₦airaland Forum

Supremos:
Cc dear Esteemed Mods OAM4J Nlfpmod Dominique Mynd44 Puskin FOD Mukina it's imperative we move this thread to frontpage to help enlighten and educate our fellow country men and women who are traveling out of the country to avoid further embarrassment.

What enlightenment is this? A nonsense news always making front page

GoodofNaija:
Distractions.....so only one person has been investigating CBN since......no company name.....na just one tinubu agent that has been churning out lies against people who worked against him in the election.


They should just stop disturbing us with propaganda!

How can investigator have power to ditch out forfeiture? I am confused

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Why are you paying your girlfriend? This is how you ppl start useless relationships in Nigeria. If they sack you 2moro I am sure you will go and take loan to be spending 100k monthly on a woman. How much do you give your parents and siblings?

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hope the Iranian defeats Isreal and conquer them. Isreal is too troublesome and what they are doing in Gaza at the moment makes every Nigerian Christian support Iran to deal with them mercilessly . May our Lord Jesus continue to guide and protect the Palestinians against the evil of Israel. Amen

Shut up Muslim coward

naijapips04:
The best thing I've read this year. Aside status, owning a house is not a good investment. For a struggling guy, grow the shit out of that 25m. 25m in a good business should give us at least 70m in a year. Rent and grow this. In , 4 years, use the residual income to buy a house. Don't go and dump all your life savings in a house.

The way most of you talk about business is like there is zero percent chance of loosing your money. The annoying part is If I give you the money say make you run this business make you give me 50 million then keep 20 million for yourself...lol. we go start to hear stupid stories for end of year

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

You need a matured advice and you came to nairaland....kolo

LooneyLester:
Kek



Not true



West Africans are the largest followed by indians in the UK

Lol Nigerians equal west Africans...kolo

Chinjo2:
Nonsense. They loot the treasury dry and comeback with peanuts as giveaways.

They loot them and buy rice for them...lol. The drink he was drinking at a sitting will buy the rice lol and poor Nigerians will speak of his love for his ppl.

PDJT:
-Stay within the law and ensure you record every of her abusive moves towards you. You can use those evidence to get permanent residency, if you really want to stay in the UK in your own right.

-At the moment, you have as much rights as her.

-However, I would advise you and any other man relocating to the UK or the West, NEVER assume full responsibility for your family. In the West it is a shared responsibility between you and your wife, that's why they call it partnership. If you must buy a property, make sure your partner contribute as much as you do as well as share your bills equally if possible, otherwise share it based on percentage of earnings.

-Never contribute more than you should. You're no longer in Africa.

Good advice for useless Nigerian men....lol. They are over paying just to be with a woman. Once a woman tell them yes they think in their head that they have hit jackpot. Nigerian men are paying the price of their foolishness because the only thing most of them are good at is to buy a woman.

BloomingDale:
Dey there make pant dey wear you. Respect is reciprocal.

Your understanding of the word respect is flawed.

BloomingDale:
As if the man hold body for Nigeria. Abeg make we hear word. Gossiping like a market woman.

Feminism will not help you.

Kingpele:
Deep ....I see alot of childish comments and am confuse how people will still bring personal stuff here...however my brother ,my advise is for u to give yourselves chance to adapt to your new environment...selfishness and greed is not good at all for marriage .....you only wanted to lay low so as to get paper next year common that's selfishness....u should take it easy and sake ways to earn respect and trust from your wife ...with it u could build lasting union even in Uk

Lol someone is seeing red flags and you are talking of selfishness...Smh. OP should wait till they throw him out before him go get sense abi? To build a long lasting union depends on 2 parties so stop deceiving him. If your partner is not ready to build sorry you are wasting your time

ucsquare:
Only fools and enemies of the Catholic church will believe such misleading report.

The devil can try all he likes but the Catholic church will continue to stand strong.

The devil is already using the pope to destroy the catholic church. Have you asked yourself why is the pope always in gay controversy?

Jewessgratitud3:
You people have come again with this secret house matter. For crying loud, let the secret builders breeefffff.. it's their money they are using to build, not yours and every one has a right to how they use their money and what they use it for and do not owe any body papa any explanation; be you husband or wife. Haba!

As long as your Money is not in the equation, face front.

As long as the house is not posing a threat to you as the wife or husband, you have the right to face front!!!

As long as it doesn't make your spouse reduce their love and respect for you, 👉👉👉 ⏩⏩.

Let's stop making a mountain out of a molehill. Nothing there and if it bothers you, go and build your own!

If you are not married just keep quiet. All this nonsense you type here show you have zero knowledge of what marriage and family is all about. If ppl want to be individuals after marriage why decide to get married? You guys can just have agreement to have kids and move on

Waffarianman:
That's deep for me I'll just let it be don't worth fighting for. Then rearrange myself and keep more secrets to myself

Of what benefits will that be to the family? If we cannot be family then there is no reason to be together.

jmoore:
I will do nothing. She used her money, not mine.

