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See This 5 Benefits Of Kissing + Top 10 Reasons To Kiss? #3 And #7 will shock you?

I’ll admit it, I have a beautiful professionally framed copy of “The Kiss” by Gustav Klimt hanging in my home. I was fortunate to travel a lot while growing up, and I spent a lot of time in museums. For some reason, I became fascinated with seeing paintings of people kissing.
Was it something that people did everywhere?I began to notice how open to PDA people were country to country in their kissing. I couldn’t stop watching.
By junior high, I remember asking my friends how often they saw their parents kissing and was surprised many said never.

See, I loved seeing my parents kiss each other: It made them seem more real to me. I didn’t realize at the time, but there are actual Kiss Scientists who study kissing. They are called Philematologists and they have discovered a wide range of benefits of kissing such as:

1. Kissing lowers stress.

It decreases the stress hormone cortisol and increases serotonin levels in the brain. Kissing has also been measured to lower anxiety and has similar benefits to meditation.

Kissing makes us happier .
It improves our mood by increasing endorphins, which are our feel-good hormones.
“Happiness is like a kiss – it feels best when you give it to someone else.”

3. Kissing keeps us healthy.

It improves our immunity by releasing antibodies that kill bacteria. And kissing helps us prevent cavities by increasing saliva that washes our teeth. It has also been shown that our saliva secretes natural antibiotics when we kiss.

“Never a lip is curved with pain?That can’t be kissed into smile again.”?

4. Kissing calms us down and promotes pleasure.

It increases levels of oxytocin otherwise known as the “love hormone” which calms us.
Kissing also reduces pain through our saliva which contains a kind of anesthetic and increases pleasure by releasing dopamine.

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“Your hugs and kisses are like the stars that light up my life when things get dark.” –

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5. Kissing strengthens our relationships.

It promotes togetherness and couples who kiss regularly live five years longer than those who don’t.

“A kiss seals two souls for a moment in time.”

Top 10 Reasons To Kiss List:

Lowers blood pressure
Decreases cortisol stress hormone
Increases seratonin
Reduces pain
Increases oxytocin
Improves immunity
Fights off cavities
Increases dopamine
Improves mood
Lowers anxiety
There are plenty more benefits to kissing…but I am guessing that you already have your favorite reasons. What’s my favorite kissing moment, you ask? When you can feel your partner smiling as you kiss each other. Kissing makes us smile more!
Love yourself, love your day, love your life! Silvia

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See This 5 Benefits Of Kissing + Top 10 Reasons To Kiss? #3 And #7 will shock you?

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Can someone Please tell me what the heck is Cynthia Morgan wearing? Bae stepped into a club in this outfit last night. According to her, she was looking fly as Bleep but she literally set her IG page on fire when she shared a pic. See more below..

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5 Questions You NEED To Ask Before Staying “Friends” With Your ex – Must Read


Are you holding on to a friendship that doesn’t actually exist?

I’ll go proper forward and say it: I’m not a fan of staying buddies along with your ex. I always recommend a clean break. Unless you’re co-parenting, have a business together, or some other form of commitment to one another outside of your romantic relationship, you should just let your exes go.
I do understand that in some cases your ex is a wonderful person who you cherish and that letting go of the friendship you have together is really hard. You may fancy yourself a friendly person and believe that you can still add value to each others’ lives, even without the romantic attachment.

While in some rare cases this is true, for most, a friendship with your ex keeps a door open to a possible reconnection. Opposite-sex friendships are complex enough. Having to maintain a friendship with someone who you’ve been emotionally and physically connected to just makes it more complicated.

If you’ve recently gotten into a new relationship (or are generally considering keeping an ex as a friend), you may want to ask yourself the questions below to figure out if you really are “just friends.”

1. Does The Ex Still Give You Butterflies?

Let’s start with the basics. You know the feeling you get when someone texts you and you get excited? Or when you see someone who you haven’t seen in a while? That feeling of butterflies in your stomach or your heart sinking into your chest? Or how about when you have that feeling of attraction to someone that just physically pulls you to them?

If you’re still having those physical sensations towards your ex, you are not just friends.

2. How Authentic Are You In Your Friendship With The Ex?

You know how, when you talk to a friend, you give them the low down on your life? When you share with them authentically, nothing is off topic.

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So ask yourself. Do you share with your ex the same way that you share with your friends or do you omit some details? Are you omitting details because you’re being sensitive to their feelings or because you feel guilty?

If you’re not authentically sharing your life with an ex, they’re not your friend.

3. Would You Introduce Your Ex To Your Current Partner?

This one is a biggie. All of my real friends have met my partner. We go to friends’ birthday parties together or we’ll meet out for drinks because, again, when you’re authentic about your life, there’s nothing to hide.

If you don’t think you can introduce your current partner to an ex who you consider a friend, you and the ex are not just friends.

4. Is The Ex Your Back Up Plan?

Is there some part of you that considers your ex a plan B? We all have that person who we know is always an option. Maybe you’re keeping your options open just in case.

If that is the case, you and the ex are not just friends. If there’s even a glimmer of hope that you could one day rekindle your relationship, they’re not your friend. They’re a distraction.

5. Do You And Your Ex Behave As Friends?

When you move on, are they genuinely happy for you? Are you happy for them when they meet someone new? When you do share with them about someone new, do they get emotional, angry or defensive? Can you depend on their support for you? Is the relationship one sided? If you got drunk would you sleep with them? If they got married would you attend the wedding?

Everyone’s definition of friendship is different. After all, Facebook has given a whole new meaning to the term and you can now be “friends” with a total stranger. But to me, friendship means that you are there for one another, honest with one another and share in each other’s life.

Source: Yourtango.com

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The abs on Former Super Falcons star, Chichi Igbo is everything. See more new photos.

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There were chaotic scenes in the Japanese parliament yesterday as politicians punched, pushed and shoved one another during the hearing of a bill that could see the country abandon 70 years of pacifism.

Opposition lawmakers piled on top of one another during the mass brawl, with some trying to grab the committee chairman’s microphone to prevent him calling a vote on the controversial bill. If passed, the bill will allow Japanese troops to defend their allies oversees even if Japan itself isn’t under attack.

Currently article nine of Japan’s constitution – which came into force after the Second World War – outlaws war as a means to settle international disputes involving the state. See more pics of the grown men fighting below.

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WANT TO KEEP YOUR SEX LIFE ON A HIGH ALL THE TIME? USE THESE 15 TIPS ON HOW TO SATISFY A WOMAN IN BED AND YOU’LL KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO KEEP IT EXCITING.

Satisfying a woman in bed isn’t an art. Its action and all it takes is a deeper understanding of your partner and her needs.

As long as you put your partner’s sexual needs ahead of yours, and remember to keep sex fresh, your sex life will stay exciting and alive for a long time to come.

Read: How to get a girl Hot just by sitting next to her

How to satisfy a woman in bed

You may have heard this before, but the most powerful sexual organ humans have isn’t in our underpants. It’s in our head.

More than anything else in your body, it’s your brain that plays the most important role in great sex.

If your mind is convinced that you’re having awesome sex, big chances are, every other part of your body will follow suit too.

To truly have amazing sex and satisfy your woman in bed, you need to learn to make her mind enjoy the things you do in bed.

Get that right, and she’ll surely be satisfied and more.

Emotional and sexual satisfaction

Sexual satisfaction depends a lot on emotional intimacy.

After all, two people can get together and have great sex for a while. But very soon, boredom will set in and the excitement of passionate sex will start to dwindle and fizzle in no time.

But if you know how to satisfy a girl emotionally, you’ll build a better relationship that’s emotionally stronger and make sex feel a lot more intimate and better in the long term.

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How to satisfy a woman in bed in 15 ways

Men get sexually aroused extremely fast and can lose the erection really fast too. But a woman, she takes her time to get aroused, and when she does get aroused, she stays aroused for a long time.

Use these 15 tips to satisfy a woman in bed and make her want more of you, even if you’ve been in the same relationship for a very long time.

1. Go down on her. If all else fails, this usually succeeds. If you’re having a hard time getting your woman warmed up for the act, just go down on her and spend a gentle while down there. Almost always, this would help build the momentum for a great night ahead.

2. Take time during pre-intimacy. Most men hurry the pre-intimacy bit without any consideration for the woman they’re with. Just because you’re up and ready doesn’t mean your woman is ready too. Take your time before penetration, and both of you will enjoy sex a lot more.

3. Remember her erogenous zones. The typical erogenous zones in a woman are several, going from the back of her neck, her ears, and all the way to her knees and her toes. But each woman has a few special sweet spots that switch the button on instantly.

Kiss and nibble the entire length of her body and make sure you remember the zones that excite her more than the others. It’ll always come in handy the next time you want to arouse her faster.

4. Don’t roll over and sleep. Falling asleep immediately after sex is a good sign because it means you’re secure enough in the relationship to just enjoy the relaxing after-sex sensation without having to worry about awkward moments.

But there’s a thin line between being secure and taking your woman for granted. Cuddle up after sex or indulge in pillow talk for a while. Or just fall asleep in each other’s arms.


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5. Your hygiene matters. Looking good for your woman makes a huge difference in the experience she has in bed. After all, a better looking partner is more of a turn on, isn’t it? But you need to remember that looking good doesn’t just mean a six pack abs.

Have a shower if you’re making love at the end of a long day, and keep all those hairy regions clean and trimmed. Smell great and feel great in bed, and your woman will definitely have a hard time keeping her hands off of you!

6. Kiss and tell. Women have an active imagination and tend to rely on feelings more than visual appearances. If you want to turn your woman on and satisfy her in bed, arouse her mind by using the right words. Whisper sweet nothings in her ears or talk about her favorite fantasies. As long as you excite her mind with your seductive words, she’ll have an orgasm that’ll grip you hard down there.

7. Don’t be selfish. If you want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed, this is as simple as it gets. Put your woman’s needs in bed before yours. Understand her preferences in bed, be it about the dim lighting or the right side of the bed, and make sure she’s feeling comfortable enough to enjoy having sex without any insecurities or awkwardness.

