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PoliticsRe: Wike Promises Completion Of Road Projects In Seven Months by lonelygem(m): 9:49am On Aug 26, 2023
successmatters:
Wike will be feeling like a 10 foot man now, until they use him finish and dump him like his brother Rotimi. That one head has cooled down a little after they used him like a tool and dropped him like trash when his usefulness was outlived.
My brother, Tinubu is not that type of leader that forsake his team members. Go and check the record, everyone you see holding a tangible position in Nigerian political dispensation today have been with Tinubu for decades, Aregbesola was an area guy for Tinubu, infact He used Aregbe to to deliver political mandates in Osun state, I was in my secondary school days when my dad would travel miles to attend Aregbesola political movement meeting then when no one even knew someone like Aregbe existed. There was an agreement that Tinubu would make him the governor of the state as compensation for his loyalty, don't forget that same Aregbe was the commissioner for works when Tinubu was the Governor of Lagos state, only Wale Edun is the last person I've been looking forward to see being compensated among all those that worked with Tinubu. It may be funny to know that Wale Edun has been much useful to Tinubu till date than every other politician he groomed so far. Everything no one knows about Tinubu's wealth and financial activities, go and ask Wale Edun and Fashola. All Eti-Osa project, hourse ranch, Boxing and all kinds of project are financial boom to Baba.

As long as Lagos state continue to exist, Baba Tinubu will continue to be a billionaire. Every revenue in Lagos state has been shared in percentage based on agreement. All tenement fee are shared in percentage..

As long as Amechi remains loyal, he would surely get more than he ever dream of. That is Baba's concept of hierarchy.

No be everything person fit talk online..
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PoliticsRe: President Elect Visits CBN Governor Elect by lonelygem(m): 8:34am On Mar 10, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
Hahaha....It is likely going to be Wale Edun wink
You are a smart thinker.. Unlike the wailers here without political instinct..

Wale Edun Has always been the tool for Tinubu's wealth through collaboration with any sitting governor of Lagos state. Go and verify, all Eti Osa Projects are channels through which money is constantly siphoned. Eti Osa horse ranch, Eti Osa boxing and so on..

If you know you know.
BusinessRe: We Didn't Direct Banks To Disburse Old Notes – CBN Insists by lonelygem(m): 10:07pm On Mar 08, 2023
Our judiciary system has simply lost its integrity and becomes a laughing stock. If EFCC chairman was put behind the bar, who is Emefiele that cannot be jailed for toying with judiciary sword. What is good for the goose shouldn't be bad for the ganders if sincerely we are not witch hunting as alleged.
CrimeRe: My Sister-inlaw Was Gunned Down By Thugs At A Polling Station In Benin (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 5:36am On Feb 27, 2023
Nigeria matter, den no dey carry am for head, na shoulder, this go enable you throway am when e wan drag you down.

What is a supposed married woman, probably with kids doing at a poling unit till 7:30pm? If she had left wouldn't they have counted the votes?? If someone had advised her to leave, I bet she and others would have devoured the person and called him or her enemy of Nigeria.

What a sad and avoidable death.

My condolence to the family.. May her soul rest in peace.
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls Tag All Fair Guys Handsome? (photos) by lonelygem(m): 12:16pm On Jan 07, 2023
EmiDon11:
Its no longer new that we, especially girls always tag all fair guys as handsome or lightskinned girls as beautiful.

I just dont know the reason why.
Whenever they want to refer to a fair guy, they will use THAT HANDSOME DUDE.

Does it mean that all lightskinned guys are handsome?
One of my guy's girlfriend left him for a fair guy.
That my guy is now using bleaching cream.
Lol.

Pls i need answers.
Why do girls, especially nigerian girls like fair guys too much?
Bros! Abeg, Just tell us wetin dey give you such erection for this matter make we know how we go take help you.
RomanceRe: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by lonelygem(m): 8:19pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. huh And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies
But some of us still dated some of you ladies in agape way with strong hope of marriage without the slightest thought of sex before marriage, sadly you still shed our tears in the long run. Mine was about 4 years and she still left as I'm sure there are other good men here who see a woman beyond her panties..

I learn not to judge anyone, what we see and how we see it is a function of our emotions at that particular moment. any man might have deemed you not good beyond sex at that moment, same way you might have seen any futuristic guy as low life as at the moment some clean, wealthy but senseless 'gum chewing' toddlers are blowing your mind with surprises.

