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Jman06:
At least the oyibo woman will have some values attached to her. Unlike our Nigerian women that have only their vagina to offer yet want to lord over their men and cut them off from their families.

Having said the above, I personally still prefer our black sisters because I'm more sexually attracted to blacks, but when I marry them, I expect them to be humble, submissive and committed to their duties in my kitchen, and never try to interfere with my relationship with my family. I'll provide for her which is what many of you crave for.

Last month I thought about creating a thread on why Nigerian wives are so selfish but I had to hold back. Imagine you as a husband, a woman will claims that she love you but yet she cannot extend little of that love to your family members

She cannot embrace your family because it is just about she and her own family. She will want you to embrace her family and see yours as pain in the ass. She will feel threaten when you show love to your own family and not hers.

From what my late mother experienced, I have taken a vow never to allow any of my brother's wife or sister in laws into my circle.

Right now my priority on women is base on kitchen things and raising my kids

ImaIma1:
Don't mind them o. They cannot cope with the western women. They will still run back to marry the Nigerian women they criticize.

Their type, Lostchild and Jman06 will dance and cry with joy on their wedding day as they marry Nigerian wives

Forget the gra gra

Imal1
I will create a thread on Nairaland when I finally find a Nigeria bride for marriage next year with uploaded photos of us. I am certain that you will surely be notice

TheGidRedpiller:
Those women don't exist

Before now I have always felt they do not exist

It is almost impossible for a woman to exalt a man, and even if they do, it involve devine intervention.

CHoccolaTE:
Another thread to complain about women/girls. Una own too much for this forum, everytime girl did this, woman did that.
Na crase dey worry una abi you chop winch?

Please if you want to be gay or to marry your western women because you dont like Nigerian females, do it fast make we hear word.

I know a guy my age, who struggle so much in Nigeria and he was lucky to get himself attach with a western woman online who came here to marry him and took my guy to America. My guy has been heavily enjoying his life in America. He is living a more better and prosperous life than I can perceive. He makes more money than anyone I know. He has gain more weight because his life is good and suffering has left him. His western wife gave him an opportunity no Nigeria woman will ever give him. I envy him and I am happy for him.

1. I, myself dated a Nigerian, she destroyed all my finance and I almost died.
2. I dated another, she was more of a torn to my life and cause me financial loss.
3. I dated another, her bad character gave me depression and I almost had accident
4. I dated another, she is the daughter of the devil as she almost killed me. It was a narrow escape through God intervention

I did not include the bad ones that chase after me or the ones I manage to escape, just the ones in my life was more of a problem and a loss to me. Then I stop dating Nigerian women because they will destroy me if I don't stop

I created this thread to encourage Nigeria men abroad to focus with their life abroad and not embark home on a risky journey because of an arrange marriage. It is a very dangerous move.

Nigeria women will not even embark on a jouney home to pick a husband

Why would a man take suck risk?

It is not worth it.

pansophist:
The marriage that I see that usually last is when the woman bring the man from naija herself. Women hardly lift men up, but if they do, just know right there that she genuinely loves him.

100 % true

Thanks to both of you


I repeat: Thanks (very) much and God blessings to both of you

dammypat:
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Are men good husbands?

Hmmmmmmm! I understand your fears my dear,we all have this fear before and even after getting married, I had serious one myself before I got married, the thought of marriage made my heart skipped whenever it popped up, thought of wrong partner made it worse

I’ll advice you don’t go into marriage with the expectation of getting worse from your wife
I know you’ve been hurt terribly by some women who didn’t value you, it was so because they were not yours
God has destined one single woman to make you a happy man, I don’t know her colour though but what I know is she will change the narrative and she will give you the best
We are all human with flaws but right ones in our lives make it beautiful even in the midst of challenges and flaws

Your Bible quotation makes me believe you are a Christian, remember the Word of God says, “as a man thinketh in his heart, so he is” not just so he is but so he will become.

Marital journey is too long to end up with a bad partner, tell yourself you will get married to one of the best women on earth and you shall enjoy your marriage, it’s not impossible.
There are still good Men and good Women out there available for marriage

Be a good Man yourself ,watch and pray

You get luck say I am not at your end I would have slap the dirty MAUT you are using to yarn dust.

Who created your so called Jihadist? Islam created your Jihadist and islam has destroyed nearly to all the Islamic regions in Africa.and.middle east. Look what islam has done to the middle east. Look what island has done to your so called North Nigeria.

