GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her. I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week, my problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

What was your motivation for dating her at the beginning bro?

I want to assume the relationship involved sex and now, 18 against 30. Can you swear that you were not having this plans of calling it quit with her?

You are creating an impression of being a good guy after taken advantage of the poor girl.

If you heard this done to your younger sister, how would u feel? Would your mind pray for such guy or otherwise?

If you are good at structuring your stories, know that some others are good at listening..

I'd rather hurt you with truth than console you with lies..

No offense meant bro.

Truckpusher:
You have a simple heart. No matter the level of intelligent write-up you ended up sounding like an idiot .

People incapable of intelligent argument brings insult to the table.

That is the only weapon they use to hide their emptiness about the subject under discussion..

Shalama:
.I get your point, but let's say this group could be likened to the now defunct Bakassi boys that helped tame all the notorious armed robbers and assassins in the south east... Especially in Onitsha and Aba. I know OSPAC has the full backing of the Governor of River State as well as the military and police consent. As a matter of fact they provide security for the Oil firms around their area and that's part of the reason you don't get to read about cases of White men being kidnapped unlike before.

Obviously they are security contractor to multinationals.. I understand this more than u think. I operated the facilities on that region for HSE services for some time.. I used to cover Oguta gas plant, EPC in Egbema, Ahia Flowstation and Rumuekpe Flowstation respectively.

All of those activities are still managed by military. Infact we had to get military permit and contacts of regional security man (Military officer) assigned to that region..

Devil has succeeded in getting back at entire mankind through two channels, sexual fantasy and desperation for money.

People like these end up being a kidnapper or robber.

A sister learnt the lesson of her life when she allowed these social media sexual fantasy moved her to meet an unknown person she met on this same platform at that same Ibadan. She was finally charmed and robbers off all her belongings and money in her account, everything worth 820,000.00

When she finally got her consciousness, the so called Dimeji Bankole with social media names on various date site 'Adebank.. was no where to be found.

The sister turned a beger after loosing all she had to this Bankole guy..

The flip side of it is that, this left a lasting trauma in the heart of this sister about men. As she found men generally not trust worthy. According to her, the Bankole guy started with her as a God fearing fellow asking her if she went to church, if she attends fellowship and always encourage her to stick to the presence of God.

Please you ladies should be careful with guys like this poster and advise yourself accordingly.

My humble advise though..

Shalama:
You know nothing about OSPAC, it isn't just a vigilante group, it's much more than what you think, this was the same group that attacked Don waney, he had to escape to Enugu and they still trailed him to Enugu and killed him. Forget about what you read in the media, your sars do call for this group's assistance when the matter gets worse.

Really? I'm not doubting the efficacy of their operations, but I sure know their activities must be binded by rules of engagements and programmed to work with military under scope of surveillance and intelligence gathering operation. On no account. I repeat, on no account would any authority signed or approve of a civilian engaging armed bandits operating with heavy fire arms like GPMG, digital snipper riffle, FM and some of those deadly riffles.

The fear of collateral damage to the society won't let military give such go ahead. The highest they can do is to set out surveillance and intelligence gathering contract for the supposed civilian security and mandate them to work with OPDS (Operation Delta Safe) which is also an arm of military intelligence operation..

U will never see military guys holding GPMG on operation irrespective of severity, the objective is to dislodge, apprehend and hand over to police or civil defence as prescribed by code of conduct. But you see the guys they are coming after holding GPMG and digital snipper rifles without any law sanctioning them.. And to think of it, just one GPMG riffle os enough to overpower 5 to 6 soldiers holding those AK49 and those light fire arms..

U see.. This safety and security struggle is more complicated than we think.. May God help our government and all security forces.

I doubt it..

With my 6 years experience on that axes of East - West road, I'm very certain these are innocent guys they've arrested, they might be road side touts oh. But certainly not the real guys..

What are you talking about, these guys chased SARS off the road with gun shots, SARS ran and immediately notified the Army, army mobilized fully equipped, these guys engaged the army face to face on the tarmac, Army backed out when the pressure was beyond what they expected and even left a hilux truck behind. The guys drove a military hilux away.. It took weeks before Army was able to recover the hilux and they even had to go for the recovery with a masquerade (armoured tank).

Someone now present these ones as.. I laugh.
To even think aloud, how many was the number of the so called vigilante to be able to capture a whole 12 notorious kidnappers? Were they in a coaster bus and up to 20 vigilante?