Everything is fair in love and war..
RomanceRe: Why Boys Don't Date Fat Girls by lonelygem(m): 9:25am On Dec 30, 2022
FalseProphet1:
They're always hungry, eating here and there, you can take them out by 1pm, and by 4pm they're already complaining of hunger.

Also they're lazy, dirty and have disgusting stretch marks all over their body.

The day I bath a fat girl by the river during one of my deliverance sessions, I almost vomited.

This I have seen.
May God forgive you. God delegated a responsibility to you and you are so heartless to bring it on a public platform, You might as well have used people's confessions to play draft on NL.

God sees and is conscious of all our deeds and action.
FamilyRe: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by lonelygem(m): 3:53pm On Oct 24, 2022
wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.
The fact that you were not informed is the height of disrespect and rudeness. We experience that on daily basis. Majority of us no get wife from the actual connotation and contents. What we are managing are baby mamas.

Just get use to it and ensure your sanity is intact.

Mine informed me of a visitor who was coming to stay and pass the night just when the visitor was at the estate gate already.

The insult was dammed too much from these female species we helplessly have to settle with without a choice.

Just give what you can afford without pushing yourself to the wall and lock up. Condition your mind not to be aware of those ridiculous provision since you were not given such prior notice and respect.
RomanceRe: Does Sharing Financial Responsibilities Bring Disrespect In Marriages? by lonelygem(m): 8:06pm On Aug 31, 2022
acidtalk:
When young Nigerian men complain today on how their wives don't give them full respect as the man of the house unlike during their childhood days when their mothers basically 'worshipped' and feared their fathers. She dare not disobey his instructions and even if she was displayed at his actions, she doesn't point it out to his face in the public.

What so many (larger percentage) men of this generation fail to realize is that, their Fathers catered for the needs of the family 100% without asking a dime from his wife to support the family. Bust now, its a norm for men to share responsibilities with their wives like Feeding, house rent, power, water, security, childrens school fees, dstv, phone, feeding and even groceries bills with their wives and this same men expect to get 100% (full) respect and accord from their wives?

Where on earth is it possible for one 'partner in business' to be a slave to another when you hold equal or sometimes majority investment in the business.

Nigerian men if you want 100% respect and loyalty from your wives, then start taking 100% responsibility of the needs of the family and home from.
Sorry to ask, please how old is your marriage to start with, and what are the bases of your conclusion on this matter. Have you had a union with the one you have to handle bills and upkeep 100% and weighed it with a particular one that is comfortable sharing responsibilities..

You dont spoon feed the masses with your personal opinion on a public forum like this. It is like a coin, it is one side to you and the other side to someone else.

It would have been so great if you had tailored this topic down to hearing other people's opinion without taking a conclusive position from the start.

In the long run, after weighing various opinion and true life experiences from others, then you can now take your stand.

My humble piece if you dont mind.
PropertiesStandard One Bedroom Flat With 2 Toilets & Parking Space At Lokogoma Abuja. by lonelygem(op): 1:42am On Aug 28, 2022
There is a vacant one bedroom flat with 2 toilets at Ipent II estate Lokogoma. The flat is converted to two standard rooms with each of the room having it's own toilet and bathroom ensuit, a mini sitting room and a standard kitchen, all within the flat. There is a parking space for about 2 cars for the flat, the light is 95% excellent, the environment is safe and secure and the compound is all interlocked with a security house. There is 3 GP tanks supplying water to the building and a 3 phase electric metre..

The price is 900k.

Interested person may contact me via a dm or mention.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Married Women On This Section, Don't Make The Mistake I Made by lonelygem(m): 3:39pm On Aug 15, 2022
CuteEmma:
This is lamba. The ending of the story just spoilt everything. Nigerian men don’t just forgive cheating partners no matter how much they cheat also. They’re too egoistic.
In your own opinion and exposure. Probably you need to look beyond your cycle..
FamilyRe: Please Help Me Sort Out This Family Issue Guys!!! by lonelygem(m): 3:06pm On Aug 15, 2022
Rosrozz:
Your mom is all about your safety and you should listen to her. One thing about this men practicing polygamy is that they always pave ways for harm if you don’t use your brains, you hardly know the new woman and can’t tell her boundaries. Your mom can never deceive you but be mindful of been blindly led on by your dad. Remember the adage that talks about “ what an elder sees while sitting “ shalom
"mum can never deceive you but be mindful of been blindly led on by your dad"

'what an elder sees while sitting..'

