₦airaland Forum

Blaze14k:
Yah it is narrow and also deliberate

Lol so I deliberately will not choose...smile

Blaze14k:
I think there's no such thing as a perfect wife or husband. There must be something u don't like about the person. The question is what would you tolerate going into the marriage?

Then your options is narrow...lol expand it

Blaze14k:
Would you marry a woman that is hard working but treats you like shit or would you marry a woman that is lazy but treats you like a king and you rarely have issues with her.

If you are to chose one of them who would you go for and please give a reason for your choice.

So we must choose one useless wife...lol.

maasoap:
Why should we concern ourselves with his motives? That's petty and irrelevant.


That means someone wasn't doing his job the right way


What did he leak to the press? Definitely, not the racketeering stuff but his victimisation. You wanted him to die in silence?


You still don't get it, his bosses are powerless now. They couldn't sack him because his case is now at NA. That's why they are moving him around. And I'm sure, that also will stop.

He was accused of extortion so some might think it is ok to look into that but you can't determine for us all what should be petty or irrelevant. As regards someone not doing is Job...lol. It is sometimes advisable to mind your business...Incase you are not doing that already then you should take it as advice. Anyway let's see how it plays out.

stormborn28:
I know that was how you got employed.. So it pains when your means of entry is threatened.. Nonsense people

Atleast I am employed but you are jobless and crying online...lol

ivolt:
That is what you get with liberal politics of accepting illegal immigrants unconditionally.
The migrants didn't bother staying back in Russia because Russia don't tale nonsense from anybody.
Finland should stop complaining.

Nigerian citizens giving opinion to foreign Government....Shut up go cook beans oga.

maasoap:
He already explained that. Use your brain now, how would someone that exposed job racketeering be receiving bribes? It is witch hunt, and he has witnesses already.


No, he can't. Those who recommended his sack and who were to sack him have met resistance and they're now hesitating to go ahead with it because they know it can backfire!

Someone exposing job racketeering maybe doing that because he did not get is share...lol. I will like to know his job description? Is his job description verifying letters? If that is not his job description then that is over stepping his boundaries and also leaking information to the press for whatever reasons is totally unacceptable. If I was his boss he will be sacked ... No be who first call police dey win case

stormborn28:
Look at the evil perpetrators. Nonsense everywhere

Shut up

allthingsgood:
This your ideology is what made nigeria go to the dogs.
Someone sacrificed to make those countries that you look up to what they are today.
When you see someone sacrificing, dont ridicule him. If you cant help, at least dont destroy.
Martins is the hero in this story, not you.

He is not the hero...lol. They said he was extorting those with fake letters...lol. He should come and explain but we know say him go explain tire without evidence...lol. He will be out of job soon next time he will understand to focus on his job description.

nedekid:
Are you minding that MILF loving pervert? You sure say him normal? Who goes to marry his primary abi secondary school teacher for goodness sake? How will she born for him? Woman weh don born finish donkey years ago.
So macron will stay like that as a grown man without offsprings. MBA!
Besides, if he is happy, then maybe he is not 100% normal.

Lol all the nonsense una born for Northern Nigeria what joy do they have? Useless Nigerian citizens. Respect ppls choice.

SIXTEENTH:
No matter your schedule and work almost 24/hr if you're into someone whom you so desires believe me definitely you must create a little time to reached that someone

Lol abeg them dey dey into step brother....lol

FreeStuffsNG:
“And because they desperately wanted a governor in Kano State, the party gave them a ticket to contest. But they made a serious blunder because when they joined the party, INEC had closed submission of nomination forms. But they were blind and uneducated. They went into the ring without making careful observation of this.

“They did not know that we laid in wait. We took the file, submitted it to Dr Nasiru Yusuf Gwuna and told him to hold it tight. When we filed a petition at the Kano governorship election tribunal, we told the court that they were not fielded by the party. We told the court that when INEC closed accepting names of candidates, they did not join the party.”

This is very embarrassing and I believe it was not really a mistake.

It was a strategy by Dr Kwankwaso, the Presidential candidate of NNPP, to bolster his own chances in his Kano state home base.

There's no way his Presidential campaign could get traction and make the local politicians see the benefits in his campaign to them unless he dangles the prospect of Kano state governorship seat before them. It's still part of the politics. Kano state is strategic and the stakes are very high. I don't believe he made mistake, it was deliberate and the only option they had left.

