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FamilyRe: Pregnant Woman Poses For Maternity Photos With Co-Wife And Husband (Pictures) by lonelygem(m): 6:39pm On Jan 04, 2025
Thanks!
happney65:
So you ran away and changed your number because of a mere girlfriend? A Woman you are not married to.

No wonder she fought you and tore your cloth. She don see the calibre of person you are. Na why she dey try that nonesense with you

Nonesense!
FamilyRe: Pregnant Woman Poses For Maternity Photos With Co-Wife And Husband (Pictures) by lonelygem(m): 9:55am On Jan 04, 2025
happney65:
Bad guy with a big Epon servicing two of them at the same time..

P.S. Heard he is a Medical Doctor in the US. Don't know how true it is. If true,that means he is financially capable to do things be that

Twale Baba
It is not about financial capability, I'll talk to you from experience, finances are the least of the problems u face when u get involved with 2 women. Back then during my youthful days, I was a contract staff with She'll (SPDC). If u know what that means as a young guy who never had a relationship. I was involved with two women, one was a banker, the other was a successful business woman.

I was attracted to both of them probably because I was perceived to be handsome and intelligent then..

The moment they both suspected the presence of each other, competition set in, the first would always call and follow up via phone, just to be sure I wasn't with the other. And from time to time, the second kept visiting at every lunch period with food just to ensure she's at better advantage.

They both loss concentration of their job and businesses but they just didn't mind. I started receiving unsolicited gifts in competition between both of them. Clothes, shoes digital cameras, even laptop.

In this case, u could see that money wasn't the problem to any us right? But ego and untamed arrogance from them both.

How did it end? One found a gold chain in my car, perceived to be from the other, she lost control and her anger was unleashed on me as the other wasn't close to her that moment.

She destroyed the chain, and in the process of trying to stop her, she tour my dress as fight broke out. I struggled to rush out of the car but she kept pinning the door as she continued to hit me. People gathered around my car in an attempt to separate us, but the doors were locked. The AC was on and my engine steaming till the whole drama ended.

The following morning, I was presented a harsh colour sport car by her to say sorry but then, I'd made up my mind and was too late..

I had my mechanic to drive the car gift while I drove my own car. I gathered all the gifts I'd gotten from both and delivered to them at doorstep.

I changed my line, relocated and moved on.

What I'm trying to say is that, finances are never the issues here.. Women naturally despises themselves for the fact that they are of equal gender.
FamilyRe: Pregnant Woman Poses For Maternity Photos With Co-Wife And Husband (Pictures) by lonelygem(m): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2025
Forget what you see on social media, all na content! In reality, that guy is running on 85 degree magnitude of insanity.

The only thing that can give u a little rest of mind is if both don't live under same roof, and u also don't live with any of them.

There is constant thoughts hovering around their heads 'if my man marries another woman after me, I'd rather die than share my man.. ' the day the tiger loose control of her thoughts even it's keeper becomes a supper.

As the first wife is enraged for sharing her man, so is also the second who has come to share another woman's husband is angry for not having 100% attention and commitments from that man to herself alone.

You see where complications are??

Every man that marries 2 wives is running on 85 degree magnitude of insanity because he would spend the rest of his life having one or two headaches to cast his mind on. By extension, work stress won't frustrate him as much as mental stress..

No matter the money such man might have amass, look into his eyeballs, u would see traces of in dept pains and psychological stress..
CareerRe: Job Vacancy Female Tiktok / Youtube Video Creator Wanted by lonelygem(m): 2:19pm On Dec 25, 2024
what role do you now play if he or she create, promote and posthuh
cobsol:
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FoodRe: How Much Is A Bag Of Rice In Your Location? by lonelygem(m): 3:03pm On Dec 13, 2024
Ferya:
Thanks for replying. I never heard about optimum rice before. Please, is this rice locally produced or foreign?

FoodRe: How Much Is A Bag Of Rice In Your Location? by lonelygem(m): 10:15pm On Dec 12, 2024
Ferya:
Nairalanders, I want to buy good and affordable rice. I was told by a friend to go to Ebonyi state but i have never visited Ebonyi before. Unfortunately,
Christmas is almost here and food is expensive but we need rice.😃

Please, is rice cheaper in your location? Could someone tell me the price one bag of rice?

