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dBard: I ve never really been a fan of d 'cut ur coat according to ur size' rule in dating..cos in d first place how do u determine wat ur size is in matters of the heart?
Will her looks, dressing, class etc determine how good a person she'll be. Besides, none of these tins we use as temps are of our doing but we were just priviledged to b born wit such looks, that class of family etc.
I do not believe these should be used as a criteria to determine who u date because stories do change; d poor gets weathy, an ugly guy before becomes attractive, class changes..these are too variable quantities to b used as criterias.
It is imperative everyone develops themselves so as to be able t bring something t d table..n they should be judged based on that.
Are u going to leave a good, intelligent man that can make u happy but is a carpenter cos that is his chosen vocation just cos of class n all ??
Ur happiness in life is far more important for such..


Ur happiness in life is far more important..


A word t d guys..if u aain't bringing nothing t d table then stay outside wit d oda riffraffs.donot try t pull a goodvwoman down.
Am out

macof: Dude shut up.

If it's about washing away sins, I can sacrifice my goat and cleans the land as it was done back in the days yet our ancestors didn't worship the dead goat

The goat even got the job done, the nature forces around the towns were always nourished but Jesus death was useless because nothing as improved since his death, terrorist bombing churches and Jesus just looks and dances skelewu in heaven. His worshipers ask for financial growth but still languish in poverty.

Jesus died a criminals death because he acted against the laws of Israel and the Jews wished him dead, the Romans killed him as they would any Jewish criminal

Beretta92: What are u saying?Don't people still die?isn't there pain n suffering yet in the world?didn't my friend still struggle n die a painful death?what exactly did jesus accomplish with his supposed sacrifice?

holypower: One thing will I say "If we believe not, yet he abideth faithful: he cannot deny himself." (2 Timothy 2:13).
Our unbelief can't stop GOD from existing and can't stop JESUS CHRIST from being the LORD of all and can't stop the Holy Spirit from leading people to Heaven. This is just foolishness... GOD is not mistaken for calling atheists fools and woe(ing) unbelievers because what they are practicing is foolishness because after saying all these things...when they die...they will still go to hell except they receive CHRIST as their LORD and Saviour

Mr Troll: He's omniscient yet gets angry when stuff happens. Funny

Beretta92: I would die a thousand and one times for a wrong I didn't commit provided I know I'll resurrect on each occasion n would be greatly rewarded.U believe jesus is alive,don't u?So stop talking as if he really died in the first place.The way u talk about him dying for others is as if these others won't die anymore.Jesus didn't die for nobody,ok?

kulyie: you remind me of this song this deeper lifers usually sing in our former neighbourhood


I AM MARRIED TO JESUS ,SATAN LEAVE ME ALONE .........

Anyway,to each his own and for the records i am a boss in my own field and i am not wicked,i might be firm and a bit difficult,but i am objective,unemotional and unsentimental when it comes to sensitive decision making processes,so rule wickedness out.its a strong word

kulyie: sympathize with yourself first for being so mentally shallow.


Secondly,i will not be the first or last independent unmarried woman,there are millions of women who share my school of thought and there are also millions who do not,if it makes you angry,you can get me arrested,thank you...

Alfa Seltzer: 1 - they are spirits so you can't see them
2 - when I sleep, they wake me up. sometimes they murmur in my ear saying "Alfa! wake up". Sometimes they just send cold winter chills in my room even though the heater is on. Sometimes it is the reverse. The other day, my ac was full on but I was sweating profusely. I got a technician to look at my ac but he said everything was fine. My car stops sometimes in the middle of the road without any reason. 2 year old car! Fully serviced!. But the latest one was my phone ringing and when I pick it up, I hear a deep voice saying "Alfa, Stop".
3 - I have consulted and been told that these are the works of evil spirits sent by yahweh to force me to stop showing people the goodness of Satan. Anyway, it's not working.

