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PoliticsRe: Why Is Kerosene More Expensive Than Petrol ? by lonelygem(m): 10:51am On Aug 05, 2022
2aces:
That's because Kerosene is not only used in houses, its also used by planes as aviation fuel or jet fuel, thereby creating an increase in daily demand with limited supply, hence the high cost.
Secondly kero is more denser( heavier) than petrol and more refined than diesel, making the cost of production way more expensive than both.
God bless you. I'm surprised Nigerians dont research. Ive tried to educate people on several valuable use of Kero beyond domestic cooking, back then when I was at the Depot, even Government value Kero more than anything. A typical importer might not be able to import kero more than once or twice a year and same importer brings in PMS and AGO 3 times a week.

And at every point Kero is discharged through our cargo line, it's a matter 2 hours or less, you just must see NNPC barge anchoring around the jetty waiting for the Kero vessel to disembark for it to batt and load same kero.

Kerosene known as DPK is same product treated as ATK and used for all aircraft and airplanes to move.

Kerosene has more value than PMS and it is responsible for high cost of aviation tickets in Nigeria today. There is high demand for Kero because many importers dont bring in Kero due to high cost of maintenance on it's storage.

STORAGE AND MAINTENANCE
As an importer, everytime you bring in Kero, you start preparing to receive it like a week before it arrives which is unlike bringing in other white products.

There is a process of evacuation which involves opening of man holes on both sides, providing kits for maintenance team to go into the tanks that has concealed over 10 million PMS for over 6 years with PMS still in there..

We used to dress fully kitted with oxygen gas bottles on our back, with high pressure jets capable of throwing 5 adults off their feet.

God forbid you miss your step and your gas cylinder or mask goes of, before you crawl your way back to the Manhole, you might have give up the ghost.

So, on average, importers spend about 6 Million for storage of DPK. And the process takes a whole week which is not so in PMS and AGO

We dedicate tanks for various products. But not in a case of DPK that you bring in just once in 4 years. In that case, whenever you are bringing in DPK, you must do thorough evacuation which would even make you lose about 8000 litres of the initial product, make you contract evacuation and proper venting of the tank, and wait for DPR to come and confirm and sign that the tank is safe for storage.
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole: Tinubu’s Opponents Should Have Helped A Christian Win APC Ticket by lonelygem(m): 10:09am On Aug 05, 2022
Penguin2:
Christians who worked for Asiwaju’s emergence did so because they thought the old man had any iota of sense of justice left in him and would see to a balance in his ticket.

They are not God who would have known that Tinubu would throw caution to the wind and become outrightly stupid by not caring about Christian sentiments and sensibilities.
Simply say they were blinded by the dollars. Let's naked the truth at this point. Most of them agitating over Muslim to Muslim ticket, they are just waiting for 11th hour, Jagaban believes every man has a price, they will use same resources they used to condemned Tinubu to work for Tinubu. And then go join me and you to dey wonder 'How manage', 'na was oh'...

Just be yourself and do not trust anyone. There is no integrity in Nigerian politics. Whatever they chose to do, it is assumed they owe no one the slightest explanation.
Car TalkRe: My Toyota Corolla Vandalized by lonelygem(m): 5:46pm On May 16, 2022
Toktee:
I swear to my balls your mechanic have hand in this operation... the operation look much like it was done by someone with mechanical experience.


Is not easy to take out brain box just like that, also look the way the control on the driver side is removed.



Something like this happened to later I discover it's my mechanic that did it... I almost roast the ediot.. He replaced everything with Abeg you.
The brain box is located at an open place on the passenger side, even a child of 10 years can easily remove it.

Meanwhile, some corolla can be so selective of brain box, it took me a relentless effort and over 2 months to get a braonbox that really match mine, I hope your brain box is not K2, K2 is so rare and most expensive in market right now. You can get a good standard brain box for like 35 to 40k.

The entire replacement won't cost you more than 50k. Where u are likely going to have some problem is paying for these boys to program brain box on test run for you. I had to learn to programs brain box myself and bypass paying for every brain box installed on test run.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Army Burnt Citizens ALIVE During Zaria Massacre by lonelygem(m): 7:21am On Mar 19, 2022
Elbinawi:
Nigerian Army Burnt Citizens ALIVE During Zaria Massacre

The Nigerian army burnt dozens of innocent Citizens ALIVE during the brutal and inhuman Zaria Massacre. Those burnt included women and children. There is a #Photo of a nursing Mother burnt with her child at the residence of Sheikh Ibraheem Zakzaky.

