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FamilyRe: Marriage Palava part 3 by lonelygem(m): 7:13am On Apr 18, 2020
Na wah!

It doesn't look like you are willing to listen to advice to me, sadly you are raising justifications to issues you and I knew were not justifiable..

Oga there are so much to ponder on in the mind of Nlanders than this your domestic 'I mess I no talk sorry' matter abeg..
EducationRe: Osun Begins ‘School-On-Air’ For Primary, Secondary School Students by lonelygem(m): 8:34am On Apr 14, 2020
Osun state. The manifold for fund looting..
Most un-sustainable project we have at the upper end today springed from Osun state.

They introduced "Opon Imo" as project to distribute iPad device to all secondary school students of Osun state, the supply of millions of iPad device contract awarded to the son of the Governor.. Millions of Naira perished there without accountability..

Feeding of school children was also introduced by same Osun state government with claims to have exhausted the state treasury on that singular project and subsequent. Proposal to federal arms of the ruling party, by proxy or by due diligent, school feeding project has come to stay with tangible proportion of our annual budget.

This is a state without programs, running on formality preference..


They know little than they assume to know and will soon start clamoring on network issues, cyber security challenges and all sort of after they must have succesfully comitted an unaccountable sum of money to this projects.

Federal government gave palatives to Nigerians through the state governments, the palatives was used to compensate political suporters in Osun state, after keeping people on hold for days, 2 cups of rice was finally given to each household without adress or any explanation..

#Amiloaded will not publish happening in her own state, but rather busy posting update on activities in Kaduna, Kano and Borno..

Time will tell..
RomanceRe: . by lonelygem(m):
This country is really doomed oh!
May God save us..
CareerRe: Please Help Review My CV by lonelygem(m): 7:38am On Mar 12, 2020
You just presented a CV of a gate man not security profile as u emphasised..

Think about latest technology trends and how their knowledge boost your profile. I'm happy you schooled from a state with high concentration of international standard industrial practice.

There is something called "goal zero"
In brief, the same way safety of asset and occupants are important, your life as a safety, security or access control or even surveillance personnel is equally important.

To save the time, modify your security expertise to conform with latest practice and your ability to use the right terms for acclaimed role tells how comfortable you are in that field.

Hints:
Don't call entry points entrance or gate, it is called ACESS CONTROL.
Don't use the word patrol, call it SURVEILLANCE.
Claiming you patrol facility areas is a breach of safety policy, oil facilities are now surveyed with drones and cctv cameras.

Just dance around these small small things..
Make.your notable achievement that conform with that sector you are applying for obvious enough before other details.

For Example:

JOHN EMMANUELA.
(B.Sc. Chemical Engineering, level III Safety, HAZOP, HUET)

This will first catch attention and would make them want to look further with full concentration...

My humble submission..

Afikoo:
Good morning Nairanders , for those still awake.

Okay, I just finish writing my CV. I am submitting it for a job application tomorrow. Deadline is Friday .

They require only CV. Please give a constructive review of my CV. I will be glad .

Also, is it advisable to send a cover letter for a job that ask for just CV?. Cos I have one ready.

Thanks for your time
InvestmentRe: N1 Million Investment Fund:- Seeking Investment Opportunities (Now N5Million) by lonelygem(m): 12:38pm On Mar 07, 2020
aussig:
My observation is that a lot of the so-called entrepreneurs just want to have bragging rights to be able to call themselves "CEO".

Unfortunately they do not understand that being a business owner comes with a lot of responsibilities.

When you're the CEO the buck stops on your table, the survival or failure of the is entirely up to you, you need to be ready to go the extra mile to make sure the business works out.

A number of the promoters of these new start up do not want to take risks with there own resources, they want to push the financial risk to the investor so they can easily exit the business if something goes wrong.

Then there are those who are not sincere but are looking for a way to scam you under the guise of looking for an investor for their new business.

