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Txs peeps, i've began the love revival stratgies, i only want to be sure the result is real. Cos am scare d when i hear women say ''i cant love him again''

Txs peeps, i've began the love revival stratgies, i only want to be sure the result is real. Cos am scare d when i hear women say i cant love him again

I was hard on her initialy cos my expectation from my wife was high. During that period i beat her.

When she says she doesnt love again. Is it a dead end. Can she still love me again?.

My wife said i killed her love for me. Pls how do i revive it.

Same reason for not using. i attempted 1 and lost my driver licennce

sweet-tease:
^^^Take her own as advance payment

Bad business. Can easily loss.
No credit today come tomoro. Seriously she is not showing enough greenlight and dont want to entice her

[quote
author=sweet-tease]So why are you asking what to do about
the xmas gift thingy?


You kinda answer my thread here abi? ok the difference is dat i've not been intimmate wit her. If i have, i know wot to do, i wont ask u

Its not yet an electronic thing in Naija, more so its not a pay-view station. Its done by random survey. IMO.

You started by failing. What is your worth in ₦ and $, we arn't hungry here neither ar we ready to take fuc....g sh...t from you. Empty inflated ego.

Pls do the needful. You think the thing dey scratch am, she cum beg u scratch am. Just look at her and solve her financial problem. sweet t....oto na money dem dey pay

Pls
advice me. i found this babe in my new location, she is new too.
Toasted her, she claims she cant visit(abt 20+yrs) and not free. She's
asking for xmax gift. What do i do.

Truly women are difficult to understand. I told my wife she is more than a 12unit course in my Uni.

Advice the cheater to desist if not i stop been a friend. Cant stand it.

Fibroid, became a fineboy, dead fetus became a baby, God is waiting for your faith. Be expectant, call ur pastor

obo389:
Abeg wetin b Aproaching M.I.N.G?

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Dont mind the Mod o, it means e?j$a-cu'la*tion


He just spoil my thread for me.

With the piece above , I felt peace in my soul and am inspired , u could be an ANGEL as u have actually said my heart. God bless your home sir.
Am a graduate of Computer Sc. and I reside in Ibadan.

Ahh aahhh as a Computer scientist, that means there are things you can do to keep body and souls together. Pls shine your shoe, take your backpack and your lappy and hit the street. Don't engage in self pity. Whether you are a xtian or not moments like this will crop up in the life of a man, so don't question God. At times God uses it to give us direction. just listen to Him. Its well in Jesus Name.

Sorry about the whole situation. I just spent a month in a new job i just got after giving a leave of absence without pay for 1year. Its a long story, during this period my wife was ill, i changed my children (2) school fees, pay house rent etc. It was like hell on earth. This is what i did:
1) I Never contemplated suicide
2) I Used the ''free time'' to move closer to God (locate a bible believing church, confide in your Pastor, he will guide you)
3) I Engaged in job search. contacted people, used internet etc.
4) I Survived by engaging in consultancy(pp).(i am into agribusiness consultancy)
5) I Relied on few close family or friends(you cant do without them, yours may be friends, but i don't have ''good'' friends i used my family)
6) Don't just stay at home and rely on your application alone. Open your heart and engage in anything that brings money, God blesses the work at hand not the one you are expecting.

Coping on Daily Basis:
I) Prayerfully handle the issue, avoid been harsh, especially to your wife, be 100% open to your wife and carry her along. Don't allow ego push you to want to continue to live and maintain expensive life. Lie low and live a maintenance life.... ensure food is available

II)Engage your wife positively in sourcing for help, in doing this note the following a) do not allow her go to her family and expose you because you need help, if she must seek help from her family, she should do it discreetly without exposing you to ridicule. b) Guide her source of help and do not be too desperate to the extend that she will be subjected into temptation e.g go to her ex, toaster, etc(if you don't follow these rules in engaging your wife you may never overcome this problem a happy man) c) engage her to have where you can get provisions/food on credit while pay later.

III) Above all be responsible to God, give him thanks, don't question Him. Ask for direction. It might be for another job or business, don't be rigid, go whichever way he leads you. Love your family and be there for them. ENSURE THERE IS FOOD at home always.

I have overcome mine, i know that, God that put smile on my face will put smile on your face too.

BTW, what is our discipline and what are your skills. Good luck!!!!!!

I want to know if mine is normal or not and many families are destroyed because of this issue, Pls shed light......