You are loosing your religion because it has brought nothing but tears and death to your region

You get luck, I for slap your useless maut

KillMNKnow:
Who cares they're hypocrite. Obj and GEJ = 16 years. Buhari and yar'adua = 8 years. But we didn't act like crybabies.

Buhari will handover to them in 2023, unlike OBJ who started third time Agenda. Remains 1.5 years but they kept whining like babies.

One Nigeria brings nothing but disrespect to the North. We're losing our religion, ourselfs our laws, our values, culture and adventures. Living with unconscious people.

Just look how blacks are destroying the West. There is over 80 shouting in Chicago over the weekend. 11 kids fatally shot. Go to other black and brown community with Muslim population they live peaceful.

All this terrorist group Taliban, ISIS etc are the creation of the West. They literally admitted to it. but whatever.

Since in the beginning the North decline to join one Nigeria, even when they forced us. Sardauna and Tafawa Balewa did nothing except working for Northern Agenda. The unconscious people think they are the wise ones. Mtwss

vernieu:
Honestly, this man needs to be investigated.

I guess your father is the one that will do the investigation? If I may ask, did he takes anything that belong to your papa?

Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters, good and bad alike.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they make terrible wives.

greenie77:
In as much as you have stopped dating them, I also hope you been living as a celibate.

Greenie77
I have been celibate for almost 10 years because of the tremendous amount of troubles I saw when dating Nigeria women.

I have not mastubate for 9 years because it will defile my spirit and I also can control myself.

celebacy is good for me

iod69779:
OP other than the typos, you nailed this post with a good degree of precision. I have to admit I am one of those thinking about coming back to marry a Nigerian woman because of food, culture and language. Some people tell me its not worth it but a stubborn part me still hopes to find her. Apart from the food, culture and language i stated above which are important to me, I think oyibo beat Nigerian women hands down

If you can find a good Nigerian woman for marriage, I tell you the truth; You are a lucky man. But to find a good woman in this current generation? You need help from God if you believe He exist.

Even If I decide to marry a Nigerian woman, it will still be very difficult for me to find a good one because of what is currently happening here.

Many Nairaland women thinks I am a women haters because I keep bashing women. I have seen so much that I just can't imagining myself dating or having sex with a Nigeria female.

The high level of sexual immorality here in Nigeria cities and town, is beyond my immagination.

May God help you

irijuola:
Just hope you get a good wife cos you said you'll give your wife silent treatment if she misbehaves. Silent treatment ruins communication and destroys marriage. Personally, I view silent treatment as immature. I believe in speaking out and expressing myself whether the recipient likes it or not. It prevents bottling of emotions that can spark anytime.
Relationship with people, especially blacks, require calculation and wisdom.

Mr irijuola
I believe in God existence and trust in God that He will help me with a good wife this time. I have had so much in life and I dont need more drama with women in my life anymore.

I believe that if it is possible for you to know the kind of women I have dated in the past, you will applaud me that I am still alive.

It is good to talk out frustration (communication is they key) but not to some kind of women. There are some women, it is only hot slap or beating that will convey them to sanity.

I dated two women in the past, despite the fact that I prefare dialog (communication), it was still not possible for me to talk out frustration with them.

Some women are impossible and need beating, I know what I am talking about.

Silent treatment or communication will work on some women, especially white women

MMotimo:
How can you like women that have broken souls due to hardship? That says a lot about your mental well-being and a need to dominate. That’s like saying you derive pressure from seeing broken women and to be brutally frank, that’s a very sick mindset. Brokenness will allow them appreciate their hubby? Men like you are part of the problem.

I sure say you nor understand my vocals

Yes, you do not understand what I mean by "broken" soul from tender age which is true

I used the word brokeness (humility) I was talking about Nigeria women are more mellow (humble) than western women. I speak truth and will always be truthful.

