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Crime / Re: Mobahd's Father Is Live On Human Right Radio Narrating How He Died With Justice by lonelygem(m): 11:05am On Jan 29
Jhoanner:
Yes. It would seem the sudden death of the son put him in a state of confusion.

And Davido was fast at sending 2 Milllion within few hours of his death rather than ask questions surrounding his untimely death..

Nigerian celebrities with their reckless life style. The case continues tomorrow, we shall hear Davido's side of the story.
Crime / Re: Mobahd's Father Is Live On Human Right Radio Narrating How He Died With Justice by lonelygem(m): 10:51am On Jan 29
Jhoanner:
Yes. It's so painful that the police has not been able to pursue the case to a logical conclusion.

When the father found the bed sheet of his son soaked with his blood, why didn't he obstruct the processes and raise alarm, questioning the death rather than proceeding to deposit him at a mortuary.

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Crime / Re: Mobahd's Father Is Live On Human Right Radio Narrating How He Died With Justice by lonelygem(m): 10:23am On Jan 29
Jhoanner:
Yes. Also listening.

Are you in Abuja??
Too much I'm getting to know right now. It doesn't look like this issue would be resolved today. They are planning to continue the case tomorrow if they run out of time
Crime / Mobahd's Father Is Live On Human Right Radio Narrating How He Died With Justice by lonelygem(m): 10:03am On Jan 29
To watch. Search brekete family on facebook or youtube.

You can call in and ask Mubahd's father any question bothering you.

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Business / Re: FG Announces N25,000 Grant For Vulnerable Pensioners by lonelygem(m): 12:27pm On Oct 05, 2023
una try
Romance / Re: What The Fvck ?!!! Dna Test Is 200k by lonelygem(m): 1:31am On Oct 03, 2023
Greystone:


200k? The price has come down.
It used to be around 700-800k.

when ws it 700k as claimed, its bn around 200k for over 4 years..
Romance / Re: Men Should Stop Collecting Back Gift They Already Gave To A Lady by lonelygem(m): 9:03am On Oct 01, 2023
Jennyclay:
Biko, men should stop this sick attitude. How can you buy a gift for a lady, then any misunderstanding or break-up between you two, you go back and collect the gift back from her undecided. That's a stupid attitude biko you men should stop it. Even kids don't behave like that.

Henceforth, if any man wants to get me a gift, wether iPhone, hair, car, house etc.. the receipt must contain my name and my signature. so that incase of tomorrow he wants to show his stupid and sick character I will quickly sue him to court for stealing and assault. Because he's forcefully trying to steal what belongs to me. The receipts has stated it all and it would be my evidence.

If the receipts doesn't contain my name, Biko just keep your useless gift to yourself.

Shame on all men that collect back gifts he already given to a lady. Shame!!! Shame!!! Shame!!!

What a poor and lazy good for nothing girl's mentality..

Some sensible and hard working ladies feel embarrassed to collect gift from a guy they aren't married to.. while some are busy nursing mentality of entitlement of material and financial bail out tagged as 'caring'.

I offered a support of 15k to a friend who I knew was having some financial needs in 2009, to my surprise, she called me by my name and said, 'I honestly appreciate your concern and mind to help, but we haven't known each other well enough to start interacting on financial ground, please don't take it too serious, it is my policy. I'm really sorry..'

It took her a few days to constantly ask that I wasn't embarrassed by that.. she was newly employed as at the time.. she had to raise the money through her family members..
Romance / Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by lonelygem(m): 4:36pm On Sep 29, 2023
sylve11:


Mind sharing your experiences? cool

I have trailer load of practical experience, the type that would give u goose pimples, but I don't see this platform as a matured one for heart to heart discussion especially for a sensitive topic like this one..

If it becomes a must to date a single mother, ensure you don't loosen up to the extent of taking gift she present to you or eat meals cooked by her, whenever u visit, ensure you buy everything you enjoy around her.

They whip sentiment in a bid to manipulate you. You can never please them and they will always rub it on your face that you are just a father figure..

All the pains caused by their supposed ex.. would be avenged on you. They are fast at painting fake emotions to dominate you.

The children are your when it is time to Mae you render help and assistance, but it is hers when it is time to take the glory.

You are never captured in the history of her survival or that of the children, she wants the entire world to call her a strong woman while you labour in vein nurturing the same kids she constantly and logically teach to disrespect you. The kids adhere strictly and listen to only their mum even in your presence when u see things going wrong.

