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plaindealer:
I used to think this is a religious cult, but after watching their propaganda videos and seeing their military stance and profile, it's safe to conclude that the FG did the right thing by curtailing their activities. This is a clear and present danger that the FG must nip in the bud ASAP.

Their parades are well organized professionally structured with tall and well-built members with obvious strong military training, even the women are not left out.


This is more than a religious cult/


This is definitely not a religion, this looks more like a state within a state and a non-state military outfit within Nigeria.

God bless you. It takes an ample wisdom to understand the potential threat of a particular group, growing in thousands by the day, putting up such military prowess in terms of strength and armourage, and gradually out numbering the military workforce of a state.

There are tendency that such group could rebel against the government force in future, there are tendency of a desperate politician using them to hijack power knowing knowing that the group is dominated by illiterates who lacks the adequate understanding of right and wrongs on literary edifice.

Moreover, it the sect is actually aimed at religious progress as claimed, Islamically, white attire is most honourable and recommended by the prophet, then why those military training and black uniform if not for evil intention.

I expected them to engage in those acts recommended by the prophet, like horse ridding, wrestling among others...

The few occasions I was privileged to enroute Alzazaky's territory in Zaria, sincerely speaking it was entirely a different phase from what we hear from the media.

As much as its against the code of conduct to open fire on an "unarmed" citizen of a country, there are however a limitation to 'stand down order' in peace keeping operation under rules of engagement especially when engaging people with tendency of violence.

Various live recording of the confrontations with both Nigerian Army and Nigerian police showed these guys carrying stones and light weapons while advancing towards the security personnel, are those stones and sticks not enough to kill and render havoc on innocent citizens like them? we heard gun shots even in the videos of their previous engagement with Military in Zaria, yet we say they are not armed.

How do we think it feels for a security interface leader to account for his members massacred by a supposed "un-armed" group with stones and stick.

Why do we like to sabotage ourselves due to hatred taken too far...

I'm much convinced that some Nigerians would have been so happy and and applaud a news of a particular group killing numbers of Nigerian security personnel for reason known to them..

We won't progress if we don't change our mentality and political orientation in this country.

Peaceful protest is a fundamental right and it is often done with placards and coordinated voice. Sticks and stone are not objects of peaceful protest.

May God save us from know and unknown evil.

stupidity:
Edited: So I had to leave office and go to a nearby mechanic shop to light “some”. Then a very bright idea came to my head. Since Nigeria is falling apart, why don’t we all sponsor ourselves abroad? Nairaland has 2.2million registered members. Seun should create a new platform to collect a weekly contribution of 100 naira from every nairaland member. Every week around 2.2b naira will be raised. So we go use the money Dey sponsor atleast 220 people to various countries of their choice. Before Buhari leaves office we would have sent significant amount of Nairalanders to overseas. But as the brain behind this idea, I’ll be amongst the first batch to leave.


We all can now be overseas and start viewing nairaland from there with less worries on the happenings in Nigeria. If Buhari like he can even appoint cow as CBN governor, we won’t care. Or he can decide to pursue Nigerians to nearby countries and Rugalize the whole Nigeria we won’t care.

Please don’t insult me of you don’t agree with this idea o. I swear I go open yansh for third mainland bridge take swear for you. I’m only trying to profer solution to the situations ravaging this nation.

Make I drink water, wash wash my face then go back office.

I think u have a point, but Nairaland Schorlaship fund will go a long way..
I believe 98% nairalanders can afford to contribute a token of 100 per day, and we can be allowed to make it monthly voluntary donation.

Wether we like it or not, nairaland has come to stay and its more or less part of our individual lives now, so why don't we take that bold step?

Starting it is the problem, once it kick-start volunteers and donors will surface from various angles..

Out of every nonsense, there is always some little elements of sense..

Nylon production comes in different forms, the thickness and elastic nature differs with density.

The main blown nylon is sold in a roll of various kilograms. U can purchase as much kilo as your financial means can allow..

Sorry I do not photo prove of all these again, I set up a nylon factory back in 2003.

