Romance › Re: Tell Chat Gpt To Borrow You Money And Post The Response by louken(m): 7:20am On Jan 11, 2025 |
Epic responses. |
Romance › Re: To Single Guys Out There....choose Wisely by louken(m): 9:30pm On Jan 08, 2025 |
thesolutions: Among the rich, there are those who won't give you shishi. They will rather give it to a clean or rich guy outside. Among the poor, there are those who won't wash your clothes. They will rather drag you into village and compound fights.
There are good and bad in every one. Gospel truth |
Romance › Re: I Need Urgent Advice Over My Relationship by louken(m): 9:25pm On Jan 08, 2025 |
Lalami3232:
 Should we tell him? What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news Tell him. Help a brother. Love is still covering his eyes |
Family › Re: Married men: What's That One Thing You Learnt In Your Marriage by louken(m): 7:26pm On Jan 06, 2025 |
Importance of money can never be overemphasized. Forget what they told you about love. Get enough money and spend it generously on your family and you will have all the love you want |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Praying In Yoruba For His Fans At The Greater Lagos Concert by louken(m): 9:51am On Jan 06, 2025 |
IfyAwazie: Thought this guy get money but it's not really showing atal. .. So skinny.. You want him to develop potbelly in order to prove to you that he's rich |
Politics › Re: Kperogi Reverses Himself on Yorubanisation of NNPC by louken(m): 8:05am On Jan 05, 2025 |
Ethnicity and tribalism, those are our mumu buttons. Politicians have learnt how to press those buttons and they use them to control us like puppets. |
Crime › Re: Woman Murders Her Husband With Pestle In Niger State by louken(m): 9:06pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
SonofElElyonRet: Mr single mother hater, see the swollen face of single mother. How you take know say no be bro pound am like that? p.s. I'm against violence but don't give if you can't take She attacked and killed a man that was sleeping. That is not self defence. That's cold calculated murder. She will need all the luck in the whole world to get herself out of this case |
Family › Re: Lagos Man Celebrates Divorce From Wife With Christmas Party For Kids by louken(m): 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
1Sharon: Divorce is now to be celebrated? He couldn't keep his home like his fathers of old.
Ashewo dey his eye. He just wants to sleep around. Somebody wanted to jail you and seize your property and you are talking about ashewo. Apart from the divorce, the man has enough reason to celebrate |
Romance › Re: Need Marital Advice by louken(m): 1:30pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
Eyitayo29: This is very well noted
Thank you for sharing your experience.
If anything, I know I need to know myself more and be more assertive. My EX probably wouldn't have been an issue if I was also super confident and opinionated like she was. My brother, except a lady's natural temperament matches yours, or she is ready to make compromises, or you are willing to make compromises and sustain those compromises throughout your years of marriage, please step back and reconsider and possibly abort mission. If your purpose of learning assertiveness is to put yourself in a dominant position and make her to become humble and submissive, you might be in for a long bumpy ride. |
Romance › Re: Need Marital Advice by louken(m): 12:03pm On Dec 28, 2024 |
Eyitayo29: Thank you for your response.
Generally, I am just a very easy going and naturally empathetic person. I probably need to start learning Assertiveness fully now.
So, how my mum took it, basically his death was fully grieved by her for some years and she hasn't remarried ever since, although she had suitors but my elder sister was successful in kicking them away. But then, I am beyond grateful to her that she took up the challenge which made me what I am today and I have successfully retired her. However, up till tomorrow, she still try to give me "lessons" I should learn from my Father's passing. Not one good thing she says about him in our discussions. But me, even as a youngster, from my observation, I realized my mum was also a very opinionated and stubborn person, she still is even, but unlike my ex, she was expressive, hence the nags, arguments and fights, not silence. Sometimes, I believe my mum did a better job as a Mother than as a Wife. There's sincerity in your quest. From your analysis, it seems you took after your father in temperament. If you marry a very opinionated lady like your dad did, you will likely have a marriage similar to your dad's. You will have a wife who will be strong enough to carry on even in your absence. The downside is that you may not enjoy the softness most men crave in a woman. There will be endless power tussles. If I am in a distant marriage, I will prefer such woman. But if I will be living with her and be seeing her face everyday, I will run faraway from such woman. |
Romance › Re: How Exactly Is A Facebook Account Hacked? Explain To Us Step By Step by louken(m): 7:26am On Dec 27, 2024 |
This your question is questionable |
Crime › Re: Wife Sets Husband Ablaze In Ogun by louken(m): 3:26pm On Dec 23, 2024 |
FORWARDEVERLY: I don't feel pity for the animal Simp that was set ablaze .. The LovePeddler wife knows that he is a weakling hence she did it ..
