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Investment / Re: N1 Million Investment Fund:- Seeking Investment Opportunities (Now N5Million) by lonelygem(m): 12:06am On Sep 24, 2019
Decoded Global Services is an integrated company with registered reference RC:2900461 with corporate Affair Commission.

We are registered as Oil and gas marketing company with objective of resuscitating the energy problem confronting the country economical progress.

We have exceptional record when it comes to provision of petroleum products necessary for powering of plants and equipment in various offices and filling stations.

WHAT MAKES US DIFFERENT
We don't depend on any government body nor agent to source products as we have direct source from vessels that brings in legitimate products to our operation base where majority of the filling stations across the country get served.

This makes our products cheaper and always available with quality and quantity guaranty.


We seek support of investors from any part of the country for equipment purchase project to enable us deliver our products efficiently.

Our plan is to acquire fairly used but sound peddlers to distribute petroleum products, especially AGO and domestic cooking gas to doorsteps, work sites and offices irrespective of how remote the location is.

With the present technological dispensation, cooking gas is gradually taking position of other conventional fuel the masses are used to, as it is now equally used to power domestic electricity like petrol and diesel, with its efficacy of running mechanical system even much better..

So many homes and offices are confronted with challenges of getting a safe and trusted petroleum products to power expensively acquired plants and equipments, thereby leaving the life sperm of such sensitive and expensive gadget in the hands of gateman or security who do not know the worth. The consequence is time to time breakdown of mechanical system and possible final knock.

With our doorstep delivery and quality standard of our products, we shall be able to secure delivery contract of many offices, homes, construction sites and even telecommunication mast points.

We shall secure the peddlers with a reliable insurance package and we shall be engaging personnel with certain level of safety courses relevant to the operation to handle the activities of the delivery van (peddler).

I will like to stop here and I'm very open to questions and further clarity of the subject proposed.

E-mail: decodedglobalservices@yahoo.com
Phone number: 0-7-0-6-4-9-4-7-0-9-0
Investment / Re: Application For Loan by lonelygem(m): 9:43pm On Sep 16, 2019
C24 Limited gives loan to only salary earners that base in Lagos. Sadly they dont make this know till a complete form has been filled in and people's BVN digits has been dully submitted to their data base..

Business expansion has been a long challenging issue on our own side of the World. Even most of those that claims to grant loans to only Abuja based person, u might be surprised at what they would turn into after you might have wasted the while of your time.

I was made to defend an equipment loan of just 350k like I was defending a federal government project, after the whole thing, this guy just went mute for over 3 months. No feedback, no further info and all that.. And he was already having my business plan.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Man Shields Girlfriend From Attack As Ohio Gunman Opens Fire In Unseen Footage by lonelygem(m): 6:13pm On Aug 09, 2019
Mizwisdom:


Me too
GlorifiedTunde:




THIS IS HOW TO KNOW THE KIDS ON NAIRALAND undecided undecided

Not every girlfriend is useless. There are wife materials!

And if you cannot protect a wife material before actually marrying her, then you don't deserve marriage! angry

Angelfrost:


Punch? I ain't getting verbally insulted for any lady's sh*t... If you cause any trouble, I will not only leave you to carry your cross, I will buy popcorn and join those observing your drama... So not worth it. Mtchewww.

Well.. Permit me to say, everyone is right in his or her own opinion.

Sometimes what we say is our direct perception of the subject under discussion and consequential to our experiences..

Permit me to share this brief story with u,
Sometimes in 2010, I was to deliver a document at a colleague's place in the evening.

It was about 6:30pm when it started raining, I had to stay mute till it stoped raining at about 8:30pm.

There were only two access to the street. The one behind and the other at the second. The one behind leads to East-west road while the second one leads to RD road.

Normally the one linking the East-west toad was normally locked up by 8pm and all the security personnel would move to the main gate by RD road side.

As I was coming out about 8:30pm towards the East-West road, there was this brand new Toyota car coming behind me, the road was untared, bad and muddy upon the heavy downpour that lasted hours, so no sane driver would exceed 20k/h

Just as I was approaching the gate, I brought out my phone and placed a call to a popular area guy to look for any of the security guys to come and open for me to pass as taking the RD axis would amount the Israelites' journey to me.