Please feel free to ask questions.

For the machine, it is more or less like a creative wooden structure I can sketch for a carpenter to carve.

The cutting part is a heating element usually mounted at a safe place and connected at the measuring point of the sketched wooden structure.

I may not be able to go into full details..
I will respond to questions at my mention..

RiyaGoddess:
You should stay off Sex. Once Sex is involved in a relationship, genuine love becomes difficult. You will find someone who will love you without money. You might even need to pretend to be a poor person in order to test the lady(s)
Read my signature

My dear, love is not all it takes..
Imagine dating a lady u are so sure she's a matured, religious, interesting and so friendly to be with. In fact, your kind of person, you feel so relaxed and tells yourself this is where I'd always dream to be..

She insists keeping sex out of it which u confidently agreed with considering the height of holiness and trust u had in her..

U wouldn't even think of holding hands as u are always filled with thoughts of having the future together and all that.

Only to find out she sneaked into her ex's apartment for sexual satisfactions whenever her sexual urge triggers...

My dear, u might have grabbed the next bottle of sniper without knowing it..

Love is the most complicated thing in this World. Full of risk and emotional torture. Relationship is quite so difficult. The prospect of affection is beyond the scope encyclopedia..

Very few were lucky to scale through without a truncated and impaired heart.

Affection has thorn many people's life apart and even when the good ones comes knocking, they cant have the heart as a whole anymore..

If u want to live long and go far in life, do not carry affections on your head, put it on your shoulders so that you can always have your head to think straight.

Prioritize Success and let affection be a spice to compliment that self worth.

May God save us from known and unknown evil.

Unigrad:
A female student will come to your house by 10pm to share dinner with you?
This story get as e be.

The paragraph explicitly means the incidence happened about 10pm, which was after he had observed dinner together with the lady and a flat occupant. It doesn't really mean the dinner took place 10pm.

Missperplexity0:
Lemme make this brief as possible and please if you want to insult me, envelope the insult with an advice....we dated for 4yrs, we were each other first love, i recently told him in one of our weird conversations albeit jokingly that i want to know what it feels like to have sex with another man, he consented but said would prefer a total stranger so we dont develop feelings for eachother. I ignore his advice and had it wif a close male friend of mine but there was no feelings attached, he suspected something was amiss and i told him the truth. He locked me up for two days, beat me and had sex with me forcefully throughout. We broke up after that but he is begging to come back though am now scared of him. Cant even entertain the thought of staying in the same room with me after all the pain and trauma i passed through.

Series of advice rendered to you over this abusive relationship of yours, so sad you take things for a joke.

There are chances the guy is under influence of something which may not be known to you, probably alcohol, drugs or certain degree of psychosis.

You've given him so much room that makes him feel he dominates your entire life for reason best known to you.

Bitter truth is that, the day he will sniff life out of you, it will start like the usual joke and I won't be surprise to see RIP tagged to that beautiful face of yours..

I've lost friends to some of these unaddressed abuse in the name of "we love each other"

Any man or woman who can inflict pains on his or her spouse without a second thought, without conscience, not even the slightest memory of that moment he or she had brought smile on his or her face, such spouse is capable of murder..

Do no condone any act of abuse or violence in relationship, don't be blinded by some unguarded affections, be responsible to yourself enough to know why and when to quit.

My candid advise..

Religion6:
All These atiku reactions are becoming childish to me. He didn't even wait for the final whistle before reacting.

Most time they are not the direct handler

It go sha end for penalty

annawhite:
and I'm supposed to blush cos a normal male specie with a petrol station garment noticed my hair and makeup!?.....Eventuary

Petrol station garment..
U seems to be taking this Ecobank Mata way far oh.. Are u one of the laid off staff?

Why are u crying more than the bereaved?

annawhite:
What manner of fuckery is this!!? I am now oga...so I'm gonna ask u again.. One bad experience with a careless staff is used to rate thousands of hardworking staff!!??

Oh! I guess you might continue to ask till I notice and address a female Monika. Lol!

