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andronite
You Nigerians abroad has backward mentality, why on earth will you or your friend come back to marry a Nigeria woman here in Nigeria?

If you see what women are doing here, you will save your peace where ever you are

Black women no many full america?
Nawa for una O

Igbankpa

Forget all those traditional belief

Keep warning your brother because he will face the spiritual repercussion someday

FairlyUSEDpussy:
Chai.....
I feel for u both.........
U both suffered consequences of worshipping girl.......

Never love ,over pamper and act to nice to girls.........or else u will pay dearly!!!

You are some how right
My elder brother pamper women too much but that is not the case with me. What happened to me is totally different from that of my brother. I just hope that you will bump into it when I share my own story on romance section.

brownemmanuel43:
U have said it all baba. Problem is from guys not ladies, I HV come to realize that guys of nowadays seems to over pamper ladies that's why ladies are now taken the advantage.
And when guy man wants to bring his real self out that's when issue will boost.

You speak the truth.

As a person who knows the character of my elder brother, I will say that he pampers women too much which has greatly works against him.

I, myself pampered a woman once in the past and this work against me so I stop.

Over pampering of a woman is a very bad way for one to start relationship.

Iceyjayz:
Wow that's cool, maybe I will buy it when I come to Nigeria for Christmas, do you have any idea of the cost of the decoder?

13500 naira and it comes with three months free sub

Ndoki85:
How much for the decoder

I bought my own decoder for N13500 as I already have dish and Tstv gave me 3 months subscription due to promo.

After using mine for 1 month, it got expired. I contact them again and they gave me additional two months free sub base on their promo

Hathor5:
What mistake did you make? And what have you learned?

I will share mine own story in romance section

Azammmi:
Share your story bro , we can learn from it

I will share my own story in romance section

Ishilove:
When they refuse to pray, the devil will keep packaging his sisters and daughters to give them.

You speak the truth.

The greatest strength of the devil is our ignorance.

I already know the devils strategy

Ishilove:
Your narration makes it seem like you're blaming the women for you and your brother's very poor choices.

If you notice the title of this thread, I didn't say (what a woman did to my brother). I said [what happened to my brother] because the fault is from my elder brother. He saw all the red flag but he ignore them all.

Even though I was in my 20's at that time, I saw all the red flag and I warn him, but he refuse to listen to me.

Ulunne777:
Between Romance and family section,I don't know which has more of "Anti women threads" .

How una dey take find these humans when good girls are everywhere?

Believe me it was the work of the Devil

Richy4:
Yaaaa....I respect your opinion and experience buddy.... but if u are looking for a Star Fish, while u put your net in that deep blue sea, the chances that u must catch the star fish at once is 1/2... there are every possibility that you might get catfish, Eastern Red Scorpionfish, Bigeye Tuna, Atlantic Salmon, Flat-head Tiger... But the assurance is...there are star fishes in that deep blue sea.. it requires patient.. but in a situation where one can't wait, The person will make do with what his net caught ...That's what happened to your brother.

You speak in riddles that convey the reality of our life

Richy4: Thank you

Hathor5:
How is your brother sure the child from the first girlfriend is not his?

Keep blaming women for your brother's unfortunate circumstances or tell him to use condoms in the future or to simply abstain from premarital sex.

Cheers!

I am not blaming any woman over our wrong choices and misfortune. If anyone failed to learn from the mistake of others, then they will surely learn from their own painful mistake and the consequences of their wrong choice as swell.

☆My brother made first mistake and refuse to learn.

★ I made mistake and I got burnt but I learn from it and dont want to make amother mistake

inyangd4:
I still believe the problem is not the women but yourself!

Judging from your brother's story, he only attracted his kind.

Marriage is instituted by God, it's therefore more spiritual than physical but unfortunately we ignore God's principles to Marriage and expect success. It doesn't work!

Imagine your brother seeing the red flags in the first woman but was probably overwhelmed by sexual immorality.

Imagine taking another woman in within a short time, without knowing she already has children!

Maturity is not by age, Sir.

You and your brother should amend your lives and watch as you'll attract better kinds of women!

My brother refused to accept and learn from his first mistake. He was blind and ignore all the red flags over this two deadly women that came into his life

In my own case, I fell into a deadly trap of which any person who fail to watch his step will surelt fall into. It is only God will save that person

Your judgment over me and my brother is very cloudy

Quenmoly:
I pray u find a woman that will love u.... don’t be scared of love..we all are victims of hrt brk

May God ur steps dis time

Quenmoly
Thank you for your prayers.

It is not easy for a healthy young man to be alone for the last 10 years. I receive many pressure from women outside my family that I should get married but I kept pressing alone because I know where I am coming from and most importantly God is heavily working in my life.

My last relationship cost me so much loss, all my money, everything and nearly cost me my life. It was a narrow escape and my life has not remain the same but I kept pressing hard because I know that I will find joy once more again. I tried to let go of the past and look forward to what God is bringing ahead.

This time, God will surely guide my step to meet a good woman that will remove all my fears and heal my wounded soul

There is a saying that good things come to those who wait, and all things work for good to those that loves God

delugadou:
dis one wey girls dey carry una shine, hope say no be family pattern. Mountain of fire church fit reason una matter Incase of incasity

The most easiest way for the devil to destroy a man is through a woman.