It was an impatient lady driving the car behind me, she didn't even wait a second when she started raining insult at me ordering me to open the gate for her.
Sayin "what nonsense work are u doing, cant I go I go out at my own time, are u deaf, see as he be, if u open that gate today u are a bastard, wait and let me make a call if u wont lose your job.."

It was still drizzling, I was under the rain resting my back against the gate concrete while waiting for the guy I called to bring the gate key for me, she was sited in her car with driver's side widow down..

Behold, the guy showed up with the key, I collected the gate key and opened the gate myself, surprisingly, this lady angrily throttled the car in anger that she purposely bathe me with the whole mud (potopoto) around there, as she zoomed she said 'Idiot'.

I was just there cleaning myself with a handkerchief and telling the guy that brought me the key 'Thank u' the guy was like, Oga make we go back house make I give u another trouser to wear, I said no, never mind..

As I crossed the gate and continued walking down, about 2 electric poles after the gate, I met this lady there forcing the car to start..

Every attempt was a failure. It was already dark, the road was lonely and unsafe. As I walked passed her, the next thing I heard was "hello!! Excuse me!! I ignored and kept moving. Then she said 'hey! Please I'm sorry..'

I was too angry to even talk to her.. I got to East west road about to join tricycle through Rumuodara/Eliozu axis, just then, my conscience became restless.. My conscience was telling me, 'if something terrible happened to that lady, would you forgive yourself on hearing the news? Sincerely I couldn't continue with my movement, I had to walk back in that darkness and lonely road to assist her.

Even as I was helping her push the car out to a safe place, I was still mute and would only talk to give her instruction on what to do as I was pushing..

After we successfully pushed the car to the nearby filling station, she came to apologise over all she did and insisted taking my number which I refused giving her..

So, if anyone ask me, with such experience from a matured Nigerian lady at her late twenties, my response might not be an appreciable one, but I've equally met quite some reasonable Nigerian ladies of various calibre with good heart and admirable virtue.

It's a two way thing and not enough to draw a general conclusion on entire women out there..

May God save us from known and unknown evil of mankind..

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Business / Re: What Investment Plan Can I Start With 300k by lonelygem(m): 9:36am On Aug 08, 2019
Deomovies:


OK I won't advise you to use the whole 300k to buy the bitcoin once. The strategy is buying dips. it is 100% safe. First thing you must have wallet account either coinbase or Blockchain

Don't dare invest in this...
They derive means to scam people everyday despite the blockchain account. If u prove too difficult to be scam or smart enough, they will go serelina for your head.
Politics / Re: RevolutionNow Organizer Releases List Of Demands, Vows To Go Ahead With Protest by lonelygem(m): 5:23am On Aug 04, 2019
I've not seen one Nigerian sympathise or hold a public concern about the alarming fall in price of crude comparing 1999 and now.

I see our brothers shamefully applauding and encouraging Crude theft and pipeline vandals for no reason but hatred..

Obasanjo ruled this country for quite a few tenure, same as Yaradua and GEJ, will it be right to say most of these self inclined social and economical activists never had a true concern about progress of this nation on check as at those past tenure?

However they paint this, it will always flag an indication to treason and disruption of peace and order which is ofcourse an international crime.

I want to believe some of these agitators and organisers has critically weighed the consequences of these unguarded actions..

When the rule of law sets in, same Nigerians will clamour over refusal of the presidency to secure a release of someone standing a trial of international crime..

My humble opinion..
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please, How Much Should I Charge For This? by lonelygem(m): 7:00pm On Aug 02, 2019
Zane2point4:

Educated and precise, i wish we have many people like you here, i guess quora will be envying us sef.

See other childish posters above, this will tell you the mentality of an average Nigerian, unproductive and evil minded.

Thanks Bro.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please, How Much Should I Charge For This? by lonelygem(m): 4:37pm On Aug 01, 2019
hafsatadebisi:
A woman asked me to come and help her sweep her house tomorrow. How much do you think I should charge her in case she ask for amount?


Have u been there before? Whats the size of the apartment? And what city are we talking about? Port Harcourt rate for a 3 bedroom flat apartment with a store is about 3k, I used to pay 2k for a 3-bedroom flat with a store for just a thorough sweeping without mobbing, sweeping and mobbing is charged at 3k.

Lagos is about 2k but Lagos people might insist a whole day job, even when u hurry and finish up on time, they often engage you on other areas with assumption of whole day pay.

You need to understand the person, there are some kind of people who are reasonable enough to even pay more than the actual charges as motivation incase they need your services some other time, in that case, u may not have to talk much on payment.

