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GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, Fvck Isreal

Shut up ....Terrorists claiming to be Christian.

Zonefree:
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Where you waka go see virgin girl for this Nigeria

You're one of the few blessed and luckiest men on earth.

Chastity is a great virtue. Virginity remains the greatest gift a woman can give her husband.

May God continue to bless your union.

Speak for yourself....lol. kolo Nigeria men always see sex as gift to them....lol

Trashymods:
No that's not true.
They knew about the attack, the day of the attack, the equipment deployed to be use etc but the ZIONISTS choose to kill its own people just to kill babies, kids, women and the weak in gaza.

Do you have sense at all? Was it Isreal that carried out the attack? So if someone slap you ....lol you will blame yourself for not blocking the slap and clap for the person that slapped you right? Terrorists followers are usually foolish like the terrorists tho so I am not surprised.

AbuTwins:
Only fools don't know that Israel and its god USA are terrorists!

You are even a bigger fool.

seborrhic:
If fcta has about 39k staff,according to Wike,then ₦9b+ salary per month is not an outrageous figure if you are looking at average salary of ₦200-250k.
What should be the bone of contention is if the staff strength is actually 39k or if a good number out of that are ghost workers
BVN, Nin has made corruption fight in Nigeria pretty easy,particularly for civil service payroll,but it's just the will power that is lacking because the person fighting the corruption may also be indulged in it or is a major beneficiary.
With bvn,you would know the account balance of all civil servants,make a comparison to that person's publicly known salary,then compare to it and to assets.Even if a civil decides to use family members to hide funds,it's still easy to trace;a child cannot have 100m in the account or a full-time housewife 200m or cousins with humongous sums hidden.
So long the will power is not there, corruption we must all accept has come to stay

Does BVN authorize you to check ppls account balance?

Felimax:
Then face front and keep your fvcking advise to yourself. I nor send you message.

Algbero go sleep.

Felimax:
I still dey wait!
Dem nor va born the person papa. Even soldier man wey fvck up Dem dey beat am join.

Stay away from people's women. If you dey mad people dey wey dey craze.

Wetin concern me and ppl women? You dey form jaguda dey fight for everywhere. I just dey advice you make you no lost teeth because of your over confidence...lol. your brain don thing say na ppl woman concern me...smh

Map1:
Brother next time when a situation like that arise kindly neglect it and moved on, such a retaliation can lead to some things else, avoiding a retaliation does not make you a fool, just for peace.

Lol them never beat am once....lol

CandidAdmin:
Chai! This is a man that doesn't take nonsense.

What if the person he slap beat him? What will happen to the voltage?

Felimax:
The man is an Idiot! I felt you are not strong enough for the man and I feel your pain.

A mad man did it with my younger sister and before he know it he saw blood all over his head and started running.

Another day, it was my wife at Effurun roundabout and she was telling the guy that she is married but the guy will not listen and kept embarrassing her, following and calling her names. When I came she immediately told me and not too distant away I approached him and gave the an old century slap even though he was taller.
My voltage nor good Sha!

Lol until them go beat you for your wife front...lol your eye go clear.

Why is everyone an expert in japa? Everyday japa japa japa. Please all of you should go rest amd allow adults leave with whatever they decide to do with their lives. All this nonsense news are just published to announce to world immigration that this what Nigerians are doing...lol. This nonsense is capable of drawing unnecessary attention to Nigerians getting married abroad. The intention of all this useless ppl is what I don't understand.

Goalnaldo:
Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992).

About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes".

I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me?

PS; I'm not a virgin

How will this question help your relationship? Stupid question deserves Stupid answers anyway. If she chooses to tell you about her ex fine if not just focus your focus

nairalanda1:
Okay, don't complain when someone calls you a pagan idol worshipper...or a Muslim, because that's what you are

Keep your religious beliefs outside. Our culture is our culture

Godfullsam:
Don't be a pessimist

Let's be +ve for once.

Many of claimed that our currency cannot have any value because we are not producing anything.

We want to start producing refined crude oil for local consumption and export yet some of you still believe the Nigerian system won't let our currency to grow.

Haba now?!

Don't blame us. Did you not hear the news about NNPCL claiming they don't have crude oil to supply Dangote?

Kenochi:
When we tell people that Dangote Refinery is starting next month,they think we are lying to them
Those of us who patrol this corridor are excited about the prospects which this project will unleash on the Nigeria and West Africa.
Pinnacle Oil (owners of the Largest Tank Farm in Lekki Free Trade Zone) is already bigger than some Tank Farms in Apapa,you might want to argue but I encourage you to visit and see for yourself.Don't be a doubter,visit the corridor and you will be amazed
Jezco Oil (Joeyzaza) is already building a massive warehouse/company in that corridor,not to mention the tens of company already in the Lekki Free Trade zone
Aliko Dangote will probably break into the top 20 richest people in the world with this project and listing it on the stock exchange is giving people opportunity to partake of this project
I encourage you reading this to consider getting a piece of property around Ibeju Lekki to Ode Omi if you can afford it because that location will be probably the most expensive property market in Africa in the next few years
I also hope the parasites in NNPCL are ready to dance naked because their free money is about to come to an end

There is this impression being created that Dangote Refinery will not refine petrol as it was not clearly stated in the writeup
The Refinery is expected to start with the refining of Aviation fuel,Kerosene and Diesel
Petrol is to begin some months later,you can see it clearly written in this write up


https://www.nairaland.com/7845745/dangote-refinery-start-refining-petrol

Is petrol not supposed To be the first. I am confused because I think that is what we consume more tho

nairalanda1:
So, you are here justifying a man leaving behind his wife and three children for another woman?