Merry Christmas to you all in advance!
if your location is around Abuja, I can help you buy from our cooperative at 85k (Optimum rice). you pay for delivery and cost of the items on delivery.
RomanceRe: Couple Family Photos Spark Reactions (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 12:06am On Dec 11, 2024
brain54:
The guy didn't change a bit...

Genes at play basically. Tremendous transformation in 8 years though.


Even the eldest kid in the photo doesn't look 8 but at least 14!
You no look well.. He was happy and real in the first photo, but looking weary and exhausted and frustrated with fake smile in other photos..
PoliticsRe: I Told My Daughters To Retaliate If Their Husbands Slap Them – Emir Sanusi by lonelygem(m): 3:20pm On Dec 10, 2024
These are the training they give to their daughters on account of their political strength and connections. little do they know that they are just fueling violence and exposing the daughters to probable untimely deaths.

Not that they train those girls not to let any argument get so escalated to the extent of raising their voices against their husbands oh.

The question is, what if its your daughter that slaps her husband?? how would you advice such man??
violence is in both ways but louder when it is found to be perpetrated by men.
FamilyRe: Declutter Deals: Buy Quality Used Items Here! (updated Regularly) by lonelygem(m): 2:24pm On Dec 02, 2024
Doomarketing:
sad I'm not sure why the pictures are not showing..
I was just carefully waiting to hear you say the site has locked you out or your post are restricted. programming is lots easy now, counter would flag recurrent activities and moderators would take actions accordingly.. know these and know peace. meanwhile, Nland is not a graphics site with gigantic database for one person to post unlimited graphics. that's why anyone can load Nland page with even 3mb data on his or her phone with maximum compatibility with smallest devices in market..
FashionRe: As A Nigerian Man, Here's How Many Times You Should Change Your Boxers by lonelygem(m): 10:42pm On Nov 28, 2024
DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Once you take your bath as a man, put on fresh boxers.

If you dressed up in the morning and stayed out the whole day, nothing do your boxers. It'll blend effortlessly with the clothes you're wearing and would give out no offensive odour.

The problem is in wearing a boxer shorts twice or more.

If you need to be in different places the same day and needed to bath up for all those places, then you should put on a fresh pair of boxers and singlets for all those times.
una don too watch Telemudo and Zeeworld.. Na una go complain say man na broke ass, na una go talk say real men wey dey work hard must smell veins, some of una even say that smell of sweat and veins dey turn una on in a man, now man must dress like van vicker, work like a character in those una fantacy and come back soft soft waterleave like Reginal Dan's husband.

Na una dey smell like fermented poo because of rotten blood smell of menstruation. we dont menstrate and our genital is well presentable and enclosed. I dare you ladies to take a picture of una genital area and confirm sincerely what it looks like. majority of you ranting here would throw up on siting the exact disgusting look of your access control..

why wont you ladies leave us in peace. most of your descriptions are for jobless or yahoo boys who pays attention to his look 100% without adequate productivity.. the good thing is that, una no dey smell our boxers before collecting money from us. so, lets leave it at that.

these confused gender ehn, I hail thee..


REAL MEN WEAR STEEL NOSE SHOES.
Foreign AffairsRe: Muslims Call For Jihad In Mississauga, Canada (Video) by lonelygem(m): 8:57pm On Nov 18, 2024
Am I the only one seeing it differently?
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BusinessRe: From Doom To Glory. Engonga of Equitoria Guinea as A Brand Ambassador. by lonelygem(op): 1:40pm On Nov 08, 2024
Hawx:
grin Orisirisi
The level of attention this guy has gotten on all social media in recent days, I don't think any of Nigerian presidents, both past and present has ever had such.

In fact, he remains the highest search on Google data and various platforms lately.

Yoyo bitters and Alumopa bitters manufacturers are waiting to have him in Nigeria.

Being popularly relevant for a bad reason? I comment my reserve. Lol!
BusinessFrom Doom To Glory. Engonga of Equitoria Guinea as A Brand Ambassador. by lonelygem(op): 12:04pm On Nov 08, 2024
Isn't it funny to know and learn that God look beyond our shortfalls and our missteps to bless us?

A friend from cot devoid told me some outlets are struggling to have business deals with the Engonga guy due to his personality and outfit but he turned them down.

I woke up today to have this dropped on my page..

RomanceRe: Husband Beat Wife For Using Thier Baby Bump For Photoshoot In Warri( Photo) by lonelygem(m): 10:44am On Nov 08, 2024
orohbiro:
is he the ist to do that even reginal Daniel did it and so many other women did their husband beat them up? What is wrong is wrong that man is a beast
No be every man be dead waterleave like Regina Dan's husband. And some women, the only language they understand is panel beating. They get reset of brain when hand touch them.

