Health › Re: 400level Student Commits Suicide Over Girlfriend, Misery while parent are rich by lookingfly: 9:44pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
chariisGRACE:

From what I've read, the core reason he committed suicide is because he couldn't afford a phone if 50,000.
That's a stupid reason.
Check my siggy that's why we lray yo God that as we go give birth to children and train them, the training ho enter there head and they will stick to it. |
Pets › Re: 3-year-old Boy Mauled To Death By Two Pit Bulls In South Africa (graphic Photo) by lookingfly: 1:52pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by lookingfly: 1:36pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
LagosInter: You are just being a pusssy oga.
That girl has no regard for you. ok |
Politics › Re: Pics: Bola Tinubu Will Win DELTA State by lookingfly: 3:13pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 3:12pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
advanceDNA: I dont owe u any explantion.....ur questions are already off the context of my my own comment...u sound like u are accusing me of something.......we are just commenting randomly on a topic....and u are sounding like we are in a court....life no hard oooo.... speak ur truth how ever u like it....i speak mine.... thinking urs is superior is truck load of nonsense....... hahahaha.....oya run to your master your G.O for more coaching before you come back. For we, we read and understand the bible ourself through the spirit of God. |
Politics › Re: Pics: Bola Tinubu Will Win DELTA State by lookingfly: 3:09pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
faceland: He cannot win. Wake up. I am a realist. hahahaha........we've heard you octopus  . He can't win but, some people can't hold their peace. If they don't tweet or say something about him in a day, they can't sleep. That's who they claim can't win giving them a job he doesn't pay them for. |
Phones › Re: Picture Of A Man 'Speaking On A Cell Phone' In The 1940s Goes Viral by lookingfly: 9:44pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
Olachase: you and who con day fight now the way you just concluded the picture could be forged without verifying the picture is not good. Go to YouTube and check time travel videos, it's hard for this particular stories not to be futured. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 9:37pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA: U keep whining about tithe and pastors as u read anywhere in my comment that i told her to pay tithe....... weda she did good or not she still show off like some pastors and politicians to attract the praise of men...wateva her motives are for publicity..... im juat a devil's advocate on the matter......u are the one taking to serious like i took something from you  all the questions I asked you.....you no fit answer oooo because truth too much. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 9:30pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA: U keep whining about tithe and pastors as u read anywhere in my comment that i told her to pay tithe....... weda she did good or not she still show off like some pastors and politicians to attract the prose of men...wateva her motives are for publicity..... im juat a devil's advocate on the matter......u are the one taking to serious like i took something from you  no matter how you want to hide it, it's glaring the tithe issue they pain you  . What's your business with her showing off? Is it your tithe that she's using? People work for their money and they're entitled to how they spend it. Commot your eyes from people money and tithe and how they've decided to spend it wether as show off or whatever. |
Politics › Re: Pics: Bola Tinubu Will Win DELTA State by lookingfly: 9:23pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
Cantonese: LP and APC have lots of work to do to uproot PDP. Okowa has over the years been an Iroko in the grassroots. The leaders of the PDP are well organised and difficult to uproot. They work like the military and their networking is solid, in every nook and cranny.
Okowa has the ears of the leaders and the leaders drive the people, in Delta State.
Unfortunately there will not be a very wide margin as the previous years anymore. PDP will win the states. LP just like APC will score votes too, but not enough for Omo Agege to get the governorship. Omo Agege will return to his village until another 4 years. it seems you dont yet understand how this next election will pan out. You think the present Nigerians that have suffered for 7+ years will vote based on party lines abi? You think they will vote because of PDP strong network abi? For your information PDP or APC may look as if they have networks but the people will vote credibility. |
Politics › Re: Pics: Bola Tinubu Will Win DELTA State by lookingfly: 9:15pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
faceland: It's a pity... Why he needs to go through other local leaders that are trusted and respected in the state. You don't say because you want to punish your governor, you lose an opportunity to attract development and prosperity to your state. are you saying if peter obi wins, there would not be attraction of development to the state? |
Phones › Re: Picture Of A Man 'Speaking On A Cell Phone' In The 1940s Goes Viral by lookingfly: 8:17pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Pics: Bola Tinubu Will Win DELTA State by lookingfly: 8:09pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
faceland: I think Okowa should have a heart to heart talk with his people not to waste their vote on Obi and the importance of Delta voting for PDP in mass. If I was him, I would DAILY broadcast until it sink into their head. Get all the local leaders and owners of big churches to repeat that message daily for the next 3 months.