8. Experiment all the time. The most boring of sexual relationships are the ones where the couples just do the missionary and don’t experiment at all, be it about positions or about dirty conversations. If you want to do more than just satisfy your woman in bed, try new things all the time. If you feel like a particular sex fantasy or a particular position is starting to get monotonous, freshen things up by trying something new.

9. The right compliments. Women love appreciation in bed. It makes them shed their inhibitions more easily and gets them to experiment in bed sooner. When you’re naked in bed with your woman and find something fascinating about her, make sure you share the thought with your woman. She’ll feel better about herself and her new sexual confidence will definitely lead to better sex.

10. Trigger zones and fantasies. Do you have any fantasies that make you hard as soon as you think about it? Well, girls have their own trigger fantasies too. For some girls, it’s a sexual fantasy while for others, it may be an erogenous zone.

Speak to your woman and find out what turns her on instantly. It’ll play a big part in turning her on, and at times, it can help her orgasm sooner when you can’t hold on for too long.

11. Play with her body. Just because you’re inside of her doesn’t mean you should stop focusing on the rest of her. Play with her body and move your hands all over her. Massage her, stroke her and grab her all over. It’ll turn your girl on a lot more than just focusing on the missionary.

12. Refresh sex all the time. The primary reason why sex starts to get boring is because it can get rather repetitive after a while. The typical pre-intimacy-followed-by-missionary-position sex may be the most comfortable of all positions and it may feel intimate too, but every now and then, try something new just to bring a change into your bedroom.

Try role playing, dirty talking or a few sexy games in bed. Just when sex starts to get predictable, bring an interesting twist into it. By refreshing sex all the time, you can make each time you make love with your woman feel like a one night stand!

13. Bite, lick and suck. Kissing is sensual and romantic. But don’t stop there. Let her feel your passion when you bite her and tongue her body. And here’s something to remember, a good love bite in the strategic regions will still feel just as passionate to a woman even after several years of going out with each other.

14. Be outrageous. Sex gets sexier the more wild and outrageous it feels. If you want to satisfy your woman, learn to get risqué with your actions. Do something bold now and then, and sex will feel a lot more exciting. Have sex near an open window, use blindfolds, grope each other on a dark dance floor… The wilder your thoughts and actions, the sexier the sex will be.

15. Her orgasm first. The last tip to satisfy your woman is only the most important one. The perfect orgasm is the high point of lovemaking. And if you orgasm before her, it’s almost certain that she’ll have to make do without an orgasm. Control your erection better and learn to hold on for longer, so you can satisfy your woman completely before you orgasm.

Keeping a woman happy sexually isn’t really hard, just as long as you remember these 15 tips on how to satisfy a woman in bed. Remember these and your girl will definitely be more than just happy with your bedroom capabilities.


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Police attempt to sabotage autopsy Of murder of late Benson Obode by some policemen – Family Cries Out

The family of late Benson Obode, a car dealer who was allegedly murdered by some policemen few months ago in Benin city have raised alarm over alleged attempt by the Edo State Police Command to sabotage the planned autopsy to be conducted on the deceased.

Reports says that spokesperson for the deceased family, Mr. Solomon Obode also presented documents of suspected policeman who allegedly used the ATM card of the deceased to withdraw his money.

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How To Satisfy A Woman If You Have A Small Penis

When it comes to sex, many are the men who think a big phallus is what it takes to satisfy a woman and so you find them running “helter skelter” in search of all types of medicines to enlarge their member, but truth be told, that’s not really necessary to a woman.

To a woman, if you’re able to make her achieve that orgasm every time and anytime even with your finger or tongue, that’s enough. If that hadn’t been the case, women will not have had lesbian partners, do lesbian partners have a “ding dong?” Nope! but yet they are able to satisfy each other.

Before we can go on to elaborate on this topic, we first of all need to establish and understand what a small penis is. If you’re between 1 – 4 inches when erect, you’re small in size, between 5-8 inches, you’re average, between 8 – 13 inches, you’re enormous, that’s the monster penis right there and only prostitutes will love that one, because most women will not spend the rest of their lives living by this kind of penis, if you don’t believe us, you can ask Falcon (The man with the 13 inches penis)

As a man, what you need to focus on is how to satisfy the woman and not the size you have. So if you’re not blessed in the department of “Bambara Bura Matari” then don’t be downtrodden by those with the bigger ones, because to a woman, you’re a king if you are able to make her ‘cum’ all the time.

So without much ado, here are 8 tips on how to satisfy a woman if you’re not blessed with a big penis.

TIP #1: MASTER CUNNILINGUS

Many men always think about penetration when it comes to sex but that’s not all it’s needed to a woman. If you’re good at using your tongue, she equally gets satisfied. And so if you know you don’t have a big penis, concentrate on mastering the use of your tongue to please her and when you become a master at this, she’s surely going to worship you probably more than a man who has a very big penis. You should know that, even midgets have beautiful women, ever wondered what they really do that makes women adore them so much? Yeah! You got it right.

TIP #2: MASTER pre-intimacy

When it comes to sex, pre-intimacy is paramount to a woman, so if you take your time to caress and cuddle her to the point of orgasm, you will not need much effort by the time you decide to penetrate and when she’s on that height, she doesn’t care whether your penis is small or not, everything in there feels good, even when it’s flaccid.

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TIP #3: GO FOR DOGGY STYLE

A woman’s vagina is just 3-4 inches in length and the only time you can really tell is when she’s in a doggystyle position. Women usually feel the width and length of the penis more when in the doggy style position than other positions because usually in that position, there’s always a deep penetration. So if you know you have a small penis, always go for the doggy style position.

TIP #4: KNOW THE ANATOMY OF A WOMAN

It’s important to know the anatomy of a woman to tell how her system works to be able to know what to do to satisfy her rather than only thinking about penetration alone.

If you master the anatomy of a woman, especially her sexual organ, you will be able to tell where it’s most sensitive to “attack” to give her that explosive orgasm and she will appreciate it much more than just penetrative sex.

Even with a good knowledge of her sex organ and sensitive buds, you will know how to penetrate so you don’t aim for the cervix instead of the center of gravity and clitoris.

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TIP #5: CONCENTRATE ON THE CLITORIS AND center of gravity

These are the most sensitive parts of a woman, concentrate on that, rather than thinking of penetrating deeper because that’s where all her nerve endings are. What you need to know is that, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman and the nerves alone in that small bud is much more than all the nerves in a woman.

Also learn to find where the center of gravity is, so you will be able to know the kind of position you can use to always hit it. Remember, the key here is always make her achieve orgasm.

TIP #6: KNOW HER MOST SENSITIVE SPOTS

Every woman comes in a different package, know your woman’s sensitive parts. You can just ask her and she will tell you. While some women have their sensitive parts to be their scalp, others have it behind their ears. Every woman and where you touch that pleases her the most, so find out the sensitive spot(s) of your woman to know how to please her properly.

TIP #7: MAINTAIN A STRONG ERECTION

Don’t worry much about the length of your penis, but if you are unable to maintain a strong erection, then you need to worry about that, because no woman will be pleased with that. A woman can stand a small penis so long as it’s hard enough to give her that satisfaction, but a small penis and flaccid too, that’s useless to a woman.

If you will need any medicine, it shouldn’t be for a bigger and longer penis, it should be for a strong erection because honestly, that’s what really satisfies a woman and not the length of it. So it’s important during sex that you’re able to maintain a stronger erection.

TIP #8: LAST LONGER

If there’s one thing most women hate, it’s premature ejaculation because women take much longer to orgasm compared to men and so if you have a smaller penis but able to maintain a strong erection and also last longer till she orgasms, then you should know, you are crowning yourself as king in her heart.

The question now is how do you achieve that? Make time for pre-intimacy, don’t rush and when you in there, don’t force it, be cool and wriggle rather than thrusting with brutal force. Go at a slower pace till she increases the pace, not you. Always concentrate on how to make her orgasm before you reach your climax and you will always win.


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Denrele Edun shared some photos of him rocking heels. He slayed the look

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8 Qualities Ladies Have That Men Will Always Find Attractive?



Men are very visual and simple creatures, attraction and infatuation happens very quickly to them. They don’t need to know a lot about you in order to become attracted. Basically, it’s all down to your first impression. Despite all this being true, with time, this changes and their appreciation for you will be at a much deeper level but for starters here are the top eight we picked up on which we are sure will catch and most likely keep Him.

Style

A sense of style is always attractive. A sense of style is also enduring. Unlike trends, style doesn’t come and go.

Confidence

Women with confidence don’t seek approval, or need any extra attention from others.

It’s sexy when a girl can steal every pair of eyes in the room, but it’s even sexier when she knows it.

Originality

Originality is the anti-basic, the anti-boring. Originality is what will keep you guessing, and when a girl is truly original, this quality will constantly be reappearing in new, different ways.

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Class

Think about it, class can never be unattractive.

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Being classy isn’t about what drink you buy, or which specific pool club you’re a member of — it’s about conducting yourself the right way wherever you find yourself.

Wittiness

If a girl can make you laugh, what’s not to be attracted to? Wit is one of the most enjoyable forms of humor because it actually provokes thought.

Loyalty

Loyalty is always attractive. Look for women who are loyal because when it all goes down, you’ll want to know that she’ll stay down for you, regardless.

Smarts

Intelligence is possibly the most attractive quality you can find in a girl. It’s not about wearing thick-framed glasses, or publicly flaunting your first class degree in casual conversation.

Most of the time, regular old “street smarts” are equally as attractive as any degree, being versatile and informed in the matters of our time.

Honesty

Although the most honest girl won’t always look like Agbani, in your eyes, honesty is one of the most important qualities for a woman to have. I can promise that if there’s one sure-fire waste of time in life, it’s strapping you to a liar.

8 Qualities Ladies Have That Men Will Always Find Attractive?

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Focus on what she’s not telling you in bed by studying her physique language It’s a universally accepted reality that girls are difficult, complicated, confusing beings who, in spite of talking incessantly, rely a lot on non-verbal communication to convey their inner-most thoughts. So it’s left to you to unravel the mystery of their look, sigh or grump.