I hope your own partner discover and give to you exactly what u deserve on time and deliver you of this gender myopic war u constantly showcase on social platforms, that's if u have one at all..
RomanceRe: Husband Beat Wife For Using Thier Baby Bump For Photoshoot In Warri( Photo) by lonelygem(m): 10:39am On Nov 08, 2024
orohbiro:
Yeye man this what u get when u get married to over jealous husband. Read pill slowpoke. My sister pls leave your marriage and have a free life. Nonsense sad
I guess you are on a mission to boost your team members.. Person wey in own don burn no go like people wey their own smooth and would go extra mile to drag others to be like her.

That's women for u.
BusinessRe: Oil Marketers Drag Dangote To Court, Insist On Petrol Import by lonelygem(m): 8:15am On Nov 08, 2024
Kingpele:
Wow ....I don't believe importation of Petrol is good for this struggling economy we find ourselves. ..the solution is for dangote to sell directly to marketers..NNPC should act as referee..by so doing we will have a reasonable affordable price of psm . We should use our scarce dollars for other things not fuel importation... FTC the mods should do the needful
It's a matter of time, u will see innoson motors goes to court to stop all car importation as well and compell Nigerians to spend their hard earned money at his mercy..

You look at possible consequences of a matter. Dangote will loose out of court in this. Competition is a healthy push in business, for as long as you are a business man, you have no control over government policies. Be focused on your business, some people were doing well at that point u were finding your feet before you triumph to lime light and they didn't suffocate Dangote's business. He used imported product to pilot his businesses for decades, just now that he comes on board oil and gas, he's using monopolistic idea to suffocate everyone he met in the industry.

If u look backwards, with statistics data and occurrences, u should be able to foresight what's ahead. We all saw what happened to all commodities that came of from Dangote group, look at Sugar, look at salt, look at flour, look at cement and so on. It's heart-rending to see all these coming from a man who Federal government put on extended years tax holiday.

Let it be known to the masses that Dangote is on 20 years tax holiday and that's why he wants to take advantage of the period to invest massively on all possible business. Imagine how much revenue the government would have made by taxing all Dangote's product in Nigeria.

I want to believe what our Government officials are doing with Dangote is about to cast. The breeze will soon blow and we all shall see the Anus of the birds..

We are waiting..
FamilyRe: My 3 Year Old Daughter Is Behaving Strange by lonelygem(m): 8:07am On Nov 07, 2024
lawzolk:
Pls spank her anytime she does that and don't stop till she stops. Other less severe method is to reduce the level at which she watches d cartoon drastically. But trust me, the best is spanking.

I went thru a lot of comments and I felt so worried about dis generation of parents we have now. Why are people trying so hard to control nature or being too westernized. Parents nowadays are just too soft. Little spanking once in a while can't harm them not even mentally. We all went through worse and over 90 percent of us came out fine. Life is tough, death is inevitable, which shows that even God is not soft on us. So wat are we trying to control. We can only apply caution in dealing with them and don't act like some beastly African parents. I also have a 3 years old girl who does exactly d same but has stopped after I spanked her a few times.
You know what u are going to get in the end, a child that bedwet and u don't see other means to help him or her out of it than spanking, that child would give up on his or herself, develop a method of changing her dress before morning and hide it from u.

By extension, he or she start liaring to you and when that happens, you are loosing such child.
FamilyRe: My 3 Year Old Daughter Is Behaving Strange by lonelygem(m): 8:01am On Nov 07, 2024
RSAV:
Experienced parents please comment.
My 3 year old daughter, she would be 4 years old in Feb, is sharp and very bright.
It only happened occasionally that she would pee on herself. Usually when engrossed in cartoon.

However, it the last 4 weeks, it has become an everyday occurrence.
She would even poo on herself!

I've talked to her, yet no serious change.
I just had a baby boy few weeks ago. Could this be responsible for the change in my daughter? If yes, how best can it be handled? It's already affecting her in school.
What potty process method do you and your wife make use of?? I have a 3 years who would tell whenever she wants to pee or poo despite having diapers on.

Her brother stop peeing or pooling on himself and totally stopped wearing diapers at 2. At some point, u need to be part of the process, don't leave it to your wife. don't wait for her to say she wants to wee, on various interval, carry her to wee.. Make her free around u, my daughter talks more with me than to her mum because I built that confidence that she can think with me and anything at all is welcomed. Just pay more attention, even to the extent of her diet.

