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Jorussia:
Denmark is a very rich and boring country for people with very little ambitions.Denmark visa is perhaps the most difficult visa to obtain in Nigeria.

I have seen people who feels that Canada is boring to them

It is very true that Denmark do not want immigration, especially as they see what the influx of Muslim refugee immigrant is doing to sweden.

TrajansKong:
Lover of peace and rest?? Then Denmark is no place for a Nigerian!

You got me laughing heavily

But you speak reality

[quote author=FreedomWinsNow post=103118111]I am now detribalised, enjoy We celeberate with our Yoruba brethren.

[quote]What is the meaning of Uruemu in Yoruba? I am not a tribalist but I will tell you that she is not a Yoruba lady. Marrying a Yoruba man and answering her husband last name does not make her a Yoruba lady.

You are a tribalist because you should celebrate her for being a Nigerian and not you claiming her to be Yoruba lady

Her first name is an Urhobo, Deltan name

Shame in you

ednut1:
Language barrier plus do they want or need immigrants

Denmark speak more english than Sweden and Norway and from what I saw, their culture is almost americanize.

The country is very clean because they have energy plant that burn trash (dirt) to generate electricity, no over population and no air polution at all.

Denmark seem better for me than Germany because of their ability to speak good english. Denmark seem to me like the Canada of europe.

Most signs in Denmark are written in english and they speak english wella

You will enjoy Denmark if you are not the over ambitious type and you are tired of stress

pharmguru:
Nice.

Link to the documentary please...

I don't have the link because I watched the documentary on cable BBC Earth via (TSTV) dish

Denmark is so green, lively and beautiful

PENNYSWAP

You will make a fatal mistake when if use anger when you are dealing with a woman.

That guy man has been shining her kubi

Warning: Be careful of that babe, she may get pregant and claims you are the owner

[quote author=topmag2019 post=103087703]FAKE NEWS

And don't forget, aproko will destroy you

mariahAngel:
You also are a person that is quick to accuse without understanding.

...then again, it's in human nature to have those tendencies.
Nobody is a saint.

Learn not to conclude but see beyond the things you read or hear

mariahAngel:
You also are a person that is quick to accuse without understanding.

...then again, it's in human nature to have those tendencies.
Nobody is a saint.

Learn not to conclude but see beyond the things you read here

shortgun

Do not give help to anyone around you without them asking you for help

Take my advice because I have lot of experience on this. The only help you need to give your neighbor wife right now is

Thank you

mariahAngel:
"Do not desire thy neighbour's wife"

You are a person that is quick to judge and conclude without asking question

I just watched a documentary on BBC earth about Denmark and I was so amazed.

Denmark is beyond what I thought. I always fancy Scandinavian countries but never have I thought Denmark is more than what I had imagine. In Denmark, nobody wants to buy fairly used cars because the country is so rich.

Everyone has more money than they can spend. There is lot of food, meat to eat, lot of energy, clean air and much more than I thought. In the past I always thought that I can only feel at home only in US and Canada, but I was wrong.

Even the documentary presenter is Ade, a Nigerian British born. He was so amazed on what he saw in Denmark. And the good thing about Denmark is that, everyone can understand or speak English

I don't fancy UK, and Australia weather seem dry and hot for my liking

Men, I will feel @ home in a country like denmark

Will update later-4

I am 📝
I Will Update Later.

oaroloye

Seven years ago I was despising Nigeria music and someone asked me, do you know who davido is? I asked him, who is Davido? does Davido knows who I am?

He said to me that Davido has the money I don't have, and I said to him Davido cannot do what I have done on this earth and live up to my legacy.

Oaroloye. The things and people, you and many Nigerians celebrate are worthless in my sight because these are not of virteu. I embrace virtue and have genuine love for suffering humanity

Nigerians cannot be proud of people like me, they persecute and kill people like me because I am unique and special being. I know my worth anf value. I dont need Nigerians to be proud of me. I have been leaving a life style and legacy where the whole host of heaven is very proud of me

I may be a Nigerian by nationality but the truth is that I am nations by personality and nations will be proud of me and the most important thing is that God is pround of me.

As you can see, I am pround of myself and how far I have come

psucc:
Guy, you are the greater fool here o! You don't like NL but will still continue claiming to stop when you Japa.