One of such victim is Mahdi here from Sokoto State. Mahdi was burnt ALIVE by the Nigerian army but he survived with massive injuries. Despite the further medical treatment in Iran, Mahdi is only struggling to remain alive.

The 75 year old sister of Sheikh Ibraheem Zakzaky, Hajiya Fatima, was also burnt ALIVE by the Nigerian army. They pushed her into a house and set fire on the house. Wickedness extraordinary!

Burning civilians ALIVE is a heinous war crime under all international laws and convention. Personnel of the Nigerian army are paid to protect Nigerians but they burnt innocent people ALIVE during the #ZariaGenocide.

Those that planned and executed the genocidal massacre of more than one thousand innocent men women children and infants in Zaria in December, 2015, MUST be brought to justice. For more than 6 years now no single person arrested because President Buhari ordered the genocidal massacre.

The 2015 Zaria Massacre is the biggest massacre of unarmed civilians in the history of the Nigerian state. It eclipsed the Asaba massacre of 1967. While in the Asaba massacre soldiers spared women and children, in the Zaria Massacre women, children and infants were brutally slaughtered by the Nigerian army.

In the case of genocide that we submitted to the International Criminal Court, ICC, in 2016, we added videos and photos of Citizens burnt ALIVE by the Nigerian army as evidences.

On a final note, the hundreds of families of victims of the Zaria Massacre are patiently waiting for Justice.

Harun Elbinawi
elbinawi@yahoo.com
And the photos and videos are no more at this point. U brought an issue to the media space and holding back your evidences, feeding internet users with half information with intentions yet unknown..

Learn to present a good case even 'if' you intend to whip sentiment, there are professional ways to go about it..
BusinessRe: What Business To Start With N15M? by lonelygem(m): 2:25pm On Mar 17, 2022
nelsonplex:
INTRODUCTION
Nelton Nig. Limited is a company with a global vision and presence in the African environment. The vision of the company is to build sustainable economic growth in any environment through Technology, Human capital development, and Entrepreneurial support. The company aims to eliminate multiple DATA subscription
bundles/packages for internet connectivity.

Imagine a future where all you have to do is just buy smartphones and you don‟t need to go through the hassles of buying Data daily, weekly, or even monthly.

A future where Data subscription for internet connectivity is just once or twice in every 365-days. Imagine if we could extend this service to over 20million "internet users‟ at the rate of ₦60,000 per year.

Every successful business or company solves the problems of the people and here we are with solutions that will benefit the entire
human race. From our end, there has been groundbreaking research as regards these
inventions but our financial commitments are not strong enough to fund the actualization of this innovation.

Hence, we have decided to find a pathway to
actualizing this business dream and the pathway to getting the needed funding for this innovation is what we want to present to you.

An African Entrepreneurial TV program with over 100-Skills...Our focus in this very TV program is to make Daily-Entrepreneurs with up to 300k/500k business funding which in turn generates huge profit for the company. [color=#000099][/color]
Your proposal is not visible enough to attract the interest of a potential investor.

The questions are:

1. What will be the source of your internet

2. Do you directly handle the device and OS to run with?

3. On the average, how much do you think people pay for monthly internet sub in Nigeria to get unlimited access for a whole month.

4. What background knowledge or radio equipment are are you building on and who are your team members

5. And what's the nature of your access that made you think it would be preferable compared with what we have in Nigerian technology World today.

Note: If you have to convince me, let it be on a technical ground, I dont mind you allowing head of your technical team to respond to the questions. I am a certified ISP in Rivers state and ive closed many deals for Nitel, Ethel, Japaul and many clients on Internet service provision both onshore and offshore.

I humbly await your response with keen interest to learn something new.
AutosClean Toyota Corolla Sport For Urgent Pickup by lonelygem(op): 10:29am On Mar 01, 2022
A 2006 Toyota Corolla available for urgent pickup. Sound engine, Alloy realms clean interior and very suitable for Ubber/Bolt business. It is being disposed for an urgent reason. The location is Abuja. A serious buyer may call: zero nine zero two zero nine four three nine zero three.
RomanceRe: Lady Slaps Boy For Asking Her How Much She Charges For Hookup (Video) by lonelygem(m): 7:55am On Dec 28, 2021
Factfinder1:
Unless I ever put my self in a position were a babe will slap me which I know I will never do just like this foolish boy here if any babe ever slaps me in this manner....I'll slap her till she goes deaf,goes blind, vomit blood and eventually falls down and die
The last time I visited Port Harcourt prison around Lagos bustop in Rivers state, the oldest prisoner there was 72 years, during my interaction with him, he claimed to have spent 38 years and still counting. He is on life imprisonment.

