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Toks2008:
Im sorry but i stand challenged that you are not what you just claimed.

Else i would say your hubby is really tolerating you because i checked your comments on this thread alone and one perculiar similarity i observed is the way you lash out and curse people all in the name of discussing issues.

Im not a cheat and i am not promoting cheating but it is also a fact that men will cheat if they want to and divorcing a cheating hubby is never the solution because trust me,there is no guaranty that the next 5men toke will meet after divorce will not do worse.

Sometimes you need maturity to deal with issues of life and not just flimsy mouthing...

If 8 out of 10 guys will cheat on their ladies is it wise to start looking for faithful men about? if i were a married lady,i would rather focus on building my life and that of my kids rather than stressing myself over a cheating hubby.

As long as he does not do it to my face,he uses protection and still treats me like the main wioman abeg wats the fuss about.

There is more to life than a woman hinging her happiness on the fidelity of her hubby.

On the final note,dont ever vouch for anyman ...yes i love your positive spirit vut i will advice u zero your mind so if he ever cheats on you,you wiould have been emotionally prepared for it.

I will stop here.

cheeketo:
I do not know which section to put this, pls bear with my long story in advance. It happened that my next door neighbor has fixed her wedding for 19th of December and everything has been going on well in terms of preparation. the groom- to- be called her on Saturday to come to his parents house, where she saw that most of the groom's older siblings and some extended family and his parents were present. she said she notice some talking in an undertone and later the guy called her for a talk out side. she got the shocker of her life when the guy said someone is threatening to stop the wedding. so the guy explained that there is this 40yr old lady in his local church (guy is 33yrs) who called on him to drive her when she just got a car, about a year ago, the lady in question is a lawyer. fast forward to last week wen the groom decides to give his church members his wedding invitation card, this lady came out that the wedding wont take place as the groom has already promised to marry her, the groom denied that there was no such agreement between them, that they were just friends and he sees the lady as a big sister. the lady is making a big issue of the story and has in fact reported the groom to church authority that the groom had carnal knowledge of her. she claimed to have rented an apartment with guy and has furnished the kitchen, but the bride-to-be said she and her boo went to see the landlord of the house when they paid, that the landlord even agreed to rent the house to them because she and the landlord are from the same town, d bride also claim that she was still in the apartment two weeks ago and she didn't see any furnished kitchen, it is there plan to have the groom furnish the parlor and the bedrooms then the bride will take care of the kitchen.
on further investigation however, the bride gathered that the impostor really did pass night in the house they rented, that the impostor bought just an electric kettle she saw in the kitchen on her last visit to the house, and that the groom has actually been sexting the impostor, but that he has never had a penetrative intimacy with the impostor. all this the groom confessed to the bride after a long talk. but the groom insisted that he at no time promised to marry the impostor.(groom and bride are in a no s3x relationship). my neighbor has been in turmoil since Saturday refusing to be consoled, she is contemplating calling off the wedding but at the same time considering the fact that the wedding is less than 3 weeks, what will she tell her parents and everybody, she said she will die of shame as many tongues will wag. what should she do?

torddy4u:
my Frndz is getting worried over the issue of his wife always complaining about his younger sister staying with to baby sit, some time when is exhausted after work n always harsh on her on every little issue that she might have overlooked if she was her own younger sister.
she goes to work leaving a baby of 6month n d man sister do all the domestics, when comes back she will just smile at the baby n ly down n start pressing phone. that is to say that the girl will be working from morning till nite no rest. d girl has been the one that prepare food for the husband.... need advice for to be able to handle this issue

Stillfire:
Jesus Christ! This is some serious insecurity and low self-esteem issues.

Gracebegatme:
Sometimes ago, i heard dowry is the money paid by a woman(the wife) to a man(the husband) while bride price is the money paid by the husband to the wife's family.Nairalanders how true is this?

mfaaoo01:
I am young lady in her twenties and currently dating a guy who is 9 years older than i am. we have been in the relationship for sometime now. Although, normally he is not really my kind of guy but , i love the fact that he is a good person and also very matured. He is not the kind that drinks or womanizes, goes about his job in a quite manner. i never really cared that he was not the outgoing type and funny type but all the same i loved the fact that he is a reserved person. Myself on the other hand, I am the outgoing type, have a lot of friends who are age mates, loves to catch fun etc. I have friends in which their boyfriends takes us all out, buys us things etc, on the other hand, my boyfriend doesn't do any of those things , and anytime i try to tell him, he doesn't seem to get it. Also he doesn't go out of his way to do things for me. i see my friends in their relationships and wish mine was like that, i cant tell him exactly what the issue is, cause i don't want him to misinterpret me.
Now i feel, because he is quite older than me, he doesn't seem to understand what girls my age want.
Am I wrong?

Onegai:
I could hug your mum, I wish mine had been courageous instead of what ended up happening. And we are all still living with the consequences of a selfish man, almost 20 years after his death. If only people could see the damage of staying in a bad marriage the effect on kids, there's always going to be damage. Just decide which one can be patched up better.

MadCow1:
So many contradictory points in that article.


Lessons I learnt after losing my Virginity; Sex isn't all it's crapped up to be. just fhuck and stop treating sex like it's all you are worth and your dignity is hinged on it.

DeRay98:
From your profile you look like a senior teenager and your comment typifies that assertion. Teenagers or teenagers at heart always assume that they know all. The moment they start to hear about an idea or issue or topic they assume it's new and they are well informed on it.
Your insufficient comprehension of the advice is evidenced when you overlook the fact that the mother said she dared her husband and that brought out the monster in him and it happened just once. Who knows how your mum treated your father regularly? You can come here to say she did heavy and earth for him but you won't say the things she did wrongly.
You had better learn the right lessons now otherwise, when your heart starts to pant after a guy you think is prince-sharming(whatever your criteria) you might end up with the wrong guy and your parents history repeats itself.
Be forget your teenage mentality and learn those who have experience to share.

angels09:
Please work on that your vaginal discharge