If the person is not that type, I'd advise you spell things out from beginning..

Its about 2 hours service under normal circumstance except for an unless..

May God bless all genuine hustlers...

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Culture / Re: Oluwo Of Iwo: How To Retrieve Nigerian Stolen Millions From US Via Local Charm by lonelygem(m): 8:28am On Aug 01, 2019
And Iwo is such a primitive town still living in the decade, all the road leading to his town where he claim to secure kingship is terrible. A town with no waste management..

Come to the palace junction, about 2 electric poles to the palace gate is terrible and not motorable. U cant do business in Iwo as all roads are terrible thereby discouraging investors and business proximity..

Coming from Osogbo through Iwo/Ibadan road, just around the popular hotel call Beezee where the so called Oba normally lodge his guest, the road has completely detached into a terrible lagoon..

Vehicle now turn back from that spot to go and ply Odori/Oja ale, to link back to Ibadan road through the police station..

I'm so surprised to see this guy ranting about buying football clubs and boasting of some financial recovery charm.

If he so have some of the things he claimed, he wouldn't be seen loitering and luring himself into wealthy politician's homes and gathering because of those small envelopes he's fund of...

As it is now, businesses are closing down in Iwo on daily basis because of lack of infrastructure..

If u cannot sell leaves and vegetable, or make moinmoin and eko (agidi) don't even think of going to Iwo. Even banks has refused to come to Iwo as the 3 who are managing the transactions there are seriously lamenting of business proximity..


That guy is just out to explore and gain cheap popularity..

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Education / Re: 8-Year-Old Zamfara Girl Who Treks 2KM To School Gets A Bicycle Gift (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 6:48pm On Jul 31, 2019
Simplyleo:
To me, this is a classical case of cure worse than the ailment. The little girl being a child may be thrilled by this "palliative", but in actual sense, it is no where close to the solution of her daily energy-sapping distant trekking.

[s]The energy expended in riding that bicycle is almost double the energy required to trek. [/s]angry

However, may God reward her benefactor for making such attempt, and thanks to social media for bringing up her plight to the public. We pray she eventually get the appropriate assistance.

Also, such a long walk on the lonely path is not safe for a girl of her age, human ritualists are on the lookout.

Well said my brother.
Please u may want to take us back to definition of a machine. Elementary physics. Maybe that can justify your comparism.
Politics / Re: 2019 Elections: APC Sends Strong Message To Atiku, May Be ‘arrested’ by lonelygem(m): 8:17am On Jul 31, 2019
EricBloodAxe:
Between Atiku Abubakar and Buhari, the world knows who looks more presidential grin

Eyes are not the most sensitive part of our enclosed body system bro.. grin

Besides, Politics is a game of number and not a quest of outfits.

Two evils on the show here, but there is indeed a lesser evil.

May God save us from known and unknown evil..
Phones / Re: How To Clear Your Borrowed Airtime On MTN by lonelygem(m): 11:28pm On Jul 25, 2019
Yabaleftstudent:
Pls loving people I have issue with my sch fees Acct: 0450922735 gtbank pls help me with anything may God bless you

What nature of issue do u have with it?
E loss or you take am play betnaija or nairabet.

Which one bro

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Romance / Re: I Slept With My Landlords Wife Last Night by lonelygem(m): 12:46pm On Jul 24, 2019
Deathisfree:


Graduated since 2017 never see job. But God dey do wonder

You sure say Na God dey do those wonders or innocent girl's panties?

Why would a fresh graduate opt for accommodation worth half a million and he's comfortable in it? Even if u had gotten a job the day u graduated, I don't think your saving could justify such luxury by the time we check balance expenses and dues..

There is more to your statement than u actually meant it to sound like..

Just curious oh!
Politics / Re: The Many Times Elzakzaky Has Been Detained By Nigerian Government by lonelygem(m): 9:15am On Jul 24, 2019
Beremx:
Interesting. But his Islamic group have never caused a war or instigated any violence. Or have they?

What
Probably you've not been following up events unflagged by social media.

I never knew such group existed in Nigeria of our own until I passed their territory in Zaria..

Mere coming close to the range, u would experience a goose pimples and infusion of curiosity especially at days of their special events. The road is often narrowed down and partly barricaded just like entering a military cantonment..