Even in her dreams, fear no fit allow my wife to dream of such in her dreams... Dey play. Tell God not to allow you meat evil women |
Crime › Re: Wife Sets Husband Ablaze In Ogun by louken(m): 3:21pm On Dec 23, 2024 |
Carndidlaydid: Self-defense if you ask me You poured fuel and followed up with matches/lighter and call it self defence. Dey play. Someone that is under significant attack will not have enough time to pour fuel on someone and successfully light a match stick or lighter. Man was most likely asleep or resting without suspecting anything when this attack was carried out, or the woman got an accomplice that helped her perform the act. |
Phones › Re: Appeal Court Fines MTN N15 Million Over Unsolicited Messages by louken(m): 9:46pm On Dec 20, 2024 |
The fine is too small |
Crime › Re: Do Criminals And Yahoo Boys Have Conscience by louken(m): 10:25pm On Dec 19, 2024 |
Kobojunkie: What about your pastors and imams who equally scam their followers using the name of God out of their hard-earned money  Who told you he has pastors and imams |
Romance › Re: Why Do Caribbeans Like Only East African Girls by louken(m): 9:13am On Dec 15, 2024 |
How is this news important to us? |
Romance › Re: The Moment You Start Trading Memecoins. by louken(m): 9:24pm On Dec 13, 2024 |
Very serious message passed in a funny way. You said it well |
Politics › Re: Deji Adeyanju Stops Criticizing Peter Obi by louken(m): 10:28pm On Dec 10, 2024 |
He's playing another politics. Don't take him serious |
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop This Act?? (pics? by louken(m): 9:06pm On Dec 07, 2024 |
You are human so it's not unusual for your eyes/mind to stray once in a while even against your wish. Don't kill yourself over it. If you realize that your eyes/thoughts have started straying towards the direction you don't want, try to quickly bring them back. Focus on things that will distract you at that moment and before you know it, the thoughts will pass. Gaining perfect control of your sexual desires is a running battle. It will get better as you grow older. |
Food › Re: NAFDAC Enforces Ban On Alcoholic Beverages Below 200ml In Port Harcourt by louken(m): 8:18am On Dec 07, 2024 |
I don't understand the wisdom behind this ban, though I don't drink such. They are more concerned about the quantity of the bottled product than fighting fake/substandard product. So a manufacturer can package the same substandard product in bigger bottles and sell without hassles. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Break Up With This Married Woman by louken(m): 7:38am On Dec 03, 2024 |
There's no amount of nonsense one can't see on nairaland |
Crime › Re: RCCG Pastor Arrested Abroad For Greeting ‘ladies And Gentlemen’ — Adeboye by louken(m): 1:11pm On Dec 02, 2024 |
You are not a man and you are not a woman. Then what are you? I can't wait for trump to come in and start implementing some of his policies. |
Romance › Re: What Do We Call This Culture? (photos) by louken(m): 11:34am On Nov 30, 2024 |
Stupid and disgusting |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Syria Rebels Say They Reached Aleppo City In Surprise Sweep (Photos) by louken(m): 6:11am On Nov 30, 2024 |
Ok naa. I wonder who the overzealous Nigerians will support in this one. |
Romance › Re: Give Me Your Honest Opinions by louken(m): 12:29am On Nov 29, 2024 |
Go and do better thanksgiving. Thank God or whatever you believe in for revealing to you what you are about to jump into. You saw boiling water and want to put your head inside it.
It will burn you |
Foreign Affairs › Re: IDF Troops Reach Litani River In Lebanon For First Time In Decades(photos) by louken(m): 2:02pm On Nov 26, 2024*. Modified: 5:25pm On Nov 26, 2024 |
tundegan: The IDF should be ashamed of themselves. They are now celebrating invading another country and killing innocent people. When Hezbollah started sending rockets into Israel, not minding whether they were hitting civilian areas, your type hailed them, daring Israel to retaliate. Now Israel has started retaliating and you guys can't sleep well. Say no to war. Don't start what you can't finish. |
Crime › Re: Tricycle Operator Stabs Brother’s Wife In Anambra (Photos) by louken(m): 9:08am On Nov 16, 2024 |
The woman is definitely not a good woman but the man allowed anger to push him into doing what he's obviously regretting now. I live in a compound where children scratch my car with sharp objects. It's so annoying and frustrating. Some people will refuse to train their children well, leaving them to be constituting menace to their neighborhood |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Now That Trump Has Won, What Are Implications To FG And Nigeria? by louken(m): 7:57am On Nov 07, 2024 |
Asquare84: Triumph win means he will force Nigerian government to reduce the price of fuel to 200 naira per liters, price of rice will reduce because Triumph will stop the war in Ukraine, thereby prices of grain will reduce in Nigerian.  |
Romance › Re: Please Why Does Men Suffer More Emotionally After Divorce? by louken(m): 3:22pm On Nov 04, 2024 |
The person that has invested most and expected much from the marriage will feel more betrayed and disappointed |
Romance › Re: Please Why Does Men Suffer More Emotionally After Divorce? by louken(m): 3:20pm On Nov 04, 2024 |
Prettyangelng: Please why does men suffer more emotionally after divorce? Is it that they value their wives more after divorce? Who told you? How did you come up with that assumption? |
Romance › Re: What Can I Do To Make Sure A Man Love Me by louken(m): 8:23am On Nov 04, 2024 |
Dtruthspeaker: And never changes? See devil o. And go find a devil to "love" you. it is devils who "love" and never changes.  |
Romance › Re: Men Only: Would You Still Marry Her If This Happens? (Pics) by louken(m): 7:27am On Nov 04, 2024 |
I will |