Since they manage to take the same trait into the bedroom and you might find yourself befuddled at her reactions, she’s rubbing up against you out of extreme desire or as a distraction tactic to get you to stop doing what you’re doing. We help you decode her subtle body language in bed, so you’re abreast of whether you’re doing it right or need to up your ante. If you manage to read your cues right, you’ll be suitable rewarded and her body will display overall signs of arousal that can’t be faked. Here are few of them as you continue reading….

In her arms. If instead of holding you, her arms are held close to her body, there might be a little something going on, you should take note of. In some positions she might need her arms to support her weight, but in most cases, if she’s consciously holding her arms close, she is clearly not letting go with wild abandon.

She shouldn’t want to be covering herself up. If however, they’re above your or her head, on your chest, splayed out on the sheets or held out on either side, it’s her way of telling you, she’s comfortable with where she is and there’s no need to hold back.

Breathing heavy. This is usually a dead give away and impossible to mask or fake. As the body is excited and turned on, the breath becomes more urgent and rapid. Involuntary moans are made as air rapidly makes its way through her vocal chords. The heart rate increases as the body prepares for an Orgasm, making her internal Organs demand more oxygen. A thumping heart rate and urgent breathing should let you know that you’re on the right track. However, if immediately after a big Orgasm, she’s back to a slow restful pace of breath, you just witnessed a big show.


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Writhing heights. When a body enthusiastically responds to another, it urges for proximity. If she’s grinding or pushing herself against you, trying to hold or hug you, her body language is as inviting as it gets. Curling toes are another good indicator, but try to catch a glance offhand. If the motion is subconscious, it’s probably genuine. If however, she’s lying there waiting for you to do all the hard work, there’s probably a little that’s happing in terms of arousal for her. You need to regroup and restart. Try changing positions or focus on her erogenous zones to get her attention.

Hip action. A little known secret about good se’x is that it’s tremendously synchronized. The way the bodies were designed, they were meant to move repeatedly in the same motion until both achieved a climax. So if you find her matching your moves, you’ve hit the right notes and just need to make it to the finish line.

Sometimes it takes a little time to get in sync but if you don’t see it happening, chances are that her body is telling you it wants something else, another position perhaps. Wait for her to respond with the same intensity.

In the deep. Once you are in the zone and aiming for the finish, given the sensitivity of Orgasm involved, you should be able to feel her strong internal muscles act against yours. With spasms and some amount of clenching, you’ll get a good idea of how well you’re doing. However, don’t use it as a benchmark since not all women have the same amount of control over their kegel muscles.

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Guys, How to Get a Girl Hot and Wet by Sitting Next to Her…

AROUSING ANY GIRL HE WANTS IS EVERY GUY’S DREAM. FIND OUT HOW TO GET A GIRL Hot AND WET JUST BY SITTING NEXT TO HER AND USING THESE 8 SMOOTH MOVES.

Now let me make this clear.

This isn’t simple.

And getting a woman attractive is more about the vibes and sexual pressure that each of you’re feeling than anything else.

If you jump any moves or indulge in the next step before the earlier one, you may just end up losing the whole cause.

An opportunity to get a girl Hot while sitting next to her can’t be preplanned most of the time.

So use any opportunity you get when you see one similar to the chances mentioned here.

How to get a girl Hot

To make a girl feel Hot, you first need to build the sexual chemistry between both of you. You need to flirt with her, tease her and make her like your attention.

And when you feel like there’s some secret chemistry in the air, just sit next to her, use these tips and watch her get aroused in no time!

How to make a girl wet while sitting next to her

Is it really possible to make a girl Hot by just sitting next to her? Well, with these 8 tips here, it definitely is!

Just don’t be hasty, and if you sense any awkwardness in the air, take a step back and play it safe.

1. Sit really close. When you’re with this girl you’re sexually attracted to, find an excuse to sit really close to her. Pull out your tablet and show off a cool new app, or read out a long interesting article from a magazine she likes.

But as you sit next to her, make sure you’re sitting in a tight spot so your arms are touching each other’s. And even if there’s a lot of space to sit on, squeeze close to her and immediately shift her focus to the tablet or book in your hands so she’s too distracted to slide her butt away from you. Make sure your arms touch each other, because the soft grazing of both your arms is crucial to rouse the sexual tension and turn her on.

2. Keep her interested. Don’t talk flirty at all. It’ll raise her guard. She’s already touching you and she’s obviously conscious of that. Get her distracted from the touches by having an interesting conversation with her.



Get her attention by gossiping about something you heard or reveal a little secret you heard from a little birdie. As long as you excite her with something while talking to her, she’s overlook the fact that both of you are almost attached at the hip.

3. Start talking flirty with her. Getting a girl Hot is easiest when both of you have to sit next to each other for a while with no interruptions, be it in a boardroom or a library, or even while travelling in a train or bus. But no matter where you are, just get her involved and things will go smoothly all the way.

Somewhere along the conversation, get flirty with her discreetly. Compliment her about something to start with. Be very subtle or she’ll move away from you. “You smell great”, “I like the fabric of your shirt”, “You have really nice eyes, did I ever say that before? From this close, it sparkles” are just a few lines that’ll charm her and yet make her blush without moving away from you. [Read: Tips to compliment a girl the right way]

Keep the conversation going casually and drop a few comments or flirty lines now and then. And if you’ve already texted dirty or flirted dirty with her earlier, bring a few of those lines into the conversation to remind her of the sexy times both of you have shared. [Read: 20 questions to text a girl and make her wet]

4. Touch her fingers. Play it safe and slow. No matter what, make sure these little moves both of you are indulging in is discreet. If she feels awkward or uncomfortable, it’s the end of the road for your sexual endeavor. Find an excuse to touch her fingers, either by brushing her palm with yours or by giving her something to hold. Compliment her about her delicate fingers or how smooth it is. She’d know your naughty games by now, but as long as you keep the pace slow and enjoyable, she’ll like your sensual touches.

Another good way is to pretend like you read palms. It’ll work even if she knows you have no idea about palmistry. Flirt with her and say something naughty when you see her palms. Or if that doesn’t work, touch her fingers and compliment her ring or her bracelet. Or even her earrings. Just make sure you warm her up to your touches. [Read: How to touch a girl discreetly and make her like it]

5. Whisper into her ears. This is especially good if there are other people around both of you who are too preoccupied with something else. Movie theatres, bus journeys, the backseat of a car with friends when another guy is driving, or if both of you are at home watching a movie are perfect times to indulge in the whispering act.

Don’t be funny while whispering into her ear. If she laughs, it completely kills the mood. Go near her ear like you’re whispering something and compliment her again and say you just had to compliment her about the same thing again.

If you want to get straight to the point, whisper into her ear and ask her if she’d like to hang out with you later. Whispering something intimate like a date request with some heavy breathing in the background will make the hair on the back of her neck and hands stand. And make sure your lips graze her ears so she can feel a hint of a teasing kiss on her ear.

6. Reach out from across her. To make any of these moves work, you have to feel the sexual tension in the air. If you don’t feel it, don’t try these moves. And when you feel the sexual chemistry thicken in the air, don’t worry, she’ll feel it too and even get aroused by it.

Now that you’ve been touching her and whispering into her ear, it’s time to take it to the next level. Find an excuse to reach out to something from across her. And as you reach your hand out to pick something up, make sure your shoulder or arm grazes her breasts or some other strategic body part. Play innocent and don’t jerk back or look awkward. Make it seem natural, like you’re a clean boy scout who’s doing nothing wrong. [Read: How to touch a girl’s breasts on a first date]

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If her breasts are out of reach, move your hands across her back or over her thigh, or just about any place that you wouldn’t touch in other casual circumstances.

7. Read her reciprocation. If she starts speaking softly or moves closer to you, chances are, she’s as Hot as you are right now! If you’ve been following these tips to the tee, you’d definitely have an erection already. Just play along and repeat the flirting, teasing, touching and reaching out to body parts now and then for as long as both of you enjoy it.

Graze your hands against her breast or watch her tee shirt and if you find anything stiffened up, you’ve just worked your magic and made a girl Hot, my friend!

8. Ask her out. Now all this turning on shouldn’t go to waste, should it? Tease her and play with her for a while, and she’ll love it all the more. Or if you want to do something more about it, go close to her ear and ask her if she’d like to come over to your place.

If you’re with friends, make an excuse and get out separately and meet her outside so both of you can get home and do something about all that heavy petting and raging hormones!

And that’s all you need to do to figure out the secret behind knowing how to get a girl Hot and wet. I’ve used it dozens of times, and it’s taken me to bed almost every single time!

Guys, How to Get a Girl Hot and Wet by Sitting Next to Her…

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No two people can agree all the time and even when you are in love, you are bound to fight sometimes. Arguing in a relationship is perfectly healthy, but when that arguing gets out of control, or it is happening too often, then that is when fighting can become destructive. The only way that you can stop arguments being totally unproductive, is to sit down and agree on some basic rules that you will both follow when you do disagree. If you are currently going through a phase with your partner where it feels like you are constantly at each other’s throats, read these ten tips on how to avoid fighting in a relationship.

1. Listen more and talk less

Talking over one another and not listening to what each person has to say will never resolve an argument. You have a right to get your point of view across, but you should also listen to your partner’s side of things too. Make an agreement that you will take it in turns to talk and, when one person is talking, the other person will pay attention and listen.

2. Call a time out when you need to

When you do feel that the argument is getting out of control and too heated, take a half hour break, so that you both get a chance to calm down and think things through properly. When people get angry, they tend to get fixated on just one sticking point of an argument and then they start to go around in circles. Take a break, preferably in separate rooms, and will give you both the chance to cool down a little.

3. Never threaten the relationship

Don’t treat every argument like it is the make or break of the relationship, and never threaten an end to the relationship, if you don’t really mean it. Threats of splitting up, made in the heat of an argument, are just a form of low handed blackmail and sometimes they can backfire disastrously.