The sad news is that, El-zazaky's activities and record with intelligent bodies has placed some good and aspiring religious scholars rising from ABU on check list till date.

If u are a good preacher and MSS activist of ABU, just expect that secret intelligence bodies are always on close monitor and possible summon might just follow..

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Politics / Re: The 7 States President Buhari Gave Two Ministerial Slots And The Reasons Why by lonelygem(m): 5:33pm On Jul 23, 2019
Cool gesture

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Politics / Re: El-Zakzaky: Religious Movement Or A Military State Within Nigeria? (Photos, Vide by lonelygem(m): 10:09am On Jul 23, 2019
plaindealer:
I used to think this is a religious cult, but after watching their propaganda videos and seeing their military stance and profile, it's safe to conclude that the FG did the right thing by curtailing their activities. This is a clear and present danger that the FG must nip in the bud ASAP.

Their parades are well organized professionally structured with tall and well-built members with obvious strong military training, even the women are not left out.


This is more than a religious cult/


This is definitely not a religion, this looks more like a state within a state and a non-state military outfit within Nigeria.


God bless you. It takes an ample wisdom to understand the potential threat of a particular group, growing in thousands by the day, putting up such military prowess in terms of strength and armourage, and gradually out numbering the military workforce of a state.

There are tendency that such group could rebel against the government force in future, there are tendency of a desperate politician using them to hijack power knowing knowing that the group is dominated by illiterates who lacks the adequate understanding of right and wrongs on literary edifice.

Moreover, it the sect is actually aimed at religious progress as claimed, Islamically, white attire is most honourable and recommended by the prophet, then why those military training and black uniform if not for evil intention.

I expected them to engage in those acts recommended by the prophet, like horse ridding, wrestling among others...

The few occasions I was privileged to enroute Alzazaky's territory in Zaria, sincerely speaking it was entirely a different phase from what we hear from the media.

As much as its against the code of conduct to open fire on an "unarmed" citizen of a country, there are however a limitation to 'stand down order' in peace keeping operation under rules of engagement especially when engaging people with tendency of violence.

Various live recording of the confrontations with both Nigerian Army and Nigerian police showed these guys carrying stones and light weapons while advancing towards the security personnel, are those stones and sticks not enough to kill and render havoc on innocent citizens like them? we heard gun shots even in the videos of their previous engagement with Military in Zaria, yet we say they are not armed.

How do we think it feels for a security interface leader to account for his members massacred by a supposed "un-armed" group with stones and stick.

Why do we like to sabotage ourselves due to hatred taken too far...

I'm much convinced that some Nigerians would have been so happy and and applaud a news of a particular group killing numbers of Nigerian security personnel for reason known to them..

We won't progress if we don't change our mentality and political orientation in this country.

Peaceful protest is a fundamental right and it is often done with placards and coordinated voice. Sticks and stone are not objects of peaceful protest.

May God save us from know and unknown evil.

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Romance / Re: A Nairalander Is About To Leave Nigeria. Airport Photos. by lonelygem(m): 6:52pm On Jul 22, 2019
stupidity:
Edited: So I had to leave office and go to a nearby mechanic shop to light “some”. Then a very bright idea came to my head. Since Nigeria is falling apart, why don’t we all sponsor ourselves abroad? Nairaland has 2.2million registered members. Seun should create a new platform to collect a weekly contribution of 100 naira from every nairaland member. Every week around 2.2b naira will be raised. So we go use the money Dey sponsor atleast 220 people to various countries of their choice. Before Buhari leaves office we would have sent significant amount of Nairalanders to overseas. But as the brain behind this idea, I’ll be amongst the first batch to leave.


We all can now be overseas and start viewing nairaland from there with less worries on the happenings in Nigeria. If Buhari like he can even appoint cow as CBN governor, we won’t care. Or he can decide to pursue Nigerians to nearby countries and Rugalize the whole Nigeria we won’t care.

Please don’t insult me of you don’t agree with this idea o. I swear I go open yansh for third mainland bridge take swear for you. I’m only trying to profer solution to the situations ravaging this nation.

Make I drink water, wash wash my face then go back office.

I think u have a point, but Nairaland Schorlaship fund will go a long way..
I believe 98% nairalanders can afford to contribute a token of 100 per day, and we can be allowed to make it monthly voluntary donation.

Wether we like it or not, nairaland has come to stay and its more or less part of our individual lives now, so why don't we take that bold step?

