₦airaland Forum

Jovialjune1:
Personality disorder is real, the ability to shift goal post at will, depending on where the wind blows per week, is a constant reoccurance for them boys here

All of a sudden, baby mamaism isn't the IN thing anymore to nl resident males, I thought y'all said it is better to have kids outside marriage than marrying Nigerian ladies?

What happened to "Marriage doesn't benefit men only women" regular banter on here? I guess sensibility chooses when it will manifest once in a blue moon, before going back to default daftness and senselessness that is rampant for y'all

Bleh......

Coming from a married woman that would crawl and beg her husband not to kick her out cause she stole her mother in-law's jewelry.

You women need to learn to think with your heads instead of your clits, you're making evil seem good and misleading the younger generation.

WannaHowzit:
I know you must be shattered your white idols are smackdowning each other in the RSA.

I wonder if you'll still believe in god and pray to whiteness after this devastating footage for any housenigga ☹️☹️☹️☹️

Do leave a suicide note, I'll make a thread out of it... I promise.

Sorry bro, as a Christian I don't really do what you want of me today. But I will put you in my prayers today. Thank you!

WannaHowzit:
I wonder how digital houseniggas like parrot69 lorenzobanks mysticwarrior localstandard1 chaos14 beanx are gonna take this news of the gruesome White-Idol GBV Ultra Smackdown on each other.

I thought only "Zulu black slaves" were violent in SA - according to these Japagerians ☹️☹️☹️

cc JaceBlaze IronGalaxy

My man how's you do?
I know you really do not want to have it from me, I know that!

We good?! Good!!

Trollronaldo:
you people don't know anything.

I caught you!!

Now I know your real intentions with this post. Bye!!

Trollronaldo:
Dude, it seems Nigerians are.

Jesus Christ can lose an election in this country

You've committed two wrongs here.

1. Your fear seem genuine but it's demeaning, highly pessimistic and demoralizing.

2. You can definitely make your point without bringing up Christ Jesus to your discuss. I don't know if you're a believing, practicing Christian but that's highly disrespectful.

But let me shock you! I am seeing Hausa Muslim Keke, okada riders now with Labour Party flags on their vehicles like there's no tomorrow. Let me shock you again with a promise.

The biggest surprise will not be in the South even but the very North. It sounds too outreaching but as a keen observer of society and activities take it from me. Don't forget the North now has the highest undecided and undisclosed voters in all the polls conducted. Nigerians may not generally care the tribe the President comes from as long as he's the better, workable choice.

Stay tuned!

atheistandproud:
Seen and ignored.

Ad hominem is the refuge of the intellectually stunted.

I love that you specified your post is to a Nigerian audience. Wonderful one!
Sadly the people up there you argue with are Western, woke wannabes so your post repulses them.

Sadly this conversation you put up is even very much the topic of discuss in the Western world today too. What does Jordan Peterson, Putin, Andrew Tate, Donald Trump, even Elon Musk have in common?
They all talk about and agree about your very points. They are all recent converts to conservatism.

But there is nothing wrong with agreeing you are a conservative, after all is said and done conservatives will be the last standing on this earth.

Welcome to the family!

Donjazet2:
You are listing what you believe is a problem but you are not listing solutions..

As for me personally, I'm interpreting your post as call to conservatism as against modern liberalism which is a bit weird coming from an atheist who is by default supposed to be liberal by experience.

Your post can even be construed as an attack on gay people seeing as they don't conform to the "traditional marriage setting". Am I right in these my conclusion of your post's?

Again I ask you to present a solution to the perceived problem you've diagnosed.

He outrightly presented the solution. Outrightly!!

Do you even read? If you did you won't ask the question. Or the post is too complex you can't even understand?!

atheistandproud:
I'm not a psychologist but I know how to to read the room. I understand how a lot of how many Nigerians argue. I also know how women also argue.

For most people, it's not about what message is being passed across. It's about how they feel. So when someone is deliberately trying to put words in your mouth, it's not that difficult to see where they're headed.

Back to the typical Nairaland style of argument, they'll pick the area of the message that touches them, twist it out of proportion and then corner the argument that way. If you allow yourself to be sucked out of your message, soon you'll find yourself trapped in an area that you didn't even write.

If the shoe does not fit, then they won't come after you.

If you notice, she kept sidestepping and conveniently ignoring all the other reasons presented as well as the evidence which she herself requested for.

When it comes to Homosexuality and Transgenderism, woke people will quote science and peered review journals stating that we have 1000+ genders. When it comes to the adverse effects of single mother homes on young children, the defenders of single motherhood will bury their heads in the sand. Pretending not to see the science or the peer reviewed journals.