4. Try not to raise your voice

Another important tip on how to stop fighting in a relationship is to avoid raising your voice. Everyone is guilty of raising their voice in an argument, but it will only make the argument more difficult to resolve. If you start shouting, then he will start shouting too and, before you know it, you are not even listening to each other at all. It is difficult to keep your anger under control, but try, because the moment you both start to shout, that’s when you are probably both not making a lot of sense anymore.

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5. Try to resolve an argument and stop trying to win it

Next tip on how to stop fighting in a relationship is to try to find ways to resolve an argument and stop trying to win it. The objective of an argument should be to find a solution or a compromise. If you are both just trying to win and to score points off one another, the underlying problem will still be there, unresolved. A real win, is when you both accept the solution and are reasonably happy with the outcome.

6. Learn to accept each other’s flaws


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No one in this world is perfect and flawless, so our next tip on how to stop fighting in a relationship is to learn to accept each other for who you are and stop arguing over things that really don’t matter. Often, arguments that get out of control are started by picking on something completely trivial and then they escalate from there. So, if he does have a bad memory and he forgot your anniversary this year, remember that there are far worse things that he could have done.

7. Work out what it is you are really fighting about

Very often, the thing that you are fighting about is the not the real root cause of the problem, but it’s just a way of venting some of your frustration. Perhaps it’s not so much about the anniversary that he forgot after all, maybe it’s more about how taken for granted you feel and that’s the thing that you should be talking about.

8. Learn how to back down and say SORRY

One of the biggest problems that you find when a fight gets heated is that no one wants to back down and lose face. You might both need to practice saying sorry and facing up to the part that you have played in a fight. Remember, there should be no winner and loser, and for that to happen, you might both need to apologise.

9. Don’t drag up the past

Next important tip on how to stop fighting in a relationship is to never drag up past disputes, nor use those as weapons in the current argument. There is no point at all in going over old ground again, so try and stick to the real point of disagreement between you. Avoid using spiteful language and saying things just to hurt your partner too, because if that gets out of hand, something could be said that is regretted later.

10. Make a point of making up

When the argument does get resolved, do take the making up seriously as well. Agree to draw a definite line under the argument and put the whole thing behind you. Your relationship is no doubt far more important to you than this one disagreement, so when the fight is finished, forget it and move on.

If you are angry, don’t sin by nursing your grudge. Don’t let the sun go down with you still angry—get over it quickly. (Bible, Ephesians 4:26)

How to stop fighting in a relationship? What are your tips?

Stay happy!

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Guys! 5 Ways To Turn a Woman on Without Physical Contact?



No, this isn’t about where to kiss her, and different ways to touch her body. We are talking about achieving this without ever laying a finger on her. Non physical attributes play a big role in generating attraction with a woman, and here are 5 that can truly have an impact.

1. INTELLIGENCE

For a lot of women, a smart man is a sexy man. Knowledge is power, and it can definitely intrigue a woman. Having the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation can have a very positive effect on a woman.

2. BEING CONSIDERATE

When you do something considerate, it can make a woman feel special. And that can sometimes materialize into a greater attraction. Being mindful of her feelings and doing small gestures to show her you’re thinking about her can easily win you some points. You’re pouring into her emotionally and that makes her much more receptive to you.

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3. AMBITION

A man with no aspirations and no drive can be a huge turn off for a woman. Having passion and a purpose can really do it for her. It gives off the energy of a man who is about handling his business, and a woman loves to see that.

4. ASSERTIVENESS

Most women (if not all) are not turned on by a man they view as too soft and passive. Knowing how to be assertive and putting your foot down at the right time (in the right way) can cause that woman to melt right before your eyes. That doesn’t mean go out and behave like an a-hole, or treat her like she is beneath you. It just means stand strong, handle your business, and demand respect. If she can’t respect you, then she won’t have a desire for you.

5. APPEARANCE

Even though men tend to be more superficial than women, don’t be fooled. She is paying attention, and she too wants something nice to look at. It doesn’t mean you need to have expensive clothes or flashy jewelry. Simply learning how to present yourself as well put together can do wonders. Know how to rock a suit, and that casual outfit. Don’t forget a nice pair of shoes. A lot of women are looking at your shoes whether you realize it or not.

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Anambra State Police Command has found and evacuated 4 mysterious lifeless bodies in a room alongside Olisa Onyeka Crescent, Commissioner’s quarters, Ifite, Awka, the state capital.

The policemen led by the state Commissioner of Police, Hassan Karma invaded the room in a two storey-building Tuesday morning.

The police team which was accompanied by an ambulance and some morticians, on arrival broke the door of the room and discovered four dead bodies.

The four ladies reportedly died on Saturday night in a room without any injury on their bodies.

One of the deceased was identified as Mrs. Chinwe Obi, a staff of Anambra State Independent Electoral Commission INEC, Awka, said to be the owner of the room.

The Landlady of the building, Ify Onyebumuo, told newsmen that she was contacted on phone by one of the tenants saying they were looking for the deceased tenant since Saturday.

Mrs. Onyebumuo noted that the tenants said awful water was dropping out from her (deceased’s) room, adding that she had not picked her phone since Sunday.

The landlady revealed that the deceased had lived in the building for 11 months.

Also speaking, the Caretaker of the building, Ignatius Machie, said he was contacted on phone by some tenants who told him they suspected some people died in that room.



Machie added that he was told the husband of that deceased also died on Friday in the same room.

It was confirmed by a tenant (name withheld) that the husband died on Friday and was taken to mortuary.

However, the police is yet to ascertain the identities of other three deceased persons.

When contacted the Commissioner of Police, said some tenants reported to the police that they perceived awful odour emitting from the room suspecting that something funny might have occurred in the apartment.

CP Hassan confirmed that the husband of the deceased tenant, who resided in Cotonou, died in the same room when he visited last Friday, saying that the other three women whose identity had not been disclosed were to be her Church members who came to sympathize with her over the death of her husband.

Hassan said that though the police was still investigating the mysterious deaths, it is suspected that generator fumes or food poison might have caused their deaths.

The commissioner disclosed that the remnant of soup in a pot found in the room had been taken for investigation while their bodies deposited in a mortuary in Awka were also being examined.

He assured that the police would continue in their efforts to ensure safety of life and property in the state.

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While you’re in a long-term relationship, a sizzling evening together with your partner might made up of moves pulled from a go-to list of yeses and, if you’re lucky, oh yeses. Why risk messing up the mood with potentially awkward antics? Because there’s such a thing as feeling too comfortable.

Shaking things up a bit can add excitement and spontaneity. Experts agree that you don’t need to try (or buy) anything extreme to achieve a big boost in novelty and pleasure. Test one or more of these moves out tonight and see for yourself.

ENGAGE IN AFTERPLAY

Done with the main event? Now’s the perfect time to return to some pre-intimacy favorites. Because you’re already aroused, you may find that certain moves can feel extra-intense. Not only that, but if you’ve always been curious but shy to try something new, like say a type of toy, after intercourse can be a great time to engage because when you’re already aroused, and may be less inhibited. Plus, there’s no pressure on the trick to actually work. You’re just having fun for fun’s sake.

OPEN THE WINDOWS—BUT CLOSE THE CURTAINS

The feel of the breeze on your bare skin and the ever-so-slight possibility that the neighbors might hear your moans can be incredibly arousing.

Or, if you’re feeling even more daring, instigate a make-out session in your backyard as it gets dark. Even though it’s remote, the fear you could get caught produces an adrenaline rush that adds a layer of excitement and urgency to the encounter.

SCRATCH HIS HEAD

The scalp contains tons of nerve endings—that’s why that mini-scalp massage at the salon always feels so good. Even though the touch is G-rated, the skin-on-skin contact can trigger a flow of bonding hormones like oxytocin that can make you both feel more connected.

And because the act isn’t automatically linked to sex, it can pave the way for a long evening of back-and-forth pre-intimacy before the main event, which often gets lost in long-term relationships.

CORRUPT THE COUCH

Don’t make excuses about the upholstery, because your clothes are going to stay on. Start with making out high-school style and then amp up the action by moving so you’re facing him and sitting on his knee. Here, you can rock back and forth while you’re kissing, which provides direct stimulation to your clitoris and can be supremely pleasurable.

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START A SLOW BURN

Like “road trip,” “sexting” sounds simultaneously dangerous and juvenile, but can actually be a lot of fun if you know how. The trick is to leave out words that would make you blush and stick to inside joke type info that would seem innocent to anyone else.

Something like “FYI, I’m wearing that red dress you like”with a smiley face can convey just as much as a picture of your underwear—and starts priming both of your brains for what will happen when you finally get together.



RAID THE FREEZER

Experts agree that plain old ice cubes can make any encounter extremely hot. Not only does the chill of the ice stimulate the same part of the nervous system that’s responsible for arousal, but the sensation jolts your brain away from the grocery list and into the here-and-now. Try running one along his hips and up his thighs, or ask him to do the same to you.

And don’t be discouraged if one or both of you start to laugh—encourage it! Sex should be fun, so give into the giggles and play around until you find what feels good.

NARRATE THE ACTION

Simply say what’s happening in the moment, with sentences like, “You’re running your hand up my thigh and it feels so good.” Even though the words seem innocent enough, they serve the same purpose as dirty talk—letting your partner know what’s turning you on, what you’d like more of and how his actions result in your pleasure.

Not only that, but explaining what sensations you’re experiencing can stop your mind from wandering and keep it focused on the action. “By connecting the action to how you feel, you’re increasing awareness of what feels good, so you can ask for more of it.

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LUBE UP

To avoid interrupting the action, have lube on the bedside table or in a convenient drawer. Then, either sensuously put it on yourself or have him put it on you during pre-intimacy.

RE-DO YOUR FINEST MOMENTS

Try fantasies that star each other. Start by giving the play-by-play of some of the exceptionally hot moments you’ve had over the years. You’ve had them before, so who says you can’t have them again?