Starting it is the problem, once it kick-start volunteers and donors will surface from various angles..

Out of every nonsense, there is always some little elements of sense..

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Business / Re: Make Up To 200K Plus With Mini Nylon Production Business by lonelygem(m): 4:48pm On Jul 21, 2019
Nylon production comes in different forms, the thickness and elastic nature differs with density.

The main blown nylon is sold in a roll of various kilograms. U can purchase as much kilo as your financial means can allow..

Sorry I do not photo prove of all these again, I set up a nylon factory back in 2003.

Please feel free to ask questions.

For the machine, it is more or less like a creative wooden structure I can sketch for a carpenter to carve.

The cutting part is a heating element usually mounted at a safe place and connected at the measuring point of the sketched wooden structure.

I may not be able to go into full details..
I will respond to questions at my mention..

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Romance / Re: I Will Never Love A Girl Ever Again by lonelygem(m): 1:15pm On Jul 19, 2019
RiyaGoddess:
You should stay off Sex. Once Sex is involved in a relationship, genuine love becomes difficult. You will find someone who will love you without money. You might even need to pretend to be a poor person in order to test the lady(s)
Read my signature

My dear, love is not all it takes..
Imagine dating a lady u are so sure she's a matured, religious, interesting and so friendly to be with. In fact, your kind of person, you feel so relaxed and tells yourself this is where I'd always dream to be..

She insists keeping sex out of it which u confidently agreed with considering the height of holiness and trust u had in her..

U wouldn't even think of holding hands as u are always filled with thoughts of having the future together and all that.

Only to find out she sneaked into her ex's apartment for sexual satisfactions whenever her sexual urge triggers...

My dear, u might have grabbed the next bottle of sniper without knowing it..

Love is the most complicated thing in this World. Full of risk and emotional torture. Relationship is quite so difficult. The prospect of affection is beyond the scope encyclopedia..

Very few were lucky to scale through without a truncated and impaired heart.

Affection has thorn many people's life apart and even when the good ones comes knocking, they cant have the heart as a whole anymore..

If u want to live long and go far in life, do not carry affections on your head, put it on your shoulders so that you can always have your head to think straight.

Prioritize Success and let affection be a spice to compliment that self worth.

May God save us from known and unknown evil.

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Education / Re: Sex For Marks: ‘I Was Set Up By Student, Cultists’ - EKSU Lecturer by lonelygem(m): 10:00am On Jul 16, 2019
Unigrad:
A female student will come to your house by 10pm to share dinner with you?
This story get as e be.

The paragraph explicitly means the incidence happened about 10pm, which was after he had observed dinner together with the lady and a flat occupant. It doesn't really mean the dinner took place 10pm.
Romance / Re: I Cheated But He Still Want Me Back by lonelygem(m): 12:08am On Jul 16, 2019
Missperplexity0:
Lemme make this brief as possible and please if you want to insult me, envelope the insult with an advice....we dated for 4yrs, we were each other first love, i recently told him in one of our weird conversations albeit jokingly that i want to know what it feels like to have sex with another man, he consented but said would prefer a total stranger so we dont develop feelings for eachother. I ignore his advice and had it wif a close male friend of mine but there was no feelings attached, he suspected something was amiss and i told him the truth. He locked me up for two days, beat me and had sex with me forcefully throughout. We broke up after that but he is begging to come back though am now scared of him. Cant even entertain the thought of staying in the same room with me after all the pain and trauma i passed through.

Series of advice rendered to you over this abusive relationship of yours, so sad you take things for a joke.

There are chances the guy is under influence of something which may not be known to you, probably alcohol, drugs or certain degree of psychosis.

You've given him so much room that makes him feel he dominates your entire life for reason best known to you.

Bitter truth is that, the day he will sniff life out of you, it will start like the usual joke and I won't be surprise to see RIP tagged to that beautiful face of yours..

I've lost friends to some of these unaddressed abuse in the name of "we love each other"

Any man or woman who can inflict pains on his or her spouse without a second thought, without conscience, not even the slightest memory of that moment he or she had brought smile on his or her face, such spouse is capable of murder..

Do no condone any act of abuse or violence in relationship, don't be blinded by some unguarded affections, be responsible to yourself enough to know why and when to quit.

My candid advise..
Politics / Re: Algeria Vs Nigeria: Atiku React To Super Eagles' Loss To Algeria by lonelygem(m): 8:21am On Jul 15, 2019
Religion6:
All These atiku reactions are becoming childish to me. He didn't even wait for the final whistle before reacting.