For the question, we are considering various staff involved now, the branch I visited customer care rep who forgot to process the form, the central branch help desk who refused to do the tracking from Lag and the twitter handler who promised to follow up for a call back of fund but didn't deliver and stoped responding..

How many staff's carelessness does it take for a customer to loose his or her entire life earning or go bankrupt?

Meanwhile, u got a good packaging there.. Lovely weavon and creative makeup.. Keep it up

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

There may be a supernatural force trying to protect you from an impeding danger that might emanate as a result of your negligence to holy instructions..

Premarital sex is the sweetest poison anyone can think of, don't lose your guard..

annawhite:
You are judging thousands of staff with one bad experience u had with a bank staff!??...

Oga. Its money we are talking about here, no one pray to loose a kobo of hos or her sincere sweat.

What if what was messed with was my entire life saving?

Isn't that enough to judge them?

Lapses on the part of the customer care rep who refused to process the disbursement error form I filled and lapses on the part of another central customer desk in Lagos who had power to track the transaction..

Some people would have gone to creat a big scene at the branch vandalising their properties...

If I hear hard work for Una mouth ehn.

I lost reasonable money to Ecobank staff negligence sometimes ago.

I made a transaction which the beneficiary claimed didn't receive and had been debited from my Ecobank account. I insisted the beneficiary should hold on till I confirm what happened from Ecobank before making another transaction.

I went to Ecobank branch and I was asked to fill in a disbursement error form which I did.

I asked repeatedly as I never trusted the beneficiary if I could go ahead and make a new payment to the beneficiary, the customer care lady said a capital yes assuring me the initial fund will be reversed to my account immediately as I'd filled the disbursement error form.

I left and made a fresh payment to the beneficiary, and I forgot about the whole thing..

2days, 5days one week gone no reversal.
I went to the branch again to complain, it was then they started looking for the disbursement error form I filled a week ago.
When they eventually found the form, it was discovered that the form wasn't processed, during the period, the cash cleared into the beneficiary's account unaltered because the form was not processed..

We started sending mails to Lagos office to rectify the issue, the guy in Lagos equally didn't respond tilll about 26days of the whole mess.. We kept calling from the branch phone, the branch manager's mobile number and my personal mobile number, the idiot was not on desk for days, and wasn't responding to mobile phone calls..

When he finally responded after 26days.. He only commented "the transaction cleared into the beneficiary's account" that was how I lost the money..

I quietly stoped using the account for any transaction since 2016. I just counted Ecobank out of my business life.

It may be funny that most employee don't deserve what they actually earn and can be so shameless to come to protest ground without conscience..

IamHeWrites:
Someone should quote me when they see the nudes....

Perception of nudity in the North is not the same with many places. Especially south-south and south east.

When Yoruba girls used to be sane, exposing the bra band used to be a violation of moral sense, and u would see the elderly women quickly helping her to talk it in as if it was a contraband goods (my pikin, hide am. )

We have emulated what we had no knowledge of in the name of fashion and now dwell in rotten moral value to the extent that our sense of right and wrong is truncated somehow..

A banker clubbed over the weekend, passed the night in a hotel and resumed to work on Monday, not having the chance to get to her house to change up, she actually went that way for marketing in such seductive and half naked dress. She got questioned and all she had to say was 'World has advanced beyond what she was wearing and there was no biggy..'

If our society has lost it, I think the last option we have is protecting our homes from loosing it as our kids must be raised from those homes.

There is nothing we want that life doesn't have to offer, the wide path and the narrow path, the choice is ours..

Beremx:
I had to read this email sent to my box severally to be sure of what I am reading. Just got the email some minutes ago.


Has it gotten to this extent that Nigeria has to be Segregated? This means that we from the South have no hope of the empowerment.

Wonderful!!

What do u gain always misconstrue the general public?

This is just additional face of the empowerment which supposed to be an encouragement to those areas deemed not to have turn up.

It is being funded by a source which u may not want to deliberate on as such.

If Mr. A is from the north and he gives his money to Mr. B who already had a script for empowerment programmes to help him empower his people through his programme, how is that a crime?

