Promomarlie:


If GOD blessed men with the power to carry children, I'll carry 6 with joy am happy you're talking from your mind set... You're pointlessly beating around the bush, it's better you continue sitting on your fence

E dey sweet to yarn dust carry 6 my ass!!!have you even felt 45 del of pain before.

“A human body can bear only up to 45 “DEL” (unit) of pain." “A mother feels up to 57 DEL of pain while giving birth which is equal to 20 bones getting fractured.”

Mumu story

Na people like u that sellers will sell something worth #40 to you as #1000 and u will gladly buy. There's no general price in d market better u haggle if not u will be left with nothing. Verizon that bought yahoo for $4.something billion u think they didn't price it well. I just dey look u abeg!

Ujoan:
So she installed a software and recorded her own calls? ?? Makes no sense.

I think you are not telling the whole story @ OP.

Looks like you (as per techie ) installed the app in her phone to monitor her calls without her knowledge. Makes me wonder what you are really about! !

You just said my mind o...her actions defiles all logic and the way op is painting himself like a saint and his wife a jezebel. No ones turns into a witch just like that...someone who stood by you and u dated for years. Even if she's up to no good why record the calls.

What's even more disappointing is people not thinking through the whole story, dem don judge,crucify d woman finish e remain burial. Imagine having to go through series of pages on this thread before i could see reasonable comment. Is naija situation so bad dt ppl don't look deeper into things again.

Op you're not a good person. Say the whole truth, noone changes overnight!

Make she dey dere make pant dey wear her. A home can be broken whether the two parties are present or not if you're really thinking about ur kids you wud have left a long tym ago. Let people share their stories about how their mothers/fathers trained them well while being single.

She dey stay for money con dey turn motivational speaker to garner pity to her side abeg swerve pls

Women also cheat too coz d men aren't sleeping with themselves unless there's something you men aint telling us

byvan03:
Only unfaithful married men die in hotels, am yet to see a single man die after the romp. Is that karma or what?

Here we go again is it dt those women complained to u and toks coz me i no understand again o

lezz:
You're absolutely correct!!!

Sex and cheating are purely subjective in opinion and morality, and if any blame should doled out, in my opinion, I think men should carry more of the responsibility.


It takes two to cheat and men are often the initiators.

'sides, sex has become so well-worn everyone one knows the likely fallout.

Thank you my brother...please kindly dt to d op hopefully he won't label you a feminist. Have a goodnight

postmann:
Oh, contrary views are always respected. You blind hypocrite.
The guy you mentioned God&Gold held a contrary view. He was civilized and gentlemanly and I accorded him all the respect a civilized response deserve. But for you and the divergent and other feminists, I just served you with the dirty plates you brought to this thread.

Oh, feminist is a negative word.
This post is my effort with sound research. And I expected contrary views and I'm well poised to answer them.

But first, I need to rid this thread off comprehension deficient lesbians and angry emotional-wrecked feminists.

Smh! I don't even know why i bothered do enjoy your angry-bitter filled life. Hopefully you'll find inner peace and joy in the end.

lezz:
Actually, you're the one with the grammar -blemish.

Divergent is actually an adjective but when preceded by the definite Article, " The" it becomes an adjectival noun.

So foolish or dead are both adjectives but when you add the definite article, e.g , The dead or The foolish it becomes an adjectival Noun.

But let us dispense with this grammar correctness.

Tell me your views on the topic.

Personally, I think _fuck is a matter of subjective morality and not gender based.

Thanks for the correction. My own view on cheating is "anyone doing it should be responsible for the consequences that comes with it and not put blame on any gender". Also guys shudnt feel ladies cheating is some sort of taboo while over-looking theirs. One needs to be fair in their perspectives rather than accomodate double standards. My 2kobo!

postmann:



I see you're suffering my lexical intimidation. The Divergent is grammatically correct if only you are clever enough during your days of schooling. You should have known the article "the" qualifies that adjective to be used as a noun.

Now you've failed your bunch of recalcitrant feminists woefully.

The content of my post is too serious for you to ignore and start finding holes in my grammar.
Now you'll go to bed in shame.

There are ready made replies to give the Divergent and all other recalcitrant feminists who will be bold enough to stand in her place.

Using vocabs doesn't make u smart u hear! Am not suffering from intimidation but you are. Your defensiveness will build and build till u burst open one day. There's no standing in her place coz deres no place to begin with. You brought your post to an open forum so u shud be smart enuf to accomodate criticism and contrary views on it. And you talk about your views in a civil manner rather curl and hide behind unnecessary vocabs, and name tagging. So anyone dt has contrary view on ur post is now a feminist ehn. You make it sound like it's a bad thing. Atleast they are fighting for a cause but then again i don't expect you to understand since u feel the freedom women are enjoying is "ungodly". Am out!

postmann:

*modified:
Less I forgot, this post by its content generates different reactions from different kinds of women.