Broken soul = humble soul
Mellow = humble (lowly) ( calm)

Nigeria women are more humble, therefore will appreciate their hubby

I am not a problem, Nigeria women are the problem. They are so much a problem that they were a huge problem to me until I stop dating them

dammypat:
Mr op, did you put all of these up to confuse/convince yourself the more on your desire of marrying a western women or you have dated/marry all the Nigeria women to reach this your shallow conclusion? Are you trying to say every women in your linage are what you described above?
No one is telling not to you to marry a western women as that has been your childhood fantasy even up till now but stylishly bashing Nigeria women is very immature of you,even despite having your mother,sisters,aunties and grannies as Nigerians
Grow up and know that every human being whether male or female are not psychologically and mentally designed in the same way,just as you have described all Nigeria women.
We are not all prostitutes, many of us are financially independent,toiling day and night to have a life, many of us have Husbands abroad we are 100% faithful to, many of us are the provider while our husbands are still looking for jobs for years and no noise is being heard
Get yourself a wife with the fear and knowledge of God no matter the color or origin and you shall have peace.

Miss Pat
I love to share my views in many aspect of life and I am very honest in my opinion. I never said all Nigeria woman are HO HO. I only spoke about the current extremeness of immorality in the Nigeria society.

Our future wives are now prostituting, they are known as runs or call girls.

Our future wives has now become sex workers and sex workers, whatever you call them, they are all into prostitution.

Yahoo boys are fraudsters, scammers are know as G boys, whatever name you call them, they are all fraudsters.

If you are a supportive wife to your husband, that does not make every woman a supportive wife to their hubby.

If many Nigeria women are unfaitful, that does not mean every Nigerian wives are unfaitful.

I have sister and they are all in their 40s and during their time, it was not like this.

If you noticed my write up I never said Nigeria wives are unfaithful. I speak of the high levels of immorality in our Nigeria society of today

If you have a different word for prostitution, then I will gladly edit. You asked me to go and get a wife, how can I marry from a heavily sexed society? How can I marry a woman with a traditional mindset?

(Genesis 2:18 ) God said, I will make him a suitable helper fit for him, but how can one find a suitable help mate in the midst of millions of heavily sexed women in an immoral devilish society?

I stop dating Nigeria women since 10 years ago because Nigeria woman are more of a problem to my life.

The only thing I like more about Nigeria women is that, they are more mellow because hardship has broken their soul from tender age.

This will enable them to appreciate their hubby

EDIT

An op below quote me and mis quote me because he thought I was refaring Nigerian women as poor which is not the case.

I used the word brokeness (humility) I was talking about Nigeria women are more mellow (humble) than western women. I speak truth because I know that Nigeria women are more calm in nature

Broken soul = humble soul
Mellow = Calm (lowly)

I repeat: Nigeria women will appreciate their hubby because they are more broken (HUMBLE) than western women

Ugmama:
Perhaps they have been rehearsing, now let's get to hear from them

OK.
Let see

Ugmama

I see that your readers are not even answering the simple question you asked

namiji2598

I like this your thread.


Good one

lavylilly:
You have been noticed. Just ensure you turn a new leaf

It is impossible for a butter to turn into a leaf. Yes, I compare myself as that butterfly inside a a cocoon that is trying to soar into the air.

So I can never turn into a new leaf

Get it

The Difference Between Nigerian Women vs Western Women?

As I grow up, I constantly hear from some heavy cultured Nigerians who believes that, Nigeria women are more better than western women which is not true. From age 7/9 I have been following up with western society and I will share my own opinion, and give the difference between Nigeria women vs western women in cultural views

1. NIGERIA WOMEN VS WESTERN WOMEN
All women are the same with different shade of characters. And their person is heavily being influence by their culture. A woman is a woman, no matter where they come from.

2. FINANCE
Western women are more financially stable, and are more financially independent. Because they live in a more sane, selfless and prosperous society.

Nigeria women are not financially stable and not that financially independent. Because they live in a greedy, corrupt society. Most of them depend on the financial strength and pocket of their husband.

3. EQUALITY
Western cultures promote equality. Their laws gives men and women equal right. Women are meant to believe that men and women are all equals, therefore women are powerful and has more right as their laws favours women more.

Unlike Nigeria cultures does not promote women right or equality. Nigeria women are meant to believe that, a woman is subject to her husband as God created it to be. This is 100℅ true.

4. PATIENCE / ENDURANCE
Nigerian women are more mellow than western. They are humble because they were born into a very hash environment. A Nigeria woman is more willing to endure any form of hardship than a western woman. Therefore they are more prone to tolerate all form of abuse from their husband. Nigeria women can suffer silently over the infidelity of their husband (cheating is allowed for men) but not for women.

Unlike western women, they can divorce you over little trivial issues. If you cheat on her, you are finished. Unless you genuinely repent and plead.

