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Business / Re: Who Can Supply Yam In Large Quantity From The North. by lonelygem(m): 4:43pm On Apr 22, 2021
most cases, the business hit the rock the moment the supplier request part payment and the buyer insist payment on delivery.. i had similar challenges during my hustling days, there are quite beautiful deals but with harsh conditions.. imagine someone you haven't met before requesting supply of product worth 200k with pay on delivery condition. of which you plan to send the goods via a waybill system.. how do we go from there? most of those NL business interactions never go through in the long run except for which someone has to take the big risk of trust.. and these days, some people would even stoop as low as defrauding others of 2,000 naira let alone sum as huge as 150k.. may God help all genuine hustlers..

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Crime / Re: Lady Sexually Harassed By A Man At Ajah Park In Lagos (Video) by lonelygem(m): 2:42am On Feb 24, 2021
please when will sanity return to Ajah? I dont even wish I had a cause to revisit that part of Lagos ever again after my experience during the last weekend. a gentle looking innocent guy was descended on by 4 other guys just because he tried to park his clean toyota car and refused to tip a guy who claimed to be the cabal at that Adesanya junction.. before we knew what, about 3 other dirty looking touts showed up from nowhere to joined the initial 4 guys and they used stick and all sort of things on this guy, hitting him from different directions just out of envy, calling him "Olowo igbo" "shewo lo n bowa ni" "a maa foju e gbole nibi ni.." everyone just kept their distance and looking.. this was broad day light, about 1:30pm for crying out loud. it was just like movie to me..

once you cross that Lekki, zero your mind oh. Ajah is a no man's land and anything goes..
by the way, when has it become a crime to tint one's hair, wear anklets, tatoo your body or even pierce one's nose?
sane people dont judge anyone by appearance.
we are all entitled to how we look to suit a particular reason best know to us.
anything contrary is nothing but full blown display of madness and infringement of right of others..

if not that we are just naturally wicked to ourselves as human, at some point or the other, sum of us incidentally but unknowingly bumped into our female sister, cousins, niece, or even close friend's unclothedness or sexual appealing state, some of you even bathed your female niece to her age of 10, 14.. some of you would watch you close cousins expose her laps and panties carelessly around yoyu even pressing her full breast on you freely, how were you able to control yourselves in the whole of this periods but so fast at dishing baseless conclusion and excuses at people who chose to dress the way they are comfortable.

we are not animals, if you have problems of discipline in thoughts, it is an ideal one that you stay indoors at all time and restrict yourself from watching cable channels to comport your unguarded mind..

sane men are busy looking around for opportunities and new businesses all around, sometimes they dont even take note of people they see, while some are out there giving such a long deep look at innocent ladies they see on the road..

why are we hypocrites?

please some guys needs to add better value to their lives by engaging their minds with profitable thoughts.

if you cant control your thoughts, you are not different from animals..

shikenah!!!
Investment / Investors model by lonelygem(m): 10:10am On May 23, 2020
This..
Family / Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by lonelygem(m): 9:54am On May 12, 2020
Permit me to air my little contribution if you don't mind..

Note: it's a common mistakes that members of the wife's family innocently support the husband at a tough time by rendering a direct job influence or financial support and the wife ends up playing a victim of such kind gesture.

Every man has some ego irrespective of financial status. The rich are able to contains theirs simply because anyone would pay attention to their financial status than character.

One thing is clear, which is your anxiety for a religious man above other measure and no one would have been able to convince you not to go into the marriage and have you listened.

It's a common speculation that religious brothers tends to turn out being lazy in the long run probably because they believe spiritual strength dominate and has tendency to command evry other factor that constitutes a successful life.

But if this man had bee jobless till date, but still perfectly coordinate his 'receive it by fire' life style, would there had been a reason for this post? Please be sincere as many women are in this very situation but not all have the courage to flair their worries..

Same way you set "spiritual life support" as a factor for choosing him of all other men seeking your attention then, he too might had set "financial support and loyalty" as a criteria to settle with you, both ways.. It is one of the rules of aspiration to adjourn to create room for a review when something new is brought to the table.

