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jay1409:
Good evening everyone. I hope you are all doing fine? I'm bored and I want someone to talk to, someone to make connections with. Feel free to comment and let's talk. Thank for your attention to this matter

so sorry to hear.
but there are quite a number of healthy ways to deal with boredom before it escalates to other life threatening details..
I'd really like to share a few details with you if you dont mind..

Hamachi:
I had the opportunity to sit on an interview panel recently, and all I can say is—many of you are simply not ready for the job market.

Let me break this down:

You couldn’t answer basic interview questions, yet when asked if you had any questions, you’re asking, “Is there any other role apart from the one advertised?” Are you here for a job or shopping around?

During the interview, you were literally pressing your phone while being asked a question. I had to call your attention before you awkwardly tucked it between your legs. Really?

You say you currently earn ₦750k, yet you’re interviewing for a role that pays ₦300k. Make that make sense. Why are you here?

You casually told the panel that your current job is your “Plan A,” and this one is “Plan B.” Since it’s a hybrid role, you’d use your free time to run your personal business. So, you’re applying for a backup plan?

You claimed to be a CFO in your previous job, but you couldn’t explain the most basic accounting principles. How does that add up?

Again, you couldn't answer key questions, but you're confidently asking if there are other positions available? Focus on the one you're failing at first.

Your sister called during the interview, asking to speak to the panel because you’re running late for a church program? Is this a job interview or a family meeting?

You said your Excel skill is 8/10, but when given a simple task, you were frozen—just staring at the screen saying, “I’ve forgotten it.” 🤦🏽‍♂️

Please, if you’re going to attend interviews, come correct.
Dress well, prepare well, act like you want the job, and most importantly—respect the process.

One thing I would do to check professionalism and confidence then was, drag them out of the pre-meditated questions and answer and dabble into reality. You immediately see them stuttering..

Someone who claimed to have good knowledge of excel spreadsheet was asked to add 1 to 100 on a spreadsheet and re-save the file in his or her name, they still miss such simple task.

At a point I kept questioning my sanity till I pleaded with a friend to handle the interview while I pose around the hall like an applicant to see if we had been fair all along. Behold, it was just all a scam on the part of the applicants.

I just had to settle for “learn on the job” tactics.

10thTenthMan:
But she is correct.

If a man does not care, then he does not bother you.

This is a fact.

The question can then be, ''What type of man goes out, comes back and sees his house in a mess with a wife at home and does not care''?

Show me that man, and I will show you a low value man without discipline. A man without a strong, respectable network of friends. A man without shame. A man without order in his life. A man who does not demand accountability because he himself lacks it. A man she will call a whimp and she will eventually cheat on with someone who demands accountability from her.

As per a man bickering with women, she is also correct.

A sensible man creates boundaries and enforces them, and never renegotiates them. Calling out a boundary MUST NOT INVOLVE Shouting and quarrelling. Don’t get into arguments with her, especially with logic and facts. Tell her once and enforce it. Remove time, remove resources, remove protection, remove provision, remove validation. No reaction/overreaction IS YOUR TRUE WEAPON. But how do you do these things when you do not have value way above her. If you can be easily replaced, then all you have is your self resect. Keep that intact and walk away from a woman who does not respect your boundaries. You are a man and easily manipulated to lose emotional control with someone you are to lead? Don't bring yourself down to that level. Why should I waste energy speaking with logic to a brain and mind run by emotions? Choose your words wisely. Not too much talk. Don’t argue like a child.

And when the “I don’t care attitude” extends to her feelings, she changes his name to “insensitive man”. When the “I don’t care” is extended to finances, you see them brooding about..

There is nothing anyone wants that the society does not have to offer. But if you can’t tolerate a man at his weaknesses you obviously don’t deserve him at his best..

May God save us from known and unknown evil.

Sirmwill:
You were probably not using it heavily


Like for 3 to 4 to 5days in a row without switching off the device for a while

Exactly.
there is a point you get so used to samsung that you will find it very difficult to cope with many other devices. I sometimes use my samsung phone for months without putting it off for a day, and i don't get to bother about how many apps left on.

the truth is, you have to be mindful of your chipset as much as you are worried about phone overheating especially if you live in an area with poor network reception. This same poor network also have effect on you battery health as consequence of hotness. snapdragon 650 upwards is the jerk if you consider poor reception where you live without it posing strong effect on your battery health and tremendous hotness..