I would advise any potential investors to be wary of any start up where the promoter is asking you to invest in an intangible asset or expense, especially something whose value is difficult to ascertain.

You need to be sure that the asset of expense being acquired or incurred will result in commensurate addition of value to the business before you make a committment
Appreciate your spirit of commitment so far, permit me to register this for the purpose of survival of this great gesture.

In investment plans, good evaluator would sustain that there are several areas at which the business owners stake their commitment and sacrifice for the business which will mention but a few.

INSURANCE, any sustainable business proposal will constantly indicate commitment through the comprehensive insurance package which is one of those security the investors can bank on should anything happen, it's simply a matter of following up with the insurance coverage to evaluate the safety of investment.

ASSETS. An entrepreneur who has scale through the process of asset declaration and has provided audited account statement with current tax clearance from relevant authority has really scale through some.height of commitment and has demonstrated competence to a certain extent. If our country happened to well structured, such entrepreneur is entitled to disaster bailout in an obvious case of imbalances and business collapse.

To save the time, potential investors needs to really understand certain process of evaluating an entrepreneur beyond asking her to provide 60% of the entire investment. No entrepreneur with financial means of 60% of entire investment would want to expose his or her business to a third party and pass through some of these...

In reality, 80% investors and entrepreneur cannot scale through the stress of obtaining a valid tax clearance certificate, not many Nigerians have a plot of land in his or her name, I feel so agitated that a potential investor would look than on an entrepreneur who already have plot of land with genuine document and already in good tax evaluation with Nigerian government despite the hardship melted on Nigeria investors.

Only foreign investors are wooed with tax holidays, indigenous business owners are never placed on tax holidays, despite that we struggle to have our heads beyond the tides..

In short, many factors constitutes credibility in business management settings and not just that physical cash alone...

My humble piece..
InvestmentRe: N1 Million Investment Fund:- Seeking Investment Opportunities (Now N5Million) by lonelygem(m): 11:13am On Feb 26, 2020
We can work together on this..
aussig:
Is there anyone here who has experience in rice business?

I want someone who had a good understanding of the entire value chain...from planting to harvesting, milling, de-stoning, baging and sale
Science/TechnologyNew 500gb Lg External Hard Drive At Give Away Price. Urgent Pickup by lonelygem(op): 11:29am On Feb 15, 2020
There are 4 nos new 500GB LG ultra slim external hard drive at give away price, the drives were purchased to move files between database and it's now available for disposal.
Interested and serious buyer may contact: 0.7.0.6.4.9.4.7.0.9.0 or whatsapp 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
HealthRe: Am I At Risk Of HIV Infection After Sex In Imo Hotel? by lonelygem(m): 9:38am On Feb 08, 2020
Blu03:
undecided

She saw the sore and still had sex with you?
Back to your question, go for a test. Are we doctors? Most of us here are unemployed and hustling to get a job.
Meet someone who is qualified to diagnose you.
AGES PROPERTIES is an indigenous estate management and investment company registered to transform lives and bring affordable housing and landed properties to the reach of the masses.

Over the years, we have been able to spread our tentacles across many notable states with pressing needs to add value to individuals with monthly income through our various flexible and affordable housing and landed properties mortgage packages.

It is on the verge of meeting our business objectives that AGES Properties Limited call on meaningful Nigerian youths with verse business orientation to fill the positions of our business team with details below:

Post: Marketing executive

Qualification: OND/HND equivalent.

Location: Abuja

Remuneration: 40,000.00 monthly (Basic)

Performance Bonus: 30,000.00 monthly.

Logistics Allowance: 4,000.00 monthly.

Interested and eligible applicant may forward his or her CV to decodedglobalservices@yahoo.com
Call or Whatsapp 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0 for enquiry.
CareerCOMPETENT MARKETERS URGENTLY NEEDED IN ABUJA. by lonelygem(op): 3:30am On Feb 03, 2020
AGES PROPERTIES LIMITED is an indigenous estate management and investment company registered to transform lives and bring affordable housing and landed properties to the reach of the masses.

