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a woman who confessed to me she cries like she was wrongly created or born so unlucky whenever she found herself caught up with affectionate scene of a movie or romantic line of a novel, upon the fact that she has never been given attention or treated with deep connection from a partner, eventually told me my care was too beautiful to explain and too much that it was chocking her.. They are generally like that.. naturally created to be unstable like corolla shocks absolver. their desperate needs now is their worse turn-off in the next few minutes and they are never ashamed to admit that they just craved desperately for that thing that now becomes irritating to them just a few moment ago..

StrngT:
You have said it all; women don't know what they want because even when a man asks a woman , she doesn't know, but weirdly expects the man to know.

If a person craving for something doesn't know what he or she wants, how do you expect others who don't live inside of them to know on their behalf?

Men are not psychic. Once your drama is too much for me, as a man, I simply watch my hands and relegate you to a Bleep buddy. No time to check time on grown up that can't specifically state what she wants. Enough of all these emotional blackmail of men. Enough

Honestly, men are gradually becoming endangered species in today's world. And we need spread the awareness for all men to stop being emotionally attached to any woman because it's a dangerous stake for men.

A venture capitalist will not invest into a company that shows no consistency and measurable commitment towards defined set of goals.

A man should also never commit to any woman unless that woman has gone extra miles to offer consistent commitment over a reasonable period of time.

Most women leverage on zero contribution they offer in a relationship as they have nothing to lose to misbehave and mess innocent hearts of the men.

A lot of men are good people and would do whatever for their women but when this zero contribution gap creeps into a relationship, the end from the beginning is defined.

I have personal story I can share regarding this topic. A woman leaves you on the excuse of you not offering her the love and care she expects.

When she gets into the new relationship you would think her search for care and love would end, 99% of time she will still want a part of the man in the old relationship.

So, the problem here is not lack of care and love, it's greediness and sheer irresponsibility.

my bad...
sorry..

BeginsAtHome:
All this epistle and grammar and still couldn't deliver.

Asuch as I dislike the APC/Tinubu/Wike/Lere and their likes, it doesn't take salt away from this truth as spoken by Mr Lere Olayinka.

Be objective always and do not let hate becloud your sense of judgement.

Na so witchcraft take dey start o.

you have a point bro, but in reality, who are the majority in Nigerian political cycle? is it not the same Northerners? if anything bothers them so much that it attracts their interest of change, such amendment dont even surface over the news.. to me, such deliberation is not yet an issue to the Northerners who constitutes majority in our political dispensation as a country. Mind you, Billions of naira is constantly rolled out to the ministry of humanitarian affair on monthly basis. I have once had a reason to question the disbursement of this fund when the ministry claimed to have disbursed over 2 Billion naira to 4 communities only in Kaduna state.

All these are fair games they wont claim not to be aware of. how does United Nations believe Nigerian is trully in deep need if not to paint a picture of humanitarian needs..

Our problems are fundamental and only God can see us through

AMKAG66:
Nobody is disputing what you said . But again, why would a man earning less than 60k Naira have 4 wives and 20 children?
Isn’t that stupidity and greed?
Isn’t that gross irresponsibility and low mental reasoning?

Islam honestly supports poverty. The religion needs reform and realignment towards modern society and realities

..thats the situation we found ourselves in the country.
to survive comfortably in a country like ours as a common man, its either you join politics or Yahoo-Yahoo..
majority of the supposed civil servant cant even account for their dues and expenses.
and there we have government who is logically trying to reduce population by suffocating its citizen to enable her have control of resources..

Walezy2020:
as I read what U wrote something strike my mind most people are working but are underpaid imagine graduates working with a salary that's below 100k with this present economy,last week I was taking with someone he said if his salary is 200k he will die because he can't cope how will he pay rent,transport,feeding etc

TallNigerian:
you no get sense. You deviated from the topic completely. Why should a low income earner have four wives?

omniknowest!!!

did that just start happening during APC administration??

shame on on them and their yeye governance ideology.

there was never a time poverty is not in jubilation state in Nigeria or African countries as a whole.
as far as memory can permit me, so called president was a well grown adult when OFN was lunched way back then prioritizing food security. I grew to know what is called 'iyan Buhari' meaning Buhari's pounded yam. all these were nicknames given to the food items door step delivery intervention programs that we enjoyed as a growing child and our parents appreciated till date. Reasons why our parents who were school teachers with such meager income were able to sponsor 3, 4 kids through University same time.

