annford:
My brother, from what you've written, I could easily deduce that you want to marry her. Can you marry someone who cheated on you in the past? Can you stay married and never have to worry about being cheated in again by your wife? Can you stay married to her without ever having to remind her of her dirty past? Would you go in with the relationship just because her mom is begging or because you still love her? The above questions are questions you should ask yourself and answer as well. Relationships are not for the weak and you need to be ready for whatever results you might get. Secondly, I've spent 5days with a woman In a Hotel in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State and nothing happened between us! About her spending the night in a hotel with another again and nothing happened, she might just be saying the truth. Don't be in a relationship with someone out of pity or reward for what ever reason but because you love the person and want to get your life improved and equally improve the other party. You seem to even be in the relationship because of her parents and not because you love her. Find out what you love about her and if that drives you, stay but if negative, then take your leave. Don't force it.

But do u know that if it had been the other way round, I mean if she had caught you or even smell it that you attempted cheating on her she wouldn't have forgiven you? And all these family and friends asking you to forgive and forget would have been the one to support her never to forgive you?

One of those lessons you need to learn is 'what you are always pitiful about and wouldn't want to do to a woman, she would do a hundred folds to you without looking back. Sadly the society believe men to be harsh and irrational when it comes to hurtful act but labelled women as fragile hearted and compassionate. Their is no greater evil and sabotage against men than this.

Please, wake up. You are gradually loosing control of the relationship and subjecting your sense of decisions to her parents and relatives for reason best known to u alone.

If u don't want to hurt her, how about hurting yourself in the long run? If by chance you try to take back the full control in future, how would you feel if she eventually tells you you cant introduce something new but keep to how you both had been rolling all along. Some of those things we overlook often come to hunt our affection in future.

Think like a man and don't fall cheap for some unguarded emotions. Marriage is a lifetime contract. So many are already in it to discover they've lost the control, but the shame and stigma of broken marriage makes majority to remain subtle and continue even when the content and credence are long gone.

CotenantNIG:
Hi Guys

We Look at the Cost of renting short let apartments in Lagos, this post is for those who are looking at getting short lets close to work, travelers coming into the country etc or maybe those that want to go into the short let business and don't know how to go about it. This is for you

But first some definitions

What is Short Let or shared apartment ?

A short-term let (also known as a short-term rental) is understood to be any letting agreement that lasts less than six months, but often it is just a few weeks, or even one night. A short-term let is not always the same thing as an assured shorthold tenancy
short let is a property which will be let from a few weeks to a few months not usually up to a year.

Short Let involves individuals renting out a room in their apartments either to travelers, students, or workers who work near them. Charges are done daily, weekly and Monthly.

Short Lets can be a single room, shared room, 1 bedroom flat, studio apartment, 2 bedroom flat or even a whole house.

Short Lets apartments are already furnished , the person just need to pay the necessary fee and move in.

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We will be looking at how much it cost to get a short let per day or per month, Note some of this cost varies as most short lets are charged in Dollars and not Naira and are expensive due to where they are located example banana island short lets are super expensive

Ajah
The average price for short lets in Ajah is ₦100,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦300,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦5,000 per day

Alimosho
The average price for short lets in Alimosho is ₦30,000 per Month. The most expensive flat costs ₦80,000 per Month while the cheapest cost ₦1,500 per day

Apapa
The average price for short lets in Apapa is ₦50,000 per day. The most expensive costs ₦120,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦3,000 per day

Eko Atlantic City
The average price for short lets in EKC is ₦200,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦4,950,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦90,000 per day

Gbagada
The average price for short lets in Gbagada is ₦80,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦1,000,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦10,000 per day


Ikorodu
The average price for short lets in Ikorodu is ₦20,000 per month. The most expensive flat costs ₦50,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦1,000 per day


Ilupeju
The average price for short lets in Ilupeju is ₦120,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦45,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦10,000 per day

Ipaja
The average price for short lets in Ipaja is ₦20,000 per month. The most expensive flat costs ₦50,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦7,000 per day

Badagry
The average price for short lets in Badagry is ₦10,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦30,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦5,500 per day

Isheri(Opic)
The average price for short lets in Isheri is ₦15,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦30,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦6,000 per day

Isolo
The average price for short lets in Isolo is ₦100,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦1,000,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦18,000 per day

Magodo
The average price for short lets in Magodo is ₦400,000 per month. The most expensive flat costs ₦65,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦15,000 per day