It all started on the note of man to woman situation like this, he allowed pride to outrule his sense of caution.. And unfortunate for him, taking that shit, observing patient for just 5 minutes and let the World call him fool would have saved him a while bunch of captivity he found himself right now.. His story was a touching one which I wouldn't want to go into details.


Shortly after then, my security man went to the apartment he rented for his supposed girlfriend and met another man in the same apartment and it turned to a great scene as the lady and the guy threw him out of the house and locked the protector.

He patiently waited for this lady to come to see him at work. Behold, Tanko angrily gave this lady an uncontrolled slap and for the first time in my life, I witness how a healthy looking lady collapsed and jerkin on the floor with foam all over her mouth..

Please I beg those who are willing to listen, patience will save you a whole lot of regret when you are involved with ladies.

If your feelings at any moment controls you and influences you, then you have lost that virtue of being a man.

My security guy was charged for attempted murder and abuse, he was locked up, I went to the station to bail him, I was detained in the same cell with him, it took the service of a lawyer and consent from the lady's parents and compensation before we were both released.

If the insult gets so much into you, the best to do is simply walk away..

Laugh and insult no dey gum for person body. But if you are not lucky, 5 minutes uncontrolled anger can mess up the rest of your entire life.

I get worried when people say 'I go deal with her' I go treat her Bleep up and so on..

Please life is very fragile. So many of those ladies are not strong enough both physically, psychologically and otherwise to take so much hit.

Just think about some impending problems and jump am pass by letting go some things..

My humble submission for wise guys out there..
ProgrammingRe: Data Analysis With Newtonian's Solution by lonelygem(m): 10:48am On Nov 22, 2021
Urgently in need of data processing/data analytics tutor. Send a pm if you base in Abuja, Lokogoma/Apo to be precise.
BusinessRe: If Davido Can Do It With Twitter Let's Do It On Nairaland by lonelygem(m): 5:02am On Nov 18, 2021
Ever8090:
I am expecting just 1000 naira from every Nairaland member...pls let's d donation starts now !... Inbox me for the account number..God bless everyone who will partake in this donation...thsnks
As funny as it sounds, spirit of savings and ability to sacrifice for others without minding how little it is goes a long way and it's something many parents refused to add to our parental trainings mostly..

This seems a great venture to me. Let's imagine setting up an account on charity where everyone contributes just 500 naira monthly as a backup to help genuine people in need or even support school fees of the poor..

It takes just a little to make a tremendous impact. Nairaland can set up committee of credible and trustworthy men and women to oversee a Schorlaship scheme or business grant..

If we can project credible committee on this project subject to screening, I would really love to be part of this gesture.

500 naira monthly is not up to what we spend on beer tables whenever we are out to watch our regular football matches..
PhonesRe: Can 80k Give Me What I Want?--- Got A device already by lonelygem(m): 4:13am On Aug 13, 2021
Princeofabia:
Hey bro,... Heard so much about this device...Does the phone hang or lag when you install apps?
And also how much did you get the phone?
Sorry for a late response. The phone started misbehaving when I added 128GB memory card to the in-built 128GB rom.

But immediately I removed the card, it became normal, fast and smart to app installation.

The cameras as superb.

I got it for 85k at Abuja
PhonesRe: Can 80k Give Me What I Want?--- Got A device already by lonelygem(m): 5:59pm On Aug 06, 2021
Kaveco:
So I sold my IPhone 8+ for 80k. (too cheap i guess), and want to get another android (I use the HTC One M9. Lol). I won't call myself a gamer, but I want to be able to play games on high settings for an hour or so. I want a phone LAG-FREE. I don't take pictures a lot, but I want a phone with good cameras. A phone with 128gb of storage (for the games of course). A phone that supports all LTE (4G) bands in Nigeria. I also like to customize my device, so I want something that is easily root able, and has custom roms I can install.
Last but not the least, I want a phone with a good battery. That is the most important for me because "I don too suffer for this HTC hand".