Tony Elumelu Foundation is not running in Nigeria alone, there are several other country benefiting from the programs.

I don't know why our thinking always go political..

zicoraads:
Kano man stabbed by his wife opens up, shows evidence of her sending nudes to boyfriends

Hussain, whose 21-year-old wife Fatima Musa almost killed him by stabbing, has finally recovered to narrate his own side of the story.

The incident occurred at 1:30am on June 22 at the couple’s residence at Unguwar Mai Kalwa, Naibawa, Quarters, Kumbotso Local Government Area of Kano State, according to a Daily Focus report.

The family of the wife had earlier painted a picture of self-defence, accused Mr Hussain of wife battery, and released a video of injuries inflicted on her by him before she escaped to pick a knife and stab him.

Fatima, a student of Law at Bayero University Kano, BUK, was immediately arrested by the police.

But at a press conference he organised in his residence, Mr Hussain accused his wife of infidelity and denied accusations of wife beating.

“I caught my wife dancing indecently in my parlour where she was recording the dance on her phone and sending the video clips to her boyfriends,” he told journalists.

“I told her mother about it and she asked me if my wife’s elder sister and grandmother knew what was happening and she pleaded with me not to reveal it to anyone so as not to soil the image of their family.



“Also I challenged one of the boyfriends with whom my wife was exchanging voice notes but said he was not aware that my wife was a married woman.

“This is one of over 30 voice messages I found,” he said, turning on a recorded audio conversation he had with his wife’s alleged boyfriend on an his phone.

“I also have evidence on how my wife invited her lover from Abuja and had a session with him in a hotel in Bompai, which name I will not reveal. She did this precisely on 26th April, 2016 while being married. She was at the hotel from 10:13 a.m and stayed up to 12:16 pm. And the CCTV camera of that hotel captured this information I’m talking about.

“Also on that same day, a Friday, I caught her taking drugs in my house. She was taking Shisha with some substances that include high concentration of narcotic. During the last Ramadan fast, she sprinkled drops of poisonous insecticides in my food, a meal of fried eggs. I have the evidence of that too.



“When the problem became so serious, we had to seek audience with Dr. Bashir (Umar), chief Imam of Al-Furqan Jumuat Mosque, who is a well respected marriage counsellor in order to get advice and save the marriage.

“We went to see Dr. Bashir along with my wife, her mother and her elder brother in my car. I narrated all my accusations against her including her infidelity, promiscuity and drug abuse which she all admitted to Dr. Bashir.

“But it was on the same day after we returned home that she stabbed me with a knife after I seized her phone, which she used to send her nude pictures and videos to her boyfriends. I was already in bed when she picked two knives from her kitchen and came to the room. She sat in front of my bed, with her back facing the mirror as if she was meditating. At that moment, she raised the first knife and stabbed me on the side of my stomach and then threw the knife behind her.

“I woke up fully to see her raising the second knife to strike me but I attempted to hold her hand, getting injured in the process. This is the scar as you can see.


“She raised the knife again to strike me but I dodged, forcing the knife to sink into the mattress. At that moment, I stood up and held her hand in an attempt to seize the knife. She bit my hand during the struggle, warning me to release. It was in this struggle that I pushed her and she fell and hit her head against the side drawer and subsequently on the rough floor tiles which made her face swollen.

“It was not true that we fought in the kitchen. The trail of blood stains could be seen only from the floor of my room to the parlour.

“Therefore I challenge her family members from both her mother’s and father’s side to bring any evidence that I was beating their daughter every day. The video clip they were circulating were from the scene of this particular incident we are talking about.

“So, my friend Lawali rescued me on that day with the help of Allah and took me to the hospital. As he was holding my feet while I was writhing in pains, the third face I saw on me was that of my mother-in-law and I warned her not to touch me. My friend Ustaz can testify to this.



“I complained to her that she was aware of my wife’s promiscuous behavior and her attempt to poison me but they didn’t take action. At hearing this, my mother-in-law started gesturing to me to keep quiet, pleading with me not to expose her daughter’s bad behavior to the world.