In 2011, ACN fielded Mallam Ribadu as a Presidential candidate for a similar reason even when it knew the chances of winning was slim. ACN didn't want to be without a Presidential candidate so it would not be forced to give PDP and CPC the edge to corner ACN members. Check my signature for free stuffs!

But senate president is still in the senate even though he never contested primaries...lol. Nigerian court is for sale forget about strategy.

Oloki:
Na waa o... Ontop English
He said luck you are shouting grace.... Each with their own different perception

Do respect his own

That's how they constantly steal and call it grace ....foolish citizens

orohbirodeysmel:
Man don loot enough yams for his generations unborn.

So he is not bothered

And emilokun has not looted enough? The problem of this country is the citizens.

dunski:
Let him be carrying the world problem on his shoulder

Lol na kolo

Artorius:
Anybody wants to explain to me why Nigerians love and are passionate about football so much? Those guys don't care about you.

I would think we have our own problems in this country to deal with ..

Lol do you care about me? Why should it matter? Do Nigeria care about you? Do your village ppl care about you? How many of the problems have you solved since you don't have passion towards football? Oga go and sleep

God1000:
This is propaganda just to deceive the credulous and justify the brutal invasion of Gaza and the massacre of babies.

Underground tunnels are built in big hospitals all over the world for emergency use, as for those weapons, I don't trust Israeli military, why will Hamas leave weapons behind knowing fully well that Israel will use it to build a case against them?


The human tragedy that is unfolding in Gaza is heart-wrenching and Israel won't go unpunished.

UN should consider sending the protection force to Gaza immediately.

I stand with the people of Palestine

I don't trust Isreal but I trust Hamas. Yet we wonder why bandits and terrorists are thriving in Nigeria....lol

Gbadugbakun:
Simp

Kolo does not even know the meaning of simp...lol

FreeStuffsNG:
This was the days when NLC was not an affiliate of a political party like LP that promotes politics of hate, lies, tribal/religious bigotry and criminal defamation.

Same thing happened to Alhaji Lai Mohammed during the era of HE Goodluck Jonathan yet APC never told its its members to boycott sittings or shut down governance in their states.

Senator Oshiomole can not just lament like the rest of us. He is a law maker and an ex-labour leader, he should submit draft laws to the national Assembly to separate NLC from a political party.

It's anti-democratic when NLC drags in workers in government institutions that must remain independent and apolitical like the judiciary, courts, INEC, university administrators etc just to promote a Labour Party candidate in Imo state elections. It is absolutely wrong and the National Assembly can enact laws to stop Labour Party or any other political party from using the NLC platform for what Mr Ajaero is doing.

Btw,the indefatigable Chief Frank Kokori needs the help of Mr Ajaero,Mr Usifo, NUPENG, NLC, TUC .

It breaks my heart that the same day Ajaero's LP of NLC was calling for strike was same day the Patriot, High Chief Kokori called them out to help him. Instead of them to help our national hero, Chief Kokori, they even called out those who should attend to his health to proceed on strike.

Ajaero, Usifo , NUPENG, NLC, TUC, Labour Party, please stop the politics of hate,lies, bigotry and criminal defamation and attend to our hero, Chief Kokori. His first constituency is the labour and he has done far more for NLC and Nigeria more than those you are supporting for political gains today. Please don't watch and leave Chief Kokori die.Thank you as you help Chief Kokori.Check my signature for free stuffs!

Shut up. Are you not displaying the same thing you criticize? Are you APC foolish supporter for what ever foolish reason you choose

Shugavee:
if it’s too lovey dovi i never trust it

confused ppl
..lol

Nazgul:
This post was triggered by a friend of mine who is passing through hell in his 3 year old marriage. His wife made him believe that money isn't everything and he ignorantly got married to her in his indigent state. She stopped respecting him a long time ago. As I'm typing this, she has left him with their 1 year old daughter in Lagos and relocated back to Uyo.

So let's talk about money in courtship, Because you will need plenty of it in marriage.

Those who are of the opinion that all that matters in marriage is love not money are not serious! In fact I'd like to term them as jokers. Why? Because love won't pay your bills and put food on the table.

Women naturally respect financially buyouant men. Or in simpler terms, men who have money.

So don't let any woman manipulate you into marriage when you are not financially ready simply because age is fighting against her, because if you succumb to her pressure and get married to her, you are in for a Shocker

Women can sweet tongue you into doing what you don't want to do and blame you for being stupid to listen to her in the first place.

Before any lady corner you and tie you down in forced matrimony, ask the following questions...