Come on.. Bloggers should stop insulting our intelligence please..

Wike will have something to show say he really care..

We await the show off..

kellz0:
guy if you will follow me to delta state, just all you need is he’s picture and name, just give am 5 days, he will borrow money and pay you else, he pay with his life and he’s family must still pay you else them too will follow

How can u be so sure? Na yourself u know, do u know the kind waka wey others don make? Abeg leave Mata.. Going spiritual is not the best. I was defrauded of 400k in 2012, I was advised here and there. I lastly went by the law enforcement, I rather spent additional money and didn't get my money back, instead the case was taken to court by the strict DPO and the guy was jailed.

Fast-forward 2016 again a guy defrauded me of 17,000. I ordered something online and he brought it doorstep, I made transfer immediately with my account debited. Only for him to claimed he didn't receive the fund, I suggested he wait a little to give me room to see if there would be reversal. Funny enough, the cash eventually entered his account and he received alert but because he was very hopeful that I would eventually make another payment, he kept quiet and took advantage of me. I made a fresh payment in cash this time after waiting for about 2hrs and I didn't get reversal..

I proceeded to my bank same day to fill transaction error form and I was assured I would get the pay back..

In a nut shell, the bank confirmed the transaction went through and the guy was alerted few minutes after..

I placed a call across, he still denied.. I proceeded to his bank (Diamond bank), his bank claimed their customer account details was confidential and could not be revealed to anyone.. I made hell of big threats and as God will have it, I was on military camo. The guy just turned the system screen facing me, "Oga your transaction went through and our system updated immediately, see ur transfer and when it entered his account". I left the bank and called him, he was still denying but as I mentioned to him that his bank has confirmed that he received.. He said in Igbo instinct 'Oyah wait make I call u back'.. Over an hour gone he didn't call back. I called his line and he was like.. Oh na true oh. I just dey see am now say the money enter.. But I dey village now bank no dey and network no good to return am, if i reach Lagos, I go pay u back.

2 weeks later, the story change. The guy was saying I should come and get him if I could. He clearly told me he had eaten the money and I should go and jump into lagoon if I like..

I talked to someone who I was so sure could just hurt him spiritually, but I thought of it, does 17k worth the gravity of what could happen to him? I might just end up regretting hurting him as no one have absolute control of spiritual infringements.

Though I felt challenged that any man could actually use such confrontational speech "go and do your worse" but u never can tell the outcome of the whole thing if going by his reckless statement.

That was how I sacrificed the money for hand stain..

If u cant afford to let go the money, go by human right and I believe that to be the best approach and mildest approach without blowing things out of proportion.

Bloggers at it again...
Don't pay attention to news from blogs.
They are not authorized news agency and are not binded by any law for authenticity of info they post out of desperation to amass the God forsaken wealth..

Desperate Bloggers making fool of gullible Nigerians to draw traffic. Observe the picture very well without going through the link and see that he did some blurry editing to make the pictures look different. Same guy in the various pictures he posted.

A day will come that a blogger will post a picture of his or herself taking breakfast with Jesus Christ and the same set of gullible people that believed this will applaud without verifying such..

ivandragon:
a leader is often judged on his ability to walk his talk...


it is not out of place for the president to use a vehicle worth N280m or higher... he is the president & fact remains that Nigeria is quite unsafe...


however, when the leader keeps shouting on how prudent he is, how simple he is, how others are wasteful because they want good things & other issues that give the impression that he is a humble man, then such expenses can be called into question because it is at variance with the man's self stated ideals...


a bullet proof Peugeot or Innoson vehicle would have been a better choice for a man who continually preaches simplicity & using home grown/made resources...

The decision in presidential settings are not self inclined. There are protocols and procedure, as a matter of fact, all of the budget must be dully approved by the senate. And ofcourse the senate cabinet is not moderated by only APC. In a nut shell, the purchase at presidential settings are not solely decided by Mr. President. Procurement department alone harbours a lot of intelligent Nigerian who wouldn't condone acts that would render them for questioning in future. From various responses so far, its obvious a lot of us know very little or nothing about governance as a whole.

We should work on ourselves and save ourselves from personal embarrassment on social arena.

dollytino4real:
my pastor prayed 4 dem to be restless until dey pay us

Hmmmn. And some indirect threat or possible curse if you fail to bring God's portions. It is well..