TRY A NEW MOVE

Kama Sutra–inspired coupling may seem exciting, but if you’re looking for orgasmic, the deceptively simple Coital Alignment Technique (also known as CAT) may be all you need. In the past two decades, studies have found that this technique consistently leads to climax, even for women who have reported difficulty achieving orgasm from penetration in the past.

To do it: Start in missionary, but have your guy move downward during the thrust as you move upward. The point is to achieve maximum clitoral stimulation, so you might have to experiment a bit until the position of his penis gives you the most pleasure.

TAKE A BREAK

Vacations may only come once or twice a year, but you can have hot vacation-style sex any day. “When you’re on vacation, your focus is primarily on pleasure. To have a similar benefit, you need to get into a similar mindset at home.

One way to do that is to get rid of as many distractions as possible. For some couple, that’s renting a hotel room in town for an evening. For others, it’s simply spending the night (or a Saturday morning while kids are at soccer practice) in the guest room. Not seeing evidence of your everyday lives can make it easier to totally let loose.

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Dear men, SHE’S DIFFICULT — BUT FOR GOOD REASON.

Men, let’s face it: some women are just difficult. They don’t do what you want, when you want them to. They don’t want to watch football with you. They won’t cook you dinner. They don’t like having sex right after a funeral.

What gives? Not her, that’s for sure. Here are 10 brutally honest truths about dating a difficult woman. (Hint: deal with it!)

1. Blow jobs are only a thing when she wants them to be.

If you push her head down anyway, she’ll probably bite your dick off.

2. Decision-making is all about her needs.

Especially about what she wants to eat and wear. Yeah, you like her in that rhinestone-studded red tank top, but it’s 30 degrees out, so she prefers to wear a sweater.

You didn’t take care of her when she got a cold from wearing that black leather miniskirt you liked on New Year’s Eve, so guess what? It’s payback time. Here comes that cashmere turtleneck with shoulder pads that she bought herself and pretended was a present from you.

3. She’s a power b*tch.

She makes more money than you, and pays for dinners out. If she didn’t, you guys wouldn’t be together.

4. Her friends don’t like you.

Wah, wah. Of course they don’t like you. They’re difficult, just like her.

5. She wants you to express your feelings more.

It’s probably the most difficult thing about her. She’s a diffic*nt.

6. Sleep is a solo experience.

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This coincides with the times you’re so drunk, you piss the bed. She knows it makes her a selfish tw*t, and she’s sorry. But deal with it, because difficult women don’t back down.

… unless you start crying. Then we’re like, OMG he’s not a cyborg! This is the best day of my life. And then we go shower off the pee and cry tears of terrified joy because we can’t even deal with it.


7. Orgasms are 100 percent expected from you.

As a difficult woman myself, I can defiantly say that we expect you to make us orgasm. Every.Single. Time. Multiple times in one night.

She will settle for almost/sort of getting there, but will want you to stop when things start hurting, or whenever you want to stop, or even giving a weird side-hug. I doubt you can deal with it.

8. You’ll need to leave the housework to her. Seriously.

She’ll do all the housework: dishes, laundry, vacuuming, dusting, picking up, and organizing. She’ll even be in charge of paying the bills. But if you forget to take out the garbage, she WILL be pissed.

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9. You will always need to make sure to return her calls.

When you don’t call her back for three days, and then show up in the middle of the night on the fourth day, after she’s already decided you were dead … she’ll probably let you in, but she definitely won’t f*ck you until the next morning.

10. On the inside, she’s an amazing person.

The most brutal truth about dating a difficult woman is that she’s actually really wonderful. You’re making her crazy because you clearly don’t respect or love her, so she’s frustrated.

She hasn’t bottomed out on co-dependent relationships yet because women are socialized to take all this sh*t. And sometimes it takes a bunch of bad experiences before you realize you’ve been bending over backwards for a complete asshole.

So, she’s still trying with you even though you’re a huge jerk. You need to go to therapy to get your life right. No, seriously. Go to therapy and deal with it because your girlfriend isn’t difficult — you’re just a selfish dick.

You’ve been together for over a year and you’re still not ready to call her your girlfriend? Wake up and smell the patriarchy, bro. And learn how to wash a dish.

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Your vagina probably isn’t that deep.
Most vaginas are about 4.75 inches, which is approximately the same size as the average penis, which means anything extra won’t even be beneficial. If you’ve got an average-size vagina, a larger penis is just going to be like super-sizing your meal when you’re not that hungry.

Most women don’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. Only about 1 in 5 women can orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, which means his oral and digital skills are (statistically speaking) way more important.

It’s less about size and more about proportion. On average, women tend to prefer a penis that looks proportionate to the guy it’s attached to, so “too big” or “two small” might be less about the actual length and more about appearances.

If it’s too big for you, it can easily be uncomfortable. Bigger isn’t always better. If his penis is too big for your vagina, it can actually hurt or cause discomfort during sex. If your man is getting the job done, going any bigger won’t necessarily help you any.

There’s no direct correlation between size and satisfaction. Studies have shown that women don’t always get more satisfaction out of a larger penis. Essentially, just because he has a bigger penis doesn’t mean he’s good at sex or knows how to use it well. There’s no magic inches-to-orgasm exchange rate.

It’s way easier to work around a small penis than it is to change other things about how he sexes. If he’s a terrible kisser or bad at going down on you or a selfish lover, you’re going to have a hard time changing those habits. But a small penis? You can just put a vibrating cock ring on him and everyone’s happy.

There are positions that make a penis feel bigger. So maybe he pops out during vigorous doggy-style, but there are still positions that will make his penis size work for you.

Don’t forget that porn isn’t a great basis for what the average penis looks like. Unless you’ve seen a ton of joysticks, you’re probably basing your idea of penis size on porn. Which is like basing your expectations of Asante Kotoko on Chelsea.

He’s probably more ambitious in the bedroom because of it. Sex is great, but don’t ignore a guy just because he’s on the small side. He’s probably fully aware that he’s on the small side, and if he really cares about you, he’ll find a way to please you in the bedroom.

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One of Nigeria’s most remembered leaders, 37-year-old Murtala Muhammed, was killed on February 13, 39 years ago, in an abortive coup attempt led by Lt. Col Buka Suka Dimka.

Many years have passed, but the nation still remembers its great leader.

President Goodluck Jonathan via his Facebook page spoke about Murtala:

“Today marks the 39th anniversary of the death of that great Nigerian hero, Murtala Mohammed, who gave his life for this great nation. In his lifetime he espoused the belief that Nigeria had come of age and is ready to play her rightful role as the leader of the Black Race and a hub for progressive government on the African continent. Thankfully, Nigeria has immortalized Murtala’s legacy in books and monuments and will continue to do so such that our youth can learn from his life of purpose and commitment to higher ideals. May his soul continue to rest in peace and may God continue to comfort his family as a grateful nation remembers his sacrifice.”

For many Nigerians, getting to know Murtala Mohammed was from the green, crispy N20 naira note, which had its face inscribed on it, and really clear-headed stories told by parents. We gathered for some must-know facts you need to know about hero of Nigeria’s nation.

Murtala Muhammed

1. Born on a Tuesday, the 8th of November, 1938, in the Kurawa Quarters of Kano State to Risqua Muhammed and Uwani Ramatu, he had 7 siblings (one girl and seven boys) and he was the second child.

2. On the 26th January, 1952, he was admitted as student number 941 as the school itself was founded in 1909. He was one of the ten students from Kano and finished in 1957. One of his classmates was the late General Mohammed Shuwa shot dead at his home by gunmen in Maiduguri in November 2012. Shuwa was one of the prominent figures during the Nigerian Civil War and later a leading figure in Murtala’s government. Gowon also attended the same college.

3. He attended Regular Officers Special Training School , ROSTS (Teshie, Ghana), now Ghana Military Academy where he was taught as a 2nd Lieutenant infantry tactics and military laws by the late Odumegwu Ojukwu. Obasanjo and Gowon also attended ROSTS.

4. Murtala might be a strong-headed soldier but he was an amazing family man. In 2006, his Yoruba wife (with partly Fulani roots), Mrs. Hafsat Ajoke Muhammed recollects the fond memories: “At home and at work, my husband was one and the same person. His behaviour at work and home were the same. He was a firm person, upright and had a great sense of humour.”


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5. He was introduced to his wife by his cousin. They fell in love, hit it off, and when they met in Kaduna later, he proposed to her and they got married in Kaduna in 1963 after her studies, the same year he became a Captain. Their marriage was a blissful and peaceful one. In 1965, the marriage was blessed with a cheeky baby girl who later attended the Queen’s College, Yaba, Lagos.

6. At the time when Murtala was killed, his daughter, Zalihatu was just two years old, and Jumai was just a baby.

7. When Murtala was killed and the news was relayed to his wife, she broke down and wept for her dear husband.

8. Today, Mrs. Ajoke Muhammed is ageing gracefully, is widely respected for her charitable activities and calm demeanor. Even as a First Lady, she was not unnecessarily flamboyant. Her marriage was blessed with six children: Aishat, Fatimah, Zakari, Risqua Abba, Zalihatu, Jumai (she was just a baby, less than a year old when her father was killed). The daughters are now married.

9. By the end of 1964, Murtala was already a temporary Major (known as a T/Major).

10. The Nigerian Civil War (1967-1970) lasted for thirty blood-soaked months and one of the principal actors of that sad phase of Nigerian history was Murtala.

11. On the evening of the 30th of July 1975, Murtala made his maiden speech to the nation as the Head of State and Commander-in-Chief of the Armed Forces

12. He set up a panel headed by Justice Ayo Irikefe on the creation of seven more states (Niger, Bauchi, Gongola, Benue, Ogun, Imo and Bendel) to the 12 existing ones on 22nd December, 1975. The panel came up with a report which was utilized in the formation of new states in 1976.

13. Murtala was a blunt, outspoken and consummate risk taker. A soldier who ironically had no regard for the chain of command, he was in a class of his own when it came to dangerous exploits. A no-nonsense person, Murtala was known for his legendary outbursts of terrifying anger.