My daughter takes cereals at 3 hrs interval, there are occasions the cereal is substituted with tea to make her well hydrated, at this point you should expect that she must wee more than normal, I lift her off the bed to wee and return her without my wife knowing.

Women sometimes find these stuff stressful and give up on children to bed wet for all they care, that's where your role comes in as the man.

Pay attention to everything, be responsible and be accountable to everything, it's not just enough to be the head of the family, you must be in charge.
CrimeKidnappers Devices A New Means To Collect Ransom Without POS. by lonelygem(op): 8:51am On Nov 06, 2024
It is so surprising and alarming how Nigerian kidnappers step up their crime and beat intelligence of Nigerian Banking Sector and security setting in their game.

It is no longer POS..

Follow live confessions of a kidnapped Victim's family ordeal on YouTube via brekete family live for jaw dropping

You will learn better

Type 'brekete family live' on YouTube to join live confession..
RomanceRe: Lady Lays A Curse As Husband Abandons Family To Get Married To New Wife (Video) by lonelygem(m): 10:40am On Nov 05, 2024
SoundPlus:
The mental health and psychological well been of those kids has already been tempered with and damaged the day their father left them for another woman. Nothing damages a child like that.... feeling abandoned
And to watch their mother laying curses on their father and her fathers entire generation at this age, what kind of woman do you presume that little girl would grow to be??

This is how a generational curse starts, she would see it as a norm to curse any man who doesn't behave well, she would cause her future husband without minding her children presence, her children would also grow in that line of mentality.

Mind u, separation is not abandonment. I once drove out of my estate to lodge in a hotel situated about 5 min drive from my estate sometimes when my wife became unreasonable. I made her understand I needed to give her some space, probably she would come back to her senses. For 4 days I was calling the househelp to bring food to the hotel from home for me.

The basic truth is that this woman is not matured about handling her issues. What does the husband's generation have to do with her problem that she mentioned them in her lunacy rehearsal?? singled out her mannerless children who were seen saying 'so shall it be' to a voice destroying their father.. Haba!

Some people's parenting are threats to the society..
RomanceRe: Lady Lays A Curse As Husband Abandons Family To Get Married To New Wife (Video) by lonelygem(m): 5:56pm On Nov 04, 2024
dominique:
She is totally wrong for sowing seeds of bitterness and hatred into her kids. They will grow up into toxic adults and she will be at the receiving ends
it's my utmost joy that sensible women like this will not support such evil act irrespective of equal gender. unlike those frustrated ones twisting issues.

whatever is bad is bad, no matter how you flip it.
common sense!!!
RomanceRe: Lady Lays A Curse As Husband Abandons Family To Get Married To New Wife (Video) by lonelygem(m): 5:51pm On Nov 04, 2024
Holluwhakemmy:
don't worry your daughters will experience same as well
I guess you can do same. you don't see anything wrong with her involving the kids in their unresolved mess. matured couple put themselves in the car and drive away from home to resolve heated issues in order not to damage children mental and psychological state.

if it's a norm to curse where you were raised, it may be unacceptable in other places. fix your issues and leave the poor kids out of it.
please maintain your lane and stop supporting evil. you would end up disgracing yourself in public.
RomanceRe: Lady Lays A Curse As Husband Abandons Family To Get Married To New Wife (Video) by lonelygem(m): 5:42pm On Nov 04, 2024
SoundPlus:
It's insensitive to label her a bad wife. Do you know their marriage history? What has she done that can't be fixed? Is the man perfect? You men should learn to take responsibility for your actions.....stop blaming women for your weakness....the woman he is now married too, is she perfect? Or he will run off to the next when she does wrong abi🙄
the madness we are trying to address here is involving the children and have them say Amen to her curses on their father. these children are innocent of whatever mess the two parties are involved in, what story would you expect from kids like this at their thirties when they know better??

are you insinuating there is nothing wrong with that?? the children mental and psychological health is equally important and that alone can mess up their entire life if care is not taken.
RomanceRe: I Am Not A Weak And Understanding Wife. My Husband Is Afraid Of Me - Lady by lonelygem(m): 1:52pm On Nov 03, 2024
Zooposki:
I dont hate men. I just hate their arrogance due to patriarchy, thinking they are far better and superior than those that gave birth to them.
Sadly, you don't have control over that, it's been like that before mine and your great great grand parents and no amount of hatred to any fraction of it by you would change anything.