Everyman wants to stay long on intimacy as much as possible but some factors will not. For example its my character to cum within a few minutes after intimacy if its long i have done it (3-4wks) and thereafter go limp. But once i gain attention again i become a horse. After c.u.m.m.i.n.g twice i hardly c.u.m the 3rd time in succession (row) but will still be hard on (except after a gap of some hours 4-5hrs). I want to know do other guys go limp after 1st round and stay long before getting hard on, how long does it take to be strong again. I also discover that if i withdraw and release outside at the point of c.u.m.m.i.n.g i will not go limp and can continue as many times i want before am dry on 3rd or 4th round but will still be strong. Guys and mature ladies share what you know about manliness, its strength, length of intimacy, limpness etc. Am curious , i want to know if mine is out of place and it is tearing some family apart because lots of people use the porn video and guys on drug as standard.

bolacruz: Don't really know how fast you come during the first round but that can be control, you just have to learn the trick. If you come within one to nine minutes, nothing is wrong with you just have to learn how to stay longer. Fifteen minutes is okay for first round and let me tell you, no body stays up to 30 minutes on first round, thats not possible forget what guys says on Nairaland and scene on blue film, except fore play is counted as part of the core act. (You can google to leanrn how to stay longer in the act)

Interval between the first and the second varies from individual and this is also the part that most naija girls fail. If it going to take the man an hour to naturally gain back his manhood strenght, the woman can make this happen in just two to three minutes by playing around, there are lots of ways a woman can play around your john thomas to bring it back to action in no time. And once you back in action for the second time, you SHOULD last longer than first round and most time at the begin of the second round, men hardly feel the excitment, they only go on to satisfy their partner.

Please forget about all this blue films, those act they do for like one to one and half hour are sometimes acted for like five days and the man would have come severally in betwwen. Search for blue film documentary or makings

Thank you my brother, some guys making mouth here cant do without using aphrodisiac o, by the time you get married you will know what am talking about. I have always told my wife the first round is for me while the rest is for her, i thought am the only one that share this view but i now know others experience same thing. In fact my wife Knows that if i stay longer than necessary on 1st round (after some abstinence)she will ask question (say natural way of assessing what i do behind her) but after 1st round she is at my mercy, no dullness.


Let us share our experiences/knowledge, you will be helping some families by boosting their confidence and showing them light (some women, not my wife, crucify their husband and can go out cheating, because their husband cant do more than a round, without knowing they have a role to play to help him in coming back quickly after 1st round),

The ladies can state the experience they have wit men and their joystick. Is it always hard on without any dullness ( not drug/doping induced intimacy), after dullness how long did it take to bring it back to life. Am just curious, really want to know where i stand.More so wit all these these noise about Premature-e-j-aculation, erectile dysfunction and the rest. Is my case within average or i need medical attention

I want to know if mine is normal or not.
Everyman wants to stay long on intimacy as much as possible but some factors will not. For example its my character to cum within a few minutes after intimacy if its long i have done it last (3-4wks) and thereafter go limp. But once i gain attention again i become a horse. After cumming twice i hardly cum the 3rd time in succession (row) but will still be hard on (except after a gap of some hours 4-5hrs). I want to know do other guys go limp after 1st round and how long does it take to be strong again. I also discover that if i withdraw and release outside at the point of cumming i will not go limp and can continue as many times i want before am dry on 3rd or 4th round but will still be strong. Guys and mature ladies share what you know about manliness, its strength, length of intimacy, limpness etc. Am curious , i want to know if mine is out of place.

She just set you up to attach her preg to you. She was stupid to have told you in less than 12 hrs after sex. No medical science can detect a 12 hrs old pregnancy. She is lying, she detected nothing new, she already knew she was pregnant, she was only looking for who to attach it to. And she finds the best candidate in you.
As for for those teasing you that you fell yakata after robbing her stomach, dont mind them , many of them cannot stand the presence of a woman without peeing in their pants..... badguys

It is happening in Yenagoa (Shiloh 2013) Akenfa Parish. Awesome. But rain on the second day evening spoiled show , couldn't attend. Morning and evening session awesome

my own wahala with her be say she is not sure of anything until she ask and ask and ask again. Me;My food.... wifey: u want to eat?. Me:yes wifey:shld i bring it now, Me: yes. wifey:its cold should i warm it.... Me: No, Wifey: shld i bring it like that....Me : Yeeeeeeeeeeeesssss oooooooo. Use your discretion and do the needful pllllsssss.

She will not make peace move when we have squabbles, even when she is wrong, she finds a way of turning the issue against me by exhausting my patience, so when i explode and expresses my mind she will claim my words are caustic. Later i'll find myself trying to make peace with her. Since we've been created as husband and wife, apart from saying casual sorry, there is never a romantic apologetic move by her..... it drives me nut each time i find myself having to initiate peace.

Not romantic enough.

What i can perceive from your story is that you have not tried enough or showed him enough that you care. You didn't mention your age but as a graduate you an adult who should exercise some level of freedom from parental control. If you cant welcome your bf in your home, cant you make a private arrangement for his short stay while he comes to Lagos (may be an hotel or elsewhere). No man can continue to ''burn'' (according to apostle Paul to the Corinthians) indefinitely for woman who is not determined enough about their relationship. Look a girl in Love can do many things to see her man (i won't tell you what my lady did during our own time, no gsm, no fb then). Show more desperation to be with him, but first ascertain that he is ready to Love you again, if not let him go but next time keep your man wit all you have.