I'll prefer a used phone (so I get a bigger phone for my budget), but new phones are also okay. My budget is 80k. Thanks for your future contributions.
I have Tecno camon 17 I bought brand new about a month ago (4G ram 128GB memory) if you re interested. The carton charger and other accessories are available
RomanceRe: He Wants To Turn Me To His Sex Slave Because I Owe Him. by lonelygem(m): 1:41am On May 02, 2021
CsRockefeller:
Ok. If someone here is magnanimous to pay the debt after confirming your story that would be nice but if another is willing to borrow you the money so as to get this thing around your neck off asap, how long can you pay back without any pressure even if it's in bits?
I think I know the OP, its always same story coming from angle of threat from cultist and pressure to pay one bill or the other..

You may want to observe that the profile is new, as in registered shortly before the post was dropped.

I remember we contributed a reasonable amount of money for her here, only to see another post by same person but different version..

Please be very certain if you must contribute a dime to this..
BusinessRe: Who Can Supply Yam In Large Quantity From The North. by lonelygem(m): 6:38pm On Apr 23, 2021
shebcylov:
most of these payment on delivery be sure not to have r products rejected on delivery or worse still they might not even show up on delivery. It has happened to me before . draw an alternative plan for r payment on delivery client. they can b very funny especially those in SW.
There is never a rejected product you run a loss on in SW.

Worse case I can auction it and make good pay..

As at when I supplied basket of Tomatoes at 10k 3 weeks ago, someone was already begging me to divert the product to her at Lagos as it was already been sold for 23k at Lagos.. So, you can never run at a loss..

BusinessRe: Who Can Supply Yam In Large Quantity From The North. by lonelygem(m): 6:27pm On Apr 23, 2021
olabukola:
Where are u? You have contact in Lagos?
I'm in Abuja, Minna, Nasarawa and Jos. I can arrange my rep to meet you at Lagos.
BusinessRe: Who Can Supply Yam In Large Quantity From The North. by lonelygem(m): 5:23pm On Apr 22, 2021
eduj:
pay on delivery ?
YES! but I also need a commitment on your part.
it now depends on you, do you have a business account or a check account, you can drop a post dated cheque with my rep over there...
BusinessRe: Who Can Supply Yam In Large Quantity From The North. by lonelygem(m): 4:54pm On Apr 22, 2021
olabukola:
Yam supleir in large quantity needed. Supply location South West. If you are into north -south trade link pls kindly drop a line let's chat.
Meanwhile, I can handle your supply if you are serious, I recently supplied 4 baskets of Tomatoes, 2 large bags of onion, 150 tubers of yam, Bags of beans, bags of fresh pepper and Tatase at door step to a location at Ring Road close to Altima Eatery in Ibadan about few days to Ramadan Fasting.
you may send me a dm if you are really ready to deal..

but note that my credit offer is not beyond a hundred thousand. meaning that, if you have needs that is huge beyond 100k, you have to be responsible for the additional fund that run it beyond 100k.

we can deal via my company account and I equally have representatives at both Osun and Oyo state who can deliver directly to your door step.
BusinessRe: Who Can Supply Yam In Large Quantity From The North. by lonelygem(m): 4:43pm On Apr 22, 2021
most cases, the business hit the rock the moment the supplier request part payment and the buyer insist payment on delivery.. i had similar challenges during my hustling days, there are quite beautiful deals but with harsh conditions.. imagine someone you haven't met before requesting supply of product worth 200k with pay on delivery condition. of which you plan to send the goods via a waybill system.. how do we go from there? most of those NL business interactions never go through in the long run except for which someone has to take the big risk of trust.. and these days, some people would even stoop as low as defrauding others of 2,000 naira let alone sum as huge as 150k.. may God help all genuine hustlers..
CrimeRe: Lady Sexually Harassed By A Man At Ajah Park In Lagos (Video) by lonelygem(m):
please when will sanity return to Ajah? I dont even wish I had a cause to revisit that part of Lagos ever again after my experience during the last weekend. a gentle looking innocent guy was descended on by 4 other guys just because he tried to park his clean toyota car and refused to tip a guy who claimed to be the cabal at that Adesanya junction.. before we knew what, about 3 other dirty looking touts showed up from nowhere to joined the initial 4 guys and they used stick and all sort of things on this guy, hitting him from different directions just out of envy, calling him "Olowo igbo" "shewo lo n bowa ni" "a maa foju e gbole nibi ni.." everyone just kept their distance and looking.. this was broad day light, about 1:30pm for crying out loud. it was just like movie to me..