Most time they are not the direct handler
Sports / Re: Algeria Vs Nigeria: AFCON Semi-Finals (2 - 1) Full Time by lonelygem(m): 9:27pm On Jul 14, 2019
It go sha end for penalty
Career / Re: Mass Sack In Ecobank, Sacked Workers Protest (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 4:43pm On Jul 12, 2019
annawhite:
and I'm supposed to blush cos a normal male specie with a petrol station garment noticed my hair and makeup!?.....Eventuary

Petrol station garment.. grin grin
U seems to be taking this Ecobank Mata way far oh.. Are u one of the laid off staff?

Why are u crying more than the bereaved?
Career / Re: Mass Sack In Ecobank, Sacked Workers Protest (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 8:08am On Jul 12, 2019
annawhite:
What manner of fuckery is this!!? I am now oga...so I'm gonna ask u again.. One bad experience with a careless staff is used to rate thousands of hardworking staff!!??


Oh! I guess you might continue to ask till I notice and address a female Monika. Lol!

For the question, we are considering various staff involved now, the branch I visited customer care rep who forgot to process the form, the central branch help desk who refused to do the tracking from Lag and the twitter handler who promised to follow up for a call back of fund but didn't deliver and stoped responding..

How many staff's carelessness does it take for a customer to loose his or her entire life earning or go bankrupt?

Meanwhile, u got a good packaging there.. Lovely weavon and creative makeup.. Keep it up
Romance / Re: Things Happen When Ever I Try To Have Sex. by lonelygem(m): 3:21pm On Jul 11, 2019
Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

There may be a supernatural force trying to protect you from an impeding danger that might emanate as a result of your negligence to holy instructions..

Premarital sex is the sweetest poison anyone can think of, don't lose your guard..

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Career / Re: Mass Sack In Ecobank, Sacked Workers Protest (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 11:40am On Jul 11, 2019
annawhite:
You are judging thousands of staff with one bad experience u had with a bank staff!??...

Oga. Its money we are talking about here, no one pray to loose a kobo of hos or her sincere sweat.

What if what was messed with was my entire life saving?

Isn't that enough to judge them?

Lapses on the part of the customer care rep who refused to process the disbursement error form I filled and lapses on the part of another central customer desk in Lagos who had power to track the transaction..

Some people would have gone to creat a big scene at the branch vandalising their properties...

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Career / Re: Mass Sack In Ecobank, Sacked Workers Protest (Photos) by lonelygem(m): 9:57am On Jul 11, 2019
If I hear hard work for Una mouth ehn.

I lost reasonable money to Ecobank staff negligence sometimes ago.

I made a transaction which the beneficiary claimed didn't receive and had been debited from my Ecobank account. I insisted the beneficiary should hold on till I confirm what happened from Ecobank before making another transaction.

I went to Ecobank branch and I was asked to fill in a disbursement error form which I did.

I asked repeatedly as I never trusted the beneficiary if I could go ahead and make a new payment to the beneficiary, the customer care lady said a capital yes assuring me the initial fund will be reversed to my account immediately as I'd filled the disbursement error form.

I left and made a fresh payment to the beneficiary, and I forgot about the whole thing..

2days, 5days one week gone no reversal.
I went to the branch again to complain, it was then they started looking for the disbursement error form I filled a week ago.
When they eventually found the form, it was discovered that the form wasn't processed, during the period, the cash cleared into the beneficiary's account unaltered because the form was not processed..

We started sending mails to Lagos office to rectify the issue, the guy in Lagos equally didn't respond tilll about 26days of the whole mess.. We kept calling from the branch phone, the branch manager's mobile number and my personal mobile number, the idiot was not on desk for days, and wasn't responding to mobile phone calls..

When he finally responded after 26days.. He only commented "the transaction cleared into the beneficiary's account" that was how I lost the money..

I quietly stoped using the account for any transaction since 2016. I just counted Ecobank out of my business life.

It may be funny that most employee don't deserve what they actually earn and can be so shameless to come to protest ground without conscience..

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Romance / Re: See The Nude Photos That Led To Saheed Husaini & Fatima Musa Stabbing Saga by lonelygem(m): 6:51am On Jul 11, 2019
IamHeWrites:
Someone should quote me when they see the nudes....