1. How much do you both earn monthly? How much will you require to run your marriage monthly? Take inflation into consideration, and calculate how much you will spend on rent, feeding, utility bills, transportation, medicals among others.

2. Who pays the running bills monthly? The husband, the wife or both of you? At what percentage? 50/50, 60/40, 70/30? Discuss it with your Partner.

3. How long will you both work as salary earners? Any plan to invest in other businesses? What does it take? How much of your fiance will it take? What type of sacrifice will it require?

4. Will you engage in monthly savings? If yes, how much percentage of your salaries would go into savings?

5. Will you be operating a Joint or Separate accounts? Discuss this with your partner.

6. If you are running a business; How much does it generate monthly? Would she join you in running it when you get married? If yes how best can you two grow your monthly income?

7. What are your yearly Financial goals? How do you both plan to achieve them?

8. Do you believe in paying tithe, first fruits, offerings and sowing special seeds? You need to discuss this with your partner, so you can both plan ahead whenever the need for such financial commitment arises.

9. What percentage of your income will be going to your parents or siblings monthly? Discuss this with your partner. It's very important.

10. When CHILDREN start coming, how MUCH will you need to take good care of them monthly? Would you want them to attend public school or private school, are there affordable Private schools in your neighborhood where you can enroll them, what percentage of your earnings or savings would they require monthly to see them through nursery and primary school. Would government secondary school be better for them or private? Would public universities be better or private or abroad? These are things you must iron out with your partner before getting married.

Plan your FINANCES before getting married.

Set up your self for Financial growth not Financial failure in marriage.

Most broken marriages occur due to lack of finances or poor financial planning from one or both couples.

Are you married? If not go and sleep. Internet makes everyone thinks they are expert....lol

Biodun556:
Israel is a pseudo entity. It will sooner or later be dismantled.

Says a kolo from his kitchen.

HenryWilliams:
What happens to the local rice farmers?
The ones govt banned foreign rice for?
The ones that produce low quality rice that's more expensive than imported rice.
Isn't this a failure of the rice ban?
You banned imported rice to make locally processed ones thrive. They failed to deliver and made rice over 60k per 50kg. Something that was 9k several years back.

They were interested in destroying and starving the country just to benefit Buharis family members

Tekzyflex:
Osho make Sense today. The Labour leader is not fighting for the interest of the suffering Nigeria masses. He's fighting a personal fight.
How come it was when election was near in Imo state that he decided to stage a protest.
You cannot be an NLC president and be partizan. You have to come out clean and see if the people won't back you up.
For those quoting me,I guess you were to lazy to read the details of what Oshiomole said. You only read the headline and start squirting trash from your mouths.

Shut up. He champion countless strike when Nigeria was far better than this nonsense. He does not have the right to come and speak otherwise because he is now part of the evil Government. Nigerians are buy fuel for 700 naira. Dollars over a 1000 usd and this useless oshiomole led strike when Dollars was 115 fuel was less than 100 naira. I hate when we have citizens that support politicians foolishly

EDUECO:
He is the real leader of the modern world!

Don't be deceived by the media,the USA respects Xi Jinping!

China is the greatest country at the moment!!!

Lol and China disrespect US...smh. The internet can make kolo look like an expert tho.

FamTomx2:
Putin oh ! Can u c how world powers plays politics 😲😲😲😲


Us and China alliance na bomb!!


Respect to 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳

There is no alliance oga. They hate each other....lol. They know a war is catastrophic for but side hence all this meetings

KingOfAllIgbos:
Onyedika Oriaku

I read one article of a lady raped by a barber here on Nairaland and I was shocked.

People were saying she wanted sex that's why she allowed them to be together in a room... she must have enjoyed.

Rape apologists better get cured of their stupidity here. You MUST get explicit consent. If you get to the West, they might give you the right medicine for your illness.

Ask Ba aka Oyinbogoju who got 40 years to Life in Prisonment.

Define explicit consent abeg..Does she need to sign a document because men need to be careful. If she is not drunk and she romance you and both of you have sex and after the act she says otherwise....lol please how do you prove this explicit consent.

Sparrk007:
But normally we naija guys dey try

You mean dey mumu....lol

Lionessza6:
The song is more of a celebration* of the simping nature of Nigerian men. What other men get for free and effortlessly, Nigerian men pay for and worship .

Very useless set of men...lol

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

Tell us your own definition

tony9k:
Shows where politics is regarded as service and an individual is not bigger than an Institution. We should learn from such practices

These are the kolo that wants a better Nigeria....lol.