Maryland
The average price for short lets in Maryland is ₦300,000 per month. The most expensive flat costs ₦95,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦28,000 per day

Ojodu
The average price for short lets in Ojodu is ₦20,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦18,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦5,000 per day

Surulere
The average price for short lets in Surulere is ₦45,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦50,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦5,000 per day

Yaba
The average price for short lets in Yaba is ₦25,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦300,000 per month while the cheapest cost ₦5,000 per day

Victoria Island
The average price for short lets in VI is ₦30,000 per day. The most expensive flat costs ₦200,000 per day while the cheapest cost ₦13,000 per day

Lekki
The average price for short lets in Lekki is ₦200,000 per month Read More Location and Cost


I don't guarantee this are the real price but estimate

These is baseless as it lacks some vital details anyone would expect.

The size like is it 1 bedroom, 3 bedroom ensuit. Facility like air conditioner, and standards. U cant tell me all these are for the same size of apartment and same facility in them..

U can do better..

biacan:
I don't mind getting married to that cat so that I can inherit her fortune

Eye opener for you guys to know that all those marry who you love campaigns ends on techno key pad. Worse case women don't even marry for affection again, yet we men waste so much time fantasizing on giving them the best living, risking everything, even go extra mile risking our lives trying to put smile on the face of someone whose primary target is to hear a declaration of our death to sit comfortably on our entire living..


May God save us from known and unknown evil.

I was thinking of supplying fast perishable goods.

Send me a chat via 08062988830.
I can help in a small way

The worst among mankind in terms of reasoning and psychological response have come to dictate the affair of Professors and notable academicians in our own society.

That is even worse than terrorism.
May God save us from known and unknown evil of genes and mankind.

wonlasewonimi:
Ayiri... What a name!

Let me clear you bro, Ayiri is not just a common citizen like u and I anymore...
He belongs to the association of licensed oil importers and marketers across Nigeria. There are many quiet money magas on this list.. In the likes of Pinacle, AYM Shafa, Sinord, Matrix among others. AYIRI owns A&E depot on Odi-Itsekiri road of Ifie in Warri Delta state and he's the sole owner of all A&E filling stations across the country. These guys decide the faith of common Nigerians like u and I when it comes to oil importation and regulation in conjunction with federal government decisions.

MiaB:
By the way your headline states he's jobless but your post states otherwise

Enough to know that he has already taken a stand, probably have some hatred for his brother already.. He's simply here to blackmail the guy.

njimezz:
When people talk at times it really bit my imagination. I taught Buhari is a man of integrity and corruption free, why can't he allow INEC to release those materials to PDP since he is a man of integrity and some people who doesn't even know what dey want in life been talking nonse.

You need to be conversant with your dictionary. Activities of INEC is not dependent on presidential directives. Looking up the word "independent" might ease your findings. Whatever action taken by INEC is at its perils

KingAzubuike:
Amala should be the most nauseating looking food I've ever seen in my entire life. The black color no just follow at all.

Point of correction, the real, well processed and safely packaged yam powder doesn't produce a black Amala as the finished product. The real Amala isu is not originally black, it is a light brown and not the scary black you are all used to. Black amala signifies error in the yam powder processing.

Only those in ample knowledge of Elubo iso (yam powder) will testify to this.

tribalistseun:
I felt sick seeing that the Nigerian army and the award-winning most corrupt police force in the world collaborating with Thugs to snatch ballot box.


Why does Amaechi like to see his people been killed

Its a height of self embarrassment to even strike a sensible discussion with u if u can't identify Nigerian Army or even differentiate Nigerian Army from Nigerian Police force.

BornnAgainChild:
Hope that zombie would be around for tonights debate

Atiku at it again..

1st November doesn't seem to exist..
Hur! Why was I born alone naw. Lol!

gabrielniy:


3rd Nov is close �, early Nov like us are rare.

I'm November 1st
Great and exceptional ones are born November.
We think differently and view things from a different angles. We are rear gems

faithugo64:
ayam not understanding
Am about to pay my tuition fee on Monday
Does it mean am not to pay anymore ?

If you know what is good for yourself, run like power bike and pay your fees oh. This government is nothing but set of jokers. Even the minister of education is working with target like bankers. The minister wll mount the podium tomorrow to declare generating additional billions of naira at the detriment of the masses and the same FG will applaud him with an award for extorting innocent Nigerians on account of Education...

lonelygem:


I just responded to your mail. Kindly chec6k your inbox.

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SpyAC:
Hw do I get ur contact?

