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Mugabe get mouth to dey insult nigeria and kenya...his hypocrisy no b here o

bunmititi:
you cannot change the salary of the legislators now.
that will be like moving the goal posts during a fooball match!
some of them contested because of the salary and terms and conditions of service!
you cannot unilaterally change the condition of service just like that!
this rmfac should wait till 2019 before they can touch legislator salary!

Till 2019 ke...shoro niyen

owobokiri:
How did Nigeria as a country get to a stage where both in the federal and state levels, almost 80% of earnings go to recurrent expenditures? Who did this? Essentially governance is all about sharing and nothing else. Delta state governor taking 2 billion naira a month as security vote at a stage? Unbelievable

Asin ehn dis matter just taya me seriously

olu4life:
Yoruba culture clearly spelt it out for women that are married in the family.

Abeg OP e be like say u like trouble too. Its a Yoruba "thing", though not all families really cares about the brother/sister ish but all families expects the wives to respect the brother-inlaws and sister-inlaws. The way each family expresses theirs is different. Lemme tell u a small story.

My cousin got married to a lawyer. Though we didnt like her cos of her bossy attitude. She calls all the junior inlaws by name without anyone battling an eye. But she overdid it (details is much so lets skip that), then the MIL called a family meeting on her and warned her from that day not to call anyone by name again since she took advantage of the situation. Then she started calling us brother and sister but when elderly ones are not there, she will call us by our names, no brotehr or aunty. We just simply ignored it and moved on, never reported her. Not like its important to us so far she didnt pass her boundary.

Now the moral is that do it to stop a little disagreement turn to a huge fight.U dont have to call her aunty, find a nickname for her like "sisimi", trust me she will like it. Ignore those saying you shouldnt do it. A Yoruba woman/man wont advise you to do that cos they know the intensity of the issue. Good day

What intensity of the issue?? Na wetin dey kill us yorubas b dt...our hypocrisy stinks more dan persin wey dey sell fish...weda someone calls you aunty or sister or uncle o they are still gonna disrespect you simple....we shud learn to command respect without enforcing it...I think the young lady in question is married to a myopic woman dt instilled dsame backward trad on her young daughter who's also gonna get married...and for someone dt arrogant I doubt if she's gonna extend dt same courtesy to her own inlaws...I can't even try dt kinda shit wif my brother's wife or uncle's who are older dan I am...mumcy will just be like yua dt idle nw to have d energy to fight petty things...na to slap me or call family meeting on my rudeness...dose are yorubas born and bred.

Point is the enlightened yorubas know wen to ditch some bullshit dt are part of the so called culture while the ever myopic ones will fight for it. Young lady the day you call your sil aunty is the beginning of when she's gonna pour shit on ur face...simple!! Already told u to adopt a nickname but as for aunty she can shove it up her ass as for me if I were in ur shoes oshiko ara ata ma ra iru

uzernaim01:
Where?

I wud advise you go to your church...they always have people who are ready to listen and counsel you on this...make sure it's a woman

Go for counselling it helps

Give her a nickname or call her madam jokingly...personally if I was in your shoes I'll just laugh it of...some ladies dou na aunty she wan chop ni or u don piss her off before

Yeah right

Another hate thread filled with bigotry comments...don't you guys ever get tired and talk about something more enlightening

And this made fp

As if barcanista and his crew can say all dis slanders dey call criticism in front of the man...you aint brave until you face the person you hate the most head on for all I know you're just corwards hiding behind keyboards


OP I agree with you 100%...enough of all these baseless rants on the politics section...let's give the man and his vp a chance to work...no one was insulting GEJ when he resumed office in 2011 abeg

That much distance in an early marriage takes toll on the relationship between the hubby and the wifey....but what's my business...doesn't stop ppl frm doing it

Between 150-200

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Jambsupport:
Another dunce ready to take this up. I'm more concern about d build to d acclaimed rape than d definition. Keep ur opinion to urself.

Whatever the buildup maybe to dis story still doesn't justify rape..u saying there's nothing like rape in marriage is just MYOPIC marriage or not everyone has a right to their own body...a WIFE is meant to be a help mate/companion not a goddamn property!

Next time you wanna just talk or say ur opinion try something called THINKING and u knw next time you wanna called someone a DUNCE try looking at yourself in the mirror (YOU'RE THE BIGGEST ONE OF THEM ALL)

I do pray and hope u don't experience RAPE be it in your marriage or whatever you have going for you.

Jambsupport:
Stop all this definition search. Under what situation did that happened. To who and by who? If all she got to present is her husband raped her, thats no case.

I usually don't do this but am sorry yua just so unintelligent...sex without ur consent is RAPE weda yua married or not

Acidosis:
Lol

I used to share the same reasoning with OP until I realise success has no definition.