As long its coming from a blogger, the chances that its not a genuine info is 98.9%. How are we sure he actually crashed into their vehicle? How come the vehicles are not in pictures? This scene might have been for another factor.

Bloggers can do anything to draw traffic.

choclatoria:
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Hahahahaha..
Your business finally stand.
Congrats girl!

MrTrend:


Must you insult the president?

Don't you have respect for the 'aged?'

He knows too little than his sense of reasoning can permit Ni. Respect for elders and compassion for children is part of my own religion.

Little does he know that, he may not live up to the age of that man except by grace of God. Especially with these reckless utterances..

bigpriik:
Once again I am no dating coach am just a natural man who loves to teach my fellow guys(only those willing to learn) how to be natural too with women.whether you accept it or not women are important to a man's life they were created to make men happy a man can never be truly happy without a woman in his life unless he is gay ,or impotent forget the hypocrisy displayed here.

The way to success with women starts from the mind .a man who sees himself as unattractive or is nervous and shy will not be too attractive to women the only we to build your confidence is to change your mindset about women firstly and secondly face your fears .As for the former you have to stop seeing women as being rude,nasty ,wicked ,insulting most women are friendly only a few are nasty probably because they may be lesbians,recently heartbroken,or just naturally have bad attitude not your fault.as for the latter face your fears by approaching women on the street,malls,supermarket, campus etc no matter how they treat you just keep moving this is recommend because if you eventually gets successful either once or twice it will boost your confidence so much that your fears will wear away gradually.you require some good set of skills to add to your confidence.

(1) when you approach a lady for the first time assume strongly in your mind it will be successful and put on a beaming and genuine smile and be relaxed under you skin she is human just like you.when you say hello to a lady for the first time the first thing she does is to read your body language which she is programmed to do naturally if see sense you are nervous ,shaky or lack self belief she may up her defence against you as she perceives you are not man enough.
(2)if she responds positively to you, you can say things like wow looks like someone had a stressful day or you can say why so much hurry life is too short to be in so much hurry lady slow down ,sometimes it doesn't matter what you say just be confident and positive you will be sure of yourself like you are talking to a male friend.if she gives you a frowned face you just smile and still believe in urself its just a test .

(3)extend the convo by asking her where she works ,schools and please don't ask too much questions ,just talk to her freemindedly like you are talking to a guy don't compliment her looks nope don't pass a sexual message too early compliment her intelligence,sense of humour dress sense but not her looks.

(4)don't stay for too long get her number and leave next thing is to fix a date.

my blog is coming soon am not doing this for money and fame and doing it because I love teach people.

byeee
see you next week.

Woooooow..

Interesting but baseless..
I hope your blog will be useful enough to at least feature a link on "how to nurture vegetables from nursery stage.." This will help the masses and contribute to our shaky economy.

Nice write up skills though..

Deepfeel:
This guy you are such a bitter soul, so she refused to give you her number she automatically became an enemy, you have an unknown tendency of a serial rapist

Yes! They've became enemies to an extent..
If u know what he or she wants is in your possession and giving it out is at no cost and no serious risk to any party but refused to let go, I call that an attempt to frustrate the other party's desire. So, whether directly or indirectly, they've become enemies by virtue of fairness to humanity. We men should learn not to be chickenhearted else we would continue to sabotage ourselves in the hands of these type of women we often find in our own side of the World.

Oladipo1166:
Ugly wives

Beauty is in the heart and from within..
If those decorated and time taken well painted collage faces you see on Nigerian ladies is what you call beauty, then you should start checkmating your sense of judgement. I give priority to kind and godly hearted irrespective of physical status.

And your brothers are busy throwing bails of raw currency at every gathering and you are clapping for them..

Isorite..

Cases are not judged based on speculations and assumption.

There is no evidence whatsoever they have against Asiwaju yet.

Besides, EFCC never seized to quote "believed to be.." different from "it was.."

Till it is proven before a reasonable doubt at a court of competent jurisdictions that the content of the armoured vans was cash. Don't forget there was a time MTN was using armoured vans to convey recharge cards in this same Nigeria.

If not, the masses will sit on a news like this till heaven comes and the outcome will be disappointing..

Offpoint1:
I wonder why the Bible consider Samson the strongest man ever liveth, King Solomon should have been that title + the wisest too.