Okay.

Just pray that your spouse does not do the same to you. Betrayal is a painful thing.

The white woman has just helped break up another home. Them kids of the man will never forgive their father for betraying their mother.

If you want to marry a white woman, and you already married, better divorce your wife. That's why we got divorce laws.

Lol is it against our culture to marry more than one wife ni? You don dey kolo? How many wife Regina Daniel husband when be lawyer get?

shilz:
the men won’t tell u the shit they have to deal with…

Lol just the same way they Don't tell us the shit they have to deal with Nigerian girls...lol

mariahAngel:
Whose name do the children bear?
Whose descendants are they?
Whose lineage do they keep alive? 🙄

If a woman bore 5 sons for her husband, and her own father had no son, will her husband give up one of the sons to her father?
Will her father demand to have at least one of the sons of his daughter bear his own name?

So yes! They're more your children than hers.

Lol chop the name if that is the problem.

PoliteActivist:
Wrong response.
Right response: not every woman gives birth

Make I too know no put you for trouble sha.

Wisegeek01:
The phrase what are you brining to the table .. ha grossly been misunderstood, some men that even ask the question don't even know why they are asking the question, while on the other hand some women fly into a fit of rage or keep dodging the question, why they are angry they don't even know, its just a psychological impulse,

first of all it is not mandatory for the lady to actually bring finance into the mix but it helps so that should not be the centre of the question, so the men asking and referring to finance really shouldn't do that, focus on what she is supposed to bring

.. its not her job to bring finance, so if you are referring to that you are asking the wrong contextual question, a lady actually has what she should bring to the table, but sadly not a lot of ladies have taken their time to sit down and think about the question, because the are always offended or defensive, its just a simple question, that you need to understand, its not you mdfkn job to bring finance, that is what the man should bring to the table,

what the lady brings to the table is .. ranges from
great values
Emotional Intelligence
Attention to Detail
Organizational Skills
Nurture and Care
Empathy and Compassion
Collaborative Spirit
Multitasking Abilities
Intuition
Social Skills
Diplomacy

when you list these features and tell the man you posses these traits
now it s your turn to ask him
what does he bring to the table
...
he should have most of these below
finance
protection
security
Leadership
Decision-Making Skills
Stability
Emotional Support
Problem-Solving Abilities
Initiative
Adaptability
Sense of Humor
Integrity
Shared Responsibilities

marriage or relationship is team effort, not competition
the next time i hear that question in the wrong context i fit flog person

Another simp thinking he is in a position to interpret what do you bring to the table to other men. If you have a working wife kindly tell us what she does with her finances since she is not supposed to bring finances. Then if you have a jobless wife kindly come and tell us what she will do if you sleep and don't wake up the next morning? Will she go and look for another man that will bring finances? Will your children be hungry while she is looking for the financing man? A woman should be happy when they ask her to be responsible. It is for her own good.

mariahAngel:
What are the number of men that work in an oil rig compared to the number of women that give birth daily, and some don't even make it out alive?
Na every man dey work for oil rig? 🙄

Same with men when thrusting...lol. Have you not heard the man died in active service?

JimD:
Giving birth is a joy of a woman, whether she does it naturally or through CS. She's not doing it for you. Although you must appreciate the sacrifice of carrying a baby for 9 months and delivering. But the joy of it is she's called mummy ****. Your family, her friends, you congratulate her and respect her more. It's an accomplishment every sane woman wants and longs for. It's not a personal sacrifice to you. Your topic is off-context.

Lol the kolo think say na sacrifice for am.....This simp come add madness join...lol

BRATISLAVA:
Lord Jesus, give me immense strength not to descend on this obtuse misfit. He's your creation as pathetic an excuse for one that he is.

Lol I was hoping to hear Amen

BRATISLAVA:
But a man cannot choose to refuse to work under the risky life and health policies if a rig? How exactly is working on a rig giving birth?

Maybe you and that guy can explain it.

How exactly is giving birth stopping a woman from being useful to her family? Maybe you and the foolish OP should explain that.

BRATISLAVA:
If you don't want the lecture you could try to give birth to a baby yourself. And nurture it. Then tell us what you are bringing to the table while doing all that.

Kolo you can pray to he barren so no one will force you to give birth

BRATISLAVA:
Are they not compensated for the risk adequately? What is the compensation for this risk? Since a job is the same as birthing.

A woman can choose and pray to be barren...lol but we know they will move from church to church...lol praying for the so called sacrifice....kolo ppl

Cocopopsss:
t.

Sorry please don't give birth...I wish you will be barren so you don't have to go through this sacrifice...please say Amen at the end.

Sonnobax15:

So the thrusting of the man that leads to the pregnancy isn't a sacrifice on its own abi na wetin you wan try dey talk,you op?

A man's life is always filled up with bunches of bills...So it's expected of every sensible woman to be a part of anything that hits the family's table.....At least,make see-finish for no dey.

Lol many had died while thrusting but SIMP will not see the sacrifice...lol

RingRoadCartel:
OP have you ever been to an oil rig make you see how men dey risk their lives DAILY to put food on the table.

Don't mind the kolo.

ZIMDRILL:
their is nothing called SACRIFICE on things that you are meant to be doing, giving birth is not a sacrifice it nature their is no two ways about it if you want a
child

Some men are just crazy.....lol.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Another simp man....What do you mean your children? Obviously you assume the kids are just for you....lol. I think you should ask God why he decided to make women go through that sacrifice.