Yes, I know of family pattern but in my family, it is more of a strategy of the devils to destroy me and my brothers through his Jezebelic daughters. I say this because I lost my younger brother through a bad woman.

In my own case I did not handle it the way my elder brother did. The enemy knows this, so they used a different type of strategy on me. It was just Almighty God that spared me. It was the hand of God that snatch me out of the deadly trap of the devils. It is God that kept me alive.

As much as I badly need the touch and kisses of a woman, I am still very much afraid of the body and vagina of nigeria women.

Oliviajones
You are still too foolish to understand that you can't force someone to accept you.

Your over begging him will only strengthen his ego.

He may also have a good reason for him letting you off. Just move on and work on yourself

Dont forget; be proud of yourself

HoneyBadgerr:
Men consider possible outcomes of a planned action, then they act decisively.

Approach or retreat - your choice, but don't just stand and stare. Be a man!

I am a smart young man. I dont stand and stare at a woman, I can only stare if I sat somewhere but not when I am walking.

I remember 13 years ago, I walked to a young lady, I told her I like her and I instantly gave her a kiss, she look peplex and shock but she didnt react because women love cute guys.

This tells you that I can approach any single woman if I want to

Iceyjayz:
Oh I thought they packed up since

TStv is fully working.

TStv will give me channels DStv will never give me with small amount of money. The good thing about TStv is that I will be the on to sellect the channels I want to pay for..

Whoever buy now, get 3 months subscription free

Bahamas95:
" I remember sitting somewhere and I stared at a married woman out of curiosity because I was curious over something and I wanted to be sure of my thought. I notice as I stare at her, she got so excited as she thought I find her beautiful or attractive. As I was leaving the place, she turn and look back at me and I saw that she was so excited".

Winneygirl:
For me
Winking, cutting eye, whistling is disrespectful. If you have nothing to offer, try this.
Staring unnecessarily, pervy. If you're pervy, try this.

Starting a conversation, introducing yourself and finding a common ground is mature.
If you want a meaningful engagement, try this.

I can't wink my eye to a woman, alhough cutting of eye is very popular during the 90's but not anymore

I don't stand or lustfully gaze at ladies, no, I can't do that

What prompt me to asked these questions on nairaland was that I previously saw a thread on quora where a lady made a comment about giving out signal just to let someone know you like her.

Yxwqq:
The way you stare at women comes off creepy. Some women may like it but I would find you creepy and think you're a perv. Not every woman would be "excited" by a lustful male's gaze.

I have never lusted after a woman, neighther will I even gaze at a person with sexual lust, only a pervert will do that.

I am a very curious introverted person and my mind is like an explorer. I like to understand things in a deeper and meaningful level as long as it is not the personal life of people. I don't stand and stare at people, no, I can't do that

What I do is!

☆ I can stare at a young lady if I see her speak her native language, it amazes me

★I can instantly check out a lady and wonder in my thought, if she is married as most ladies don't put on ring

★I do instantly check and scan a lady and wonder in my minde the type of person she is

★ I can instantly check and scan a lady and wonder in my thought, how old is she

★ I can instantly check out a lady and curiously wonder in my thought, if she is married

★ I can stare at a 10 years old child out of curiousity and wonder in my mind, what if she is my child

What prompt me to write and asked these questions was that I previously saw a thread on quora where a lady made a comment about giving out signal just to let someone know you like them

Since then I have been wondering if I gave out wrong signal to women with my curious but instant stares

Oluromantic:
In case you're driving, park well and look yansh before you continue your journey. Casket is cheap now o.

Beloved3:
The ex-wife (debrief) confirmed his story is real. She was a very popular nairalander and many people knew her story back then.

Ok

May God help manj3 over his wrong choice

teefaht:
This is my first time of seeing someone complaining about Mtn. I bet it's your location.

Yes, MTN internet is very bad in Delta state. This cuting issues has been since 2011. You can't use it to download without cutting your files

This is why I dont used their Internet because it is like push and start

Iceyjayz:
Wait is TSTV functioning

Yes, TStv decoder and dish is working. I bought TStv because of their pay per view 2 naira option. You can check their website tstvafrica.com

I am still wondering if your story is real, although I have seen men who indulge in drinking and clubbing and excess womanizing, when there is excess money to lavish

I have seen men who becomes like their own father because they are greatly being influence by the ancestral spirit in the life their father.

If your story is real, then you went too far

PhilipReigns.

You are very right. If I had married any of my ex I would have been a divorced person.

Many marriage will last when there is a bit delay

Maryjane001:
Thank you so much. I v modified it

She should seek deliverance because it is more of a spiritual affliction

Cancer is spiritual and no amount of medicare can cure it.

She should seek Christ healing

Removed

teefaht:
Still on

MTN internet is very bad since 2011. The network cut like crazy here, connect and disconnect like every 1 or 2 mins, it is like push and start.

Your modem or phone will show its connected but truly it is not

MTN is a deep shit. I am going back to my Glo and Airtel