The subset of single mothers that are quickly rising are also turning out to be one of the most vocal. I have a nurse friend in her late 30s/early 40s who is looking to have a child out of wedlock to raise by herself. I have another teacher acquaintance in her late 20s who never wants to get married but wants two children by the time she is 40. Both are very strong feminists as well as being highly educated. When I present the studies about single parent homes to them, they switch up on me to make me look like the bad guy. I know some stupid guy somewhere will impregnate them for free and they'll discard him.

Seeing how she switched from divorce to single motherhood gave the game away. When she began comparing spousal abandonment to deliberate babymama hood, I knew she had no intention to have a honest conversation. I clocked out. Reading the links that she sent me only served to strengthen my resolve.

My message was simple: Destroying a family, destroys our society. Many of the damaged young people below 25 were raised in families with absentee parents. Even in 2 parent homes where one or both parents are absent, the children turn out badly. I simply outlined why the family unit is breaking down and why the broken products of these marriages will go on to break their own children.

She took it and spun it around to be a witch-hunt, shaming and scapegoating of single mothers. Something which I didn't have in mind at all.

Sorry for quoting everything but I have to.

Never you answer that lady! She knows absolutely nothing about live just extremely woke garbage which she spew on a steady.

What you wrote here is absolutely true. I am a leaving breathing experiment.

Sometimes I thank God for not letting me meet my mother alive I would have made sure she regretted having outside wedlock. It is lonely and it is painful. I am living it!

Every child must have the privilege of knowing his father, every child must have the opportunity of being born and grow in a standard home. Selfish, self-centered generation of today like that lady will disagree.

That's wickedness! Take it from someone living the experience.

Kobojunkie:
My intentions, made clear by the fact that I chose there to ask a question, is to understand your argument as it seems your major belief is that a family is a marriage and when divorce happens, the family itself collapses, posing a risk to society itself? Is this correct?

You disagree with everything under the sun, Miss I-definitely-know-it-all!

halima83:
Just imagine the reaction in Nigeria will be.

I saw your post about an hour ago, I didn't reply then but I want to reply you now.

Do you support the activities of the Fulani terrorists? Or do you even deny they're Fulani?

No you can't!

Then do you agree about what the Sheikh said that the so called Bandits are friendly and nice and we should just meet their requests upon kidnap? Are you okay with the activities of the terrorists, kidnapers and Bandits?

If your answers are no then you should not and never compare this Pastor that has never supported or been caught doing evil with Sheikh Gummi the terrorists sympathizer and aider.

Fulani terrorists are dealing with people in Zamfara, Kaduna, Benue and many other States even in the SE and SW. Remember you might be caught in their trap irrespective of your tribe or religion.

Landowner101:
Since the post has been brought back, I revert all my evil words in this thread against Nairaland, I just hate oppression.

# Peace

The last time I really really lambasted someone it was a South African here. It was so bad the guy ran and never replied me. That's how bad my mouth is. I went back and apologized to him and edited the very offensive comments.

But in the future, you see that El'rufai video? It will be confirmed to be real and true.

Thank you Seun and Mnyd44 for atleast bringing it back and instead closing it. Tomorrow it can be used for reference, than deleting the hard intellectual work.

I was never taught to swear or curse so I won't but I am neither Igbo nor Hausa or even Yoruba. My tribe is just a tiny bit of Nigeria many never and will probably never know it exists.


But I talk here cause I hate oppression. I have been punched in the mouth and had a broken tooth defending a Hausa Muslim, almost got stabbed with a rusted dagger in the process. I hate oppression! That why it seems I am Igbo, cause I defend them here. I will do same for Yoruba even Fulani.

My actions are not personal here. They are for the good and betterment of Nigeria. Still I don't attack others for their own views and if I do I retract.

Naptu2 I am still waiting for the full original video then. Prove me wrong!

I made a post with a video of El'rufai saying Tinubu is old. Now I can't see my post. Why? Did I lie of formulate the obvious truth?

What offence did I commit? Have I ever insulted anyone here without asking for forgiveness and going back to edit the post before? Have I ever not been civil even with plenty insults here before?

If I made an offense or broken a rule then ban me for a hundred years, I'll outlive it, than removing my work without a reason or notification. It's my sweat!

Doing that has made me loose hope in the country and its process. If even Nairaland will do that to me here then does Peter Obi even stand a chance in this very very corrupt system?

Since you want to forcefully retire me here then thank you and bye bye!!

descarado:
You don't know that guy.
You maybe new here.

I've been here for almost a decade. His twisting of obvious truth is surprising cause I thought he was unbiased and neutral.