Whether you earn 20k or 150k, you'll always see a woman who would love you and ready to settle with you. I've come to realise no amount of money is ever enough.

Set your target at N200k/monthly, by the time you reach your target, the trickle down effect will affect your entire life such that you'll start buying perfume worth N50k. At that stage, you'll realise N200k is no longer enough to settle down... and the trend continues. Its basic economics- human wants are insatiable.

Telling a level '08 NSCDC officer or level '08 F.G Teacher of N27 years old to forget love and face hustling is like telling him to delay his offspring. Even if you hustle and sweat, you can't rise above the stipulated years for promotion.

The aforementioned principle applies to our everyday life; you just cannot run faster than destiny - it can only be delayed.

Also I think your write-up should be directed at students. A guy of 24+ should never forget love. If LOVE is a distraction, what do you call CLUBBING, WOMANISING, CHAMPIONS LEAGUE, Play Station, Android Tweaks, BBM, FACEBOOK?

I think its better to settle down with a reasonable lady and remain faithful. Those who miss it are those who spend carelessly to impress a thousand and random girls in exchange for s e x. Spending on 'A' lover shouldn't distract anyone. I don't know where some of you meet your girls, but I know there are reasonable ones out there who hardly make demands. In fact some don't ask!

If a young man can't find love, remember the destiny of your offspring lies in your hands! You wouldn't want to settle down with an o l o s h o at old age. Imagine driving your kids to Montessori academy at age 50 when your mates' are already playing with grand children around the house - all in the name of hustling as if we can make all the money in the world.

In summary, hard work pays but it doesn't pay everyone equally; likewise, relationship pays, but not all survive the accompanying impediments.

U too make sense...1BILLION LIKES!!!

de2oye:
I am a Yoruba man and I got married to an Ebira lady from Kogi state about six years ago. The marriage has been blessed with 2 sons. We lived happily together in the same city while my mother Inlaw lives in another part of the same city, as such we used to visit her together occasionally.

Sometimes last year, my wife told me she want to go and visit her mother Inlaw and I permitted her to go. Accidentally, I had a an unusual call from my office and I decided to branch and join my wife there since my office is just a stone throw from my Inlaw's place. I didn't inform my wife. As I got there, I requested for her phone to enable me make an important call since I've run out of power on mine. She was reluctant to release the phone and I could easily deduced that all is not well. That makes me go further and I to check her chat history. I was amazed and find it difficult that my wife of six years is having an affair with a much younger guy she's older than for at least five years. She started begging me that she can explain, explain what?. I was totally disappointed and confused, I left the place immediately and told her not to even bother coming to my own house again. The funniest thing was that I know this particular guy to be our Neighbour and he used to come to our house and I do give him money at times because he's a student. While all this was going on, the mother Inlaw was not around.

I decided to call her on phone and tell her what happened because the father inlaw was out of the country as at the time of the incidence. The woman pleaded that I should come back and I obliged, the first thing she did that really surprised me was that she started talking to her daughter in their local language known fully well that I don't understand a bit of it and both of them can speak both Yoruba and English fluently. What could she be telling her daughter after I showed her the chat history because I didn't release the phone since that's d only evidence I have against her. I was really angry and rose, I frankly told her that when she's ready to talk to me I will come back, she realized her mistake and refuse to allow me to go. I later left her there and decided to tell the father on phone. He pleaded that I should please allow her back into my house with d kids and I allowed them back only because of the innocent kids and the fact that I respected the man so much. Since then, we 'be never be in good terms again; I mean myself and the mother because she's not happy with the involvement of the father. I decided not to go to their house again except if the father is around.

About 2 months after, the father was around and he tried to settle the whole issue and I decided to let go. To worsen the situation, there was a particular day I went to their house on my way back from office, I was with my mother Inlaw and I asked about one of her relatives who was sick, the answer she gave me was that she didn't know his whereabout which I know she's lying and still keeping the malice. Since then I stopped going there and I have made up my mind not to ever visit her again. Kindly advise, I'm I wrong here?

If your wife of 5yrs truly truly cheated on you I don't think you'll find it that easy to welcome her back to your home regardless of whether you respect her father or not...that's why I feel this story is one-sided. I don't think it's advisable for everyone to be talking based on what the op said coz usually there are three sides to every story, his truth, her truth,and THE REAL TRUTH.