On the TB Joshua's issue, whether or not he is loved or appreciated by Nigerians, does not in any way, interfere with the judgment, he faces not change his fate with destiny.

Please carry your oversense go oversea, make Nigerians use NL d pass time forget the Buhari dem d face.

I've got almost 265 views and most of these readers never respond because they dont see themself as hypocrite

You quote me because you are one of the hypocrite on Nairaland. Truely I say to you; if you are not an hypocrite as I say, you will never have respond

You feel pained over my message because you are a hypocrite

pansophist:
Bros, I live abroad, and I have met few ladies that came to study here under the sponsor of their husband/fiancee. Not all are betrayals of course, but there are some that are. These things do happen. There are many codedly wealthy motherforkers in naija, the millions they will spend is nothing. I personally know of a situation where a guy in naija sponsored his long term girlfriend of seven years down here, and she left him months later. Her hoe phase was activated when she arrived, as she has been dating the guy since she was a virgin and wanted to experiment.

But she regretted it because men here fear marriage like its hell. After he has finished using her for all his dirty sexual fantasy, papers and marriage, she no see. She tried to bounced back to her ex back in naija, but guyman had moved on. He was a really rich guy, he didn't really felt the financial burden, but he was heart-broken to pieces and I doubt if he will ever trust a woman again. He has transitioned to a full time playboy in naija.

Very touching story for one to learn from.

Women are impossible. I only spend on the needys and I won't regret

LadyRosa:
Unfortunately, not every girl can keep silly men. I don't subscribe to men without substance.

I'm dating a very matured guy with intellect. Him no dey do pass himself and I no dey do pass myself.

Adieu.

OK Oh.
It is good you knows your limit

Cheers

LadyRosa:
Lol...
Redpillers are just not Nigeria guys thing, trust me. Na social media rants...
I have experience several countless self acclaimed redpillers, and they are as good as sizing their _dick up to see if it fits, nothing else... Only girls wey get time take them serious.

_Dick plenty everywhere, the one wey dey do guy, babes wey no get time dey drop them move to another. NO TIME.

What is even redpill? And I don't think many Nigeria girls these days send them, except the naive ones or the deceptive ones who wants to play smart. Many naija babes NOW, just want the good life, weda from your foolishness or from their own hard work. Na their hustle guy, if you form redpill, them move, na the mumu ones dey speak English.

1) You sound like a wado wado babe.

2) Babe that have the kind of mindset you have, can never keep a man.

3) People like you are the reason why I no longer spend on girlfriends. I only spend now on elderlys, disable and physically challenge people.

One of your kind left me because she claim that I am stingy, although she tried to come back but I refused. It is only me and God knows that I was secretely spending on the needy and not on vagina

peggywebbs:
You see everyone hates the country as it is but when hating it, my point is don't hate yourself. Instead make your own change. Do not let people define you.

And you should know that not everyone on nairaland lives in Nigeria. Many are in a system that already works but like I said, people are expressing their opinions.

You don't have to always agree with them but you can either contribute or learn a thing or two from them.

Leaving the country is a good thing but remember, it takes just one government for Nigerians to come running back home. There is no place like home, and you will understand that feeling when you finally leave the country.

Peggy my friend.

I remember a post a guy made against one Nigerian divorced N.G.O, just to tanish the image of that man, that was the day I knew that no matter how God exalt me, I will never want to be identified by Nigerians

Peggy, I underatand and I appreciate your knowledge and comment, but Nigeria is not my home and nigeria will never be my home

Your home is my wilderness

Ayo13945

Proud of what? what I mean is that, if it took me 2/3 months to deflower a young adult female, why do you think a 45 years old man can deflower a 4 years old child?

Many things you see on nairaland are just accusation just to tarnish the image of a person. Nairaland is not the forum where one can learn

1) There are many problems with Nigeria tradition .

2) Nigeria Men wake up, If you try to satisfy the desires of your wiffy, you will have a high BP

3) Marriage bride price ceremony is just a (dating) league (title)for women.

4) Marriage pride price or ceremony will never add to the life of any man. Marriage ceremony or bride price is just a title for the ego of a woman. It is like being in a dating league for too long without winning any title.