Over the years, we have been able to spread our operational tentacles across many notable states with constant zeal to add value to individuals with monthly income through our various flexible and affordable housing and landed properties mortgage packages.

It is on the verge of meeting our business objectives that AGES Properties Limited call on meaningful Nigerian youths with verse business orientation to fill the positions of our business team with details below:

Post: Marketing executive

Qualification: OND/HND equivalent.

Location: Abuja

Remuneration: 40,000.00 monthly (Basic)

Performance Bonus: 30,000.00 monthly.

Logistics Allowance: 4,000.00 monthly.

Interested and eligible applicant may forward his or her CV to decodedglobalservices@yahoo.com
Call or Whatsapp: 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0 for enquiry.

NB: Application closes MIDNIGHT 8TH FEBRUARY 2020.
BusinessRe: 2020 Affordable Empowerment Scheme For All. by lonelygem(op): 8:55am On Feb 01, 2020
How to Apply
Potential beneficiary of 2020 Ologodidan/AGES Empowerment scheme is to make a one off form purchase of 20,000.00 payable to the official bank account:

Ologodidan Multi Services Limited
Zenith Bank Account.
Account Number: 1015986826.

Applicant is expected to contact or walk into any of our offices closest to his or her area for confirmation of payment for the form and subsequent follow up.

NB: All our offices nationwide are opened Monday to Saturday, 8am - 5pm. Individual can freely walk into our offices Nationwide for registration and enquiry
BusinessRe: 2020 Affordable Empowerment Scheme For All. by lonelygem(op): 8:49am On Feb 01, 2020
Aim and Objectives of the Scheme.
OLOGODIDAN/AGES empowerment scheme is aimed at adding value to humanity through various financial supports and cash bailout as a means of empowering interested members of our societies and entire nation at large.

Who is to Benefit
Ologodidan/AGES empowerment scheme is tailored to be flexible enough to capture the entire legitimate citizen of this country with like minds, irrespective of ethnicity, gender or religious status of the potential beneficiary.

Value of the Programme.
Ologodidan/AGES empowerment programme is valued at 60,000.00 per annum on each application. A participant who is willing and capable is allowed to make 2 or more applications on a stretch for increased benefit.
Business2020 Affordable Empowerment Scheme For All. by lonelygem(op): 8:46am On Feb 01, 2020
OLOGODIDAN MULTI SERVICES LTD. is a registered indigenous financial organization registered in the year 2018 with registration number RC: 1500463

Ologodidan's intentions are centred at humanitarian support, helping the poor, empowering the less privilege and providing financial support for small and medium scale businesses, which has been a major problem confronting productivity in our society today.

It is on these notes that OLOGODIDAN MULTI SERVICES LIMITED in conjunction with AGES PROPERTIES LIMITED presents to the general public her 2020 fund intervention and financial inclination programme titled OLOGODIDAN/AGES EMPOWERMENT SCHEME.
BusinessRe: Standard Hotel Of 10 Rooms @ A Good Location For Lease @ 2million Per Annum by lonelygem(op): 11:50am On Jan 22, 2020
tammyf:
Has it gone?
Please send me a dm for update
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Five Reasons Never To Include References On Your CV by lonelygem(m): 10:03pm On Dec 24, 2019
PatrickOkunima:
http://patrickokunima.com/five-reasons-never-to-include-references-on-your-cv/
See you..
I used to believe these craps till I was privileged to be in company of a coded recruitment consultant sometimes ago.

Mind you, majority of those hanging in the necks of companies in the name of recruitment consult are not the real recruiters.

The real recruiters are those retired men. Who have spent 20 to 30 years of their lives in practice, training and recommending technically vibrant youths for sustainability of the system.

Most time, they are the last stage of recruitment and to those companies we see that has been operating for God knows how long without news of recruitment for a day, these experienced men are first and last stage of their recruitment exercise.