Single mothers don't really want you no matter how different you may think she is, she only need you to give her helpless kids impression of fatherly love they might lack in their upbringing. She was hurt by someone but she willl constantly bleed on you..

My sincere advice, no matter how sweet a single mother seems to you, she's just a time bomb. A close evil and sweet poison you can't build your future with..

My little piece..

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Nairaland / General / Re: Which One Is Better? To Be Right? Or To Be Correct.? by lonelygem(m): 3:45pm On Sep 29, 2023
emmnprince:
OP from your own thinking, is truth absolute or relative?

English luminary spotted¡

You see.. sometimes you find ords to use to convince the audience. Right is a perception while correct is absolute, infact it supercedes every other person's opinion.

It took me about 2 hours to analyze the proper use of 'incredible' and 'incredulous' while I was caught up in a discussion with learned colleagues at University of Abuja a few weeks ago..

The truth is we don't have to be eloquent to speak a perfect and well polished english.
Good English with great composure is not always soothing to hear, infact most of our wonderful reporters, favorite actors and actresses, programs and event anchor disappointingly commits terrible grammatical blunders. Sadly the society appreciate those who are fluent and eloquent not minding the content and construction..
Car Talk / Re: How I Was Scammed By A Dishonest Uber/Bolt Driver by lonelygem(m): 3:15am On Sep 21, 2023
DyingFetus:
Mumu man you for use public transport


You wan form big boy go day use Uber

Wooow! Last M*M* standing finally unveil himself. So daft and so lazy to read.. how do people like this find it normal to bump into discussion without the slightest idea what the topic is all about?? I'm so ashamed of you.
Romance / Re: Will I Ever Get Married? by lonelygem(m): 12:16pm On Sep 20, 2023
Vicloteck:
You will surely see ur wife later but it will take time , most guys are in same shoe with you . The main reason for this problem is because most Nigerian girls are useless , nothing upstairs , their reasoning level is poor , nothing to put to the table , only thier community pussy and stupid entitlement . May GOD almighty save Nigeria guys .



..I understand, life can be so difficult for the blind. it is however recommndd to check your cycle. there is nothing anyone wants that is not available in our society. it is a prospect of what you are constantly attracted to.

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Romance / Re: Amarachi Amusi: I’m Richer Than Most Of The Men Seeking To Marry Me, Skit Maker by lonelygem(m): 2:05am On Sep 09, 2023
The greatest joy is the fact that, their honey pot down there no dey fit select rich d1ck from poor d1ck before they start sounding their ringing tunes and opening same mouth they use in making baseless comments like copra swallowing an antelope.

For every moment you have to carelessly lose your guards and morn to sensation of having a D1Ck in between those two unguarded legs of yours despite how wealthy you brag to be, SHAME ON YOU!
Politics / Re: Wike Promises Completion Of Road Projects In Seven Months by lonelygem(m): 2:21pm On Aug 26, 2023
lapintoz:

Off your mic........off your mic 🎤


I actually got to know Kemi Adeosun through a friend that used to work in Wale Edun's office at Ikoyi far back 2015. These people's loyalty to baba was beyond ordinary. You may want to find out about their spouses and lots more.. Its a win win thing. Kemi was working directly under Wale Edun, Baba projected Kemi Adeosun even when he knew Wale was the right person but he needed Wale Edun for so many underground work.

All the political movements involving some real hard currency and fat amount of money, bail of dollars in tear rubber used to coordinate all angles to success were buttons pressed by Wale Edun.

It was a 100% prediction when I told some friends Wale Edun would become a minister under Baba administration.
Politics / Re: Wike Promises Completion Of Road Projects In Seven Months by lonelygem(m): 9:49am On Aug 26, 2023
successmatters:
Wike will be feeling like a 10 foot man now, until they use him finish and dump him like his brother Rotimi. That one head has cooled down a little after they used him like a tool and dropped him like trash when his usefulness was outlived.

My brother, Tinubu is not that type of leader that forsake his team members. Go and check the record, everyone you see holding a tangible position in Nigerian political dispensation today have been with Tinubu for decades, Aregbesola was an area guy for Tinubu, infact He used Aregbe to to deliver political mandates in Osun state, I was in my secondary school days when my dad would travel miles to attend Aregbesola political movement meeting then when no one even knew someone like Aregbe existed. There was an agreement that Tinubu would make him the governor of the state as compensation for his loyalty, don't forget that same Aregbe was the commissioner for works when Tinubu was the Governor of Lagos state, only Wale Edun is the last person I've been looking forward to see being compensated among all those that worked with Tinubu. It may be funny to know that Wale Edun has been much useful to Tinubu till date than every other politician he groomed so far. Everything no one knows about Tinubu's wealth and financial activities, go and ask Wale Edun and Fashola. All Eti-Osa project, hourse ranch, Boxing and all kinds of project are financial boom to Baba.