once you cross that Lekki, zero your mind oh. Ajah is a no man's land and anything goes..
by the way, when has it become a crime to tint one's hair, wear anklets, tatoo your body or even pierce one's nose?
sane people dont judge anyone by appearance.
we are all entitled to how we look to suit a particular reason best know to us.
anything contrary is nothing but full blown display of madness and infringement of right of others..

if not that we are just naturally wicked to ourselves as human, at some point or the other, sum of us incidentally but unknowingly bumped into our female sister, cousins, niece, or even close friend's unclothedness or sexual appealing state, some of you even bathed your female niece to her age of 10, 14.. some of you would watch you close cousins expose her laps and panties carelessly around yoyu even pressing her full breast on you freely, how were you able to control yourselves in the whole of this periods but so fast at dishing baseless conclusion and excuses at people who chose to dress the way they are comfortable.

we are not animals, if you have problems of discipline in thoughts, it is an ideal one that you stay indoors at all time and restrict yourself from watching cable channels to comport your unguarded mind..

sane men are busy looking around for opportunities and new businesses all around, sometimes they dont even take note of people they see, while some are out there giving such a long deep look at innocent ladies they see on the road..

why are we hypocrites?

please some guys needs to add better value to their lives by engaging their minds with profitable thoughts.

if you cant control your thoughts, you are not different from animals..

shikenah!!!
InvestmentInvestors model by lonelygem(op):
This..
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by lonelygem(m): 9:54am On May 12, 2020
Permit me to air my little contribution if you don't mind..

Note: it's a common mistakes that members of the wife's family innocently support the husband at a tough time by rendering a direct job influence or financial support and the wife ends up playing a victim of such kind gesture.

Every man has some ego irrespective of financial status. The rich are able to contains theirs simply because anyone would pay attention to their financial status than character.

One thing is clear, which is your anxiety for a religious man above other measure and no one would have been able to convince you not to go into the marriage and have you listened.

It's a common speculation that religious brothers tends to turn out being lazy in the long run probably because they believe spiritual strength dominate and has tendency to command evry other factor that constitutes a successful life.

But if this man had bee jobless till date, but still perfectly coordinate his 'receive it by fire' life style, would there had been a reason for this post? Please be sincere as many women are in this very situation but not all have the courage to flair their worries..

Same way you set "spiritual life support" as a factor for choosing him of all other men seeking your attention then, he too might had set "financial support and loyalty" as a criteria to settle with you, both ways.. It is one of the rules of aspiration to adjourn to create room for a review when something new is brought to the table.

To be candid with you, I don't see you as frustrated as some other person might think because of a point you made, "if to say he appreciate I for no complain.." the moment you start seeing yourself as a different entity from your husband, there will always be a recurring misunderstanding. Do you thank yourself whenever you sacrifice so much taking care of yourself? Learn to see your husband like one of your little kids, kids are expected to always fuckup, but if a child fuckup a thousand time, the mother is always ready to forgive and let go twice as much..

You both should drop your egos, you need him now that the whole thing is telling on your health, don't make him feel like he's the cause of your health challenges.. once in a while, call him by his name at his lighter mood, look into his eyes and alter those words sincerely from your heart "I'm sorry" he might want to ask you for what, tell him for everything I might have done wrong, and pains I might have caused us..

Women often say they don't talk and they are quiet, the truth is that even rays of light has its peculiar sound when the time is right. SILENCE is a reaction, it might only be a violent or a subtle type depending on the circumstance at that moment..

Think of all the beauty and amendment the word 'sorry' will bring back to your marriage..
Avoid family interference and demonstrate sincerely that this is your home and all you have to live for, take your kids with you on a vacation off your environment.. discuss issues, nice moment of those cool days the flame of your affections was very active, the good time will come back and gradually, you will have so much joy to heal your medical challenges..

Do not allow those fake people misadvice you, you have a better home than most of them here, they practically worship their husbands and will come and tell you something else here..

It's not just thinking or stress that causes high BP, you may need to check sugar level and all that, that statement amounts to a blackmail on the man's part.

Please be guided as I wish u a better recovery
EducationRe: Don't Open Schools Yet - Lagos Govt by lonelygem(m): 2:37am On May 03, 2020
A good move
TV/MoviesRe: Davido Confims Nicki Minaj Will Be On His Next Album by lonelygem(m): 2:31am On May 03, 2020
Till then
PropertiesRe: Your No.1 Real Estate Agent In Abuja Is Back by lonelygem(m): 12:06pm On Apr 29, 2020
URGENT QUARANTINE SALES!!!