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holatin:
it was said by a PDP politician, Alhaji Lawal Kaita, omockri spread a rumour dat buhari said so, buhari later charged him to court but he plead and he made an apology on punch news paper

Thanks

holatin:
ow old are you, when did you start reading newspaper ?
Answer dat and I will tell you who made that statement and why abati was charged to court by buhari

Pardon me though but am actually curious to know whether buhari actually said he'll make jonathan's administration unbearable...tot him and atiku said dt wen dey were saying dere shudnt b rigging

mubarak001:
I was brainstorming on this hitch one sunny day before I shared it with my pals. I thought maybe it was the state of my dentition or another unveiled mystery.

Firstly, most gals I asked told mi it irritates them, some said that they can't stand saliva exchange...with that, I knw I'm nt d cause.

As if that was not enough, I thought I was the only person going through that ordeal until my pals confirmed we were soldiers of same struggle.

Pls, if you know the main reason most gals hate to kiss, feel free to share it. Mbok!

Around 3am u were thinking about this??...talk about misplaced priorities....hehehehe

tartar9:
christains and their obssession with this 72 virgins sha.yet another silly argument.why cant you all just take your heads off the so-called 72 virgins which i know have been debunked numerous times yet you wont stop bringing up the matter at any slight opportuinity.like youre already suffering from the toughts of a joyless heaven with eternity of trumpet blowing.

You've said it all my brother

truthman2012:
Our energy is not meant to be saved but used to expose falsehood and spread the truth.

Ooh okay goodluck while yua doing dt....hehehehe

truthman2012:
This your idea is actually what the Devil wants to happen. Many of the Apostles died for telling the Pharisees and Saducees their errors. They could have kept silent for peaceful relationship to exist.

Really amusing and here I tot d devil is gonna come or is yet to come to turn ppl away frm God or whatever his mission is....how is my idea in line with d devil's...using ones energy to build a better and peaceful future is what d devil wants ba.... really amusing and clueless...oh well am out...have fun with ur e-wars even dou we both knw yua wasting your energy and time

malvisguy212:
the bible say in the book of Romans10:14-15 :
'' 14 How, then, can they call on the one
they have not believed in? And how can
they believe in the one of whom they
have not heard? And how can they hear
without someone preaching to them? 15
And how can anyone preach unless they
are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful
are the feet of those who bring good
news!”

Isaiah says, “Lord, who
has believed our message?”the bible also say '', faith comes from hearing
the message, and the message is heard
through the word about Christ. But I
ask: Did they not hear? Of course they
did''

Honestly I find dis really amusing...how is ur quotes frm the bible in line with my statement...u just wanna change the line of tot but like I said save ur energy for d one dt is yet to come...

malvisguy212:
“For the Shahid in the Divine presence there
will be six qualities: [1] he will be forgiven
from the first moment his blood is spilled;
[2] he shall see his seat in Paradise and be
protected against the punishment of the
grave; [3] he shall be safe from the Greatest
Terror [the rising of the dead]; [4] he shall
be crowned with the diadem of dignity, one
ruby of which is worth more than the entire
world and its contents; [5] he shall be
coupled with SEVENTY -TWO spouses from the
wide-eyed maidens of Paradise; and [6] he
shall be granted to intercede for seventy of
his relatives.”
Musnad Ahmad ibn Hanbal , Sunan al-
Tirmidhi

Abu Sa`id al-Khudri said, Allah be well-
pleased with him: The Messenger of Allah
said, upon him blessings and peace: “The
humblest of the People of Paradise shall
have eighty thousand servants and SEVENTY
TWO WIVES. A palace of pearl and peridot(a:
A pale green variety of chrysolite; used as a
gemstone) and sapphire shall be erected for
him as wide as the distance between al-
Jabiya [a valley about 70 kms. East of
Makka] and San`a’ [in Yemen].”
Sunan al-Tirmidhi Vol. IV, ch. 21, hadith
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The haddith say seventy wives are the wives of does that go to hell, he inherited it from them and the two wives are the ones he got from paradise. What the different between this paradise and the hotel were prostitute live?

Thanks for posting it...but honestly I think religious e-wars are pointless....y'all shud save ur strength and use it to better the world around you and wait for the day of reckoning to come so we can find out how heaven or hell is like and what lies in dere waiting for us,who's gonna make heaven or hell we have no idea so why bug urself and others

Op please paste the hadith dt said this...am really curious to know

Guykhena:
This gotta be the best series finale I've seen in a while.
I was looking forward in seeing some kinda suspense/end credits scene in the end(marvel style ) ,but glad they made it clear its over..

Now that's outta the way, Nickelodeon get back to Zuko's Mother storyline,you just can't leave us in the dark

they already did the zuko's mother storyline...just download the avatar comics it shows how republic city was formed after the 100 year war and how zuko and azula went in search of their mother with aang, katara and sokka as their companions...the comic is still on going

please can someone post a link on where to download episode 11