As long as Lagos state continue to exist, Baba Tinubu will continue to be a billionaire. Every revenue in Lagos state has been shared in percentage based on agreement. All tenement fee are shared in percentage..

As long as Amechi remains loyal, he would surely get more than he ever dream of. That is Baba's concept of hierarchy.

No be everything person fit talk online..

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Autos / Re: 4 Months Registered Peugeot 406 For Sale In Abuja by lonelygem(m): 9:06am On Aug 26, 2023
The engine is still as brought from Apapa. Untouched, unwashed and unhampered. The engine still carrying its tokunbo smell and water still drops from the exhaust when you steam the car for a few minutes. I have used a tear rubber car from Honda company before, I mean it when I tell you this car is like a brand new car.

Autos / Re: 4 Months Registered Peugeot 406 For Sale In Abuja by lonelygem(m): 9:00am On Aug 26, 2023
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Autos / 4 Months Registered Peugeot 406 For Sale In Abuja by lonelygem(m): 4:55pm On Aug 25, 2023
Few months registered 406, cleared into Nigeria newly, perfect and silent engine, brand new standard without any fault whatsoever, great AC performance, untampered W10/2.0 engine, manual transmission with catalyst intact. Apapa custom duty paid. Alloy realms with dazzling interior. Price is 2,200,000.00 Location: Lokogoma, Abuja. 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
Politics / Re: President Elect Visits CBN Governor Elect by lonelygem(m): 8:34am On Mar 10, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:


Hahaha....It is likely going to be Wale Edun wink

You are a smart thinker.. Unlike the wailers here without political instinct..

Wale Edun Has always been the tool for Tinubu's wealth through collaboration with any sitting governor of Lagos state. Go and verify, all Eti Osa Projects are channels through which money is constantly siphoned. Eti Osa horse ranch, Eti Osa boxing and so on..

If you know you know.
Business / Re: We Didn't Direct Banks To Disburse Old Notes – CBN Insists by lonelygem(m): 10:07pm On Mar 08, 2023
Our judiciary system has simply lost its integrity and becomes a laughing stock. If EFCC chairman was put behind the bar, who is Emefiele that cannot be jailed for toying with judiciary sword. What is good for the goose shouldn't be bad for the ganders if sincerely we are not witch hunting as alleged.

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Crime / Re: My Sister-inlaw Was Gunned Down By Thugs At A Polling Station In Benin (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 5:36am On Feb 27, 2023
Nigeria matter, den no dey carry am for head, na shoulder, this go enable you throway am when e wan drag you down.

What is a supposed married woman, probably with kids doing at a poling unit till 7:30pm? If she had left wouldn't they have counted the votes?? If someone had advised her to leave, I bet she and others would have devoured the person and called him or her enemy of Nigeria.

What a sad and avoidable death.

My condolence to the family.. May her soul rest in peace.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Tag All Fair Guys Handsome? (photos) by lonelygem(m): 12:16pm On Jan 07, 2023
EmiDon11:
Its no longer new that we, especially girls always tag all fair guys as handsome or lightskinned girls as beautiful.

I just dont know the reason why.
Whenever they want to refer to a fair guy, they will use THAT HANDSOME DUDE.

Does it mean that all lightskinned guys are handsome?
One of my guy's girlfriend left him for a fair guy.
That my guy is now using bleaching cream.
Lol.

Pls i need answers.
Why do girls, especially nigerian girls like fair guys too much?

Bros! Abeg, Just tell us wetin dey give you such erection for this matter make we know how we go take help you.

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Romance / Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by lonelygem(m): 8:19pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

But some of us still dated some of you ladies in agape way with strong hope of marriage without the slightest thought of sex before marriage, sadly you still shed our tears in the long run. Mine was about 4 years and she still left as I'm sure there are other good men here who see a woman beyond her panties..

I learn not to judge anyone, what we see and how we see it is a function of our emotions at that particular moment. any man might have deemed you not good beyond sex at that moment, same way you might have seen any futuristic guy as low life as at the moment some clean, wealthy but senseless 'gum chewing' toddlers are blowing your mind with surprises.