To be candid with you, I don't see you as frustrated as some other person might think because of a point you made, "if to say he appreciate I for no complain.." the moment you start seeing yourself as a different entity from your husband, there will always be a recurring misunderstanding. Do you thank yourself whenever you sacrifice so much taking care of yourself? Learn to see your husband like one of your little kids, kids are expected to always fuckup, but if a child fuckup a thousand time, the mother is always ready to forgive and let go twice as much..

You both should drop your egos, you need him now that the whole thing is telling on your health, don't make him feel like he's the cause of your health challenges.. once in a while, call him by his name at his lighter mood, look into his eyes and alter those words sincerely from your heart "I'm sorry" he might want to ask you for what, tell him for everything I might have done wrong, and pains I might have caused us..

Women often say they don't talk and they are quiet, the truth is that even rays of light has its peculiar sound when the time is right. SILENCE is a reaction, it might only be a violent or a subtle type depending on the circumstance at that moment..

Think of all the beauty and amendment the word 'sorry' will bring back to your marriage..
Avoid family interference and demonstrate sincerely that this is your home and all you have to live for, take your kids with you on a vacation off your environment.. discuss issues, nice moment of those cool days the flame of your affections was very active, the good time will come back and gradually, you will have so much joy to heal your medical challenges..

Do not allow those fake people misadvice you, you have a better home than most of them here, they practically worship their husbands and will come and tell you something else here..

It's not just thinking or stress that causes high BP, you may need to check sugar level and all that, that statement amounts to a blackmail on the man's part.

Please be guided as I wish u a better recovery

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Education / Re: Don't Open Schools Yet - Lagos Govt by lonelygem(m): 2:37am On May 03, 2020
A good move
TV/Movies / Re: Davido Confims Nicki Minaj Will Be On His Next Album by lonelygem(m): 2:31am On May 03, 2020
Till then
Properties / Re: Your No.1 Real Estate Agent In Abuja Is Back by lonelygem(m): 12:06pm On Apr 29, 2020
URGENT QUARANTINE SALES!!!

(1.) Landed property measuring over 3 hectares for urgent pick up for serious buyer at Katampe in FCT.

Titled Documents:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan.

(2.) Landed property measuring 6000 msq at Jahi in FCT.

Titled Document:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan

The properties are available for inspection on account of the buyer. Interested person(s) may contact 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
Properties / 3 Hectares Plus Landed Property With FCDA C Of O by lonelygem(m): 11:42am On Apr 29, 2020
URGENT QUARANTINE SALES!!!

(1.) Landed property measuring over 3 hectares for urgent pick up for serious buyer at Katampe in FCT.

Titled Documents:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan.

(2.) Landed property measuring 6000 msq at Jahi in FCT.

Titled Document:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan

The properties are available for inspection on account of the buyer. Interested person(s) may contact 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
Family / Re: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by lonelygem(m): 11:09am On Apr 19, 2020
Posting picture here is unnecessary and I hope the father of that child will be pleased with you for posting his baby's picture on a thread for 50k..

Please take down the pics..
Family / Re: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by lonelygem(m): 7:03am On Apr 19, 2020
Mizwisdom:
So how will you know the real ones? my advice is for you to visit or have someone visit an antenatal clinic in a primary health care centre. Pick five poor pregnant women and give them the money or buy what they will need to see them through delivery. That's all. God bless you


Second option: Go through your church. Ask your Pastor/Priest to sow into the lives of five poor pregnant women and ask him to pray for you to conceive afterwards.





Third option: before you give people on Nairaland let them verify their story. This means you have to send somebody to visit them for verification, if you find that they are being sincere, you can give them the money.






Just what I was thinking.. when it comes to money, everyone easily turn to a pastor, nursing mother or expectant woman..

People have sold their conscience to the devil.
Most of those claiming to be student and stranded, they operate new NL account to hide true identities.. and they have been successful on many give away threads through their sugar coated tongues..

We know real people on NL. We know ourselves and we interact well even before COVID19 palava..

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Family / Re: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by lonelygem(m): 11:27pm On Apr 18, 2020
Giversnaverlack:
I want to sow a seed of 50k to 5women pregnant and mothers only. Please Pray for me as am coming out of this lockdown, let me conceive, God should remember me with and bless my womb with triplets. I really need your prayers upon my womb and I will come back to testify. Thank you

As much as I appreciate your kindness and humanitarian spirit, I won't hold back my piece of advice if you would understand.

