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Don't do it.

You are setting your self up for mega problems in the future

The most erotic part of the body is never used by a lot of people.

Use it and things might change. .

Hmm.....

If that's the way it is, you need to start thinking of an exit strategy.

There is a being difference between a s.l.ut and a wh..ore.

He is turning you into the latter and you need to leave as it will affect your relationship with your bf.

So what's the problem. ...

There was nothing to see.

Could have been an optical illusion

Very interesting rules. ..

Wonder if they keep the rules when they get married and have kids.

remedick:
I have got eyes for really stunning beauty. I don't mean "just there" beauty. However, it's hard to find girls with this kind of beauty who have taste for learning things, adding skills, trying to compete with men, doing things men do.

The only thing most have to offer is just that beauty, to paint their faces, makeup, do hair, party, watch Kim and her useless family, follow celeb news and gossip 247.

You would hardly see one that has interest in politics, business, tech,one that like hustling for her own money without depending on a man.

I do not mean to insult anyone here. It's just my observation.

You have been mixing with the wrong ladies.
There are loads around, but you need to find them.
Most might actually be at their respective homes reading

Originalsly:
Not saying right or wrong.... but men cheat because of ONE basic reason.... one woman cannot satisfy all his ehmmm... desires. A man may want just 5 attributes in a woman.... 1. same faith 2. a humble woman 3. can satisfy him in ehmmm... the other room ... 4. a good cook and 5.a woman with the physical attribute that sexcites him...
long legggs.. whatever.
It is soooo difficult to find all 5 in one woman... so he settles with the one with the most... 3 attributes. Love it or not... the other two must be met. .. he may find them in a single side chick... or one each in different side chicks. Wrong or right...it's the nature of man!

So do we think women find all they want in one man.
But they are meant to accept the one person and overlook the fact that she might not be enough for him.

Interesting

I wonder how the girls found out?
And how they managed to walk into the police station to report the crime.

It's brave....I hope it's not a hoax

CoolFreeday:
Some people are wicked. they will come here do anyhow they like and subject our people that are behaving well in their place to ill-treatment. I hope the Police won't let him go..

But how was he wicked?

The girls should have told him no bare back. But they allowed him the privilege why?

No one can look after your health but you.

Both parties are culpable. There are risks and there are risks.
Please play safe

3rdlegxxx:
Now that sounds even more creepier

I meant they are loads of people out there with similar minds.

It's what makes the fabric of life soo interesting.

3rdlegxxx:
U sound too much like a female version of me, that is just weird and creepy, noticed like 3 of your posts and it's totally like what i'd say, anyways enjoy

Haha. ...we are not alone...

But no one ever mentions or complains when the man gets fat and pot bellied.

Nothing sexy there at all

Isn't it possible not to show up immediately?
Just asking question

Nigayoyo:
seriously bro, I wanted her to fully refine herself before looking for intelligent guys. For example, I also wanted an intelligent girl so I knew I needed to improve my IQ. Also I won't want a girl with big tummy so I eat boiled fish, boiled chicken without the skin, steamed lettuce and spinach, and coconut oil-made omelette every day in order to maintain a flat tummy. I don't eat rice, beans, yam, and other starchy foods.

Most often than not, humans expect what they can't give. There's more to life than that jare.

You should eats beans....to reduce starchy food eat more protein and exercise.

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

Hi

27 is not old.
Marriage is not a bed of roses....you want the fairytale the reality is different.

To meet intelligent guys you need to be in the right place. Also your intelligent guy, could be known to you already.

Lust fades.....you must have other things to talk about.

Intelligence sometimes doesn't have a lot of letters after their name.
Open yourself up

ADBOK:
THIS IS OBVIOUSLY A WELL TOLD REAL LIFE STORY, YOUR STORY. THE THING IS YOU ARE HEADED EXACTLY FOR THAT DESTINATION YOU NOW MORBIDLY DREAD - FORTY AND STILL FLIPPANT! YOU SEE GOD IS NOT WICKED. NATURALLY WHEN A LADY CLOCKS 21 YEARS OF AGE, THE TENDENCY IS FOR HER TO SEEK SOME FORM OF COMPANIONSHIP THAT MEANS YOU HAVE HAD 6 GOOD YEARS TO PICK AND CHOOSE AND YET HERE YOU ARE. MY INFERENCE IS YOU REALLY DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED, YOU DON'T WANT SOMEONE YOU CAN HAVE A BIT OF A STRUGGLE WITH TO BRING ABOUT LASTING ENDURING BOND. YOU WANT THE PERFECT MAN EVEN THOUGH YOU WRITE OTHERWISE! THINK ABOUT THIS, WHAT IF THAT STRUGGLING NOT TOO 'NEAT' FELLOW JUST AROUND IN YOUR NEIGHBOURHOOD IS THE DESIRE OF GOD FOR YOU, WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO SETTLE WHOLEHEARTEDLY WITH THAT CHOICE? STOP LETTING PEOPLE HERE DECEIVE YOU, GOD IS NOT BRINGING ANYMAN FOR YOU DEAR, HE'S PROBABLY BROUGHT HIM AND YOU REJECTED HIM BECAUSE "YOU COULDN'T LOVE HIM". SAD...

I know you are trying to make a point ...but all capitals.

Beauty is skin deep.

And remember beauty lies in the eye of the beholder

Dfrenzy:
Thanks, but? it's still somehow, Abi?

I think the guy likes this woman and is actually looking for some kind of signal.
No harm there. ....
But you know that the password could also men s*it .

So don't read anything into it

livyhorsy:
I asked her to wash clothes, she said she cant wash, what do I do?

Wash your clothes your self!!

Why are you reading any meaning into her pw.

It's her password and she can use what she wants.
Don't spoil the dynamic of your friendship if she isn't interested in you that way.

More reason to follow more than 5.

They might not be looking to marry .