Alfa Seltzer: 1 - they are spirits so you can't see them
2 - when I sleep, they wake me up. sometimes they murmur in my ear saying "Alfa! wake up". Sometimes they just send cold winter chills in my room even though the heater is on. Sometimes it is the reverse. The other day, my ac was full on but I was sweating profusely. I got a technician to look at my ac but he said everything was fine. My car stops sometimes in the middle of the road without any reason. 2 year old car! Fully serviced!. But the latest one was my phone ringing and when I pick it up, I hear a deep voice saying "Alfa, Stop".
3 - I have consulted and been told that these are the works of evil spirits sent by yahweh to force me to stop showing people the goodness of Satan. Anyway, it's not working.

FOLYKAZE: slaves....you living in the world rule by satan. Lol

tomakint: I think I am on a contrary view to your above-quoted submissions, Obama's approval ratings has plummeted over the months and keeps going down, American President's achievements are generally pinned on their foreign policies and you will agree with me that Obama is not too good in that aspect! Infact the term, most Powerful President on Earth, came about after the bravery in government displayed by Delano Roosevelt (most loved American President ever, and in my own view the best) on American domestic problems (curbing the financial meltdown within by advocating for Securities and Exchange Commission, a first of its kind, and also providing security for Americans during the WWII), his stance on foreign policies favoured Americans and showed that he is a man who knew his onions on the runnings of International politics, he was a sagacious politician in all ramifications. Obama failed in many aspects, all what you listed above as his achievemnets was a result of him being lucky to have a good numbers of Democrats as Congressmen on his side; you make look up this link for his approval ratings;http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2505072/President-Obamas-approval-rating-hits-NEW-time-low-poll-39-country-thinking-doing-good-job.html

tomakint: I think I am on a contrary view to your above-quoted submissions, Obama's approval ratings has plummeted over the months and keeps going down, American President's achievements are generally pinned on their foreign policies and you will agree with me that Obama is not too good in that aspect! Infact the term, most Powerful President on Earth, came about after the bravery in government displayed by Delano Roosevelt (most loved American President ever, and in my own view the best) on American domestic problems (curbing the financial meltdown within by advocating for Securities and Exchange Commission, a first of its kind, and also providing security for Americans during the WWII), his stance on foreign policies favoured Americans and showed that he is a man who knew his onions on the runnings of International politics, he was a sagacious politician in all ramifications. Obama failed in many aspects, all what you listed above as his achievemnets was a result of him being lucky to have a good numbers of Democrats as Congressmen on his side; you make look up this link for his approval ratings;http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2505072/President-Obamas-approval-rating-hits-NEW-time-low-poll-39-country-thinking-doing-good-job.html

tomakint: I think I am on a contrary view to your above-quoted submissions, Obama's approval ratings has plummeted over the months and keeps going down, American President's achievements are generally pinned on their foreign policies and you will agree with me that Obama is not too good in that aspect! Infact the term, most Powerful President on Earth, came about after the bravery in government displayed by Delano Roosevelt (most loved American President ever, and in my own view the best) on American domestic problems (curbing the financial meltdown within by advocating for Securities and Exchange Commission, a first of its kind, and also providing security for Americans during the WWII), his stance on foreign policies favoured Americans and showed that he is a man who knew his onions on the runnings of International politics, he was a sagacious politician in all ramifications. Obama failed in many aspects, all what you listed above as his achievemnets was a result of him being lucky to have a good numbers of Democrats as Congressmen on his side; you make look up this link for his approval ratings;http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2505072/President-Obamas-approval-rating-hits-NEW-time-low-poll-39-country-thinking-doing-good-job.html

taharqa: Is this guy CRAZZI? Guy, are u Ok??

Idoko solomon: I love her speech nd let me make it clear to every body in Nigeria dat nothing good wil be achieve here wit out the use of force.Law should be made against dressing code because majorites of Nigeria citizens are just out face christains but inside devil incanat to be sincere nd dat is why force should be use.

Kay 17: ^^
Are you aware that your decision to follow Jesus is based your own knowledge, your limited knowledge?

Kay 17: ^^
Are you aware that your decision to follow Jesus is based your own knowledge, your limited knowledge?