God answers prayers when channeled through a strong faith and backed up with some underground charity that is not aimed so flamboyant..

why give 50k to five people when the chances that the five people are scammers is so high..

50k to 5 people is 250k of which same 250k can take care of 50 people's needs with chances that there would be lots of sincere and seriously in need instituting the majority of the beneficiaries.

When I checked, majority of those that. Responded so fast to your post had been a consistent beneficiary of most of giveaways on same NL who has practically turned begging to a business when they are not genuinely in need. Throwing 50k to five people will rather raise desperation and might be deemed extravagant..

Please I will advice you to reconsider your decisions to create better chances for sincere people who are truly in need no matter how small it is..

Just an advice if u don't mind as I pray God almighty consider your good intention towards humanity and grant your desire.

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Family / Re: Marriage Palava part 3 by lonelygem(m): 7:47am On Apr 18, 2020
sisisioge:
Apparently, you weren't ready for marriage and still aren't ready to live the married life now. Take time out to assess the situation you've been painting in all your posts as a third party....you will get your answer.


What was the rush biko?

This is what happens when toddlers go into marriage in the name of 'I'm done with school, I've come of age.., I'm as big as my dad..' the psychological aspect of those factors that really confirms someone to be really ripe for marriage are often swept under the carpet by our parents who are desperately waiting to be called grandma and grandpa..

I'm sure the wife must have taken off certain. Cardinals of family bond without him paying attention to them.. sex is always the last to be taken out after a woman has exhausted all corrective measures to communicate her displeasure and discomfort in a relationship, when the party involved still doesn't pay attention or try to be insensitive, then she result to that..

Funny enough you never cared about series of body languages she must have used as corrective measures before the full blown decisions, the mentality is always 'as long as she cooks my meal, take care of my kids and grant me free assess to her thighs..'

First stage of resolution is admitting one's fault with sincere sense of remorse and wiliness to yield to corrections..

For as long as he's siting provision for the woman's dream of lifestyle as justification to be careless and insensitive, let him dwell in his problem for as long at the marital drought can take him..

I don't console people with lies..

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Family / Re: Marriage Palava part 3 by lonelygem(m): 7:13am On Apr 18, 2020
Na wah!

It doesn't look like you are willing to listen to advice to me, sadly you are raising justifications to issues you and I knew were not justifiable..

Oga there are so much to ponder on in the mind of Nlanders than this your domestic 'I mess I no talk sorry' matter abeg..

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Education / Re: Osun Begins ‘School-On-Air’ For Primary, Secondary School Students by lonelygem(m): 8:34am On Apr 14, 2020
Osun state. The manifold for fund looting..
Most un-sustainable project we have at the upper end today springed from Osun state.

They introduced "Opon Imo" as project to distribute iPad device to all secondary school students of Osun state, the supply of millions of iPad device contract awarded to the son of the Governor.. Millions of Naira perished there without accountability..

Feeding of school children was also introduced by same Osun state government with claims to have exhausted the state treasury on that singular project and subsequent. Proposal to federal arms of the ruling party, by proxy or by due diligent, school feeding project has come to stay with tangible proportion of our annual budget.

This is a state without programs, running on formality preference..


They know little than they assume to know and will soon start clamoring on network issues, cyber security challenges and all sort of after they must have succesfully comitted an unaccountable sum of money to this projects.

Federal government gave palatives to Nigerians through the state governments, the palatives was used to compensate political suporters in Osun state, after keeping people on hold for days, 2 cups of rice was finally given to each household without adress or any explanation..

#Amiloaded will not publish happening in her own state, but rather busy posting update on activities in Kaduna, Kano and Borno..

Time will tell..
Romance / Re: . by lonelygem(m): 7:59am On Apr 03, 2020
This country is really doomed oh!
May God save us..
Career / Re: Please Help Review My CV by lonelygem(m): 7:38am On Mar 12, 2020
You just presented a CV of a gate man not security profile as u emphasised..

Think about latest technology trends and how their knowledge boost your profile. I'm happy you schooled from a state with high concentration of international standard industrial practice.

There is something called "goal zero"
In brief, the same way safety of asset and occupants are important, your life as a safety, security or access control or even surveillance personnel is equally important.

To save the time, modify your security expertise to conform with latest practice and your ability to use the right terms for acclaimed role tells how comfortable you are in that field.