His weak defense is very shocking. Even Naptu2? Wonderful!!

Is there any other person here that hears Hausa? Please help us translate it in your own sentence.

naptu2:
The link is right there on my post. In fact, it's in the first sentence.

Your your video is even shorter than mine. Your video says completely different thing from mine, yours is a different topic entirely.

Na so unna want punish Nigeria? What did we do to you people? How did more than 200 million people offend you?

naptu2:
Here's a link to the longer video by El-Rufai. The screenshots are below.

In Mallam @elrufai ‘s words (Translated)

“I have spoken to Tinubu @officialABAT even before primaries that I don’t want any position.

But he said I want you to help me and I assured him that we will help him but he should know I don’t want any position because I’m tired” /1 pic.twitter.com/7jLiG3aEoZ

— Inside Kaduna (@InsideKaduna_) November 19, 2022

You are a fraud my friend. I just watched your video and even that one is just over a minute long, and I can still translate that one for you word for word. That video is definitely a lamentation about Tinubu and his many woes even the one you posted.

But you said if truly he, El'rufai, doesn't want appointments why did Tinubu take him to the Chatham house for Tinubu's own debate and dishing him questions ment for himself?

Make unna dey fear God oh? There are more than 200 million people in Nigeria and this is who you're rooting for?

naptu2:
Here's a link to the longer video by El-Rufai. The screenshots are below.

In Mallam @elrufai ‘s words (Translated)

“I have spoken to Tinubu @officialABAT even before primaries that I don’t want any position.

But he said I want you to help me and I assured him that we will help him but he should know I don’t want any position because I’m tired” /1 pic.twitter.com/7jLiG3aEoZ

— Inside Kaduna (@InsideKaduna_) November 19, 2022

Heaven!!! So you still find a way to argue this video? Then where is the original longer one?

We're really in trouble in this country!

Robinmido:
Bro calm down you will see na

I hear Hausa well well, I don't think anyone in his right senses will watch this video and still argue. I doubt it!

Robinmido:
They'll still say na doctored video. Foolish people

This is a video from the Horse's mouth.

Let someone else that knows Hausa watch the video and confirm my interpretation in their own sentence.

It has been translated to English in the video so you can watch.

<snip>
He said in Hausa....

"Now that you've gotten to this age you should thank God and allow others take over because your strength is gone. That's how I see it but some people don't agree. Even the Asiwaju refused to listen, we've been arguing about it. Even two days ago that we sat together we continued to argue with him about it....."

Watch the video from Reno Omokri's own YouTube channel, with translation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w9PjkWw5sFM

SWATMan:

Ayam surrendered!

Moh247:
Says the Supporter of international thief

This is your Lord and Master Tinubu as mentioned by the Pandora papers.

https://nationaldailyng.com/pandora-papers-tinubus-london-house-in-tax-haven-scandal-diezani-connected/?amp=1

https://parrotnigeria.com/tag/pandora-papers-efcc-opens-probe-of-tinubu/

OP be careful what you ask for. See these ones now!

I personally predicted this on many occasions. It will get to the urban areas soon. Watch out!

Walai:
1. When you talk of Peter OBI you're talking of a governor that retired powerful Anambra cabals that kidnapped a sitting governor

2. When you talk of Peter OBI you're talking of a governor that single handedly won a statewide election with a party that cannot boast of a single local government councillor in Anambra state

3. When you talk of Peter OBI you're talking of a governor that was impeached twice and He fought back and regained his mandate

3. When you talk of Peter OBI you're talking of a governor that personally supervised the pulling down of mansions belonging to kidnappers and criminals ( no state governor in his time can dare it).
Even Evans the Kidnapper escaped to Lagos when Anambra became too hot for him

4. When you talk of Peter OBI you're talking of a governor that handled MASSOB without making a noise about it

Peter OBI's gentle disposition should not be joked with, He's a lion

Good one! It is that Peter Obi that I speak of.

Tell me more!

Moh247:
With any plan?! Atleast Tinubu built an Independent power plant in Lagos .. what did Obi build in 8 years

If you want us to talk about Peter Obi I will happily indulge you. But I will not lower myself or Peter Obi by comparing him with the biggest fraud in Nigeria today, even his name is repulsive to me.

Thank you.

Moh247:
Nigeria needs refinery

More River and Seaport

Atleast 5000 mega wat of distributed power to the existing lines

Okay. I Like that you're now talking constructively.

Peter Obi promised to do the second and even extent the National grid to 20,000. Will you vote for him to do all that?

But you started the insults now? While he only insulted your parents you insulted an entire region.

Why are you then complaining?