Dad na toddler abi.

Isorait oh.
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Shutdown Finland Perform Last Last With Over 70k People In Attendance by lonelygem(m): 2:04am On Aug 15, 2022
Seriously??
RomanceRe: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by lonelygem(m): 7:30am On Aug 13, 2022
There are quite three phases to this story.

Let's start from this angle, if the oil worker guy had not been available during the period of antenatal and pregnancy care which is the first stage of every child survival, who knows the baby we are talking about today might have died due to lack of care or inability to pay hospital bills long ago. Perhaps your friend wouldn't be in position to even look back or remember that girl today as his intentions then never focused on taking the relationship beyond s3x.

On the other hand, all laws permit anyone who is financially capable and sane to take in, claim and shoulder responsibility of fathering a child he is not biologically connected to. To even think that the oil worker has other kids, he has nothing to lose, rather the child might end up being destroyed considering the lifestyle of the father. Going forward, the lady can get a good lawyer and deny the yahoo guy the ownership of that child.

Lastly, how many of us would be willing to let our close relatives live under the roof of such a guy with questionable characters like history of Armed robbery, cultism and by extension, internet fraud? Any court of competent jurisdiction would deny him the child and restrict his access to the child. Which I'm certain he wouldn't have such effrontery to proceed to court as he already knows he could be arrested any moment.

Every human fervently pray and wish for a lifetime free of financial stress. We call it a guaranteed future. In all these, I have no reason to blame the lady. If she had not taken that decision, the child might probably be roaming the street uncared for as one of those Almajiris.

The question is, in the interest of the society and the innocent child, would anyone of us prefer seeing the child roaming the street, being exposed to all manner of sexual abuse or have her at a safe place irrespective who claims to answer her father.

Whatever secrets God has covered, no human should proceed or take any step exposing it.. If all these never expose anyone to danger or direct threat, let it be please.
CrimeRe: Video Shows Girlfriend Attacking US-Based Nigerian 2 Months Before Killing Him by lonelygem(m): 10:20am On Aug 12, 2022
Flamzey00:
RIP to the dead. I am in the same situation. I need help Oooo
Be sure of your audience before ASUU strike victims hide behind Tecno keypads to bombarding you with baseless advises..

Channel your complaints through the right channel for effective and sensible responses bro.
PoliticsRe: Nnewi North TC Chairman Suspended Over Wife's "Murder" (Graphic Pictures) by lonelygem(m): 9:33am On Aug 12, 2022
blessochampion:
The man will keep regretting right now.
You think they share same 'melemele' heart, same feelings and same humanity with you? He get some movement wey no human can go and survive with kind and innocent heart. First step is hardening of heart through some spiritual acts..

Politics is a different World and not for kids bro. You for ask wetin make some of us wash our hands and ran away despite making it to the level of recognition by notable governors and House speakers..

Make I no talk too much. I just thank God.

These guys no get remorseful heart to regret their actions..

You may be shocked to hear him being compensated with a bigger and more juicy appointment in Abuja.

RIP for the poor woman..
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Paid Daily Cleaning Job by lonelygem(m): 1:08pm On Aug 11, 2022
nebsunshine:
Ikeja, Lagos State
Sorry. I'm not in Lagos
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Paid Daily Cleaning Job by lonelygem(m): 11:56am On Aug 11, 2022
nebsunshine:
Someone is in need of cleaning job that pays daily.please if you know any agency and person that can help. Kindly contact 07065861428
I need one right now. Where is his or her location?
PoliticsRe: Why Is Kerosene More Expensive Than Petrol ? by lonelygem(m): 11:35am On Aug 06, 2022
Aflix:
Thanks for this explanation but there’s something I want to understand. Does the tank for storage of Kerosene have to have been used for storing PMS for 6 yearshuh If yes, please why is thathuh
And if importers import just once or twice a year, how do airline operators manage?
There are many importers and they brings in at various stages according to what their financial capability can sustain.