Everything is fair in love and war..
Romance / Re: Why Boys Don't Date Fat Girls by lonelygem(m): 9:25am On Dec 30, 2022
FalseProphet1:
They're always hungry, eating here and there, you can take them out by 1pm, and by 4pm they're already complaining of hunger.

Also they're lazy, dirty and have disgusting stretch marks all over their body.

The day I bath a fat girl by the river during one of my deliverance sessions, I almost vomited.

This I have seen.

May God forgive you. God delegated a responsibility to you and you are so heartless to bring it on a public platform, You might as well have used people's confessions to play draft on NL.

God sees and is conscious of all our deeds and action.
Family / Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by lonelygem(m): 3:53pm On Oct 24, 2022
wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

The fact that you were not informed is the height of disrespect and rudeness. We experience that on daily basis. Majority of us no get wife from the actual connotation and contents. What we are managing are baby mamas.

Just get use to it and ensure your sanity is intact.

Mine informed me of a visitor who was coming to stay and pass the night just when the visitor was at the estate gate already.

The insult was dammed too much from these female species we helplessly have to settle with without a choice.

Just give what you can afford without pushing yourself to the wall and lock up. Condition your mind not to be aware of those ridiculous provision since you were not given such prior notice and respect.
Romance / Re: Does Sharing Financial Responsibilities Bring Disrespect In Marriages? by lonelygem(m): 8:06pm On Aug 31, 2022
acidtalk:
When young Nigerian men complain today on how their wives don't give them full respect as the man of the house unlike during their childhood days when their mothers basically 'worshipped' and feared their fathers. She dare not disobey his instructions and even if she was displayed at his actions, she doesn't point it out to his face in the public.

What so many (larger percentage) men of this generation fail to realize is that, their Fathers catered for the needs of the family 100% without asking a dime from his wife to support the family. Bust now, its a norm for men to share responsibilities with their wives like Feeding, house rent, power, water, security, childrens school fees, dstv, phone, feeding and even groceries bills with their wives and this same men expect to get 100% (full) respect and accord from their wives?

Where on earth is it possible for one 'partner in business' to be a slave to another when you hold equal or sometimes majority investment in the business.

Nigerian men if you want 100% respect and loyalty from your wives, then start taking 100% responsibility of the needs of the family and home from.

Sorry to ask, please how old is your marriage to start with, and what are the bases of your conclusion on this matter. Have you had a union with the one you have to handle bills and upkeep 100% and weighed it with a particular one that is comfortable sharing responsibilities..

You dont spoon feed the masses with your personal opinion on a public forum like this. It is like a coin, it is one side to you and the other side to someone else.

It would have been so great if you had tailored this topic down to hearing other people's opinion without taking a conclusive position from the start.

In the long run, after weighing various opinion and true life experiences from others, then you can now take your stand.

My humble piece if you dont mind.
Properties / Standard One Bedroom Flat With 2 Toilets & Parking Space At Lokogoma Abuja. by lonelygem(m): 1:42am On Aug 28, 2022
There is a vacant one bedroom flat with 2 toilets at Ipent II estate Lokogoma. The flat is converted to two standard rooms with each of the room having it's own toilet and bathroom ensuit, a mini sitting room and a standard kitchen, all within the flat. There is a parking space for about 2 cars for the flat, the light is 95% excellent, the environment is safe and secure and the compound is all interlocked with a security house. There is 3 GP tanks supplying water to the building and a 3 phase electric metre..

The price is 900k.

Interested person may contact me via a dm or mention.

Thanks.
Romance / Re: Married Women On This Section, Don't Make The Mistake I Made by lonelygem(m): 3:39pm On Aug 15, 2022
CuteEmma:
This is lamba. The ending of the story just spoilt everything. Nigerian men don’t just forgive cheating partners no matter how much they cheat also. They’re too egoistic.

In your own opinion and exposure. Probably you need to look beyond your cycle..
Family / Re: Please Help Me Sort Out This Family Issue Guys!!! by lonelygem(m): 3:06pm On Aug 15, 2022
Rosrozz:
Your mom is all about your safety and you should listen to her. One thing about this men practicing polygamy is that they always pave ways for harm if you don’t use your brains, you hardly know the new woman and can’t tell her boundaries. Your mom can never deceive you but be mindful of been blindly led on by your dad. Remember the adage that talks about “ what an elder sees while sitting “ shalom



"mum can never deceive you but be mindful of been blindly led on by your dad"

'what an elder sees while sitting..'

Dad na toddler abi.

Isorait oh.

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