It was ordained by God and I'm much certain that all your entire wisdom, I mean all of you women in the entire wide World's wisdom put together can never equate 0.00000000001% of God's wisdom. So, why are u women being indirectly rude to God by challenging His decisionshuh

Most of you need a change of reasoning and face the reality.
RomanceRe: I Am Not A Weak And Understanding Wife. My Husband Is Afraid Of Me - Lady by lonelygem(m): 7:25am On Nov 03, 2024
ExAngel007:
A Nigerian woman, Chizoba Ibebuike Okeke, is
currently trending over a comment she made,
boasting about her husband being afraid of her.
The viral post has elicited varying reactions on
social media, with many people dragging her for
publicly disrespecting her husband.


Reacting to the post, former Managing Director
of Anambra Broadcasting Service, ABS, Dr. Uche


Nworah, wrote: “Where una dey see this type of
wife? I have a friend that is looking for a wife."

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Just know that you are still standing because the man is considering one or two factors and hoping you would change one day.

The day he give up on you, make up his mind to end your rubbish, you won't even remember you have a phone not to talk of coming online.

After adopting all measures and engaging your family members without yielding positive result, I will quietly unleash the beast in me and start treat you like animal to set u up.

Real men don't shed tears, they rather shed something else which u wouldn't want to hear.. Not everyone leave matter for God.

When it happens, social media would go on flame. how dare you publicly claim you have coconut head towards your husband and bragging about it.

He insulted me, I couldn't stand it, I slapped her, she slapped me twice.. Before you know it, coconut head woman got got herself killed by her coconut sense and her untamed mouth.

Some women's upbringing are quite questionable as It demonstrates gross failure on the part of their parents.

They learn when it is too late. And in most cases, those bad friends claiming to support them in their stupidity ends up sleeping with their men.


This World ehn, Kai! It was just God and man in the beginning and everywhere was at peace. From the day God created this mentally derailed gender called woman, God no fit rest again and man no rest too..

We saw the other animal raining curses on the entire generation of a man because the man got tired of her excesses and moved on, she was cursing her husband and have her children saying amen in a live video..
PoliticsRe: Once You Are More Than 7 Years Old You Can Be Charged To Court- Police PRO Says by lonelygem(m): 5:08am On Nov 02, 2024
Probably the new inspector General of police is yet to get proper interpretation of Nigerian constitutions and child's right act. It is an international law, not only for Nigerian children.

How can a sane man spit this kind of gilbrish. No court of competent jurisdiction have the power to trial a minor. Not even the Federal high Court.

We had this discussion with legal luminaries and there is no way around it.
RomanceRe: Lady Lays A Curse As Husband Abandons Family To Get Married To New Wife (Video) by lonelygem(m):
She dey whine.. Who would have believed how married women suddenly turn into isolated lifestyle and prioritize their close friends and colleagues..

We are men and most of us knows how it feels to find ourselves experiencing what we never wished..

Men constantly have a softspot for their kids, when u see a man that decided to let go, check that woman thoroughly.

She obviously have brainwashed the children and win them on her sides not knowing that the man would have little or less to regret in the future.

Life of a single mother is always boring and exhausting but they won't keep their own end of the bargain. They come out with usual emotional blackmail and continue to whip sentiment..

And economy no de smile now, she go hear am

Shamefully, same mouth she used in cursing this man would be used to demand for food and upkeep, and if the man who had probably seen the video clip of the woman and her children laying curse on him decided to rule them out of his life completely without providing for them, there you would see our legal jungle activist and Worriors dragging the man here and there..

How can u lay curse on his entire family?? God is not as stupid and dump as u are, if someone doesn't merit ur curse, it eventually comes back to u.

I fear who no fear this mentally derailed gender..
RomanceRe: Advice Needed by lonelygem(m): 7:22am On Oct 31, 2024
Spamplug:
And you think she will say the truth? 😂
what if she's not like every random girls that lieshuh
BusinessRe: How Do U Handle Return Of Goods On Sentimental Grounds? by lonelygem(op): 2:08pm On Oct 29, 2024
Thanks to every concerned person, someone advised I contact and request for an upgrade and from there I might probably be considered. I did exactly that but the company insisted I would be responsible for some charges and cost of waybill back to them..

its so interesting they have good post sales customer support services and understanding.

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