Perception of nudity in the North is not the same with many places. Especially south-south and south east.

When Yoruba girls used to be sane, exposing the bra band used to be a violation of moral sense, and u would see the elderly women quickly helping her to talk it in as if it was a contraband goods (my pikin, hide am. )

We have emulated what we had no knowledge of in the name of fashion and now dwell in rotten moral value to the extent that our sense of right and wrong is truncated somehow..

A banker clubbed over the weekend, passed the night in a hotel and resumed to work on Monday, not having the chance to get to her house to change up, she actually went that way for marketing in such seductive and half naked dress. She got questioned and all she had to say was 'World has advanced beyond what she was wearing and there was no biggy..'

If our society has lost it, I think the last option we have is protecting our homes from loosing it as our kids must be raised from those homes.

There is nothing we want that life doesn't have to offer, the wide path and the narrow path, the choice is ours..

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Business / Re: Tony Elumelu Foundation And UNDP To Empower Only Northern Nigerians? by lonelygem(m): 9:14pm On Jul 09, 2019
Beremx:
I had to read this email sent to my box severally to be sure of what I am reading. Just got the email some minutes ago.


Has it gotten to this extent that Nigeria has to be Segregated? This means that we from the South have no hope of the empowerment.

Wonderful!!

What do u gain always misconstrue the general public?

This is just additional face of the empowerment which supposed to be an encouragement to those areas deemed not to have turn up.

It is being funded by a source which u may not want to deliberate on as such.

If Mr. A is from the north and he gives his money to Mr. B who already had a script for empowerment programmes to help him empower his people through his programme, how is that a crime?

Tony Elumelu Foundation is not running in Nigeria alone, there are several other country benefiting from the programs.

I don't know why our thinking always go political..
Family / Re: Saheed Husaini & Fatima Musa Stabbing Update: Husband Speaks by lonelygem(m): 10:35am On Jul 09, 2019
zicoraads:
Kano man stabbed by his wife opens up, shows evidence of her sending nudes to boyfriends

Hussain, whose 21-year-old wife Fatima Musa almost killed him by stabbing, has finally recovered to narrate his own side of the story.

The incident occurred at 1:30am on June 22 at the couple’s residence at Unguwar Mai Kalwa, Naibawa, Quarters, Kumbotso Local Government Area of Kano State, according to a Daily Focus report.

The family of the wife had earlier painted a picture of self-defence, accused Mr Hussain of wife battery, and released a video of injuries inflicted on her by him before she escaped to pick a knife and stab him.

Fatima, a student of Law at Bayero University Kano, BUK, was immediately arrested by the police.

But at a press conference he organised in his residence, Mr Hussain accused his wife of infidelity and denied accusations of wife beating.

“I caught my wife dancing indecently in my parlour where she was recording the dance on her phone and sending the video clips to her boyfriends,” he told journalists.

“I told her mother about it and she asked me if my wife’s elder sister and grandmother knew what was happening and she pleaded with me not to reveal it to anyone so as not to soil the image of their family.



“Also I challenged one of the boyfriends with whom my wife was exchanging voice notes but said he was not aware that my wife was a married woman.

“This is one of over 30 voice messages I found,” he said, turning on a recorded audio conversation he had with his wife’s alleged boyfriend on an his phone.

“I also have evidence on how my wife invited her lover from Abuja and had a session with him in a hotel in Bompai, which name I will not reveal. She did this precisely on 26th April, 2016 while being married. She was at the hotel from 10:13 a.m and stayed up to 12:16 pm. And the CCTV camera of that hotel captured this information I’m talking about.

“Also on that same day, a Friday, I caught her taking drugs in my house. She was taking Shisha with some substances that include high concentration of narcotic. During the last Ramadan fast, she sprinkled drops of poisonous insecticides in my food, a meal of fried eggs. I have the evidence of that too.



“When the problem became so serious, we had to seek audience with Dr. Bashir (Umar), chief Imam of Al-Furqan Jumuat Mosque, who is a well respected marriage counsellor in order to get advice and save the marriage.

“We went to see Dr. Bashir along with my wife, her mother and her elder brother in my car. I narrated all my accusations against her including her infidelity, promiscuity and drug abuse which she all admitted to Dr. Bashir.