Hints:
Don't call entry points entrance or gate, it is called ACESS CONTROL.
Don't use the word patrol, call it SURVEILLANCE.
Claiming you patrol facility areas is a breach of safety policy, oil facilities are now surveyed with drones and cctv cameras.

Just dance around these small small things..
Make.your notable achievement that conform with that sector you are applying for obvious enough before other details.

For Example:

JOHN EMMANUELA.
(B.Sc. Chemical Engineering, level III Safety, HAZOP, HUET)

This will first catch attention and would make them want to look further with full concentration...

My humble submission..

Afikoo:
Good morning Nairanders , for those still awake.

Okay, I just finish writing my CV. I am submitting it for a job application tomorrow. Deadline is Friday .

They require only CV. Please give a constructive review of my CV. I will be glad .

Also, is it advisable to send a cover letter for a job that ask for just CV?. Cos I have one ready.

Thanks for your time
Investment / Re: N1 Million Investment Fund:- Seeking Investment Opportunities (Now N5Million) by lonelygem(m): 12:38pm On Mar 07, 2020
aussig:


My observation is that a lot of the so-called entrepreneurs just want to have bragging rights to be able to call themselves "CEO".

Unfortunately they do not understand that being a business owner comes with a lot of responsibilities.

When you're the CEO the buck stops on your table, the survival or failure of the is entirely up to you, you need to be ready to go the extra mile to make sure the business works out.

A number of the promoters of these new start up do not want to take risks with there own resources, they want to push the financial risk to the investor so they can easily exit the business if something goes wrong.

Then there are those who are not sincere but are looking for a way to scam you under the guise of looking for an investor for their new business.

I would advise any potential investors to be wary of any start up where the promoter is asking you to invest in an intangible asset or expense, especially something whose value is difficult to ascertain.

You need to be sure that the asset of expense being acquired or incurred will result in commensurate addition of value to the business before you make a committment

Appreciate your spirit of commitment so far, permit me to register this for the purpose of survival of this great gesture.

In investment plans, good evaluator would sustain that there are several areas at which the business owners stake their commitment and sacrifice for the business which will mention but a few.

INSURANCE, any sustainable business proposal will constantly indicate commitment through the comprehensive insurance package which is one of those security the investors can bank on should anything happen, it's simply a matter of following up with the insurance coverage to evaluate the safety of investment.

ASSETS. An entrepreneur who has scale through the process of asset declaration and has provided audited account statement with current tax clearance from relevant authority has really scale through some.height of commitment and has demonstrated competence to a certain extent. If our country happened to well structured, such entrepreneur is entitled to disaster bailout in an obvious case of imbalances and business collapse.

To save the time, potential investors needs to really understand certain process of evaluating an entrepreneur beyond asking her to provide 60% of the entire investment. No entrepreneur with financial means of 60% of entire investment would want to expose his or her business to a third party and pass through some of these...

In reality, 80% investors and entrepreneur cannot scale through the stress of obtaining a valid tax clearance certificate, not many Nigerians have a plot of land in his or her name, I feel so agitated that a potential investor would look than on an entrepreneur who already have plot of land with genuine document and already in good tax evaluation with Nigerian government despite the hardship melted on Nigeria investors.

Only foreign investors are wooed with tax holidays, indigenous business owners are never placed on tax holidays, despite that we struggle to have our heads beyond the tides..

In short, many factors constitutes credibility in business management settings and not just that physical cash alone...

My humble piece..

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Investment / Re: N1 Million Investment Fund:- Seeking Investment Opportunities (Now N5Million) by lonelygem(m): 11:13am On Feb 26, 2020
We can work together on this..
aussig:
Is there anyone here who has experience in rice business?

I want someone who had a good understanding of the entire value chain...from planting to harvesting, milling, de-stoning, baging and sale
Science/Technology / New 500gb Lg External Hard Drive At Give Away Price. Urgent Pickup by lonelygem(m): 11:29am On Feb 15, 2020
There are 4 nos new 500GB LG ultra slim external hard drive at give away price, the drives were purchased to move files between database and it's now available for disposal.
Interested and serious buyer may contact: 0.7.0.6.4.9.4.7.0.9.0 or whatsapp 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
Health / Re: Am I At Risk Of HIV Infection After Sex In Imo Hotel? by lonelygem(m): 9:38am On Feb 08, 2020
Blu03:
undecided

She saw the sore and still had sex with you?
Back to your question, go for a test. Are we doctors? Most of us here are unemployed and hustling to get a job.
Meet someone who is qualified to diagnose you.