This is why there is the popular quote "the happiest day for a woman is her wedding day

Many men are pressured into this bride price of a thing and are currently in debt.

This is why I said I must do it (my own way) and not the Nigeria way

peggywebbs:
You're calling people foolish for expressing their beliefs. I really wish you get to leave the country and learn about life. You will get to see that people are not so different all around the world.

Our environment makes us Nigerians unique and you are part of that culture. If you like paint yourself white, red or orange, you will still exhibit the foolishness you are running from.

You can't run away from yourself. It is better you embrace your heritage and pick the best parts of it so you will be a better version of yourself.
As for the opinions on nairaland, there's really nothing you can do to change it but you can always deactivate your account if it upsets you and stick to quora where you will hear "how do I know a girl likes me?" Or "Should I pick up my call? I need help".

Anyway it's your choice.

Peggy Peggy
I can never embrace this heritage you talk about from your quote. My true nature is an apple but Nigerians has turn me into a coconut.

I can never embrace being a coconut. The best way to be my real self is to EXIT and leave Nigerians alone

And forever

Missyajoke:
You're the abnormal one.

What Nigerians consider normal is crazy for me.

Even the moderators shovel some of the most crazy thread to front page because they knows that Nigerians are crazy and only like crazy things

I created this thread because I see a front page post concerning T.B Joshua.

I am a person who don't use to know what is happening in Nigeria. I used to find fault and dislike everything that has to do with Nigerians.

I believe that if I succeed with God's help and escape from this wilderness, I will never near this land again and I will not want to associate myself with Nigerians person because I see that the average Nigerian have a crazy mindset of which it is true.

Nairaland has made me to believe more that Nigerians are just too crazy for me to relate with or be around with.

Nigerian have crazy mindset and loud mounted and proud people. Their character flaws at home and away, always shows that they are Nigerians.

I have never been a proud Nigerian and I will never want to be proud of being a Nigerian. Because I just can't adapt to Nigeria mindset, culture and their life style.

Nigeria society is destroying good men. I am now like a coconut. Yes, I have seen people being perplexed when they see me interacting kindly with someone because they know me as a person who don't speak or associate with people. Why because Nigerians are just too brutal for me to associate myself with them

I go onto quora always to learn something new because in quora, you will see knowledge and wisdom but not on Nairaland.

Nairaland has proven to me that Nigerians are more of aggressive people. I say all this because it is only in Nairaland I see people creating any how thread and making foolish comment.

They will create a thread that claims a 45 years old man rape a 4 year old child. How is that possible? When I, myself at 24, it took me 2/3 months to de-flower an ex 17 yr old girlfriend.

The worst part of it is that a Nairaland admin will shovel thread like that to front page and you will see all manner of immature users cursing.

It is only on Nairaland I have met people who will create thread about God's servant Prophet T.B Joshua and the sons of the devils will begin to reign insult and criticism against the prophet.

South Americans and worldwide people loved this beautiful angelic man. It is only Nigerians that will cast stone on someone that will rescue them. It is only Nigerians that will kill their Messiah. It is only Nigerians that will persecute angel like T.B Joshua that God has sent to save them. This is one reasons why Nigeria as a country may suffer till Jesus will come and go.

Even if Christ Jesus come down from heaven to help Nigeria as a country, Nigerians will persecute and kill the savior (Christ)

This religion section of nairaland is where I will seen many creating thread, quoting and explaining scriptures and yet they are spiritually blind just like the blind pharisee and teachers of the law.

This religion section of Nairaland is the most worst part of nairaland.

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Early this year I saw one young American writing and answering question on quora. I was shock when I learnt that he was just 14 years old.

Nairaland is a beautiful forum but it is just not a place where a person can truly learn. This religion section nairaland is full of the pharisees, saducees and teachers of the law.

Their ignorance has made them blind.

habsydiamond:
Some people will never go with ur assertion oo... If dem no use the female child as a means to richness they won't be contented... Having three events because u want to marry someone is just waste of resources.. Intro, engagement then wedding why not stick to one or two... Remember if u are inviting 300 to the events imagine the amount of money that will feed those people... If u invest that money in one business u will make huge profit by the end of the year oo

You are very right
My guy was billed N90,000 for papa and mama tradition cloths.