You don’t have a family so definitely you don't need to do anything.

immortalcrown:
I will pray and work to be able to build our own house in my compound.

Any of her belongings that she does not willingly give to me is not worth fighting for, because what is gotten through violence may easily massage ego but can hardly give real happiness. I want to live long. You will die young if you don't overlook or endure certain things in marriage.

I don't understand all this rubbish sha. Why would a family be doing things in secret? How is that a family in thr first place? I will end marriage with immediate effect. It is not about her giving you the property

santaclaws:
Not a bad idea to have a contrary opinion on Japa, but your claim that Nigerians youths moving to other countries is an act of cowardice is definitely an unreasonable statement.

You didn't take into account that so many people have been struggling in this country even before the economic issues. A lot don't have jobs in Nigeria despite being graduates and most employed people are underpaid.

If the youths aren't cowards, they should stay over and allow visionless politicians, poverty and hyperinflation ruin their lives? Or betterstill, they should take up arms and challenge the government so that they can die for nothing... 😒

The moment I saw that act of cowardice I just gave up on the idiot. Everyone want to trend with japa...Smh.

TONY042:
The church is home to all, which is what Pope Francis is trying to do. The church has already made its stand known about marriage being between a man and a woman only.

But everyone is welcome to the church.

The sun shines for every one to see. If God himself doesn't segregate, who are we to !

Please stop defending rubbish. The church is home to all sinners but not the set that claims identity. Do you identify arm robbers in the church before blessing them? Do you identity fornicators? Gay want to identified as gays and the church should accept it as a union. The pope has failed and I have known that since 2013 so I am not surprised.

MajorOvakporaye:
Empty-Hen should also do us good by exiting Nigeria. They are now a huge load of shit.

They are far better than your Glo

TheOldGods:
E pain you walahai, we are not on the same league, you're beneath me bro.

You are very poor. It is only poor ppl that think ppl are beneath them because of money...Smh. A homeless child like you can type I make 3 million daily....lol.

TheOldGods:
eyaa, jealousy is killing you. You will never earn millions in your life if you keep attacking successful people. I earn over 3 million sef, just to give you a rough estimation.

foo!!!poor Nigerians the only thing they talk about is how much they make. A kid coming to nairaland to look for wife base on how much he earns...lol cannot be classified successful. It is the internet and any idiot can type I make roughly 4 million...

YourGFsnatcher:
She has money ooo.. but she will never use it. Your money is sweeter. Anyways.. I think 100k is not bad. Its how women are wired. U should buy it

It is not how women are wired. It is useless Nigerian men that constantly give them sense of entitlement.

dododawa1:
Emefiele Kept £543.4m in Fixed Deposit, Operated 593 Bank Accounts, Manipulated Exchange Rate—Investigator

BUHARI EMEFELIE will riot in pot of Hilda

Lolso who is manipulating the exchange rate right now? If the private investigator actually said he manipulated exchange rate then the investigator is just another kolo

reiddecuti:
I said it on; https://www.nairaland.com/7945166/port-harcourt-refinery-recommences-operation#127552055 that until I see refined petrol from that refinery hitting the street I ain't believing nnpcl, some miscreants who can't comprehend started quoting me upandan.

Now this is coming out from the horses mouth. Q4 of 2024 will reach, a new date will be set.


They'll keep setting and breaking records of unfulfilled promises all by themselves.


I don't blam them but the people who have decided to be dumb.

The fools will call you haters of Nigeria...it is sad that we have to share a country with majority of those idiots

Sillymoderators:
Useless idiot this is a public forum nothing like mind your business, anybody can mention anybody. This is not your father's land! Irresponsible bigot!....

I understand your pain to admit that you have learnt a valuable life lesson from a public forum....lol. Thank me later

Davizee:
Do Christmas for me sir

Jesus christ birthday na your birthday? Lol them born you for Bethlehem

TheOldGods:
you didn't clearly see where I am avoiding students. People that don't have future of job yet. Doctors don't make money in Nigeria.

With your 1 million you can take her to a place where she can earn well...lol

TheOldGods:
I actually earn more than 1m. More than 2m sef. But I need to find my class.

Oga Shut up make me hear word....Who your 1 million help?

birth100:
I must tell you, you're the wrong type of man for any category of girls you've think off.

Lol is that not what you women do? Lol

Roger3D:
I agree with you 100%. its wasteful

It is a way to steal....lol The best way to steal is to distort accounting process.

Sillymoderators:
There no need engaging irresponsible person and animal like you in discussion because you have nothing reasonable to say. Keep displaying your level of low IQ and stupidity! Pass it on to your children.... foolish person.

Atleast I know you will take my advice and start minding your business.