13 Interesting things You Need To Know About Murtala Muhammed

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1. Become Possessive And Jealous

We may not like to admit it, but there’s always jealousy lurking somewhere when dating a gorgeous woman.

Friends of friends won’t be welcome home, her going out with her male friends for drinks might seem annoying and that new dress every week for work might raise eyebrows.

We know it, we do it!

2. Worry About Other Guys Hitting On Her

We surely won’t question her, but we can’t stop thinking about questioning her.

What if every guy she meets wants her number and time?

There will be times when guys will want to come up with excuses to talk to her and you wouldn’t be able to do anything but worry.

3. You Go Unnoticed In Her Presence

It’s a good thing as well as a bad thing.

If you have a nonpareil beauty standing right next to you, it’s quite obvious people might not notice you.

You might always fade into the background.

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If you overhear people saying things like “What’s she doing with HIM?” you know it’s time for you to get away from that place.

4. She Wants You For Money

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Maybe not…or maybe! People love to gossip and they might assume that such a beauty is with you just because you are loaded. Now, we hope that’s not the case.

But going by experience, anecdotes and what not, she just might be after your money.

Don’t reveal details about your hidden treasure chest yet!

5. You Will Have Trouble Trusting Her

She’s not the problem. The problem is with us.

Sometimes, we don’t want to believe even when we know there’s no fault of hers. You are insecure, and hence, you find it difficult to trust that stunner.

Jealousy, over-possessiveness and trust issues-you know the problem points. Now work on them.

6.Her Ego Could Be A Problem

She’s s3xy and she knows it. And the world will leave no leaf un-turned to make her realize so, especially when she’s around you.

She’s perhaps used to compliments since she was 10. If that leads to an inflated ego, who do you blame?

No one, right?

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1. Higher Chances Of Virginity Retention Till Marriage

This may be true but not so true. Though ugliness is not a determinant of a keeping one’s virginity or abstain from s*x, but to a minimum extent, when a lady is extraordinary ugly, she’s most like not to be the chase of kitty-cat obsessed guys flooding every street, hence, making her lack the opportunity of getting laid

2. Less Promiscuous

When a lady is very ugly/not pretty, there’s high probability that she will have few number of toasters stalking her both online and offline, and this might make her stay focused in her academics and other things, unlike beautiful ladies on campuses who are being swayed and distracted by the chases from their fellow students or lecturers, hence, making them lose focus in their academic pursuit.

3. High Chances of Finding True Love

This is to say that any guy that asks her for a relationship see beyond the mere look of a lady, and he’s likely to love her against all odds even though his friends castigate him saying “so na that sukurat wey no even fine u dey date now?, you fall our hand ooo”

This reminds me of the way Makinde rebuked me when I asked a lady with a terrible tribal mark on her face on a date

4. She May Not Have Trust Issues In Her Relationship

Since her boyfriend knows deep down in his mind that his girlfriend is not in any way pretty, he might be in Abuja while she’s in Zamfara, he need not worry about someone else bleeping his girlfriend.

5. Well Cultured/Behaved

Yoruba adage says, “if a lady is not pretty, at least she should be well cultured/behaved so that people can see beyond her looks.

From this adage, we can deduce that, to a large extent, ugly ladies are somewhat well cultured/behaved (though not all), unlike pretty ladies who are stereotyped to be pompous and proud

6. Little Or No Gold Digging Habit

My research and findings have shown that not so pretty ladies barely gold-dig guys, because the chances is very slim. Many at times, money is not their criteria for choosing a guy

7. Financial Benefits



A beautiful girl financial approach is more likely to be turned down unlike that of an ugly girl.

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The suffering is already hidden behind the beauty, but even if an ugly girl is financially stable and she tells you the opposite, you’d believe cos the look itself is already poor

8. Less Spending

An ugly girl is less concerned about her looks/body, unlike like beautiful girls, who are always conscious about their faces, skin colour, etc.

Some ugly girls even save more that beautiful girls.

They’ve got plans of doing other things with money rather than spending it on their looks and perishable parameters.

A beautiful girl can even go hungry just to keep the beauty going

9. Public Stare

An ugly is free from public stare cos no one would wanna keep staring at an unpleasant front and back side.

They move freely, unlike the beautiful ones who are always scared of going out cos of the stare/public harassment. Reminds me of a beautiful girl in high heels shoe.

The public stare was unbearable for her, she mistook a step, and fell flat to the ground. What an embarrasement! At such, ugly girls gat no worries.

They are free to do the ”Naomi Campbell” walk without people staring

10. Feel free to add the last one cause i cant type anymore

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Nigerian President Muhammadu Buhari salutes his supporters during his inauguration in Abuja, Nigeria, on May 29. An official in Nigeria says the new president’s wealth declaration shows that he has been living “an austere and Spartan lifestyle” compared to his predecessors and other senior government officials, with $150,000 in his personal account. (Sunday Alamba/AP)
By the standards of sub-Saharan African leaders, Nigeria’s President Muhammadu Buhari is dirt-poor.

According to a statement released by his government, he has $150,000 in his savings account. He owns five homes and two mud houses, an orchard and ranch with 270 head of cattle, 25 sheep, five horses and a variety of birds. He has bought two cars from his savings

“President Buhari had no foreign account, no factory and no enterprises. He also had no registered company and no oil wells,” reads the statement released by the spokesman, Garba Shehu, describing the president’s assets as “Spartan.”




The question on many minds is this: Is Buhari, Nigeria’s former military ruler and ex-head of the oil ministry, telling the truth?

Corruption, after all, is a major problem in Africa’s largest economy. Buhari himself has publicly said that more than $150 billion is missing from the government’s coffers. Still, the public declaration appears to be an attempt to show some much-needed transparency. Buhari was elected in March largely by promising that he wouldn’t tolerate corruption.

What’s clear is that Buhari has done what his predecessors — and most other African leaders — have never done.

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Consider these five other African leaders. They have been labeled by Forbes Magazine as the “five worst leaders in Africa.”

1. Teodoro Obiang Nguema Mbasogo, president of Equatorial Guinea



He’s Africa’s longest-serving ruler, an autocrat who leads the tiny, oil-rich West African nation of Equatorial Guinea. Despite its vast natural wealth, the majority of its people live in deep poverty with no access to clean drinking water, proper educational or health facilities. One fifth of children die before age 5. The money has gone into the pockets of Mbasogo and his family. They own luxury properties in the United States and other countries, a private jet and a fleet of luxury cars.

2. José Eduardo dos Santos, president of Angola

He’s Africa’s second-longest-serving leader. Angola is the continent’s second-largest oil producer, and one of the biggest suppliers of oil to the United States. It also has massive diamond deposits. Dos Santos’s relatives hold key positions in his government and control a huge share of Angola’s economy, amid widespread allegations of corruption. Nearly 70 percent of the population lives in dire poverty, and a third of the nation’s children are malnourished.

3. Robert Mugabe, president of Zimbabwe

He has ruled the southern African nation for a quarter-century. He was the architect of controversial policies, most notably the seizure of white-owned commercial farms. Though the country in recent years has seen an economic rebound, Mugabe remains one of the continent’s most autocratic rulers. He wields nearly total control of government institutions, and his loyalists have used violence to retain control. Human rights abuses are rife, while unemployment remains among the highest in sub-Saharan Africa.

4. Omar Al-Bashir, president of Sudan

Bashir seized power in a bloodless military coup in 1989 and has since disbanded political parties, the nation’s parliament and many privately-owned media outlets. Under his rule, civil war erupted, in which more than 1 million people were killed. Bashir is wanted by the International Criminal Court at the Hague on charges of war crimes and crimes against humanity for his role in the killing and rape of civilians in Sudan’s Darfur region. A U.S. diplomatic cable, leaked by Wikileaks, unveiled that Bashir may have stolen as much as $9 billion from state coffers and deposited it into his private bank accounts in Great Britain.

5. King Mswati III, king of Swaziland

He is the continent’s last reigning monarch, presiding over a nation with one of the world’s highest HIV rates, where average life expectancy — 33 years — is among the lowest in the world. Despite his people’s suffering, the king leads a lavish life with a taste for luxury cars, first-class travel and expensive parties, even as the nation’s economy is in dire straits.

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I was just thinking about my friend who threatened to break-up with his girlfriend,just because the girl is refusing to go down the bedroom way.

Talking to the girl (Selina),she was very sad and scared because of two reasons,to give in something she’s not really prepared for and losing a guy who she has grown very fond of…

In her tears,she asked something which really got me thinking — what’s so special about sex that we just can’t wait.
Sex as designed by God was supposed to be enjoyed between married couple but here and now as in today,sex is everywhere,almost every relationship in the world has got some sort of sex thing going on.

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Let’s take a good look at sex,I mean the illegal spiritual form of it,I know people will be like,don’t go spiritual on this.
Well,I will try not to,but the truth is — God designed something,a gift for that matter and told the recipient of that gift to unwrap it at an appropriate time but unfortunately,I guess the Adam and Eve stubbornness still dwells in humanity.

Let’s look at the problems humanity has faced by unwrapping the gift at the wrong time.
God is certainly not stupid,he wanted us to really enjoy sex,so he said,stay a virgin before you tie the knot with your other half,he wanted us to stay ignorant so that we can fully be satisfied with our partners,no matter how huge or small the dick is or how tight and loose the vajay is.

How long or short period you last in the bedroom wouldn’t have been much of a problem.
Let’s say you slept with about five young men before marriage,what happens if your husband can’t satisfy you like your ex’s,the case with guys is even worse.

Imagine if we can all stay virgins before marriage,how beneficial it will be for us all.
Low population growth,no teenage pregnancies,no sexually transmitted diseases among many other interesting benefits.

The fundamental motive of sex has been insulted,we’re all guilty.
The thing is if something is misused it loses its value,sex only becomes special if it’s done the right way,the right time.
Just a random thought though.

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Only 5 percent of men around the world wear condoms. Keep in mind, this is a cross section of a variety of different countries that may or may not have easy access to contraception. But still, 5 percent is low. Really low. Especially considering the goal is 100 percent.