A, B, C might bring DPK to their respective Lagos tank farms today, and D might bring his own to his Warri tank farm. This is why loading prices at depot level is not the same and sometimes a particular product might be available in Apapa but not available or ridiculously expensive in other places.

Marketing department of Depot operators hold meetings by 8am and do something called price scan before releasing their loading prices on daily basis.

On issue of storage, many depot dont have adequate storage capacity enough to leave a particular tank idle for so long. They mostly result to delaying the importing vessel at the jetty while they do back to back loading of fuel tankers, even go as far as loading all through the night in other to create space to accommodate the new stock.

Many times, the tanks are overwhelmed.
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lonelygem(m): 9:11am On Aug 06, 2022
Nozino:
Why are you emailing me?
You need some guide and enlightenment to be successful in engineering career.

There is someone I might link you up with in Warri if it's okay by you. Her name is Queen Erukubami. She is your colleague in engineering. But you need to pocket this I too know attitude.
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lonelygem(m):
Princewell2012:
Your response shows that you're not normal and truly needs help. Nairaland which is a social Media is not the best place to show Case your anger and your miserable life. Someone have really hurt you. Please forgive and forget so that you Will not develop Bp or cardiac arrest. That is why it is good to pray before one gets into marriage to avoid people like you. Am happily married with children Even grown up ones is among the. Any one who made the mistake to tied the nut with you', that individual should just write his will because he Will not live Long. And If you have already married then your partner must be a living corpse. Because you're very terrible. God forbid. And I thank God am now a Christian otherwise the kind of curses that I would have rain on you today Am very sure I will receive a ban from the moderator. I repeat may God heal and forgive you. Am not going to read your mention don't bother about it because you're not a human being.
Dont waste your energy on that so called Nozino, she is a toddler without the slightest life experience. A youth corp member begging for a PPA offer as at October 2021.

"if you wrestle with a pig, you both get dirty but the pig enjoys it the more.."

Her attitude simply indicates the back slide we constantly have in our education system as a country.

This is someone who has so much to learn, but she wants her opinion to prevail, attacking those who are old enough to be her lecturer on an open forum. If you have someone like this as part of your team, the organisation is doomed.

Incase you want to lunch an attack on me as well, let me ask, please where were you in 2005?? Because as at 2005, I was employed and trainning younger ones in various disciplines..

You needs to grow some senses..
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lonelygem(m): 5:03pm On Aug 05, 2022
Nozino:
What do you want the step mother to do? Kill herself?


You see how useless you’re? You see how miserable your life is?

The father isn’t capable, the mother isn’t capable, the father’s mother also isn’t capable and the mother’s mother isn’t capable too. The grand fathers from both sides aren’t capable neither are blood relatives from both sides.

It is the innocent pregnant wife that has no obligation to this child that’s capable. Your death will be painful!
Haba!!!
FamilyRe: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by lonelygem(m): 4:50pm On Aug 05, 2022
Ebymyk:
I'm sorry �... I shouldn't have shown concern.... I'm sorry I asked...
hahahahahaha.. That one na vampire oh.
Even me and as I de sure say many we get better suggestion de fear to comment..

Why she de cry more than the bereavedhuh

This is an open forum, talk your mind and allow others talk their mind.

She jus de display high level of immaturity and bullying others to silence.

Make she grow up abeg!!
PoliticsRe: Why Is Kerosene More Expensive Than Petrol ? by lonelygem(m): 3:59pm On Aug 05, 2022
grandstar:
Kerosene price, like that of diesel is deregulated. Price of petrol on the other hand is heavily subsidized by government.
You are very correct. That is another contributing factor. But even back then, the conditions are the same, and we still can boost of moderation in the price of Kero, despote the deregulation.
PoliticsRe: Why Is Kerosene More Expensive Than Petrol ? by lonelygem(m): 1:44pm On Aug 05, 2022
Harrynight:
This kero has always been used for cooking and as aviation fuel when the price was relative low, like a little above the price of petrol is its not new,

Why the sudden price skyrocketing? huh
Insecurity has made air transportation the only safer way in our country.

Infact, a home that is rated to live on low income budget go extra mile to raise money for flight ticket whenever their children secure NYSC posting.

Many politicians are seriously working hard to secure aviation license for airline operation.

It is now very competitive and highly profitable.

Have you imagined the number of people who vowed never to travel via rail transportation after the last train attack?

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