“But it was on the same day after we returned home that she stabbed me with a knife after I seized her phone, which she used to send her nude pictures and videos to her boyfriends. I was already in bed when she picked two knives from her kitchen and came to the room. She sat in front of my bed, with her back facing the mirror as if she was meditating. At that moment, she raised the first knife and stabbed me on the side of my stomach and then threw the knife behind her.

“I woke up fully to see her raising the second knife to strike me but I attempted to hold her hand, getting injured in the process. This is the scar as you can see.


“She raised the knife again to strike me but I dodged, forcing the knife to sink into the mattress. At that moment, I stood up and held her hand in an attempt to seize the knife. She bit my hand during the struggle, warning me to release. It was in this struggle that I pushed her and she fell and hit her head against the side drawer and subsequently on the rough floor tiles which made her face swollen.

“It was not true that we fought in the kitchen. The trail of blood stains could be seen only from the floor of my room to the parlour.

“Therefore I challenge her family members from both her mother’s and father’s side to bring any evidence that I was beating their daughter every day. The video clip they were circulating were from the scene of this particular incident we are talking about.

“So, my friend Lawali rescued me on that day with the help of Allah and took me to the hospital. As he was holding my feet while I was writhing in pains, the third face I saw on me was that of my mother-in-law and I warned her not to touch me. My friend Ustaz can testify to this.



“I complained to her that she was aware of my wife’s promiscuous behavior and her attempt to poison me but they didn’t take action. At hearing this, my mother-in-law started gesturing to me to keep quiet, pleading with me not to expose her daughter’s bad behavior to the world.

“Before leaving the hospital, my mother-in-law sought for permission from my friend Ustaz to privately see and discuss with her daughter.”

Making reference to Zainab Sanda saga and how evidence is allegedly destroyed by wife’s family, he said the family of his wife concocted the story of wife battery in order to make their daughter the victim and portray him in bad light.

“There was a similar case in Abuja where the husband died. So my mother-in-law conspired with her daughter to destroy evidence and sponsor campaigns of calumny against my person on social media.



“They sponsored video clips and other materials in which I was accused of alcoholism, drug abuse and wife beating. This was done in order to tarnish my image and make me look like I was wicked so that my wife would get public sympathy. But I have evidence of their daughter’s immorality, unfaithfulness and drug use,” Mr Hussein said.

When asked if he had ever reported on his wife’s alleged immorality to her parents he said:

“I have been reporting my wife to her parents. And every time I report her, I normally send them the evidence of what she does online. I sent them via Whatsapp to the father and to the mother. If they don’t have the records of what I sent, I have them here.

“These are some of the nude pictures; she normally did videos and send to her boyfriends despite being married,” he said, showing video clips of his wife in compromised poses on his phone.

“But the response of the parents is that I should please cover them, I should keep it within myself, I should not expose them because it will tarnish their image. My wife was even exchanging porn videos with some of the friends she has,” he said.

Hussain also claimed that he was not aware that his wife was “immoral” before he married her and that even after the marriage he could not discover her strange behavior in time because he didn’t have access to her phone.

“Even a day to the marriage, her father sat her down and told her that it was the last opportunity she had to choose a husband. She was asked if she loved me and she answered yes. I gave her gifts which she accepts and even sent me messages. We had a very good courtship,” Mr Hussein said.

Mr Hussein also said he did not opt for a divorce despite her alleged infidelity because her parents were always giving him hope that things get better and that he himself was anticipating changes.

“I had no plans to divorce her because as a Muslim I was always anticipating changes. I prayed during the holy month of Ramadan for Allah to make things better between us,” he added.


https://dailynigerian.com/kano-man-stabbed-by-his-wife-opens-up-shows-evidence-of-her-sending-nudes-to-boyfriends/

I knew this was most likely to be from day one. If u as a man gives a soft spot to women on issue of domestic violence, then u are probably digging your grave with your own tooth.

Women would initiate a high level of violence and abuse and they are always the first to cry out to have been physically abused.

Funny enough, the World always give them audience and convict men without trial..

He's lucky to be alive, many had died as a result of similar occurrence. I lost a naval officer friend to something like this, the lady stabbed him with his own commando knife while he was asleep and locked him up in the house in his pool of blood.

May God save us from known and unknown evil..

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Politics / Re: Bisi Fayemi Shares Rape Experience, Blasts Women Shaming Busola Dakolo by lonelygem(m): 6:21pm On Jul 08, 2019
lamidebaby:
biodun is a goner..

And Senator Abbo is a gonest.. grin

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