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Obakoolex:
God bless you!
I like people with optimistic mind.....

The wailers can decide to see corruption
But just like Caleb and Josh we decide to see greatness in the birth of new Nigeria under the leadership of president Tinubu.

Where is the evidence of Buhari 8 years? Your are yet to see break down how the money will he spent and you are optimistic...lol. A serious government that is asking ppl to make sacrifice but yet to make their sacrifice and you are optimistic. A president is collecting from both state and federal just like his ministers all in the name of pension and you are optimistic...lol Tbe greatest problem of this country is the citizens

Tohsynetita1:
this is what I do. in fact am trying to get branding etc. If you want to know something, you make research about it. Don't assume everything is hard until you research.

share update...lol. How else do you want the person to ask?

owiko:
But what if people just stay faithful to their partners?

Lol that's never going to happen

yrhuhfy113:
If I was your friend, i would advice you to avoid dating, avoid clubbing, avoid sex.
Give yourself 3 years oh...

GET TO KNOW YOURSELF DEEPLY AND GET TO KNOW YOUR GOD GENUINELY.

GET INTO TECH, make MAD MONEY as a single boss lady
Travel abroad alot... for conferences on tech, photography, relationship seminars, women empowerments, etc

Then make friends at that HIGH LEVEL. E get why, DATING slows you down when it is done wrong. At the level you currently are, SEX and gist may be all a guy will imagine you can offer, so pls SKILL UP, MONEY UP.

You will get a GOOD RESPONSIBLE READY MAN AS A HUSBAND and won't wait for another 3 years, but intentionally marry and be happy.


I wish you well.

She should give herself 10 years to avoid total distraction

fkelly:
Collecting online loan is a suicide mission, the interest rate are too high.

Imagine paying over 1/2 of the borrowed funds in less than three months.

Pls which business can generate that revenue in nigeria?

Even collecting from access bank...lol. imagine 120% interest rate for 1 year claiming reducing balance

huptin:
One of the Nigerian terrorists supporting Hamas was saying that there is nothing US can do to rescue this ship, bla bla bla, that the Houthis has some anti ship missiles, bla bla bla....insane terrorists every where.

If you wanna show solidarity with your fellow terrorists simply go there and fight.

Bunch of dunce giving analysis from their bed room...lol

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Probably a false flag ops. Na dem attack na dem still do rescue mission yet no casuality, gunfires, no aircraft was shot down

Says the top analysts from his kitchen..lol.

Pepperdemisback:
She asked him to have a side income, Asa Ashika has 2 different businesses but still with Davido.
He can beg for money to buy perfume but not to open business.
If Davido parts with him today, where will he start from if he doesn't have a side income? Does Davido not have side incomes? Does Portable not run a bar?

What is her own business? How is telling your husband to have his own business lead to fight? Must everyone have business? Is her business generating enough income for her? Let's start from there. They will tell is the real reason for their quarrel very soon...lol but for now to your tent o Isreal

ademola2017:
In 2017, i expressed my deep concerns on nairaland about my now ex wife double dating game before we got married, her attitude towards me and how the relationship was one sided.

I got several advices to let her go but decided to give the marriage another chance but it eventually crashed in March 2022. We did all we could to save the marriage but to no success. We were done patching. No child was involved and absolutely nothing to show for the marriage after 8years of being together. I still feel the pain but it gets better everyday.
I credit myself for not cheating on her till our last days together and even months after our separation.

After several months of being celibate, I had sex with a young 25year old lady. I met her through a family friend 2 months before she got pregnant

Just one intercourse, she became pregnant. At first, i doubted it because I laboured very hard to father a child for 8yrs and with just one sexual intercourse, someone is carry my baby?? with me being very knowledgable about calculating ovulation dates and timely intercourse, it conformed so I had to accept the pregnancy as a sign from God.

Deep down, my new partner and I do not love each other but the respect for each other is on point. We have ZERO expectations from each other. We communicate well and have started living together in peace. No arguements, no drama and no issues at all.

I changed my mindset by taking her as my younger sister and she does same by taking me as an older brother.

It feels strange to be at so much peace with someone that I dont love at all. Our baby is coming and I am scared things may change when the true reality sets in.