Some companies are too busy to create time for recruitment, they simply accept those recommended by these retired men based on how conversant they were with the system while they were in the office and how well the system trust their decision in accordance with some sacrifices.

On few occasion, I've sat with these guys reviewing CV, it's mostly done when well settled about the latest part of the night, I've heard repeatedly saying "see this one.. Referee on request.. what will it cost him to put it.. how I wish he knows.." sitting near him has made me learnt so much about these CV things..

I've codedlly taken part in recruitment exercise in the past, despite that I only sat there to warm the seat as I had no knowledge of what to ask.

The most important thing is, ensure your details make the flash point and do not write "CURICULUM VITAE" on the page.

The right thing is..

EZEKIEL GABRIEL JOEL. (MNSChE, MNSE)
then followed by your personal details.
Skip career objective stuff please, no one have interest in them and only makes the CV tiring to view. Concentrate on details of achievements.

Be smart about formatting your page and use bullets where necessary. Do not skip any detail as it might be the only advantage you have ahead of other CVs in comparison.

Note that Selected achievement is not the same with Professional experience.

For example, if you had worked in a bank as a bulk counter, and you recommended the use of automatic bulk accumulation alarm system that is programmed to sound when any cashier has up to 5Million in his or her save, Tellering will fall under Professional experience while "recommendation, follow up for discussion and review for installation of.." and many more will be under selected achievement sub heading.

Please add your hobbies and referees..
So many things constitutes consistency.
And always save a copy of every CV sent for you own use, especially those who edit CVs from time to time..

..my humble but candid opinion please!
BusinessRe: Standard Hotel Of 10 Rooms @ A Good Location For Lease @ 2million Per Annum by lonelygem(op): 5:03am On Dec 18, 2019
tammyf:
Which area in ph
East West road
BusinessStandard Hotel Of 10 Rooms @ A Good Location For Lease @ 2million Per Annum by lonelygem(op): 2:11pm On Dec 17, 2019
A standard 10 rooms hotel well built for that purpose with separate bar and restaurant urgently available for lease in Port Harcourt.

The Hotel is bungalow with car park separating the lodge and the bar. There is a tarred road passing directly the front of the Hotel.

It goes for 2Million naira per annum and available for inspection to serious investors.
Interested person may contact 07064947090 or whatsapp 08062988830
BusinessRe: 7 Reasons Why Hotel Business Fails In Nigeria by lonelygem(m): 10:07am On Dec 17, 2019
A standard 10 rooms hotel well built for that purpose with separate bar and restaurant urgently available for lease in Port Harcourt.

The Hotel is bungalow with car park separating the lodge and the bar. There is a tarred road passing directly the front of the Hotel.

It goes for 2Million naira per annum and available for inspection to serious investors.
Interested person may contact 07064947090 or whatsapp 08062988830
PropertiesA Standard 10 Rooms Hotel @ Good Location For Lease 2m Per Annum In Port Harcout by lonelygem(op): 8:23am On Dec 17, 2019
A standard 10 rooms hotel well built for that purpose with separate bar and restaurant urgently available for lease in Port Harcourt.

The Hotel is bungalow with car park separating the lodge and the bar. There is a tarred road passing directly the front of the Hotel.

It goes for 2Million naira per annum and available for inspection to serious investors.
Interested person may contact 07064947090 or whatsapp 08062988830
AdvertsA Standard 10 Rooms Hotel For Lease At 2million Per Annum In Port Harcourt by lonelygem(op): 8:11am On Dec 17, 2019
A standard 10 rooms hotel well built for that purpose with separate bar and restaurant urgently available for lease in Port Harcourt.

The Hotel is bungalow with car park separating the lodge and the bar. There is a tarred road passing directly the front of the Hotel.