If a western woman loves her hubby so much, she may endure her man infidelity but still threaten divorce.

5. MARRIAGE
Nigerian women do not care about your good looks. They will marry a man bases on the financial strength and glory of a man. They will marry you for money and personality even though you are ugly. Nigeria women will marry for money and not for unconditional love.

Western women will marry you for love and for good looks. Western women can lust and hunt after handsome men with good features. They may not marry you for money, but they can still divorce you just to cash out.

I have seen many Nigeria men who traveled abroad and will still be looking for a wife back home. They will tell you that Nigeria women is more better for them than western women, this is a big lie. The reason why they want to marry back home is because, they are Nigerian personel. They can only feel complete by marrying a fellow Nigerian like them self who will make them complete. And you will hardly see any Nigeria woman who traveled abroad, come back home to pick a man.

6. CARE / GIVING
Nigerian women will leave or flee from you when you are financial broke. Unlike western women who knows how to love and cares. I have seen many Nigeria men who are financially down, they receive all manner of insult and abuse from their Nigerian wives. If you are a Nigeria married broke man, you will loss your right being the macho man - this is a sickness of every women

Western women are more caring. They just know how to care and be more supportive to their broke husband. They care so much about the well being of others

7. DIVORCE AND LAWS
If you marry a Nigerian woman, you only have 50% chance to divorce. And even when they divorce, the Nigeria cultures and laws are bias towards women. I have not seen any judge or court in Nigeria that favours a woman in divorce than their hubby. Women does not have divorce right in Nigeria.

Most Nigeria women can also endure and prefer not to divorce their husband. If Nigeria women have all the benefit western women has from the law, they will do worse and heavily take advantage of Nigeria men just like the western women currently does to their western hubby.

Western women are more prone to divorce you. If you marry a western woman, you have 70% chance to divorce. Their laws also heavily favours women and dealt with men mercilessly.

A western woman can divorce their hubby for small reason and heavily dealt with their hubby in divorce; (equality)(alimony)(child support)

Also, online dating) has made marriage a total joke in the western world. They marry any how and divorce any how, as if marriage is a speed dating

Divorce to the average Nigeria woman means, a life sentence to loneliness, and financial struggles. Most Nigeria women depends on their husband as they can"t stand the family burden alone when divorced

8. IMMORALITY / PROMISCUITY
Nigeria women wins this one hands down. Go into the bustling street of Nigeria cities and town and see what is happening on the street. You will have the shock of your life. Nearly to all the teenage girls and adult ladies are now into coded runs (prostitution)

In those days, you will only see sex workers in brothels, but right now, immorality has taken all over Nigeria street, cities and towns. Coded runs has now become the quick financial freedom (trend) of Nigeria females

There is a popular place in my home town ( E junction) you will see all manner of tiny teenage girls as young as 14/15/16/17 years old doing sex work. it is so bad to the point were they are now hawking themselves. Sex is so cheap as much as sorrow and death is easy to obtain here.

I feel sorry for Nigeria men abroad who suffered, traveled, work hard and come back home just for the sake of marriage (I pity you) for taking such a huge risk

By the time you go back to your base and you are trying to work papers (visa) for your fiancee to come join you in America/Canada, she is busy here with many Dicks. They just can't do without Dickson just as one can not do without water. Nigeria girls have lost their sexual morals.

FINAL WORDS
☆All women are wonderful and perfect mothers, but they are terrible wives.

☆Nigeria women are more mellow, humble on marriage while western women are more caring, supportive on marriage.

BUT if they give me a choice between a Nigeria woman and a Western woman, I will choose a western woman hands down

lavylilly:
You have been noticed. Just ensure you turn a new leaf

But how can a butterfly turn into a new leaf?

I am a person that I love to talk about myself and encourage others to talk about them self instead of them to gossip about others.

I have a female married neighbor who is very pushy and controlling. She began to assert her authoritative and controlling attitude towards me. I told her to stop, knowing that, she will continue in her foolishness if I dont stop her.

She is the type that controls everything and every one around her, including her hubby. I told her one day, you can cantrol your family, but if you try this over me, I will deal with you if you don't back off from me.