I just responded to your mail. Kindly check your inbox.

THIS is for those in contracting business.. there is a rural electrification contract approved by SPDC to be carried out under host community development project in SPDC.
The job is to be carried out in eight communities. The authenticity of the job can be verified as the interested contractor will be booked into Rumubiakani Industrial Area office to meet the interface coordinator before further commitment. Interested person shoUlster contact me.

Location of the job is Rivers state.

how will a country like this develop when our youth pay so much attention to news like this? so many free investment and transformation seminars.. you only see 6 to 8 comments and participation.. our colonies has turned to mockery and I weep for Nigeria

it is easy to place the blame for hardship
on the shoulders of leaders, especially if
the leader is not the candidate chosen by
all of us.. in the minds of their opposition,
the leader turns into an enemy, their
Mistakes turn into a premeditated attacks
on comfort and safety of the masses,
their human flaws turn into irreparable
defects and their missteps turn into
wicked conspiracies. we end up being
divided in the line of opinion, and sadly,
many of us refuse to see any good in
those who disagree with us simply
because their view and believes
happened to be different from ours.
CRITICISM in my opinion is a healthy tool in leadership. Criticism is that restraint that holds a
leader from turning to a dictator. I urge
that we be guided.

Primusinterpares:
Connection is importanter

hmn! This type of connection..

Just as God will take away everything that brings her joy overnight.. it's a simple logic. God said we should tell people like this, who seek joy in causing their fellow human grief and tribulations, that it shall not be well with them.. he promised that if they are better off in the morning and think life is good, he would transform everything that recon with joy in their lives to sorrow grief and agony

foolishness..

is that so?

hmmn.. the only standing man that remains unshakable of any political draught (IBB). YORUBA adage says 'aja t'oba leni leyin maa p'obo" meaning when a dog has a strong backing, it will kill a monkey despite it's smartness. IBB is just so exceptional in some ways.. his humbleness and simplicity strikes me.. I was privilege to be around him during his condolence visit to Senator Idris Kuta two weeks ago, it's surprising to me that a man of such caliber could be so friendly, humble and simple.. it was no doubt to me that nothing would happen to Kazim his boy

Constituting a positive culture in our society is preparing a flowerbed for generations to plant on.. If we must have a hopeful and boastful future, we all have a great task on our sleeves both as a peace abiding citizen, as a social luminary, as individual and as a responsible government that care about the future of it's nation.


It’s quite disheartening that we allowed our day to day experiences over rule our social responsibilities and humanitarian conformity as human, which consequently turned our World to a type which anger and frustration knows no limit, where violence and aggression rules..


Despite the perplexity, I still believe, not within the figment of my imagination, but with apparent fortitude, that somehow, there is a World waiting to be born.


Our World awaits a rebirth and the only way to nurture this child to be born is by showing kindness, calmness, sincerity and gentleness as the case may be.


In contrast, majority of us see gentleness and perceive weakness, on the phase of reality, we use phrases like “if you want to get on in life, get tough”, be ruthless.. and yet to have “ruth”means to have pity or compassion, to be without ruth, to be ruthless is to be heartless which is damaging to the society, damaging to souls and destructive to the World at large.


On the contrary, When someone is assumed to be tough, we perceive strength and power. Sadly, we live on and on like that condoning violence and vices that kick against a positive human principles, using harsh words and tough actions,encouraging and teaching the upcoming generations the act of ruthlessness as claimed.


A child will naturally stretch his or her self and others for learning and will mostly look up to an adult, look up to his parents, and look up to his teachers, such child will not learn by our beautiful phrasal expression alone, but also by examples..


A parent who talks tolerance but shows non will surely breed an intolerant child. A parent who preach charity but gives non is expected to raise a charitless child. Any parent who campaigns patience but exhibit aggression will definitely raise a violent child, and any individual who encourage communication and talk so much but fails to listen will raise a product who screams, shout and yell without communicating.


Every child was born beautiful, pure, gentle and sensitive.


Every act we noticed in a child is not a cruel act but an indication of his or her direct experience, development,sensitivity and growth around the parents and society as a whole.


A child act only by example imposed on him or her by the society.


Let’s be the changes and beauty we want the World to project, lets be conscious to look beyond our actions, rather concentrate our interest majourly on the consequences of what every impact we make actually connote.


Children are the greatest asset, we owe them love, kindness and a well guided compassion for our flowerbeds to bringfort a beautiful, bountiful and sustainable harvest.

Dotun Adeyemi
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