The humble
The recalcitrant feminist
And the potential adulteress/sexually rascal woman

By thier reactions/replies you know which category they belong.
Of which category are you, dear lovaleenny?.

I hope you can also use huge english terms for ur fellow men that feel they can shove their tiny pees pees inside every skirt they see. Her post wasn't feminist, her post was stating the obvious fact that the consequences of "Cheating" isn't weighting more on the female gender but both. And every individual will face the consequences of their actions. But u didn't read it did you? Coz ur mind was focused on "Lesbiangirl" and you automatically thought she didn't say any tangible and scoffed by calling her lezzie and feminist.

Before i go..i leave u with one advice; "remove the log from your eyes before you point at someone else's"

postmann:
Have you come to stand in for her? I mean the Divergent.
If so, let me know.
There are enough replies to go round.

First of all there's no such thing as "the divergent"...it aint a noun, it's meant to be used in adjective form mr. postman and quit the ego thing going on with "my reply this, my reply that". One can always spot the defensiveness going on with you. You don't have any reply you're only hiding behind your wrong use of diction rather than face the fact that your post reeks of chauvinism, double standards and irrational perspective towards cheating in genders am out!

postmann:

You have no moral right to be on my thread. It's for heterosexuals. You're here on a free ticket.
By no means have you earned the right to make any inputs.
Your literal comprehension was found wanting by your earliest submission. That alone puts you up as a handicap in need of intellectual aid/support. You're not literate enough to comprehend my lexical dexterity.

Then again, you are a divergent being, who has been carried off by an evil wind to a land of identity disorder.

For pride's sake, Postman can never be seen or heard arguing over societal issues with you; A societal virulent disease is best left sequestered.

Now since you can't meet my conditions, take the humble walk down the part where the morally degenerates go. You're boring!!!

You ended saying soo much without actually saying anything tangible . I read her reply towards your post and GodnGold's reply too and i quite agree with them. If u had any other contrary opinion just say it and you both should trash it out rather than dance and beat around the bush with huge vocabulary words that aren't called for. All these men (sorry boys) that are so full of themselves one would think they should have choked on it by now K9blunt was right: Grow up son!

kestolove95:
Really d guy needs help..but ur english need more help than dat boi..

ko da o

Nathe11:
the only reason am not super angry I opened this thread is coz of sm1's signature that said "Dating a skinny girl is fun until breeze blows her out of
the relationship."-lol

who said dt??

Tpappie:



Sooner, you will be married to Jesus... Iranu...

Oshey!like u know me or how i live my life...take several seats

XBLadez:

Stop showing off your useless, frustrated life on the internet. I am for peace and unity within the family circle. [b]And intruders/spoilers should be poisoned to death. [/b]Hang yourself to death if you don't like my advice.

First poison urself ehn...you'll be doing the world a HUGE favour

Watched dt video before...damn cudnt stomach d violence and people just stood dere

XBLadez:

In your own case, sense is not only far from you but your head is an empty, fragile shell! The did has been done and there's no going back on it. Thankfully, the father has come back to his senses and is willing to reunite with his family again. Ours is to mold and not to destroy, hence we advice for resolution because there's nothing stronger than family bond.

Says the idiot that told her to poison any other lady he tries to sleep with...easy for u to sprue trash up and down coz u aint in d lady shoes or d mom's...easy for u to tell d op her mum wasn't strong enuf forgetting d woman might have prayed and fasted...easy for u to say she shud poison somebody...someone is asking advice on how to forgive and get over to hurt yua here opening ur mouth jaaaa dt her mom's is dis and dt...slowpoke shior

XBLadez:
That's the power of pvssy laced with juju from Ibadan.
It's true your father was a womanizer but his inconsistency shows he was jazzed too. Your mom too wasn't a strong woman. She left when she ought to have stood up for her man. The man who bought her a car as a sign of reconciliation after many years of domestic squabbles. Your mom messed up big time and you must not follow her stead. [/b]You have to forgive your dad now that he has finally come back to his senses.
Forgive him, try to reconcile him with your mom and, [b]most importantly, poison any lady who tries to separate you again.

