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teddybarz:
Not my story thou.



A lot of nigerian relationship re just men indirectly paying their girlfriend to stay wit them.
I connected my friend who is a mason nd a bricklayer to a biq excavation contract work to do in abuja kubwa where NNPC are to build a gas station. he asked to borrow 70k for fliqht ( to ensure safety cus of d country's insecurities) i loaned out d money ( actually gave 50k)
his babe played dis manipulative game on him using school tactics.. Baba disbursed his fliqht money to d girl nd decided to travel by land via GOD IS GOOD.
..i didn't hear frm him for a week, d link dat told me about the job informed me dat he missed it.
when he chatted me again, it happened to be dat baba & other passenger escaped unknown gun men ambush. Cos of a girl, he nearly lost his life.

cos of a girl he put his comfort & job opportunity in jeopardy.

cos of a girl he missed out on a job that could pay him 500k at worse

WOMEN dnt care wht u re going thru, Or what u have to prioritize or not

MEN NEVA LEARN

alizma:
The marketers were hording the product, thinking the removal of subsidy will scale through

alizma:
It is a welcome development. Make I go tell my friend to unpack his clothes because my guy been don prepare to japa once the subsidy is removed without proper arrangement in place.

Unclesmart12:
I met this girl few weeks ago online and we kinda vibed instantly, a couple of weeks later she came over to my house for weekend and we had sex the first night. I asked her about her relationship status later and she said she was in a relationship, though she doesn't love the guy.

She showed me proof of countless times she's told the guy the truth but he would always persuade her to stay with him with hope that she would warm up to him. So she stayed since he was paying the bills.

I can't tell her to leave the guy because I am not ready to pay any bills for anybody now. Just like most Nigerian girls she gets lots of calls, but one made me upset this night.

She was on call with a guy for almost an hour, from the tone of the conversation the guy might just be a friend, because the gist was centered around school and other random stuff. I felt she disrespected me by staying so long on a call and I made my feelings known when she was done. She got moody and stopped talking to me afterwards.

She finished cooking and dished mine in a separate plate even though we have been eating together since she came. She placed the food on the bed without notifying me and went on to eat hers alone. I tried to adjust and kicked the plate away breaking it in the process.

I packed the food and threw it into the trash can, she immediately went to the kitchen and dropped hers too. Took her bath and went to bed, though I know she's not sleeping.

She's supposed to go tomorrow morning and I intend deleting her contact after she leaves, however I really like her. I've not met someone I liked in a while. I don't wanna beg her since I didn't do anything wrong. Or was my reaction to the call extreme??

Should just free her or attempt talking to her?
How do I approach it without coming off as weak?

Shegzdave:
But one can act stupid without knowing

Shegzdave:
.No form of religion should be practiced.

Ilamina:
Always ready to fight

And pour their banku frustration on people

Cursed people

Miserable black stars

cosmatika:
This must be the fastest judgement in the history of the zoological Republic.
Chidinma still dey catwalk dry go court for almost a yr.
The guy that killed that female job seeker in Akwa Ibom we no hear anything again.
MNK's case is been postponed everyday.
But this one within a week, court finds him guilty

omenkaLives:
That's how they hide under Yoruba pseudonyms to perpetrate crimes.

Very typical.

Scientists:
Are you saying that she wants to ride me? I wouldn't mind doing that with her Sha.

Scientists:
Thanks. You have a nice ass though. Is that your picture?

Blackfire:
This was the smokes that started the fire of civil war...operation wetie... jailing of awo for treason and succession... the mumu coup that decimated our wonderful leaders in the North and the counter coup... the the civil war...


Anyway whatever you southerners are planning...know this that 2023 is North ...or should I say North2023 North2023 North2023 North2023

And in ur mind now you have make sense?

Because this is one of the senseless sh*t have seen.




Anyways I sell cows o

GoodHardDick:
Let today be the first and last time you'll ever quote me again on Nairaland!