She miss judge my words and started shouting holy ghost fire on me. I kept quiet and didnt say more word but I allowed her to finish her display in shouting holy ghost fire, ranting around. I silently said to myself, if the fire of God will kill anyone here, it will be her, because I am living a life style where I always mind my business and don't like trouble makers

She kept her manipulation and tried to involve the landlady, thinking that I will yield to their demands, but she was supprised that I resist and sternly warn the land-lady, the very person she respect so much and both she and the landlady back off ( then I regain my peace)

About my female neighbor; she is a nice woman but her problem is that, she is quick to act before she thinks, but then her wrong deed has has been done already

After some time, she began to see that, I am a person that is well discipline and she realize she has handled me in a wrong way and tried her very best to reconcile and make peace with me. I ghost her off completely and gave her the silent treatment.

In the past I have suffered many betrayals, many abuse, many injustice without retaliation, all I do is to forgive and forget. I just know how to forgive and try to see beyond the actions of humans

I remember when I help a friend to make money in 7 digit and I exalted him and also tried to guide him to use the money wisely. He became angry with me and went all about, started telling people that I was jealous of him because he has made money more than me. I confront him and asked him; I heard you have been telling people that I was jealous of you over money I helped you to make? he acknowledge and told me he has done me wrong. I forgive him and help him more, guess what? He did me more more wrong and was also the one that put me in trouble that almost involve the police

I remember a very close friend that we use to live in the same apartment, he made the attempt and tried to fv'c'k my girlfriend when I was not at home, the babe had to struggle her way out and flee from the apartment. When I came home, the babe told me everything that happened. I asked her, have you told anyone apart from me? she said NO, I told her, please keep this a secret and promise me not to tell anyone for the purpose of peace and we dont know tomorrow. That day, I still shared my food with that friend and didnt let him know that I know what he tried to do behind my back, Guess what? 3 years later, that same friend tried to assassinate me, it was God that intercept his move and saved me from his evil heart.

READERS: Forgiveness is not possible without genuine repentance and it is only God that knows those who genuinely repent.

Then I said, enough is enough. I told God that I can't continue like this, I just can not continue to forgive and over look because I may die before my time. God, you have protected me all my life and now it is time I need to try and protect myself.

I remember I told my elder brother that he has allowed bitterness and hatred into his heart because he told me he no longer forgive people because humans have hurt him so much. He told me that when he gives a person an opportunity, if they mess up, he just let them go. Looking back now I can see that my elder brother was (is) right

I have become like my elder brother by applying his rules to my life.

I respect men a lot and if a man offends me, what I do is to emotionally and physically withdraw a bit and apply more wisdom when dealing with him next time, I will greet him always but I can never trust my life to him in any meaningful way, every aspect of my life is in now in safe mode.

I flag off wrong people completely because of my life unpleasant experience.

Tomorrow I will have a wife and I will play safe mode by giving her a hot slap or silent treatment so that she will not heavily violate my gentleness. As for children, I will always caution and warn them but still allow them to suffer the consequences of their wrong choice.

This world is not for the Nice Guys

lavylilly:
You obviously are a lost child

that is yet to be found

nairalandankrah:
That small child is richer than all Nairaland BMCs put together!

How is that little child richer that all Nairaland BMCs put together?

Why una no even get sense at all self?

IyaTola

Why don't you talk about yourself, so that ithers can learn from your life?

You truly are a disgrace

Aproko will kill you

Useless and worthless set of people

Mcslize:
Australia is not that hot. Not as hot as you think. If it is for the weather, Australia has one of the most amazing weather among other countries. Not too hot and not too cold. Australia weather is mostly between 9 to 15 degree Celsius, which is still below Air conditioner temperature of 19 degree Celsius. Most air conditioners in the banks run 19 degree Celsius and people still shiver when inside the banks.

Even during summer, Melbourne weather don't exceed 15 degree Celsius. Canberra has a pretty cold weather. Even Sydney has average temperature.

Australia temperature won't get you sweating. That's why they have one of the most amazing weather, not too cold and not too hot.

If you refer to a weather of 9 to 15 degree Celsius hot, then Canada will be pretty good for you as they have minus 20 degree Celsius.

I always thought that Australia is a dry country with lot of beautiful sea side and beaches.

Thank you for the enlightment

All women are the same with different shade of characters.

Good or bad alike

HOW TO HANDLE WOMEN

Previously I created a thread where I list 15 life savin rules that is governing my own life, but now I decide to create a thread " How To Handle Women"

NOTE: This thread does not apply to everyone (men).