(1.) Landed property measuring over 3 hectares for urgent pick up for serious buyer at Katampe in FCT.

Titled Documents:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan.

(2.) Landed property measuring 6000 msq at Jahi in FCT.

Titled Document:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan

The properties are available for inspection on account of the buyer. Interested person(s) may contact 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
Properties3 Hectares Plus Landed Property With FCDA C Of O by lonelygem(op): 11:42am On Apr 29, 2020
URGENT QUARANTINE SALES!!!

(1.) Landed property measuring over 3 hectares for urgent pick up for serious buyer at Katampe in FCT.

Titled Documents:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan.

(2.) Landed property measuring 6000 msq at Jahi in FCT.

Titled Document:
- FCDA C of O
- Layout Plan

The properties are available for inspection on account of the buyer. Interested person(s) may contact 0.8.0.6.2.9.8.8.8.3.0
FamilyRe: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by lonelygem(m):
Posting picture here is unnecessary and I hope the father of that child will be pleased with you for posting his baby's picture on a thread for 50k..

Please take down the pics..
FamilyRe: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by lonelygem(m): 7:03am On Apr 19, 2020
Mizwisdom:
So how will you know the real ones? my advice is for you to visit or have someone visit an antenatal clinic in a primary health care centre. Pick five poor pregnant women and give them the money or buy what they will need to see them through delivery. That's all. God bless you


Second option: Go through your church. Ask your Pastor/Priest to sow into the lives of five poor pregnant women and ask him to pray for you to conceive afterwards.





Third option: before you give people on Nairaland let them verify their story. This means you have to send somebody to visit them for verification, if you find that they are being sincere, you can give them the money.
Just what I was thinking.. when it comes to money, everyone easily turn to a pastor, nursing mother or expectant woman..

People have sold their conscience to the devil.
Most of those claiming to be student and stranded, they operate new NL account to hide true identities.. and they have been successful on many give away threads through their sugar coated tongues..

We know real people on NL. We know ourselves and we interact well even before COVID19 palava..
FamilyRe: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by lonelygem(m): 11:27pm On Apr 18, 2020
Giversnaverlack:
I want to sow a seed of 50k to 5women pregnant and mothers only. Please Pray for me as am coming out of this lockdown, let me conceive, God should remember me with and bless my womb with triplets. I really need your prayers upon my womb and I will come back to testify. Thank you
As much as I appreciate your kindness and humanitarian spirit, I won't hold back my piece of advice if you would understand.

God answers prayers when channeled through a strong faith and backed up with some underground charity that is not aimed so flamboyant..

why give 50k to five people when the chances that the five people are scammers is so high..

50k to 5 people is 250k of which same 250k can take care of 50 people's needs with chances that there would be lots of sincere and seriously in need instituting the majority of the beneficiaries.

When I checked, majority of those that. Responded so fast to your post had been a consistent beneficiary of most of giveaways on same NL who has practically turned begging to a business when they are not genuinely in need. Throwing 50k to five people will rather raise desperation and might be deemed extravagant..

Please I will advice you to reconsider your decisions to create better chances for sincere people who are truly in need no matter how small it is..

Just an advice if u don't mind as I pray God almighty consider your good intention towards humanity and grant your desire.
FamilyRe: Marriage Palava part 3 by lonelygem(m):
sisisioge:
Apparently, you weren't ready for marriage and still aren't ready to live the married life now. Take time out to assess the situation you've been painting in all your posts as a third party....you will get your answer.


What was the rush biko?
This is what happens when toddlers go into marriage in the name of 'I'm done with school, I've come of age.., I'm as big as my dad..' the psychological aspect of those factors that really confirms someone to be really ripe for marriage are often swept under the carpet by our parents who are desperately waiting to be called grandma and grandpa..

I'm sure the wife must have taken off certain. Cardinals of family bond without him paying attention to them.. sex is always the last to be taken out after a woman has exhausted all corrective measures to communicate her displeasure and discomfort in a relationship, when the party involved still doesn't pay attention or try to be insensitive, then she result to that..

Funny enough you never cared about series of body languages she must have used as corrective measures before the full blown decisions, the mentality is always 'as long as she cooks my meal, take care of my kids and grant me free assess to her thighs..'

First stage of resolution is admitting one's fault with sincere sense of remorse and wiliness to yield to corrections..

For as long as he's siting provision for the woman's dream of lifestyle as justification to be careless and insensitive, let him dwell in his problem for as long at the marital drought can take him..

I don't console people with lies..

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