Papa cloths = N50K
Mama cloths = N40K

I felt very bad for him because my guy was just managing life with his small business.

When I see the stress people go through in marriage is making to create uneccesary format on escape plan

GboyegaD:
The size of people at the marriage is dependent on both of you getting married most often than not than the parents decisions. The issue in most cases is that most parents did not do well raising independent children. The reason why parents still interfere in the homes of their adult children.

As for other things listed, each person should define how they want theirs.

Lastly, it is unfair to compare human thinking with that of a fish. That is very disrespectful.

Brother

I have edited the word

I did not want to use the word fish brain that is why I code the word and turn it to (tuna) as I thought Nigeria women will not know it is a fish. Using the word fish brain is direspectful to (women). You just instantly decode me

Apologize to all women over (Tuna) in advance

ngkman

1) Privatize your life.

2) Play safe mode

My Own Way VS Nigeria Way On Marriage

Before you read My Own Way VS Nigeria Way On Marriage. Note; I sound more like a child becos of the way I feel. I think the ways and traditions of Nigerians (Africans) is very stupid.

THE NIGERIA WAY

I know a guy my age mate, he was depressed and complain because, he wanted to do the right thing by paying the bride price of his fiancee according to the Nigeria way. What shock me the most is that, the father of the lady demanded for 20k first. The babe father said that, before the guy will seat down with him to talk about marrying his daughter, my guy must pay N20.000 just to seat down with him and talk, guess what? my guy paid the money.

The traditional list of items was given to my guy, he went back home, very depressed and unhappy. He complain bitterly to everyone, even though he does little business.

I thought to myself, the babe father was lucky that it was not a guy like me. I will prego the babe and I will see what the father can do about it. (abortion is not permmited)


MY OWN WAY

1) I frown upon traditional marriage. How? I hate it when I see traditional marriage practices. I also hate those their native attire or dress code.

2) I strongly believe that, marriage is between two persons and not by crowd or family approval. Example, a good man sees a nice woman and both of them like and love each other, move in together and become ONE. God has approved them because God approve what man approved.

3) I dont encourage promiscuous life style and I don't believe the word, child out of wedlock, O Yea, one fool who can't create even a fowl egg will say, that baby is a bastard. That is a none sense mindset because humans are humans, wedlock or outlock, they are precious little human beings and should be appreciated and must be well loved as a human.

4) Pressure
In case the babe wanted to depressed me with pressure, fine. You take me to your parents, I take you to my parents. Our family meet to introduce our Families (conjugal bliss)

Dont forget. No bride price or traditional marriage.

But, if the babe is from this mangroove just like me. Oh OK. I will still give the parents gift, money, just to free their heart, but not for bride price. I will help her parents, help her brothers or sister when needed, am I not still paying price indirectly? of course. Her family will even consider me a better dude (inlaw)

But If the babe parents is financially ok, then I already have a free chenkess as a wife, trust me, I don't do crazy traditions practices.

Believe me on this, women have (LOVE) brain. If you manipulate a woman with sweet mouth, feed their head with love tips, you own them for free. 

5) Even my bible says that a man shall leave his parents house and join with a woman and both of them will become ONE

My bible also says, do not join yourself with a prostitute, or else you become ONE body with a prostitue, why? sexual bond.

Imagine I find a cute pie of a woman. She agreed to be my mate. She move in with me and I always give her multiple fu*ck section to her satisfaction. She beget my seed, I am a wonderful dad to my children and I still give her good fu*c'k when she is hor-ny. I cuddled her just to keep her warm, and I always wisper to her, I love you and assures her I will always takes care of us

What else does she need?

Do we need any one approval over two consensual adult who decide to join as onr, love each other and corpulate?

Do we need to feed 100 guest for them to approved or puplicize our union?

Do we need wedding gown as symbol of our union?

Do we need a pastor or a court to seal our union ?

Even whitiiii dont collect bride price

It is illegal in America to collect bride price

What is the need for your traditions ?

Who has time for more Nigeria craziness and stress?

I see that I must do it (My Own Way) and not the Nigeria way

Tradition should go to hell.

I will update Later

How them take know say 100k dey missed

Nigerians. Na wa