Having a girlfriend is a problem, A wife enough problems + troubles... How can any reasonable man ever thought settling down with more than a single woman?

So, we should legally marry one but feel free to have hundreds of side chicks and mistresses.

We've seen many of our supposed men of God who now finally settle with another woman while the legally wedded wives are still alive. And our brothers keep saying men shall not live by bread alone, as a typical African woman with such understanding for that matter, u should know that stoping a man from eating his bread with butter might lead to a course warranting a man to even start trying other alternatives like pan-cake, like chees balls, even guguru and donkua.

The moral lesson is since you cant stop a guy from dating you alongside with some of your close friends back then, even without u smelling it, what makes you think you can suffocate his throne of desire now because u have just been privileged to make it to his home.

Minding ones business and sticking to only that which concerns us primarily is indeed the key to sincere happiness.

northvietnam:
Calm down Oga minister, when they r done demolishing all the Night clubs in Abuja cuz Islam forbids night clubs then e go reach your turn

Its nothing to buttress governmental intents. We have a functional town planning system in Nigeria. Too funny that people don't have any respect for laws and order. We go about erecting structures without approval from relevant bodies, and when government arm rise to confront us we blame it on the president and use it as a weapon to blackmail and embarrass the government.

Don't forget Fashola as a muslim governor approved demolition of a mosque in Lagos state and the space was used in building a craft centre based on the state town planning settings.

We need to start thinking outside the box to be good citizens..

EngrKem:

U want to track a pregnant vessel based on what? Have u reached a contract?

They do that based on transparency purpose sir, most sellers in Lagos end up being a buyer after fulfilling your own part of the deal.
They set Peoples hope on product that never existed. I was in this business sometimes in the past. Majority of them are not truthful. There is non of those vessels I'm not farmiliar with and I have contact of many farm tank managers around Apapa, Ibafo Delta and Bonny.

It might be interesting at beginning though. But the truth is, there are always ready buyer for genuine products. It won't even get to social media before pickup because no company like to incur additional fund on CPA and custom clearance floating products on the high sea. Except its racket you are talking about.

mcjohny:
I have discovered that this guy most of the time says the truth or something close to the fact when you investigate, though sometimes he can be just weird but maybe not this time

So, what's point? Is Buhari financially incapable of performing the lesser hajj in Makkah or he's not permitted to? I'm yet to factor the point of argument here.

At some point in time in life, men are free and are not necessarily have to be under a watch. But at anytime in life, women are not free.. I stand to be quoted.

When she is growing, the parents takes responsibility of keeping watch and guide till she attains the stage of marriage. Please lets get something clear hear, 'stage of marriage' not stage of convocation or call to bar.
This simply tells us that even a woman with PhD can still be under a close watch and adequate monitoring of her parents till that stage of marriage. It is at this stage that the guide and monitoring so to say is transfered to the husband.

I feel so agitated when our supposed African ladies lay so much emphasis on 'whatever she does, let him do too..

Some of us even assumes western practice without prove. I have friends who are from Western part of the World, the supposed Oyinbo we claim to copy don't live a frustrated life like us. They value and uphold each others right to the core. They will never give a room to be suspected, and they equally frown at someone suspecting them.

My 'Oyinbo' friend from Florida will be busy with his phone playing games till the wife does the cooking, the washing and cleaning. He would come to the kitchen only to get a glass of juice and prawn, then sit on the deep freezer with a plate of prawn and a glass of juice beside him and continue playing his games.

And some of our sisters would go and start building their homes on what they see on Zeeworld and Telemudo..

We've lost it long ago.. May God help us..

poseidon12:
You gave her the Holy Bible to swear on and that made her to confess her infidelity. It shows she has the fear of God. Some Nigerians will swear and still lie (except if they are swearing at a shrine). It may be that she still doesn't think you are serious.
Have you been faithful to her? To prove to her that you have been faithful, you should also swear by the Holy Bible. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Oh no! This is where we always get it wrong as Africans. "Equal rights"

Topic for some other time anyways..

miltonchux:
Can the vessel move to Ghana waters. I have serious buyers for it.

See you.. Himself doesn't have control of the vessel. If u doubt me, request the vessel details and do your tracking. You will be shocked to discover the vessel sailing to another destination before conclusion of your deal.

annford:




You, I must say, are full of Wisdom and your words, very plain and simple.

Tango Yanky!