“Before leaving the hospital, my mother-in-law sought for permission from my friend Ustaz to privately see and discuss with her daughter.”

Making reference to Zainab Sanda saga and how evidence is allegedly destroyed by wife’s family, he said the family of his wife concocted the story of wife battery in order to make their daughter the victim and portray him in bad light.

“There was a similar case in Abuja where the husband died. So my mother-in-law conspired with her daughter to destroy evidence and sponsor campaigns of calumny against my person on social media.



“They sponsored video clips and other materials in which I was accused of alcoholism, drug abuse and wife beating. This was done in order to tarnish my image and make me look like I was wicked so that my wife would get public sympathy. But I have evidence of their daughter’s immorality, unfaithfulness and drug use,” Mr Hussein said.

When asked if he had ever reported on his wife’s alleged immorality to her parents he said:

“I have been reporting my wife to her parents. And every time I report her, I normally send them the evidence of what she does online. I sent them via Whatsapp to the father and to the mother. If they don’t have the records of what I sent, I have them here.

“These are some of the nude pictures; she normally did videos and send to her boyfriends despite being married,” he said, showing video clips of his wife in compromised poses on his phone.

“But the response of the parents is that I should please cover them, I should keep it within myself, I should not expose them because it will tarnish their image. My wife was even exchanging porn videos with some of the friends she has,” he said.

Hussain also claimed that he was not aware that his wife was “immoral” before he married her and that even after the marriage he could not discover her strange behavior in time because he didn’t have access to her phone.

“Even a day to the marriage, her father sat her down and told her that it was the last opportunity she had to choose a husband. She was asked if she loved me and she answered yes. I gave her gifts which she accepts and even sent me messages. We had a very good courtship,” Mr Hussein said.

Mr Hussein also said he did not opt for a divorce despite her alleged infidelity because her parents were always giving him hope that things get better and that he himself was anticipating changes.

“I had no plans to divorce her because as a Muslim I was always anticipating changes. I prayed during the holy month of Ramadan for Allah to make things better between us,” he added.


https://dailynigerian.com/kano-man-stabbed-by-his-wife-opens-up-shows-evidence-of-her-sending-nudes-to-boyfriends/

I knew this was most likely to be from day one. If u as a man gives a soft spot to women on issue of domestic violence, then u are probably digging your grave with your own tooth.

Women would initiate a high level of violence and abuse and they are always the first to cry out to have been physically abused.

Funny enough, the World always give them audience and convict men without trial..

He's lucky to be alive, many had died as a result of similar occurrence. I lost a naval officer friend to something like this, the lady stabbed him with his own commando knife while he was asleep and locked him up in the house in his pool of blood.

May God save us from known and unknown evil..

lamidebaby:
biodun is a goner..

And Senator Abbo is a gonest..

Adva45:
What's their fate now?

Robbery, prostitution, drugs, yahoo stuff, obtain by tricks and false pretence..

Even central banks give bailout to non performing banks simply to avoid outright closure and throwing the employees into the street of joblessness..

This is a gross misplace of priority and potential failure in his governance..

Well.. What more do I have to say?
Some of our yahoo ritualist also have some girls that solidly stand behind them and help them do most of their withdrawals as they now hide to evade arrest..

Wait oh!

Just a reflection, what is Nigerian Police role in this matter ever since? Is rape not a capital crime in Nigeria of 2019 anymore?

If an ordinary citizen like u and I was caught on mere allegation of this nature, by now I would have been placed under arrest without granting me any audience..

Is Nigerian Law now a respecter of status?

I expected that he would at least be invited for questioning or something..

weyreypey:
Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga.

There was rather a silent attraction that gave birth to mutual conjugality.

Why be around a man for that long if you never liked him?

Why keep mute on him raping you while your sister was in the house if you never liked it?

Why didn't you shout and raise alarm when he was leaving, after the purported rape if you never liked it?

Why didn't you share the first and second rape issue immediately to your beloved family if you never liked it?

Why still go to his church if you never liked it?