All I see in this is mental derailment associated with drug influence. Mental evaluation is strongly advised…

May I remind you that Borno state is like headquarter of drugs in Nigeria at the moment, I have had encounter with a youth from Bama, who who ran away from rehab to hang around with randy friends for months in Wuse 2, Abuja.

Same youth ran out of Abuja claiming drugs is not freely dispatched and confidently sold like they had in Borno state.

May God save us from known and unknown evil.

SmartPolician:
If a child of 7 cannot run errands for the house, when exactly will he learn how to run errands? Perhaps when he's 18? Almajiris who are much younger even sleep by the roadside, begging across Nigeria. Anyways, rest in peace to the boy!

Likewise if your son cannot die by being knocked down by overzealous drivers at the age of 7, when exactly would be the perfect time for a male gender to die?? Probably at 30? A 30 year old demise is often celebrated all over south south space, so it’s actually not a big deal for you to loose a child at tender age..

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Rich and valuable based on your perception. His wealth might have attracted value to him and sadly, the value the woman reserved for fidelity was beyond she had for his wealth..

That is not value. Every man has a price.
A valuable person is indispensable regardless..

Amechi is a grass-root politician. I was privilege to have direct interaction with him sometimes in Port Harcourt. By then he would rather ride himself on a power bike than have such a long entourage. Except when it is protocol. He had equally been seen at IA restaurant alone without security..

That’s what Nigerians have been passing through for other 10 years without help. Now that it got to your turn, u want something to be done about it.

You all locked Nigerians’ present and future up for as long as it takes God to deliver Nigerians from your heartlessness and greed..

Jiawex:
My people,
Abeg,help we with phone to get please oo,I have to get the phone tomorrow,my samsung S22,has lines all through and my husband is against used iphones.
Budget is 200/300k
Not a fan of Redmi,techno or infinix,but now I have no choice.which model can i get with 5g,good camera n doesnt hang?

The reviews on youtube are not helping atal,you will see[e go still hang noni]
Honestly,just 😫 😩 😪.

Thanks as I await your recommendations.

But you can actually change the screen of that you S22 perfectly and still enjoy it for a couple of years while u save up for another phone conveniently. S22 is a good phone and would still be relevant in technology market in years to come.

With around 150k, u should have a perfect screen replacement without glitches and still enjoy that lovely phone

Jiawex:
Thanks man,I appreciate but i don't want used phones

I have iphone 15 pro 256G, (Brand new) for 1.4M

Samsung S23 ultra 1M (Brand new)

Redmi note 13, 8G Ram, 128G storage, android 14. (Brand new) 260,000.00

I have this Infinix Zero 20. 13G Ram, 256G storage, fully equipped with AI engineering, face recognition, fingerprint, voice recognition, 160MP back camera (one the best), 60MP selfie camera. 4500Mah camera that last for 2 days. Clean untampered direct UK.

180k

This is broad day light murder and hatred taken too far. I am 90% certain that the people that perpetrated this evil knew these were hunters and not kidnappers. It was intentional that they carried out the evil acts before arrival of whatever could stop them.

May God save us from known and unknown evil.

Meanwhile, they can be fished out of police covering that area are not biased or decided to support/cover up evil acts.

From Vigilante checkpoint to false alarm by the vigilante and..

It's a matter of time, the video will surface online. Especially at content section..

Kobojunkie:
Which America would that be? Does breaking the law run in the blood of your family abi wetin? https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/youthrules/young-workers/non-ag-14-15

This one again??

You have 5 monikers on this platform and you are constantly blocked for your impunity and misconduct. Then you easily switch to another.. please argue with your next door neighbours..

Even America that you all shout and carry their laws on your head, my wife's cousin, a girl of 14 years that used to fry chicken for me while they were living at Aja before they relocated abroad last year is allowed to work in a restaurant as a kid, she earn 5 dollars per hour and exempted from tax because she's a minor. She works for 4 hours daily.

SalamRushdie:
Can you see what Nigeria has done to you ? We keep supporting the wrong thing just because money is involved ...a child working in an illegal mine shouldn't be celebrated but rather his parents should be chastised

Married men
Traditional marriage - Bill
Wedding: Billing
Family accomodations - Billing
Pampers - Billing
Food stuff - Billing
Children sch fees - Billing
Husband relatives - Billing
Inlaws - Billing

And when the gen z generation want to talk, una go say marriage na wash, na baby mama be una choice, here u come and you want to have unrestricted access that only married men are entitled to, bro, just take whatever u get as privilege not your right and move on.. u want to enjoy always on browsing when u know u only subscribed to a time band sub.