What do you guys think?

Oga your problem too plenty next Person please

nairalanda1:


Did I say that you two should not go to Canada?

Good afternoon.

Did you answer the simple question? Your father sat you down to tell you about his colleague that he is washing plate in abroad...lol family of gossipers.

nairalanda1:
Have watched the video, and the woman is making a lot of sense

I am going to tell the story of a guy my dad was acquainted with. Back in the 1990's this guy was a high ranking civil servant in Nigeria, in charge of a technical department, with responsiblity for urban planning. The guy played the DV lottery, and won and moved to America in 1994. Two years later he was working as a dishwasher. Someone wey dey hold high office, na dishwasher.

The truth is, the best way to japa to Canada is if you have skills that are needed in Canada. That means (unless you are into IT, or medicine,especially nursing), you go as a student, graduate with high schores, and high skills, and get a job there. Simple. Other routes are risky

That is what the woman is saying. Simple.

Unless you want to go there and start from scratch, that is the way. Canada is a insular country.

Whats the story of the now? Is he still a dish washer? The Nigeria of today is it better than 1994? Does it hurt to have dual citizenship? Are his children benefiting from the decision he made? People stay in Nigeria and regret and People travel out of Nigeria and regret...lol make una try rest and let japa be. Every cow thinks the only way to trend is to form expert on japa

Kobojunkie:
Wetin be a fake child?

Pikin when no be your pikin..you don understand na? As you no one get sense

elonmuskbaby:
thanks

You welcome

Kobojunkie:
How many men out there leave their marriages before or even after cheating on their wives and even having children outside? Abeg, make we die these biased ideas.

So how many men carry a fake child and put it in a woman's head? How many women have trained a child that's belongs to someone else without them knowing they are actually training another person's child? I don't know what is wrong with you ppl sha. But sometimes all this equality make you ppl look so stupid I swear

Kobojunkie:
Ok naw! The Radio station should demand the man go get a legit fertility test done to counter the woman's claim.

He doesn't need to counter the claim. Does it mean that he deserves to father and train others ppl children all in the name of he can't perform? She should have left the marriage and be with those men.

She is right..
we as guys should learn to control ourselves when it comes to sex..

When we try to make a move and she rejects or tell you she is not in the mood,, a real man should respect himself and let her be..

Sometime in life,, we are not just in the mood for sex,, it is not every time that we will be demanding sex from our girlfriends,, at times a decent conversation and a shoulder to lie on are all she needs.

Shut up. She is not in the mood and she is naked on your bed....useless men

ecolime:
I like my women mature and experienced.

Virgin before marriage doesn't mean Jackshit in this age because she go eventually open eyes when married which is worse.

Let them enjoy their youth, pass the hoe phase and calm down.

Marry a lady under 27 at your own risk virgin or not.

Sad Israel had to learn the hard way.

Is he not behaving like a kid? Useless Nigerian men amd women only speak about money. I bought her this I bought her that ....lol. He should suffer the consequences of buying love with money. Master slave relationship....Rubbish

Jokerman:
Jesus... Why??

After voting for Buhari and Tinubu, now dey don't want to enjoy the dividends of their votes...

I wish UK can deport them back

Devil...lol. How did you know they voted for Buhari and Tinubu? Witchcraft in broad day light

olatuneji:
Is this not this couple that married not quite long.

Believe you me, there's no love out there.
Money is what bond a family together. It's what makes a home sweet.

As a man, there's no love out there. Always pray to God to give you this money so that you can always provide for your home.

This marriage of a thing is all about selfishness. Man and woman selfish.....

Read your post and see exactly how foolish you sound...lol. Is it poor ppl that are posting rubbish online? The only thing Nigerian speak about is money. Just get money just get money....foolishness

Bliss62:
Comprehension isn't all that complex dude

Keep your comprehension to yourself oga. I have made my point just incase you fall into the class earlier mentioned then you be kolo...lol

Bliss62:
You vote the best candidate... Nobody said he is perfect

If Buhari is the best candidate in your head....lol. then I am disappointed. No one is talking about perfection. Buhari and his policy was a total disaster and if anyone doesn't know that yet with all the stats then that person must be a kolo

Thisis2raw:
Buhari deserves to be locked up with the key thrown into the ocean.
Sorry to say this,God punish that man, wherever he is

The most useless president Nigeria ever hard.