Talking about the toddlers scouting around Abuja roads for means of survival, at what point has it become a concern to him if not for the embarrassment it posses on him siting such heartrending situation they've constantly swept under the carpet. must every hungry Nigerians pick up a plastic bowl to beg for alms before this government feel concern?? because some people's condition is worse than what you see the kids doing on the street.

I have gone to eat at an eatery where an average age Nigerian youth whisper in my ears that I should please assist him by leaving a little leftover that he would know how to pick up my plate afterwords.. when I interacted with him, he wasnt actually a begger, he had stayed two days without food and he had to stay out of jod because the salary couldnt cater for transportation and coupled with several other factors..

Northerners have embraced their problems over years and surviving through whichever means, why is the government trying to downplay its primary responsibility to the nation as a whole..

people have landed properties that had been abandoned for fear of banditry. it takes grace of God to leave for work in the morning and come back home safely without a story that touch..

in the space of 4 days, my street was robbed twice. this is a street that has police post 300 meters away..
we put a call across to police, the DPO responded with sleepy voice and it took over three hours before they eventually called back that they didnt have fuel to move and they couldnt locate the particular street on foot.

I think the Government should just be focused on its responsibilities to its citizen before pointing accusing fingers.

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I dont pitty you guys at all, when most male teachers suppose to pay attention to opportunity that is huge enough to transform lives, most of them are busy seducing the wife of the same man that contract them on home lesson. many wives have taken home lesson teachers as close companion. and the teachers on the other hand dont know when to set boundaries.. when most housewives think of buying the children clothes and shoes, it the lesson teachers they call, when she needs anything at all, it the lesson teacher. they practically look for every opportunity to hear lesson teacher's voice even when their is no reason for doing it.

most men simply go mute not unaware but thinking of a perfect damage control mechanism. sometimes we chose to relocate the family to a new locations to break from the shackle of lesson teachers who could see clearly the reckless move that house wife is making but chose to forge with her without respecting boundaries.

The truth is, many lesson teachers are secret enemies of the husband in various homes. in many cases where opportunity show up, some of the lesson teachers are placed behind the base of the opportunity. many homes are broken today because of randy involvements between the lesson teachers and the housewives

Brigj:
Guys, let me ask one uncomfortable question:
When last did you check your PENIS health — not size, not performance — but actual health?
Be honest.
Most men only start caring when:
✔ Sensitivity drops
✔ Erections weaken
✔ Rashes or weird dryness start appearing
✔ Or when that scary moment happens in the middle of action… and nothing responds 😬
But by then?
It’s already too late.
We pay attention to the gym, beard growth, diet, skincare…
But the ONE organ responsible for:
🔥 Confidence
🔥 Sexual performance
🔥 Fertility
🔥 Masculine energy
…we treat like a rechargeable torchlight — use and drop.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve been running into SO MANY Nigerian men complaining of:
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numbness or reduced sensitivity


embarrassment (especially the first round struggle)


random pain after ejaculation


dry or flaky skin “down there”


shrinking hardness with age


And guess what?
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Most men think they are fine… until their body says, “Oga, we need to talk.”

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ha! haaa!! which kind talk be this one again oga? motor we person don drive for over 20 years na inn e no go know when the engine sound don change?? Lol!

hmmmmn!!! we are being enlightened by a legal luminary with history of jumping bail.

that is simply the reason success run far away from them. they've redesigned their lives to be of zero responsibilities. that mindset seat their ass on a spot and settling for worthless lifestyle on account of 'I have nothing to worry about'. mind you, the woman is growing financially and otherwise, her kids are growing, the emotional support she gets from the side guy is much valued than the s3xx the side guy thought he was getting for free. he is being used but thought he was actually using the woman. 3 things are relevant in every human's life. (1) Financial/career growth (this is termed fulfilment depending on our various choice) (2.) Family Uprightness and (3.) Emotional stability.

A woman sensibly checkmate herself irrespective of how senseless men perceived them to be, and use what she set out as value in that checklist she prepared a long time ago for her choice of partner. this tells you they are never carried away nor 'loose guard as you guys always think.

for as long as a woman's career is not affected, her family is upright, and her finances is stable, every other thing that happened is just a spice in her growth. she is using you but u on the other side think you used her..

think about it, how is it easy for men to settle with intimacy gadgets compared with how heavy demand for vibrators has gone in our society today.. thats to tell you that women needs that s3xx more than you do and if you think you are winning by settling to be a side guy, you might end up using your precious life time as a guy to spice up and complete that emotional needs of many women without you growing.