Nothing like hookup, she only showed you reality of life bro..

Bitcoinking1:
Recent I wanted to have S3x with my girlfriend but you told me I have to pay her first, I was very surprised because she never told me such but since she went for her HND and always come back every weekend, any time I demand for S3x, she always has different excuses to give me just to decline me s3x.
I'm now beginning to suspect if she is now into hookup at school.
Guys what do you think, is my girlfriend now into hookup?

emperor4love:
Should be in school not in mines sniffing toxic and having contact with harmful metals

And to be in school in Nigeria of 2025 na bread and beans abi? If I have to encourage Nigerian youth, my first advice would be to take advantage of every opportunity. This is a goal many of your graduates and even well learned civil servants pursued endlessly for the entire life without success. And would you have stopped him from this if he happened to be your immediate younger one??

Why the worries na? Those are brothers exchanging handshakes in their common language..

In a country where some people, some vagabonds, mobs, nonentities who can't even sustain an exemplary etics of credible and sane governance, people who can't even effectively manage a typical African home with fairness, sincerity and humanity expected of a leader, were selectively made to champion decisions in a country full of renowned professors from various folds of discipline.

Majority of our lawmaker are capital disgrace to Nigeria as a country and Nigerians as citizens.

What more have one not seen within Nigerian Senate walls?? 'Slapping senator', 'Ubber attacker senator'.. all these attitude makes one to question the efficacy of that process that peg the wings of Senate on their shoulders.

This case of Natacha is a clear eye opener.

Subtle method of preplanned bully. Quite a shame and unfair!

Judgement without justice, conviction without trial..

May God safe us from known and unknown evil.

Sageez:
Hey guy!

Baby things are very expensive.
Aside baby bath and drawer, below are the items we got.

N/B Delivery items ain't included, I asked yesterday and I was told it is approximately 50k

You should have simply said Prople should stop getting married..

Meanwhile, your village people might have been all over your wife now if she hadn't conceived..

Double standards here and there..

Itiskdg121:
Thank you for this.
I wish we are friends

Do u base in Abj??

So, you are smart for your mind be that oh. Were all these things you just highlighted as excuses to unleash your premeditated evil towards this lady not there when u started with her?? And I want to believe she must have interacted kindly with you on financial grounds, out of love and pity for your condition in the cause of your sexual exploitation period with her.

Just fear God in all you do and do onto others what is expected to be done to you or your loved ones.

Whenever a man have to struggle and can't find a tangible point to hold onto in laying off a partner, it's a clear indication that such woman is a good woman.

Karma no de miss address bro. My humble advice..

Rhymesy:
I am currently in a dilemma,I don't know the step to take. I came across a lady last year October after defending my Bsc .We started flowing with each other to the extent we fall in love for each other. As times goes ,I realized that she was not privilege to further her education.My love for her began to decay. After my defends,my parents have not been sending me money again and life began to be tougher for me. She is working in fast food restaurants as a manager of the restaurant and her brother is in Malta and do sent her funds.She has contributed to my wellbeing both financially and materially. I have attempted to break up with her for 3 times but each time I planned I couldn't do it because I still have a soft touch for her. I constantly told her if a good man comes her way that she should consider because I currently don't have the financial capacity to proceed her marital rites all these are just excuses to make her have a second thought about me. I stop sleeping with her since last year December because I don't want to exploit her any longer. The truth of the matter is that this lady is older than me. I am currently 29 while she is 32. I don't know the step to take because I don't want her to be devastated and sad. Please nairalanders , I need you guys help.

"Ohun ti eniyan ko ni je, a kii fi runmu" meaning Wetin person no go chop, e no dey bring am close to in nose. It's a factual Yoruba adage.

Just wait and watch how you get addicted to porn. By the time you develop a strong passion for the job. We are waiting for that time you will come seeking help here if you would be bold enough to when that time surfaces..

you just spoke my mind!
sheer display of desperation. They will show up tomorrow to quote one section of the law that says on no account should you replace a man who has never been found wanting of any crime with a suspect facing a federal trial...

helinues:
Table the motion of Kanu's release at the Senate if you are not a coward