It goes for 2Million naira per annum and available for inspection to serious investors.
Interested person may contact 07064947090 or whatsapp 08062988830
InvestmentA Standard 10 Rooms Hotel At A Great Location In Port Hacrt For Lease @ 2million by lonelygem(op): 7:59am On Dec 17, 2019
A standard 10 rooms hotel well built for that purpose with separate bar and restaurant urgently available for lease in Port Harcourt.

The Hotel is bungalow with car park separating the lodge and the bar. There is a tarred road passing directly the front of the Hotel.

It goes for 2Million naira per annum and available for inspection to serious investors.
Interested person may contact 07064947090 or whatsapp 08062988830
CareerRe: OBIORA OBIANODO: Son Of The Billionaire Offer 100 Job Opening To Lagos Residence by lonelygem(m): 8:00am On Nov 24, 2019
For obvious reasons and my experience in oil and gas terminals, this looks sketchy.

Being an importer does not tantamount to massive job openings around your industry.

There are importers who brings in over 200,000,000 litre (200,000 metric tones) in the space of a week or thereabouts, check out importers like AYM Shaffa, Pinacle, Matrix energy, Synod, AE&E among others, these are licensed importers with consistent supply, their activities are open and office location (tank farms are known).

The statement 'Information reaching us..' Shows the poster never had an explicit knowledge of what is happening around the organization and funny to see him result to attacking whoever flag an open curiosity to his content.

It is well with our soul oh.
RomanceRe: How Do I Move On From My Ex by lonelygem(m):
Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks
You are simply not disciplined.
Going through your post..

"it's not the first time he would be embarrassing you and you prefered to play into daring whatever he's capable of doing"

In company of many, it's offensive and doesn't connote fairness and transparency to talk to an opposite gender in isolation. You would equally have thought a thousand about both of them stepping out to talk leaving you behind.

Thirdly, whatever you leave behind should remain forgotten not claiming yo have moved on and you are still twisting your neck.

I want to believe if you had been the one found your supposed new guy being so close and giving so much attention to the ex he claimed to have broken up with, to the extent of chatting everyday and keeping close confidence of such magnitude and still honouring calls from his ex's family, heaven would have let loose by now.

You are probably not ready for a relationship by concept of those discipline, respect and dedications a worthy relationship really entails.

My ex openly turned down a request to have her number by a toaster of 6years when we met at a popular gathering in Presidential hotel in Port Harcourt, when the guy insisted, she gave him my number to call whenever he wants to say the 'hi' he claimed might want to say..

Even if she wasn't sincere about certain things, she has demonstrated respect for her relationship and the guy would equally respect that.

As much as its not good enough for your spouse to be suspecting you, you on the other side shouldn't put up some attitude that could trigger suspicions.

Its so disheartening that most ladies do not create room for adjustment when they are in relationship.

When u were alone, there should be difference from now that you are with someone. Thinking you could live indifferently from the free life you'd always lived when no one was coming along with you is nothing but self sabotage.

Sorry if I sound harsh, but I'm a type that would rather hurt you with truth than console you with lies. It's all in your own advantage..
RomanceRe: How Do I Move On From My Ex by lonelygem(m): 8:37am On Nov 23, 2019
Well..
BusinessRe: 30 Numbers Of 20 Feet Empty Container Urgently Needed by lonelygem(op): 8:51am On Nov 18, 2019
egorov:
Do u mind getting newly built ones, or you're looking for already made
Already made one with opened top sir.
BusinessRe: Digital Freight Forwarders : Let's Meet Here by lonelygem(m): 4:20pm On Nov 17, 2019
Please I'm urgently in need of 20ft empty container that is still neat and unhampered.
Kindly call or whatsapp me via 08062988830
Business30 Numbers Of 20 Feet Empty Container Urgently Needed by lonelygem(op): 8:26am On Nov 17, 2019
There is an urgent need for 20 ft empty container that has never been tampered with or cut.

The quantity needed is 30 pieces and any quantity available through interested seller will be accepted.

Kindly call or whatsapp
08062988830

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