Why go stay at his house to help his wife and even sought to sleep in their master bedroom if you never liked it?

Why follow him in his car to drop you if you never liked it?

Why didn't you struggle when he took the u-turn to give you the supposed second rape if you never liked it?

Why didn't you tell anyone again or even the police if you never liked it?

After the third day, when he came to find out why you didn't go to church, why didn't you refuse going to the same church when he asked you to if you never liked it?

Why didn't you show any sign of what he did to anyone? Why conceal the whole issue if you never liked it?

Are you totally innocent

Why didn't you tell us if you ever seduced him?

Why didn't you tell us if you fell for his looks?

Why did you do what you did and are still doing what you're doing to him now? Is it fair?

So because someone accused you of sleeping with pastors in the past and is accusing you of being unfaithful in your marriage now you want to pick on the pastor who was in your past just to cover up on the accusation meted on you?

Who knows if you probably seduced him to push him to that extent?

What looks did you give him when he entered your house with your nighty on?

Why didn't you rush to change?

Why allow him to come in when you were probably Unclad in a transparent gown?

Please,

Pastors are humans. Let's be fair on them and their weaknesses as human as they are.

Don't go seducing a man with your talent and beauty and expect him to act as brother Paul in the Bible when you refused to leave him and his territory.

A man will chase you and get what he wants when he knows you're interested in him.

We're not fools please

The woman should just admit that she was wrong as much as she claims that he was wrong.

Its a man of God we are talking about here not just a man.

80% trust Pastors than Jesus Christ himself.
No one would have had any premonitions that any sane man would think of bouncing on her in her house and at an open living room of that kind.

Mind you, for certain reasons, so many ladies wouldn't dare talk about any misbehaviour from their pastors. It is often kept as secret and swallowed.

There may be so much to these than we think.

Take a look at a lady's chat below

landmark86:
God you are great.
And you will forever remain God.




The story really touched but can this be true?
If yes, this is an endtime to COZA and the pastor will surely be punish for this.
If no, what will Bisola Dakolo lose? She will apologise? Oh no!!!

I will neva say a pastor can't rape, why not.
But not all rape allegation is always true.

But this might just be one of those few that are seldomlly true. Yeahn (in Jenifer's voice)

Lets keep our fingers crossed, they will prove it to us..

Carlyboi:
We all glorify some of these things like being in the military paramilitary or being a fighter is an exclusive preserve of the ugly an average looking people so we then fawn over the seemingly cute ones like her...it’s not written in any book that you have got be ugly to serve in this fields lol......anyways Dooshima na fine shuman and All this ppl with doo and do with their name they’re sometimes freak lol watch am blow more than Rena and Regina daniels in few months

Not all Nlanders are brainless bro, some have a reason that might be hidden to u for saying whatever you heard them say.

Going by the ethics of fire warden, its really very demanding, it has to do with weight, energy, flexibility and attentiveness.

As a matter of fact, fire fighting as a fraction of industrial safety is really a broadened department that is fully funded and anticipated to be competent enough to rely on for emergency rescue.

It is on this basis that they conduct safety and emergency drills to sensitize and prepare the workers for emergency ready task.

Talking about their drills, I wont say much about this to save time, the drills is more or less like military training, ability to 'safe lift' an helpless body and run with it despite having a heavy oxygen bottle (Respirator) on your back, and paying attention to safety of the victim under rescue operation.

Most time, a male fire warder of 70kg might end up weighing 180 to 200kg after full rescue operation kit up.

These and several other factors might be what makes majority throw a suspicious disagreement on seeing a lovely looking or bulky and fleshy female fire warders.

I used to avoid the drills then, because its the fasted way of shedding weight. Lifting and running under heavy weight sometimes leave us with chest pains that might last you for days..