Kay 17: ^^
Are you aware that your decision to follow Jesus is based your own knowledge, your limited knowledge?

anochuko01: if accepting Jesus as my saviour is dat easy, why dont you accept him today?
No step in life might be as 'difficul' as following Jesus.
Even those who ar said to av made it in lyf later realise dat they need Jesus. Pastor Adeboye (who had a phd at abt 35yrs nd wntd to be d youngst vice chancelor in nigeria) in the1980s (when RCCG was not yet knwn beyond ebute metta in lagos) had to burn all his certificates so he wouldnt be temptd to go bck to lecturing. What other descision could be "harder" than dis?
He has gotten to a level he would never av gotten if he had bn a lecturer.
Bro, at the end, on the long run, u'll knw dat it pays to serve God. Jst as rewards are given AFTER a race, so would GOD reward us AFTER our journey on earth...where there'll be no re-run.

Uyi Iredia: @ anucoku: These words of assurance are simply your mind playing you. Would you believe a person's belief that God told him to kill his wife, or a woman that God'll have her kill her kids,they believe these things as much as you and heard CLEAR words of assurance. I find it funny, even ironic where it's a Christian psychiatrist such cases as mental disorders, when such is said to be certainly not of God. How u take know. God no tell Pa Abram to kill Isaac ? And for NT before u say Jesus blood don cover this, God no use Holy Spirit kill Ananias and Sapphira ?

Nuzo':
Dude was for so many years a divorcee' long before he met the embattled wife. When he met her, she was among the numerous runz girls from ABSU flocking Enugu for Magas. Owerri city has become so cheap and saturated.

During one of the imports from Nigerian universities (ABSU), he took a special liking in her, he showered her with all the good things that will make a typical Nigerian girl go crazy; money, clothes, expensive jewelry, choicest vacation spots around the world, cars and even a magnificent building in the girl's home town. Heck dude landed in grand style aboard a chopper for her traditional wedding. Even a road connecting Enugu to the girl's hometown in Abia was hastily constructed from scratch. It was a "dream" come true!

Before and after they met, it was a NORMAL news in Enugu that the dude was a first class womanizer. He was kpekusing almost all the beautiful girls in the East. He later devised a means of compensating these young ladies with Kia Picanto. It worked cos no girl could resist his advances.

He couldn't stop cos it was his hobby. She knew it but didn't want to ask questions until after wedding. Because by then she must have gained enough grounds and been conferred with status of the "First Lady". Her plan didn't go through as planned.

Such plans never go through!
Everybody knew him. He was a serial womanizer. He never for a day tried to conceal It. He wouldve cancelled any wedding plans if she question him. And with that he thot she was an understanding girl. He thot she was going to be a "blind" wife.

Problem started when after wedding, she decided to assert her authority as a jealous but a caring wife....even though it was clear to her and all he married her for political reasons. Enugu needed a FIRST LADY, a trophy wife. The type that can be on the entourage of the First lady on the country.

She first started by harassing and seizing every Kia Picanto driven by any young girl in Enugu. The Dude was surprised. "You never told me you wouldn't tolerate such during marriage. Afterll, you tolerated it during courtship". Dude duly warned her but she didn't stop and of course he didn't stop his womanizing ways.

It got to the point she was bared from entering the government house. But she will later hide in the trunks of cars to sneak herself back inside the government house only to be thrown out at the gate....the same house she's begging to leave now...and also insisting she would return to later. What a world!

Within this period, Dude got her cousin/sister pregnant! Then she went crazy...I mean the real crazy! Worst part was that her cousin wasn't even remorseful about the whole thing.

Some stories has it that her craziness was as a result of what her hubby and cousin did to her in regards to adultery...the other story has it that the ogbonge jazz she used on the Dude backfired. Dude is alusi himself.
Any human would go crazy for either of the two.

Whatever made her crazy, the dude didn't care. He warned her earlier. Matter of fact he thot she brought it upon herself. He thot she was the course of his ailment of which he almost died. He hated her for that! And for that he lost interest in her welfare.

She's not being held "hostage" for the sake of it, she is simply psychologically unfit to do most things for herself. And knows this. This is no news in Enugu.

As he has lost total interest in her, she couldn't bear piping low for the sake of dude's political image. He was not appreciating it.