So a strong woman is a woman dt stays with a chronic cheat, humiliated her by sleeping with her cousin ba? So buying a car will erase all what he has done ba? I swear sense is far from you

Dear op first of all ur mum is a strong woman for leaving dt sham of a marriage. Secondly i completely understand where yua coming...take it from me i had similar experience and the only way to let go of d pain is to discover yourself and what you want in life, inculcate positive vibes and try to learn from ur parents mistake, and live a life totally better and different from theirs, the more u concentrate on urself u will find inner peace and mostly u will heal from all d hurt and pain and at dt moment u will find urself forgiving ur father.

To forgive is easy but to heal from the pain is what's hard...you'll be fine trust me on dt.

i concur

Yimu

paranoiapill:
Ik Osakioduwa who is featured on the cover of Genevieve Magazine’s latest issue, made this comment...

On being a traditional male provider: I used to tell my wife that my vision is way too big to be intimidated by anything she could ever dream of. If she wanted to own a country, that’s alright because I’ll own continents. Her owning a country does not intimidate me because I was brought up to buy continents in order to give her the country she wants.

I was brought up to know that a guy should be responsible for his family. I am very traditional and I believe I should do the business of running the family. This is probably going to offend readers but if the husband and wife have to depend on both their salaries to run the family, then they are living above their means. A woman’s money is welcome to the progress and wellbeing of the family but if she is not allowed to quit her job because her money is part of the school fees and rent, then they are living above their means.

A woman should reserve the right to quit her job to care for her kids because in this day, stay-at-home mums are the biggest heroes out there. My wife earns a lot of money but I pay the bills because that is how I was brought up. Her money is to buy the Louboutin shoes that I may not be able to afford in the midst of paying the bills. She can contribute to the bills but I would never require it of her. Guys should step up and deliver their responsibilities and stop requiring half from the woman.

http://www.bellanaija.com/2016/02/if-the-boy-she-is-dating-has-not-put-a-ring-on-her-finger-she-is-fair-game-for-anyone-to-toast-ik-osakioduwa/

I love this...do wish more ppl can commend stay at home moms often...it's not easy...

MR IK some men don't share ur views o...they want

bills: horseband 50% wife 50%
Chores: horseband 0% wife 100%
Cooking: horseband 0% wife 100%
Taking care of children: horseband 0% wife 100%
Side boos: horseband 100% wife 0%

awon oloshi...Olorun maje ka fe agbako okunrin shior!

Nigerians and their ever-need to be divided

kuradge:
I saw this woman on my way to church, she started asking some funny questions like if I have a wife and all that. I did not answer her, she then started following me till I was able to run away.

And men are just bowls of rainbows,peaches and everything nice huh

baby124:
Your story is very silly. I won't even waste time responding to this. You had so many opportunities to run, yet you keep enduring. Even resigning your job. You must be a comedian with this post. By the way, your husband might be bi-polar. Since you have decided to die there, it's probably in your best interest to generally avoid him. Goodluck to you sha.

You just said everything on my mind...best comment so far

She's cute but no where in the bible verse given does it show the meaning of Jemima.

greatness22:
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these?

You shouldn't blame the men o but blame the women who allowed society to walk all over dem and dictate which is which...ever wonder why they say "there's no difference between the bully and the victim"...the day women stop allowing themselves to be victimized is the day they'll start enjoying the much needed emancipation.

We read countless of thread about women suffering alot in marriage when they know they can walk out if only they stop being a victim. Last two months an old thread resurfaced abt a woman who was married to a man who's a sex addict...after reasonable people advised her to leave while she still can...atleast to clear her head and figure things out she still didn't listen...now the update was she got infected with std...i saw it and i wasn't gonna give her my sympathy. As u lay ur bed kindly lie on it.

There are women who actually know what they want plus also know their worth and are wise in choosing a life partner and they are enjoying their marriage till date...whoever is telling a woman that she can't remarry after having kids is living in fool's paradise coz divorcees marry so where they get their facts beats me.

Point is: blame the women; they are the ones who forgot to raise their sons well but concentrated so much on their daughters; they are the ones who will advise their fellow women to stay in abusive marriage and with cheating horseband all in the name of not allowing anoda woman snatch ur man;please if person buy clothes and along the line it turned to filth wouldn't u stop wearing it and throw it away rather than walk the rest of ur life in filthy clothes or better still let someone else take it coz it sure won't do u good.

Am still gonna say it i will rather live a life of peace of mind and comfortability alone than stay in a broken marriage where ur partner doesn't respect u or give u the necessary dignity. Women should go where they are wanted, they should stop being a victim and take responsibility for their actions,stop allowing men walk all over you,know ur worth,stop blaming the men,and lastly find inner peace within yourself.

My 2kobo!

Saved my mum's number as her name "Olusola"
Saved my dad's number as his name "Kolawole"

Simple and straight forward

All these humiliation coz of camry pencil