There are four different kinds of condoms. Now that things like cloth and turtle shells (yes, really) have gone out of style, there aren’t as many condom options, but that’s probably a good thing. Most condoms are made out of latex, but there’s non-latex for anyone with an allergy, and those are usually made of polyurethane. Some are even made of polyisoprene, if you’re unlucky enough to be allergic to both latex and polyurethane. Then there are lambskin condoms, which are actually made from lamb intestines, not skin. Finally, you can always pick up female condoms, which function drastically differently but are still designed to protect against pregnancy and STIs.

You basically have tires to thank for the modern condom. Charles Goodyear’s rubber vulcanization process led to the first rubber condom being produced in 1855, which is why even present-day latex condoms are sometimes called “rubbers” by people like your grandfather and carnival barkers.

Condoms basically haven’t been redesigned since they were invented. Trojan had a latex condom out in the 1920s, and despite all the advances made with bumps and ridges, the condom has remained largely unchanged since.

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Condoms (on average) don’t really affect how good the sex is. Surveys show that couples were just as satisfied with sex whether or not they were using condoms. So considering condoms are 98 percent effective at preventing pregnancy and make sex ten-thousands of times safer, “it doesn’t feel good” isn’t an excuse not to use one.

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Your parents are less likely to be using condoms than you are. Sorry for the image, butcouples over 40 are the least likely to use condoms for a variety of reasons. On average, 25 percent of couples use condoms, while 33 percent of single people use them.
Women account for almost half of condom sales. Even though they go on you know … joysticks, women account for at least 40 percent of condom sales. Which is good, because you should pretty much always have them on hand.

Only a third of high school students are taught how to use a condom. This is pretty bad, and not just because it’ll save them some awkward fumbling when their first time rolls around. Teens who are shown proper condom use are more likely to use condoms in the future.
The largest condom isn’t the Magnum. As famous as it is, the Magnum can accommodate an average-size penis and stretch to fit larger ones. They Fit actually offers up the largest condom at the market: the G31. It can fit, as they put it, a penis “not far off the circumference of a Pringle can.” So that’s something.|

Bill Gates really wants to make a better condom. The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation actually offers up $100,000 grants to people trying to make better condoms. Some of the potential “condoms of the future” include condoms that actually mold to the penis (making for a one-size-fits-all solution) and one with handles (?).

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It’s highly likely that you have a ranking of your favorite s ex po sitions. Maybe girl on T op makes you feel like the hottest Co wgirl-goddess hybrid at the rodeo but do ggy style just ends with your ce rvix feeling like one giant bruise.

It’s the same for guys; here’s a glimpse inside a man’s mind when you’re getting it on.

Missionary

“It’s classic. I like starting this way the most, so it has the added benefit of being associated with the feeling of first entry. There’s nothing like slipping into her warm wetness down there.

It makes me think there’s a reason humans evolved to have s ex this way.

Plus, if I get too close to coming early, I can just think about the name of the po sition, and it keeps me from going over the edge. Missionary: s exy po sition, uns exy name.” —Sam J.

“Good old faithful. Though I think missionary is over-used, it serves several good purposes. It’s the po sition where I feel most in control of what is going on, probably partially due to my familiarity with it since it’s over-used.

When I have that control, I’m more capable of making myself orgasm, and I’m all for orgasms. It’s also a good go-to po sition when you are working with inexperienced girls.

They feel more comfortable when you’re on T op doing the work. The drawback is that women sometimes feel like their role here is to just lie back and enjoy.

As much as I love seeing a woman’s face as she experiences pleasure, so much more can be done while you’re on your back. Just because you’re on your back doesn’t mean you’re out of the fight. You have hands, lips, a voice, etc.” —Adam K.

“This is obviously a go-to. I use it if I’m trying to draw things out. My problem with missionary is that it seems that the ladies can’t do much to change up the tightness down there by squeezing, and I can’t do anything fancy from this po sition.

It’s really good when you’re feeling romantic and want to do the whole eye-contact thing, especially when you finish.” —Nathaniel Z.

“This is the most mercurial of all po sitions. It can be terrible, but it can also be out-of-this-world intimate. Looking into the eyes of your lover and seeing either ecstasy or embarrassment is truly a moment of trust and fear.

It’s great for your first Ro und of sober s ex or after you said ‘I love you.’” —Cal A.

do ggy Style



“This feels rough and dirty to me, in a good way. I really like it because of the view of her whole back. Plus, the slapping sound this po sition makes can be really s exy in the right context. Maybe not the right pick for a super romantic night, though.” —SJ

“do ggy style forfeits a bit of the control aspect of missionary style in exchange for a wonderful view. Not much better things to look at than a woman’s ass as you penetrate her.

There is something s exy and animalistic about making love to someone this way. Some people say it makes you feel powerful, but I don’t think that’s the right word. I think it’s feral.” —AK

“Fantastic. It’s not just her bu tt slapping against me but the access to her bo obs if I lean forward, a nice view of her bu tt, and the ability to grab and thrust hard—and in any angle I want.

I love the control. I think this is the most visceral, and it appeals to the animal in all of us. Plus, how long and hard you can go? C’mon!” —NZ

“This is the most dominant po sition for a guy there is. I control the pace, depth, and the girl in general. Spanking, squealing, and hair pulling are highly encouraged and a major ego boost.

I would hope she enjoys it when my balls smack against her clitoris repeatedly. It’s great for drunk Saturday nights.” —CA

Girl on T op

“This is my favorite po sition. It feels like I go really deep when I thrust up, while she can always back away and maintain control so I don’t have to worry about, uh, overdoing it.

There are so many good places to put my hands: cupping her face, caressing her bo obs, just pulling her in from her sides and back as she rides…wow.” —SJ

“Ever since Game of Thrones came out, this po sition reminds me of Daenerys. You know, the scene where Khal Drogo tries to have s ex do ggy style but she sT ops him and says, ‘Tonight, I will look upon your face.’ I love a girl that likes being on T op.

It shows confidence, and it makes my attraction for her grow. Though I rarely can orgasm from this po sition, it does help me reach orgasm later because it makes me feel way more attracted to my s exual partner.” —AK


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“I love it for the view, and bouncing bo obs are hot. But how much can you enjoy s ex when you’re thinking about how weird it’s going to be next time you see your neighbors who live below you?

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Co wgirl seems loudest because a vertical bounce shakes the floor. With the others, I can kind of brace my weight so it doesn’t sound like we’re playing basketball.” —NZ

“Girl on T op is a great po sition because it’s an awesome show, like Cirque du Soleil. I don’t have to do anything except watch everything bounce.

I can be lazy but still have the power to surprise with a thrust. Mainly, I let the girl do the work while she is gyrating on T op of me. It’s great for Sunday mornings.” —CA

Reverse Co wgirl

“Combining the view of do ggy style with the deepness and excitement of woman on T op! What could possibly go wrong? My di ck, that’s what.

It’s just not that flexible. Okay, I can enjoy this po sition gently, but how many ladies really want to be gentle if they’re requesting reverse Co wgirl?” —SJ

“I don’t have much experience with this one. The view is great, and it’s something different, which adds to its s ex appeal.

It’s a less feral version of do ggy style. I believe part of the reason I’m not all for it is that I haven’t been with a woman who does it well. Perhaps—and hopefully—that will change.” —AK

“I’m not a fan. If she starts getting into it and gets over-ambitious in the height of her bounce, my pe nis could fall out.

That could be a medical emergency for my junk if she comes down hard and something happens. Any time I get a mental image of my di ck breaking, it kills the mood.” —NZ

“It’s a little more complex than girl-on-T op, but I can still slide in easily. I like that my hands are free to spank, grab, and help out. It’s not necessarily a favorite, but can be timed so you both climax together.” —CA

Sp00ning

“This is tricky if I don’t want to be big spoon. Seriously though, Sp00ning is great and really brings out the intimacy in s ex. When so much of your body is pressed against hers, the friction is super hot.” —SJ

“I guess you could have s ex from the Spo oning po sition, but I honestly haven’t done it much. I’m not too into Spo oning in the cuddling realm, either.

Actually, when it comes to Spo oning, I prefer being the little spoon, which I’m sure is not the norm, but whatever.” —AK

“Where is the leverage? There’s nothing to press off of. I can’t keep this going more than 10 or 20 thrusts.” —NZ

“This one’s great because I can do long, slow strokes as a tease, and I like that my hands and mouth are free to seduce her.

I see it as mainly the second act of fo replay before moving on. I love the sensation, hate the work, respect the outcome and process. It’s ideal for Wednesday night date night.” —CA

Bonus Ro und:

“One of my favorite po sitions is where I am standing on the edge of the bed and my partner is lying down. I basically hold her legs apart and thrust while I am standing.

Great view of everything for both people. She gets to see my body working to please her, and I get to see her flexible legs spread out in front of me and her brea sts bouncing back and forth as I thrust. Sweet memories.” —AK

“Spo oning is a fantastic transition po sition into my favorite: guy on T op, both face-down, like lying-down do ggy style.

This gives full bo ob access, an easy reach to the clitoris if you’re feeling it, and she can tighten or loosen up how it feels down there easily from that po sition. It’s the best way to finish, too.” —NZ

“My favorite po sition is what I call the koala/monkey pick-up. It’s the most carnal thing I can do. Picking her up, slamming her against a wall, and thrusting is a monster boost to both parties.

It shows I’m strong and feels great when I finish because of the strain. It’s perfect in the shower.” —CA

This article originally appeared in Women’s Health Magazine, What Each s3x po sition Feels Like for Guys.

S3x Positions That Make Men Smile

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I have heard so many guys say they find it difficult to communicate with a lady over the phone. Honestly, it isn’t that hard. I want to post a conversation I had with a girl early this year. It is just all about composure and confidence. You don’t even need to be a good speaker to do this. Continue reading. The sweet words work the magic. In fact, I have been winning hearts with sweet words.

Me: Baby, I feel very sick…….