The chances of having a bulky and sexy looking female fire warder who has been actively participating in the drills is like 20%

I think that could be the reason why Nlanders frowned at her curvy look.. They may not have the time telling you all these..

nairalanduseles:
Broke ppl be celebrating his arrest .....funny thing is he will be out and balling in less than a month.........while u foolish broke ppl should worry about senators taking home $40000 as income in a month.....NAIJA WAKE UP

Have u ever had a relative or a close family friend who has fallen victim of these bagars you celebrate so carelessly? If you have not, i have one, Imagine a poor civil servant who has worked so hard and made savings for over 30 years of active service in a country like ours, saved for his medical bills, children's fees and all that, all of the sudden, someone intercept such lifetime savings in the name of yahoo..

Please put your parents in such picture and tell us how u would feel as a true son of such innocent man.

My aunt's husband was defrauded over a hundred and fifty Million in 2011, up till now he's yet to recover from the loss..

A man that owned a manufacturing factory of about 1200 employee capacity in the heart of Lagos, built accommodation for workers, built market and churches for people to worship and even built colleges for worker's children suddenly became so frustrated and depressed at the loss of everything he had laboured for.

If your parents come back home with such news of being defrauded of all he has kept for u and your siblings to count on even after his demise, would you pray for those fraudsters or otherwise?

Conscience is our best judge.

Nuklex:
if you are holier what are doing here

I read trending and post shared with me, I don't select a particular section to go..

Like u are a snow here.. Hur!
U need alot of orientation about minding ones business and ignoring what is not linked to you..

Nuklex:
you hypocrite. What are you doing on romantic section of the forum

Waiting to catch the train sir..

Why crying more than the briefed?

ReneeNuttall:
Student of these days are something else.

My dear, its not only students, what about grown up adults, actively married with kids,
That reminds me of my computer training centre days, I had about 8 trainees, a woman came around for typesetting service and somehow we got talking and she requested my number, she called after few days for a private training which I declined going to render home service as I had trainees to attend to on daily bases of which most of them are university students..

To my surprise, this woman paid me equivalent cost of training 15 trainees at my centre. Unfortunately I fell for it as I now had to instruct the most senior among them to take others and teach them..

The next bash of cash I made was her asking me to supply a set of PC, the table and seat for 80k.

For my mind was like "God at work.. Ehn!
I started feeling uncomfortable when the woman living in a duplex directed me to install the PC in her personal bedroom and training would obviously be in the bedroom by 9am on daily basis after she had dropped the kids off at school..

Sincerely speaking, there was no training, we spent most of the time drinking expensive wine and gisting in her bedroom for the first 3 weeks.

She would send her driver to pick me up from D'Line to GRA on daily basis without tangible activity, surprisingly she would still dash me some money, most Tim 5k sometimes 8k..

When some elderly friends called my attention to the possible danger surrounding what she was dragging me into, I voom at once, only to later called me after 2 weeks of not seeing me to come and supply computers for her husband's new office complex.

I humbly told her, madam I will connect you with someone who can handle it well.. Even better than me..

This things revolves round our system without bounds. Everyone has tendency to misbehave at his or her crazy mood. In offices, to neighbours and friends, u want to count how many ladies got laid by someone they've never even thought of dating? In the name of 'let me see some movies on my next door Neighbour's laptop, my roommate has traveled and I cant sleep alone.. She invited a fellowship brother to keep company and boom!! It has happened..

Na person wey we catch Na in be thief but by extension, we are at some point guilty..

So, Igbo people gives out their daughters to early marriage too.. I thought Una say Na only Aboki and Yoloba dey do am and it is caused by poverty.

Wetin cause this one biko?

May her soul rest in the bosom of the Lord..

ojuu4u:
Dignity of African ladies/women had been completely eroded. Nothing like virtuous woman again, ladies want to indulge in all sort of exscapades that rampart among male folks in the past, gone are days that one could hardly seen girls discuss about sex openly but now girls talk about sex & immorality even in the present of guys more than guys do.
I imagine how marriages will look like in nearest future.

Sadly, its out of these available ones that our beloved brothers, friends, cousin and possibly our kids would make choice of marriage.

That top you saw on them was what they attended the party with. Some parents are aware of their daughters immorality but call it exposure and maturity, as long as she comes back home with something to appease the rotten mind of the parent too..

May God save us from known and unknown evil