SouthSouth1914:
Keep quiet and start talking about your plans.

Shut up if you have zero understanding of what he said...foolish citizens. I knew a lot of educated idiots that supported the foolish ban on 43 items from accessing forex

ILoveNG:
As a guy, don’t be poor.
You may not be wealthy but don’t be poor.
Don’t be lazy.

As a lady, don’t settle for an unserious man
But you must be serious yourself to have the right to call any guy unserious.
Don’t be a parasite.

That is all i have to say.

What has poor got to do with this? This is just pure stupid display from both adults. In a country where even the rich is poor....lol what do you expect?

Jeon:




Waiting for the yellers to cry over this man's money.

Is that not the only reason you ppl get married in Nigeria....lol. Bunch of useless species.

Massivedick:
Bro, no be everybody like white women ooo. Most blacks here are just crazy. They are literally everywhere. Home is still the best.

Lol and you don dey get heart attack already.....wasting energy dey investigating a girl...you get time.

Yenefer:
When it comes to women right... there's no women right in Nigeria, just tongue and cheek from ICPC
Africa is still in the dark age

What is women right? What is the punishment for those women that came out to speak against Mandy? Have they been jailed yet? They are walking freely after all you gathered to say all sought of rubbish about the innocent man. We need a law that will prohibit false and lies from women to deter such rubbish.

Domistar5:
1. Concerns about Food Security: Constant worries about food and nutrition might stem from past financial difficulties. People from such backgrounds might struggle with weight, have an aversion to wasting food, or develop poor eating habits.…CONTINUE READING

2. Saving the Best for Last.

Leaving the best part of a meal for the end is a habit developed from the anticipation of scarcity. This way, the most enjoyable part is savored for longer.

3. Reluctance to Splurge.

Individuals who’ve experienced financial challenges might delay non-essential purchases, adhering to a “delayed shopping” rule to ensure they’re spending wisely.

4. Working Hard for Small Earnings.

Growing up knowing that consistent income is essential, even if meager, can create a fear of job loss. This fear motivates them to work hard to secure their livelihood.

5. Valuing Possessions.

Developing an attachment to personal belongings is a common trait among those who’ve had to work hard for what they own.

6. Yearning for Miracles.

People who haven’t experienced financial hardship may see winning the lottery or hambling as a way to attain happiness. Those who’ve faced destitution differentiate between urgent needs and unrealistic hopes for miracles.

The internet makes Bunch of idiots think they are expert in every field. The annoying part is you have fellow 48 kolo that believe that you are an expert...lol

Brendaniel:
Joker, when I knew this man was a joker was when he went for senate screening and he was asked question on his plans as CBN governor and all he was speaking was just English grammar without direction and specifics and I just said to myself this guy a joker.



3 months later dollar hit 1200 from 700 and still climbing

When was he appointed? Is it up to 3 months?

ipobarecriminals:
Pathetic like ur parents tight

Goat!!!

chaloskyx:
Okay i dont want to sound like a joy killer but can we ask ourselves these questions

how come we have gas but never for once developed it for or own use and growth.

why does history keep repeating itself first it was crude all we did was wait for foreigners to buy it while our refineries were shut down now gas we wait for other countries to buy while we do nothing with it.

Why dont we ask germany what they do with the gas so we can also utilize our resources for our people?

like crude we would export gas they buy the finished product back with the money we sold it for are we not mad as a people?

so heres my take on africa we are nothing but a farm out only reason for existing is to give the west resources and in exchange they allow some of us to migrate. its that simple we were never destined to grow this is reason while we cant get an independent and forward thinking leader cause that would jeaopardize the system in place😁

First solve your darkness issues before you go ask wetin them dey use Gas do...lol. ordinary power Nigeria has Remained in one spot for years without improvement

Analyst7:
Women most of the time are just Jokes, you will think she truly wants to punish the man for the act genuinely when we all know it’s just about the money, nothing else

I don’t even see how they’re setting a good moral ground for this men not to do these things when it’s always about the money

Someone intoxicated led her to a secluded place...lol. She is mad