From day one she could walk out of the dude's lodge without anybody stopping her. But it will be her lost. She will be replaced by a younger and finer runz girl. Her former friends will laugh at her. In fact, Enugu and Abia girls have been laughing at her for the past 4 years.

She had to be proactive in order to get what she wants. She couldn't afford the shame of living as a normal lady inside Nigeria while her dude is still the governor. She shouted for attention in the media including Falana....she got it.

Dude confronted her with promises only to renegade after the press conference. She shouted again! He wanted to eat his cake and have it. She wanted to do same.
He wanted to use his powers as a governor and as a typical Nigerian man to evict her from her matrimonial home without any compensation.

She wanted to be flown abroad for treatment and shopping. And as a typical Nigerian lady, she's greedy even to the expense of her life. She wants to come back to complete her tenure as a first lady with the hope that things will be alright again.

And I sincerely hope and pray their marriage will be alright again!

God's blessings!

hollandis: Nashville or Nyashville ,,whatever ur forking name is ...you re a big Fooooolllll whats you biz if i live abroad or not

hollandis: Nashville or Nyashville ,,whatever ur forking name is ...you re a big Fooooolllll whats you biz if i live abroad or not

baby_123: This is the way i see it. Well, he confined her at home like a mental patient. This mental situation he caused through his actions. i.e, picanto driving babes of Enugu staring at madam daily. And her sister's child who also belongs to Chime. She cried out over the detention and bad treatment, he claims she is fit for an Aro patient. But since he is a political figure, he wants to keep her like a monkey in a cage to save his image. He even presents her to the world with a neuro psychiatrist to prove she is mentally incapable of taking care of herself. After so much pressure, which my humble self contributed to. He now wants to chase her away with nothing. Now, let us see what Clara has got to lose from all this jamboree. If she leaves him, and he throws her out. How will she get the much "needed" care she desires. Also, who in thier right mind will ever accept to marry someone who was declared mentally insane by a neuro psychiatrist.

He has already destroyed her image to the world, and has attached a stigma to her. So now, she is his cross and he might as well bear it. Get her the best care she need, cook for her, clean for her. And wear hot boxers for her. That is all i have to say to this. He created this monster, he must take care of it. We all have repercussions for our actions. Even if she is outside of his house, he must take care of her because he caused all this for the mother of this child.

Is Clara greedy, yes she probably is. But he married her knowing she was a runs girl. So what is new. Also note, that he threatened to disown her son if she continued seeking her freedom. I think this is part of the package he is throwing her out with. She doesnt want her child to suffer for the issues of its parents. So she may for that reason, be holding on to this madness of a marriage. Between the two of them, i think Chime is the one that needs help. A man that is more concerned with what is under a skirt, than the happiness of his family does not deserve any consideration or pity. I rest my case here. LOL.

slimmy05: Wroxxane, pls, ignore that loosed mouthed man-hater. You can see for yourself how rude, uncultured, sill.y, stupiid she is on social network. I wonder how a man won't kill her with his bare hands with her vile words. she's just an attention seeker, coming here with lies and fabricated story to get self pity. Disilusioned, fake asss girl.

lorretta u: You're a very very unexposed and unintelligent fellow if you think respecting an abuser will make them stop.
Most people who resort to abuse have very deep seated problems and can only express themselves via violence.
I really don't like when people who don't know anything come to act as if they are intelligent just because they can coin a few english sentences together.

Who are you to tell me what to do with my thread? I chose to talk about women valuing themselves and leaving when their lives are in danger.
Who the HECK are you to think you can come here and tell me what thread I should have created instead?
You're really really low in the brain section if you think abuse victims cause their own abuse. Henceforth make your research before u come online to act like a know-it-all when actually you know nothing.
Love and respect' lmao.
So a man who loves his wife can abuse her can't he? Or it's only the wife's duty to love her husband. Really dumbo there's no question of love in abusive relationship. Just shut it.pls
You can read more about abuse,the psychology of abusers and the effects on their victims online.
Maybe next time you'll think well before u come making a foool of yourself.