She: What is wrong with you, have you taken drugs? Have you gone to see a Doctor?

Me: Yes I have. The illness is very severe and complicated. The doctor said I am suffering from the lack of vitamin U. I have taken all the drugs in the world but no improvements.

The Doctor said Vitamin U is a disease of the heart, only the kisses from the girl I love can cure it. He also gave me prescriptions. You in the morning, you in the afternoon and more of you in the night.



She: hahahha, you are not serious. You almost scared me. I was worried and I thought you were sick for real.

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Me: If you are really worried, then prepare yourself and head to my house right away. I need a lovely lady, a caring woman, the most beautiful creature in the world by my side in this moment of the sickness of you.

At least, with you by my side I won’t want to die. I don’t want to miss those pretty things at the front of your chest, your lovely kisses and your wonderful smile.

Even if I die, I go warn God make him no try nonsense with me ooo. Ehenn God so you dey jealous me abii? Allow me enjoy the rest of my life with the most beautiful creature wey you create.

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Some aggrieved residents in Benin yesterday stormed one of the offices of the newly inaugurated Edo State
Interministerial committee to call its members to order over alleged assault and intimidation of the public
under the guise of traffic violation.


itvradionigeria reports that the situation degenerated as both the officials and the angry youths engaged
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Maybe true love really does exist, you know? Despite the odds and everything. Maybe there’s more to life than playing the field.

Well, you can create your own relationship success by looking for the right traits in a woman instead of just swiping right on everyone on Tinder.

Let’s take a look at the top 10 things in a significant other that’ll make for a lasting relationship.

She’s Independent

No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she’s had a rough day at work, it’s great to be her shoulder to cry on. But if she can’t seem to function without you, you’ll eventually suffocate, and if you’re smart you’ll run for the nearest exit.

Independence is key to a happy relationship, for both the man and the woman. You’ll find you’re still getting to know her long after you’ve gotten serious if she has a host of interests and commitments outside of your relationship.

She’s Intelligent

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on.

An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won’t let you get bored or complacent.

Besides, it’s nice to have something to talk about between all that headboard-rattling sex.

She’s S*xual

While we’re on the topic, a great girlfriend has to be s*xually compatible with you. For instance, if you’re into S&M and she’s more the “fluffy lingerie” type, that’s a problem.

The two of you have to be on the same page or, at least, if it’s what you really crave, she has to be willing to wear leather and use a whip from time to time.

Of course, this doesn’t imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction toward each other and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues).

It is important that you please each other in the bedroom or on top of the dryer whatever the case may be.

You’re Attracted to Her

I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself.

Being seen with her should make you feel better about yourself. And this doesn’t mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone.

Whatever floats your boat. Your mutual attraction should make you both want to stay looking your best.

She Respects You

This is a biggie. Your girlfriend must respect you otherwise you have to wonder why she bothers to be with you. This means that she takes the time to listen to you, even if you’re in a heated argument.

A great girlfriend will keep major disputes private rather than taking you down in public. She’ll make an effort to see things from your point of view (provided you do the same for her).

The key here is that the respect be mutual it’s very hard for one of you to respect the other while feeling disrespected.

The golden rule has no better application than in terms of respecting your significant other.

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She Lets You Be a Man

Do not I repeat do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker night with the guys.

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You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all.

If she’s a great girlfriend, she’ll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.

She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you wouldn’t deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she shouldn’t expect you to give up the guys for her.

She Doesn’t Nag Without a Good Reason

We’ve never met a man who was convinced to change his behavior because of his girlfriend’s nagging. A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely.

She knows when to get upset and when to let it slide.

However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you’re setting yourself up for disaster.

This is a situation that nobody would let slide not even a great girlfriend. Don’t push your luck with anyone, least of all your girlfriend.

She Gets Along With Your Friends and Family

A great girlfriend will make an effort to get to know your people. She’ll help your parents out at Thanksgiving, try to understand your brother’s twisted sense of humor, and want to get to know your friends.

She’ll actually empathize with your sister’s getting dumped and suggest that you guys take her out to cheer her up.

Not only that, but your friends won’t roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she’ll be joining you guys when she gets off work she’s one of the crowd.

She Loves You

If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her.

Of course, everyone has their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she’ll be able to cope with these.

Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis.

If the sight of you doesn’t seem to faze her either way, and she doesn’t really seem to care about what you have to say, she’s either playing very hard to get, or she sees you as just some guy.

But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there’s no denying that she loves you.

She Makes You Want to Be a Better Man

Stop making that face . . . Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man.

She doesn’t have to say or do anything; it just is that way.

If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister when you were younger or find yourself trying to get your finances in order to prepare for the future, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so.

It could be love.

Traits Of An Awesome Girlfriend (According To Men)

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Don’t Get Married If You Can’t Answer These Questions HonestlyDon’t Get Married If You Can’t Answer These Questions HonestlyHere are the 20 tough questions to ask about your relationships before moving forward.

1. Is for better or worse making me better or worse?

Does your partner encourage you to be your best self, or does he or she get intimidated by any triumphs and feel more secure when you’re not putting your best foot forward?

2. Do we really accept one another?

There will always be things you want to change about the people in your life, but no one should be in a situation where they feel they aren’t allowed to be authentic and accepted as the unique, special (yet flawed) person they are.

3. Who am I?

How can you know if your partner is a good match if you have no idea who you are?

4. Am I happy to be in this relationship?

The idea of sharing a life together is not to find someone to complete you or make you happy. But let’s face it: being unhappy at home can seep into other areas of your life . . . and fast. If you’re always fighting or just generally not feeling great about your twosome, it doesn’t mean you have to bail out (counseling might be a good option) but marrying someone in the hope that it changes things is a bad, bad idea.

5. Am I feeling trapped?

Do you really want to be in this relationship the majority of the time or do you find yourself wishing for a way out? Do you stay because you’ve invested time or are you really invested in your mate?

6. What am I doing to hold us back?

Maybe you could be more attentive, more thoughtful, quicker to let things go, or the first to bring up going to counseling. Whatever it is, take this as your sign to step up.

7. Is this relationship balanced?

Do you feel you’re both on the same page in terms of compromise, care, support and sacrifice? Or is one of you doing most of the giving while the other just sits with their hand out?

8. Can we have fun together?

Have you ever seen two people sit across from one another in silence at brunch as though they are being forced to walk through their day together? Not. fun.

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9. Can we have fun apart?

Co-dependency ain’t cute, y’all.

10. Why am I in this relationship?

Is it because you respect, love, trust, and value the person you are with? Or because you’re afraid of being alone, worried about finances, or have built a life you’re scared to leave?

11. Where is this going?

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Living in the “now” is great, but eventually the partnership will need a plan or someone will begin to feel anxious.
12. Do I really trust my partner?

For some, the immediate response to this can be devastating. If you’re one of them, it’s time to ask why and how you can begin to build or rebuild trust. Without it, there’s no chance.

13. Am I with a good person?

Knowing what you know about your partner today, would you vouch for them if they were a friend?

14. Am I attracted to my partner?

Physical attraction is hardly the most important component in a relationship, but forcing yourself to be in a relationship with someone who you’re not attracted to — just because it’s comfortable or “perfect on paper” isn’t fair to anyone. You will feel resentful and they will feel rejected.

15. Am I a parent or a partner?

Taking care of someone you love is a great thing to do, but when you feel like you’re raising a boyfriend — or worse, a husband — things get a little complicated. You’ll resent his childish ways. Who wants to sleep with their mom?

16. Does my partner have my back?

Do you feel like you’re a part of a loyal team who stands up for one another, supports one another, and shows a united front (even when the other is not around)? Or, do you feel like you’re constantly being thrown under the bus by your mate?

17. Are we looking in the same direction?

Some couples avoid having the big talks (religion, marriage, babies) because they think that, somehow, these things will just “work themselves out.” By the time they realize they won’t, they’re in a complicated, painful situation that leaves one (or both) feeling a little bit duped.

18. Are we growing together?

Being a human being living on this earth, we all have a right to grow and develop, and create a full life for ourselves. Are you and your partner still indulging in your passions (individual and shared) and growing as individuals?

19. Am I still me?

Being in love with someone should not require changing our identity to fit someone else’s idea of who we should be, on any level.

20. What is my gut telling me?

Should i go ahead with this or should i call it quits.

Don’t Get Married If You Can’t Answer These Questions Honestly

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Miley Cyrus has made a habit out of shocking on the red carpet. So, she had to go out of this world in order to top those previous outings.

The 22-year-old singer turned heads in this very revealing silver number which showed off her chest and other assets while strutting down the red carpet at the MTV Video Music Awards which jeld last night in Los Angeles.

Miley served as emcee of the event so she definitely had to ‘outshine’ the rest of the stars arriving at the event. See more pics below

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Sometimes a woman makes you feel she is so into you while she is just using you for her own benefits. We all hate being used so it’s really important we talk about this.

Below are signs she is using you

1. You know she is using you if she never returns your calls or replies your text unless it benefits her in some way.

2. You know she is using you if she is always busy when you need someone to talk to but she calls you in the middle of the night when she needs you.

3. You know she is using you if it’s always about her and she shows no interest in your life.

4. You know she is using you if she only hangs out with you when she is bored.

5. You know she is using you if she doesn’t introduce you to her friends. If she eventually introduces you to her friends, she never introduces you as her boyfriend.

6. You know she is using you if she conveniently assumes that you’re going to pay every time you two go out.

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7. You know she is using you if she is more interested in where you work and how much you earn than who you are as a person.

8. You know she is using you if she literally lives off you. She takes advantage of you being a nice guy and asks you of favours all the time.

9. You know she is using you if she is never apologetic for her mistakes.

10. You know she is using you if she doesn’t reciprocate. She takes, takes, takes but never gives. She rarely does things to show you she appreciates you and what you do to her.

11. You know she is using you when she only calls you when she wants s*x.

12. You know she is using you if she doesn’t want to see you regularly. When a woman is into you, she would not love to see you regularly.

Signs She Is Using You

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