I have seen many types of women with various characters and some of them really dealt with me and made me to be a strong hearted person..

My sister once told me that I have a deep heart because she thought I will always forgive and over look her foolishness as I always do in the past. I have decide to shield myself and stop over looking the evil characters of human's especially nigeria women.

Many nairalanders perceive me to be proud, narcissist or a women hater. For me I have learn so much about life and women that, it is impossible for me to fully narate my experienced of the bad and the unique nature of women.

I will list some of my TIPS on how I have been handling women around me and I see great result as I am curentling receiving tremendous amount of respect from women in general.

1. DON'T BE AN OVER CHEERFUL GIVER

Spend your money on charity by helping the needy's, don't spend on girlfriends. Don't be an over cheerful giver in your romance relatie. It will damage your relationship because I remember I was constantly giving money to one of my ex. The very time I dont have money to give her, that means trouble for me because she will not allow me to touch her

Another of my ex always call me a stingy guy, she left me for another guy but later tried harder to come back to me but I dish her advance. She believes that, I am a stingy guy who will not allows her to go hungry. How can a babe with bad characters asked me to pay N4000 for hair that she will carry for just two weeks?

Dont try to to woe or make a woman to be faithful to you by excessive spending. If a woman likes you, she like you. You can buy her everything she wants, she will still fo'rk john bull. Just don't spend on nigeria women, be stingy and see who she really is.

2. DON'T PET OR PAMPER A WOMAN

Women are emotional being. They crave for love and attention to make them feel special, but I warn you don't over pet or pamper them.

I remember an ex who came to visit me, she went to my victorian bar and pick a wine of her choice. She took a glass and she gave the glass to me asking me to go and wash or rinse the glass for her. I told her I will give you a dirty slap to correct your sense, she was shocked and she told me you have changed. I told her, I have not changed. I started it with you wrongly.

She look at me perplexed.

I repeat; don't over pet a woman. If you pet a woman too much, you will reap the negative consequences of your kind act

3. DON'T TRY TO PLEASE A WOMAN

Don't try to meet the need of a woman. I mean, don't try to satisfy the desires of a woman, dont kill yourself. If you try to please a woman, you will waste away your life or die before your time.

Women are emotionally selfish being, you cannot satisfy them. No matter the wrongs you even do to them, they will still cling to you if they can't find someone more better than you to meet their needs.

Women are people of today, right now and not of tomorrow. I remember when one of my sister and children were going through difficult time, I sent her a bag of rice just to help her and her children. Four years later in our conversation, I told her, do you remember that bag of rice I sent you that day? she respond to me with, which bad of rice are you talking about? She told me I only sent her one basket of rice and not one bag of rice, even my mother was shocked over what she said.

I remember I was trying to date a young lady and she came to visit me. When she came I gave her the most romantic gift no guy has ever bought for her. Two years later I told her on the phone, dont you remember that gift I gave you the very first day you came to visit me? She told me there was no such gift, I got the shocked of my life that day

4. DONT SPEAK TOO MUCH

Men, when you are around women, don't speak too much. Smile a lot and speak only when it is neccesary.

When you are handling women, don't share too much information about yourself. When a woman ask you to tell her about yourself, just pass little info to her, just be like a coconut.

Don't share secret with a woman unless it is unimportant, women cannot keep secret at all. I remember when I move to a new town and rent an apartment, there were a lot of single women all around me but I hadly speak to anyone. I display strong sense of self and I noticed great respect and admiration from all the women because I display some self worth and ego

I know a guy who talk a lot, women call him a junkie or weirdo. Women don't like men that speak too much

5. DON'T BE SUPER FRIENDLY

Don't make friend with a woman easily. Don't be like an apple to women, be like a coconut when you are handling women.

Women love attention, they love information. I have had lot of conflict with nigeria women when I refuse to pay attention to them. I don't pay much attention to their whinnings. This gave them the feeling of rejection and made them feel unspecial, I tell you, they get so angry with me deep inside them.

6. FORGIVE BUT LET THEM GO

Forgive people but let them Go. I say this because an act of a womans betrayal will always repeat itself.