AGES PROPERTIES is an indigenous estate management and investment company registered to transform lives and bring affordable housing and landed properties to the reach of the masses.

Over the years, we have been able to spread our tentacles across many notable states with pressing needs to add value to individuals with monthly income through our various flexible and affordable housing and landed properties mortgage packages.

It is on the verge of meeting our business objectives that AGES Properties Limited call on meaningful Nigerian youths with verse business orientation to fill the positions of our business team with details below:

Post: Marketing executive

Qualification: OND/HND equivalent.

Location: Abuja

Remuneration: 40,000.00 monthly (Basic)

Performance Bonus: 30,000.00 monthly.

Logistics Allowance: 4,000.00 monthly.

Interested and eligible applicant may forward his or her CV to decodedglobalservices@yahoo.com
Call or Whatsapp 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0 for enquiry.
Career / COMPETENT MARKETERS URGENTLY NEEDED IN ABUJA. by lonelygem(m): 3:30am On Feb 03, 2020
AGES PROPERTIES LIMITED is an indigenous estate management and investment company registered to transform lives and bring affordable housing and landed properties to the reach of the masses.

Over the years, we have been able to spread our operational tentacles across many notable states with constant zeal to add value to individuals with monthly income through our various flexible and affordable housing and landed properties mortgage packages.

It is on the verge of meeting our business objectives that AGES Properties Limited call on meaningful Nigerian youths with verse business orientation to fill the positions of our business team with details below:

Post: Marketing executive

Qualification: OND/HND equivalent.

Location: Abuja

Remuneration: 40,000.00 monthly (Basic)

Performance Bonus: 30,000.00 monthly.

Logistics Allowance: 4,000.00 monthly.

Interested and eligible applicant may forward his or her CV to decodedglobalservices@yahoo.com
Call or Whatsapp: 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0 for enquiry.

NB: Application closes MIDNIGHT 8TH FEBRUARY 2020.
Business / Re: 2020 Affordable Empowerment Scheme For All. by lonelygem(m): 8:55am On Feb 01, 2020
How to Apply
Potential beneficiary of 2020 Ologodidan/AGES Empowerment scheme is to make a one off form purchase of 20,000.00 payable to the official bank account:

Ologodidan Multi Services Limited
Zenith Bank Account.
Account Number: 1015986826.

Applicant is expected to contact or walk into any of our offices closest to his or her area for confirmation of payment for the form and subsequent follow up.

NB: All our offices nationwide are opened Monday to Saturday, 8am - 5pm. Individual can freely walk into our offices Nationwide for registration and enquiry
Business / Re: 2020 Affordable Empowerment Scheme For All. by lonelygem(m): 8:49am On Feb 01, 2020
Aim and Objectives of the Scheme.
OLOGODIDAN/AGES empowerment scheme is aimed at adding value to humanity through various financial supports and cash bailout as a means of empowering interested members of our societies and entire nation at large.

Who is to Benefit
Ologodidan/AGES empowerment scheme is tailored to be flexible enough to capture the entire legitimate citizen of this country with like minds, irrespective of ethnicity, gender or religious status of the potential beneficiary.

Value of the Programme.
Ologodidan/AGES empowerment programme is valued at 60,000.00 per annum on each application. A participant who is willing and capable is allowed to make 2 or more applications on a stretch for increased benefit.
Business / 2020 Affordable Empowerment Scheme For All. by lonelygem(m): 8:46am On Feb 01, 2020
OLOGODIDAN MULTI SERVICES LTD. is a registered indigenous financial organization registered in the year 2018 with registration number RC: 1500463

Ologodidan's intentions are centred at humanitarian support, helping the poor, empowering the less privilege and providing financial support for small and medium scale businesses, which has been a major problem confronting productivity in our society today.

It is on these notes that OLOGODIDAN MULTI SERVICES LIMITED in conjunction with AGES PROPERTIES LIMITED presents to the general public her 2020 fund intervention and financial inclination programme titled OLOGODIDAN/AGES EMPOWERMENT SCHEME.

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