ALFADOS:
IS THAT SO, SO WEARING A LEG CHAIN WHILE YOU ARE MARRIED MEANS YOU ARE AVAILABLE, U DONT MEAN IT. I DON LEARN SOMETHING TODAY

GoodHardDick:
Ask them they'll say it's for fashion, not knowing it's ashawo and runz girls that wear leg chains

KillIgbohoN0W:
Yes o.
I stopped watching Netflix series a long time ago. Even the movies, I screen out any gay movie.


The most disgusting thing about these gays is how they are really trying to force it down our throats by fire by force.

huptin:
This is a professional way of accepting criticism, there are too many stories that can sell Nigeria to the world. Chief Daddy 2 attempted to sell Dubai to Nigeria, come on!

GoodHardDick:
And the idiot wants to be president of Nigeria?

What a joke!!

SEXONLY:
You should stop doing what will make her flogging you Respect your madam and be a good boy.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

lalasticlala..

Cashsteady:
Let's be real honest.. Nigerian girls ain't really pretty.. they all got fat ugly faces all looking like men..na only few fine small..


Still don't know how Nigerian girls makes the list of most beautiful women in Africa.. I don't find Nigeria girls pretty .. my opinion!

agulion:
Yoruba Muslims consume alchole more than hausa Muslims, rip to Saheed

TiredLividSoul:
My life is a bundle of struggle for as long as I can remember. From childhood days. I have been battling a financial crisis resulting from my inability to secure a high paying job. I am not a graduate but I am highly skilled and resourceful when it comes to digital skills. Ps, Ai, I'd etc. Currently learning cloud computing but it's not being easy.

My rent is late with no means of renewal. I might be ejected by month-end.

I am ready to give what I have to get what I want (money).

Someone once said Ceddi plaza is a good place for men to find women ready to pay for sex at night. And that they pay thousands of Naira per night. Anyone with experience?

I need this or similar hustle to keep a roof over my head for the next couple of months.

Please don't criticize, preach or condemn. If you can not help, please don't bother commenting.

Thank you.

Goodbadbowy419:
Ohhh shit talk

Those guys are ritualist not yahoo boys
Real niggarr don’t kill to get the big bag � we use our brain �

OldNairalander:
Someone should please recommend a drug that will specifically kill the X sperm cell.
I don't wanna birth a bitch

Vickym1:
What happens to ranch? Must they bring this grazing back?

bendaniel1616:
I grew up with my grandmother till the age of 9 years before I moved to my father house with his new wife , I didn't know anything about my own mother , I continued my primary and secondary school there but I was treated like a maid when I was staying with my father I do lot of works than normal , until a faithful day I decided to run out of the house to struggle and survive , cos I see no bright future staying with them , I failed my waec the first time my father said he didn't. Have money for now for another exams , just few years after I left the secondary school I manage to run out of the house, God helped me a little I was able to achieve few of my aims , I did another exams and passed , graduated from higher institution, went for my NYSC , God showed me some love , I was able to build a small house which I'm staying now , even though it's not yet completed, but I give thanks to God , I didn't tell him when I started the house because he doesn't have one yet , he will want me to build for him first , it was latter when I started staying there he got to know , I guess he wasn't happy with it , because he said he is one supposed to be staying there not me , when I don't kno anything about my mother I have asked many times , but keeps giving me different stories, he couldn't locate her anymore even with her family , what amazed me is that he is a man of God . He decided not to visit me in the house with wife , cos I've invited them once , they want me to give them the small property I suffered for , and I'm yet to get married I'm 35, no kids , no wife , and he is not really bothered, assuming my mother is there I know my life cant be like that , now I'm living like a ghost no family member, and you hardly get married to a good woman without your parents based on Nigeria culture, please friends what do you suggest I can do , it's a very long story , just decided to brief it a title .they all refused to come to my side, they only want me to be coming to see them .

Ryda:
Let's replace the word rugged with antonyms that fits.
Seems o.p don't have clear understanding of the meaning of the word rugged