Forgiveness is not possible without genuine repentance. I no longer forgive the foolishness of nigeria women. I try as much as possible to remind them of their foolishness and blows to me, it will make me not to receive more blows from them

7. BE A PERSON OF GREAT DISCIPLINE.

Once in a while, you can slap your woman just to reset her brain and remind her that you are the macho man. Please note that I am saying that it is good for a man to beat his woman. To handle some crazy women, (Hot slap) is neccessary. I dated a young lady that has hot temper, she knows that I am the cool type of guy and she took great advantage of my gentleness, this became her constant habit and became a deal breaker of our relationship as I let her GO

I am currently living in a place where the land-lady wanted to take advantage of me. When I roar to her like a lion, fear grip her soul and she became heavily respectful to me. Despite my gentle nature I gave her a warning that I am a gentle LION

8. BE A SMART GUY WITH VISION.

Be a smart guy and work towards your vision. Women love and admire men with great potentials for prosperity. If you are broke, don't dream of snow white women. I repeat women are people of today and right now. What they see today convey your future to them. So, when a nigeria woman tells you she loves you ; WATCH OUT on what she sees around you.

MEN, focus on your path way to glory and don't ever fall. I have seen women lost respect and insult their husband when the man is financially down despite all he has done for them in the past.

BOYS, focus, focus, focus. You will never loss women when chasing money BUT You will loss money when chasing women.

9. LOVE A WOMAN WITH YOUR BRAIN

Don't love a woman with your heart. Don't give all your life to a woman. Yes, I may have affection for you but I will never trust you because you are changeable creature.

10 BE VERY SEXUAL.

All women love men that are extremely sexual, no matter how decent they profess. They love to be well fv'cked.

I will tell you that, a woman that is well (fv'cked) can be (fu'c'k) when the ex is ready to foc'k

If many single men start chasing married women today, you will see that %95 of them will fall and cheat by being well fu'c'ked

FINAL WORDS

But women are still forever the perfect mothers, even though they make terrible wives.

Women are very powerful and loving creation, they look weaker but they can destroy you despite the fact that you are a strong man.

I am a person that women has heavily dealt with me so I write from my own experience of what I know about women

Women has given me many blows and injuries in life, so I write on how I currently handle them which may not apply to everyone here.

I am very tough on nigeria women because they are terrible. They don't cherish or respect Mr good / nice Guys

Mcslize:
Lol! Australia still remains my favourite country. I won't trade that for any other. Maybe I will visit most of these other countries later in time as a tourist.

I prefare Australia than the UK but I feel Australia is too hot

I like cold and snow

optimusprime2:
I will disagree with you regarding language and integration based on the fact that I can give you first person insights about Denmark;

1- The Language issue remains a real Barrier regardless of the fact "most" Danish people can speak English as well as Norwegian, Swedish and German... the fact that Danish people can accommodate other languages like English, does not mean the Danish system is built for English or is an English speaking system for example, what do you do at places like The ATM or Train station or other public service areas, do you negotiate with the machines or automated systems to speak English?? Nope ... Danish is the National language, so expect it from all public service systems.

2- Denmark is a nice place but I always refer to the country as a Homogeneous bunch I.e The people get automatically racist to foreigners if a foreign culture is exhibited e.g if you speak another language that is strange to what they know, (heaven helps you if it sounds like Arabic- Hausa for instance), you will get the typical Cold shoulder. Those that have experienced this, know what I am talking about.

3. Except you are a tourist, you will experience Denmarks classic systemic Racism if you are a black guy trying to blend in. Try to understand something, a white foreigner and a black foreigner in Denmark are two different variables. So never compare yourself as a Nigerian in Denmark to a Polish or Russian in Denmark... that ability to "physically" blend in the crowd is actually everything.

4. Constantly speaking English to Danes on a long term, Irks them out at some point... bottom line learn the language. (Once again, language matters).

5. They are a very quiet bunch, if you are loud, dramatic and overquirky (like most Nigerians are) although some may find you amusing but it is a behaviour that is considered Alien in Denmark... rule no 1; in Denmark, don't be tagged Alien- They don't like "Alien".

6. Their citizenship or permanent residency is one of the hardest (if not the hardest) to acquire in Europe... ask anyone who knows...

7. Denmark remains a beautiful place but just as much as there are the upsides, there are lots of downsides.

My final remark, which is a rhetorical question... Which would you rather prefer; be treated with bias in a system where you do not understand the spoken language and can 't associate with the culture or being treated with bias in a system where you understand the language and can associate with the culture... ?

I gree with you

You made lot of point