Emotional stability is golden. many people would pay any amount to have it. that is just what they lack, and seeing you as a donkey who would jump at anything painted differently is a big opportunity..

they only use you guys to complete their lives and exercise their se3xxual fantasies. her kids are growing, her business is booming, her marriage or relationship is intact, but the side guy on the other side have nothing to point at as you would constantly focus on being a nice dude and pretend to feel her pains.. (emotional services to make her life whole and complete).

AngelSlay:
You're free to live how you want. But understand:

Relationships built on manipulation rarely lead to anything meaningful.

Constantly being a “side guy” might seem fun now, but it often leaves people empty in the long run — because there's no trust, no depth, just cycles of use and escape.


If that’s all you want — cool. But don't pretend it's something noble or wise. It's just one way to live. It has its pros and cons.

You’re not wrong that many “main boyfriends” get played.
But being the side guy doesn’t make you immune — it just makes you a different kind of tool in the game.

Be real with yourself about what you're offering, what you're getting, and what this lifestyle costs you in the long run.

Felicity001:
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Its a non collateral loan so your bank account needs to have a good turn over daily .

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You just justified a say that “the poor would continue to be poor and the rich shall continue to be rich”

Think about it, your presentation says “..that money you need to bring that business or idea to reality..” anyone with business of turnover in millions may not even need your loan in the first place. This simply means you target only group of business owners who are already doing well in their businesses and not business start up or small scale businesses for reason best known to you.

Again, you perfectly indicated the interest rate but skipped the processing fee part. Is this an oversight or deliberate marketing gimmicks to lure..
It is well with us in this country oh.

izuchukwu777:
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na only this one reach you for your grandmother inheritance?? Lol!!!

how much are you willing to sell

Morenikeji090:
Hmmm it’s deep I can’t fully blame the step daughter this is just a pure example that blood is thicker than water. And for step daughter you don’t have to ignore your step father at least if you can’t relate with him fully like your real father at least think of the old days and try to make a good relationship with him has well..

the truth remains that, some brainwashed step daughter just develop certain hatred for that very thoughts that the man closest to their mum is not even their biological father. this is an eye opener for men. same way a single mother chose to go with another man that is not their baby's father out of helplessness. within them, they constantly wish their baby father is the one they ended up with. this is a concept of 'not everyone we need we truly wants'. at anytime a single mother have the opportunity to be with her baby father, she wont think twice and wont mind the feelings of the present man inn her life irrespective of how kind such man is and how many years theyve been together before calling it quit and moving in with her baby father.

They are always readily equipped with the excuses 'for the sake of my child'. if I must be sincere, it can never be at advantage of the new man doing all he could to give her and her kid(s) a good life.

for example, 3 parties in a game. A single mother, the daughter and the good guy. if for any reason their is bond between the guy and the mother and the bond is not too good with her daughter, she will flag a problem to it. same way the guy must bond with the step daughter and the mother. but she or anyone wouldn't see it as a problem if only the mother bonds with the guy and her child chose not to, also it is cool if the child bond and the mother doesn't bond in real sense. what this means is that, for any reason the guy must maintain a close bond with the two parties for peace to rein, but any or even non of the party can chose not to bond with him.

They constantly act it and even rub it on the step dad's face that their child is a priority and they are not willing to stress or bother themselves an inch for the man.

It is typical of single mothers to go weeks without hearing their single father's voice for as long as her daughter is with her. but she will constantly call and pretend to care if her child is with you or around you. at such time, the man attracts her interest.

may God safe us from known and unknown evil..

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I laugh in spanish, you all think online coaching of Canadian kids is as easy as Nigerian kids ba?? in case you don't know, so much are involved. you may even require training to measure up to this task.

firstly, you will require a white board, colourful markers, a phone with excellent camera and a tripod.

secondly, you have to tune up your patience to like 800%. the problem we often face is, sometimes the kids are the ones to decide if he or she would like to have the class at that very moment and the parents don't even intervene anymore once the contract is signed. a lot of time, the kids would even abandon you online and you would just be there hearing them play, drag and pick chocolate from the fridge.. in such situation, you would just remain online listening while they do their shit till your period is over.

I know a few people who are actually surviving with this task, but the complaints are the same...

ncchris569:
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jay1409:
Good evening everyone. I hope you are all doing fine? I'm bored and I want someone to talk to, someone to make connections with. Feel free to comment and let's talk. Thank for your attention to this matter

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but there are quite a number of healthy ways to deal with boredom before it escalates to other life threatening details..
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