating rules 2 here if you quote me again despite my asking you not to several times

We can not ever have anything to talk about, so please kindly do not quote me again... Bro!

Cheers

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MedicH:
I told that fellow to learn how to mind his business as I mind mine and flourish. I'm yet to understand why it's making u angry. You are bitter and I don't know why.

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Are you on any sort of medication?

What part of do not quote me again do you not understand?

Are you are recovering addict or something

Read this very slowly

Do not quote me again

Cheers

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MedicH:
Now tell me lol what's ur pain? Minimum wage, vat, poisonous air, lack of power or just lack of any sense of responsibility?

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You just had to talk didn't you? Do not be deceived and think there is any reality in this universe that we are mental equals..

Learn how to address your betters. You are believing the hype and getting caught up kiddo..

Walk away, don't look back, I am not one of your romance section groupies who likes to converse for the sake of.

Don't quote me again

Cheers

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MedicH:
Wimpy is not me men u got the wrong guy. I doubt if u strong in mind reach me. Have u ever held a body till it turns cold in death then u leave it and walk away like nothing happened? I am here to relax and have fun and i love my women damn this life is short. just as i love to use my brain cells in all i do. Next time u have nothing to say just lean learn to shut ur mouth and observe.


I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.

I think pocohantas is a great personality i observe her inputs here from a distance i don't even follow her but that doesn't mean im head over heals sort of and even if it is, it's not ur business.

By virtue of the number of years i spent in the uni i can say I've virtually seen and interacted with more women than u but you wont find me come here to bash women and throw in hasty generalizations not minding that my mother and only sister are female because i know better. Majority of what u read here are one sided accounts and some are fictitious but hey no one is perfect.

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Pandering trash I have read in a decade

This comment should be ripped up and tossed in the garbage

Wow

Last time I read something this inane was in junior high

Captain save a H spotted

ubunja:
wait till you see the mix-up between "being" and "been".

It grinds my gears just like where and were

pocohantas:
Yes, Nigerian girls could be parasitic. They beg for the simplest of things and I find that very embarrassing. I've had guys who I know are not into juvenile tantrums talk of their experiences, so I know these things happen.

However, some of you have good women in your lives or have met a few - but you never talk of them. Encourage the good ones kwanu! It won't reduce your alfaness.

While I may disagree with some of this ladies points ,you can't take it away from her, she is intelligent though uncouth

pocohantas:
Na our Naija sisters dey cause all this see-finish na. When person go dey beg upandan for even subscription money, pikin wey them dey pay sch fees for go come online to insult im aunty.

This touched me , truly your sisters in Nigeria fall una hand anyhow

So sad really