Delta people needs to be politically wise and strategic (not acting on emotion and sentiments). okowa hasn't done anything to command the ears of the people of he's state. |
Politics › Re: Pics: Bola Tinubu Will Win DELTA State by lookingfly: 8:08pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
Moh247:

Omo Agege
Ayiri Emami
Asari Dokubo
Tompolo
Ibori
Uduaghan
Orubebe
Bad combo.....
. 1 vote each, total of 7 votes  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 8:01pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Sigh.....whennu want to do your own good...go and get camera like her and publisize....jesus said u have received ur only reward....which is the praise of men...if thats means i am deceiving people....so be it so what's the difference between the lady that used her tithes to build a house for a neighbor and a pastor that would ask tithers in the church to stand up while non tithers seat in full glare of everyone in the church? Couldn't the tithe box be kept somewhere secret for those that want to tithe go in secret to tithe? Those that stand openly to tithe and stand in church to make others feel guilty because of tithing, have gotten their rewards for the open show of their giving. Some denominations go as far as having tithes card which of you default, they remind you you've not paid for this and that month. Is that also cool with you? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 7:50pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
MT: Thank you. It is only the Levites that can collect tenth percent according to the tradition in Israel. Do we have any Levites in Nigeria? I dont get it. Some pastors even say God will send a devourer to eat everything you have achieved if you dont pay tithe.
Nonsense. What can pastors say about Elon Musk who is an atheist and the richest man on earth ?. no mind them. Truth will always liberate just as the bible says. Never allow anyone use this lines on you "if you don't tithe, your life will be tight"  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 10:59am On Nov 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA: All i did was asked u what u meant by ur comment.....and u claimed i running....run from what?? Are u the police...did i commit crime.... I hope u realize I could just ignore ur comment and not respond ti it....but i asked u what u meant because ur comment wasnt clear....still u couldnt resist the urge to behave like u are somethimg people run from....pele would have been better if you had ignored than ask a question when the answer is there in your face. You can run if you like but the truth will always liberate. We're the liberated ones, you can go hoodwink the gullible sheeples. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 7:41am On Nov 19, 2022 |
MMempire: Love your mention. May God continue to bless you for this. People are damn ignorant of the two greatest commandment of God (Love for God and Love for fellow neighbors). thank you jare. For those still giving tithe and do this picture below, just know your hearth is under your legs and you've smatched it.
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Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 7:29am On Nov 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA: I did not deliberately do anything ..I asked u for ur point cos I didn't want to get u wrongly... If u are too big to rephrase ..... U can mention someone else to continue your conversation run!!!......how they feign ignorance when the truth stares them on the face. |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 7:26am On Nov 19, 2022 |
emanobis: Deuteronomy 26:12 [12]When you have finished setting aside a tenth of all your produce in the third year, the year of the tithe, you shall give it to the Levite, the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow, so that they may eat in your towns and be satisfied.
Why is it that our pastors skip this portion of the bible when talking about tithe?
Is there something our pastors are not telling us?? who wan spoil job wey de give good money  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 7:22am On Nov 19, 2022 |
Taigaban: This is an excellent way of contributing to humanity. Unfortunately all Tithes and offerings goes straight to G O's pockets, while brainwashed congregants wallow in poverty. And more to this, leaders live in extravagance and have all they need now, while the less privileged members depend on a promised heavenly bliss I am waiting for the day a G.O will send a tenth of the tithe he/she has collected to the Levi tribe in the present day Israel.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 8:52pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
advanceDNA: What's ur point?? read again, my point was mentioned more than ones in my comment, except if Yu I uh be deliberately decided to blind yourself to the truth in my comment. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 8:33pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
advanceDNA: U stopped giving tithe only to use the money for something else and showing it off like Pharisees and scribes Jesus warned u not be behave like......sigh!!!! you know what my pastor did sometime back in respect to this tithe thing, he asked all those paying tithe to stand up. So we that weren't paying were seated so the payers would be looking down on. Is that not hypocrisy and guilty tripping/ blackmail? I know my bible so i just moved. Unless you don't read your bible, that's when they would want to blackmail you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by lookingfly: 8:29pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
thesicilian: It's a nice gesture to take care of the weak, widows and other less privileged ones among us. For this I highly commend her selfless act.
But if my debtor uses the money she's owing me to feed the poor, I will get her arrested and charged to court. It doesn't matter how rich I am.
The same thing will probably happen if you refuse to pay your taxes because you are using the money to take care of the poor.
Not everyone must give tithes. But if you claim to be a Christian the Bible makes it compulsory for you. Whether tithe money is misappropriated by men who claim to be God sent is irrelevant, if you don't trust your pastor then switch your place of worship. can you show just one verse in the bible that say to tithe is compulsory? |
Crime › Re: Ochanya's Murder: Appeal Court Upholds Conviction Of Lecturer's Wife by lookingfly: 8:02pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
ShoeWorld2: What pleasure is there having forceful sex with someone not to reason a minor that will be tight and won't even be wet?
This is pure act of wickedness and heartlessnes.
I sell beautiful sneakers at affordable prices I can't imagine forcing a lady that's matured enough for sex, talk more of raping a minor that knows nothing. Just persuade a lady, if she say no even if she's stack naked, na to leave her. Knack no be by force. Show me pictures of the sneekers u sell. |
Crime › Re: Ochanya's Murder: Appeal Court Upholds Conviction Of Lecturer's Wife by lookingfly: 8:01pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
ShoeWorld2: What pleasure is there having forceful sex with someone not to reason a minor that will be tight and won't even be wet?
This is pure act of wickedness and heartlessnes. I can't imagine forcing a lady that's matured enough for sex, talk more of raping a minor that knows nothing. Just persuade a lady, if she say no even if she's stack naked, na to leave her. Knack no be by force.
Show me pictures of the sneekers u sell.
I sell beautiful sneakers at affordable prices |
Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by lookingfly: 7:50pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
hifocus: Nope you don’t have to. Infact you shouldn’t. are you talking from the point of a woman or man because I can see female on your name? Women nowadays most times have entitlement mentality and it's due to the teachings flying around that it's the duty of the man to care for them. So most of them have this attitude of if he can't spend on me, then why date him. When you ask what they're offering in a relationship, they flare up or tell you love etc. It's actually very hard dating a Nigeria gal. |
Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by lookingfly: 3:40pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
bestdudes: Now, you see it? Nigeria women are just that... everything is transactional.
Also, Nigerian men are the ones spoiling Nigerian women and they will in turn complain.
One thing I am learning to do is complain less. If you talk too much, they will say you are nagging.
You can't fix this mess... it is best you avoid it once you see such things.
Have an abundant mentality. There are so many women out there. Move on fast to the next one. true talk man. On to the next lady that's ready for something serious. |
Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by lookingfly: 3:39pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Pinkdimples: You know,it amaze me how some ladies spend thousands of money on fake hairs,when the money should be used for better things. Also for some guys ready to spend or rather buy such expensive hairs for a lady. Same men will be rooting for natural beautiful ladies who doesn't paint face with artificial hairs,yet they promote it by buying it. true.....of what use is 250k hair. Do men actually value the hair when they look at women? Highest a man does is I like your hair and never how much is your hair  . If you carry 2 mill for head, na only her or maybe her female friends know the price. |
Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by lookingfly: 3:36pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
hifocus: Why are you sending her money? Are you her father? I am not her father. But u see this chasing thing, u may just have to spend a little sometimes. |
Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by lookingfly: 11:28am On Nov 18, 2022 |
bestdudes: Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.
Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies
It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.
I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.
Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.
For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.
We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.
Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.
After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice
She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...
That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.
I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.
If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?
I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.
On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.
Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.
She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.
While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.
Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?
Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.
For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.
Let's move on
Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.
Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.
We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.
Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,
On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.
The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...
Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.
Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE! there is this one that gives me the monosyllabic treatment now on Whatsapp, but guess what? If I say I want to send her money, omoh.......she replies with alacrity and lengthy message. I will be like  . Last time i sent her money, she didn't acknowledge she has gotten it and i had to ask before she appreciated it which means she really didn't appreciate the money. Just some few days back, after a long monosyllabic response, I told her it's a thing with me doing things for people during this period that what would she want me to do especially if it's within my powers, omoh.....I yet got another alacrity message again  . She brought up the send me money slang again or I should buy her hair........she say make i buy her Brazilian hair or human hair......na there I just I replied with 'eleyi gidi gan" , she only read and didn't reply since then. I would have sent her something good even if it is not up to that amount for the hair, but my earlier experience of ingratitude actually held my hands tight from sending her anything. Only if she knows the plans I have for her. But, maybe she has a better plan for herself.  |