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MimiSheWrote:
Lol your question seems a little aggressive sir, like I don't have the right to visit my ancestral home for Xmas? You dey pursue me? Well the answer to your question is: I missed my grandparents! The duo partner in crime would rather die than come stay with the rest of the family over there.

Happy now sir?

Johnthejohn:
If only they will love each other without divorce

MimiSheWrote:
They are all the same. Just choose your own version of frustration and start dealing with it!

If you have stayed abroad, you'd hate every damn thing about this country, especially our so called leaders!

Nigerians are either cowards, have low I.Q or should I say addicted to suffering!
In a sane country we(The youths) should be staging a nationwide uprising and revolution! not supporting the same old politicians that have been playing with this country since God knows when! All in the name of tribalism or religion! (wetin concern me, shebbi na xmas carry me come back here, Mek I do travel back!)

To get anything right in this country is a Rocket science!

Ordinary internet that the rest of the world have perfected and moved on decades ago, we are still struggling with our own.

Electricity nko? Oh this topic is not about that one, sorry.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

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PrinceOfLagos:
Aboki is not insult

Go ask the meaning of aboki, it's not insult

Mrkumareze:
He's a wealthy man, if na poor man he ll be released after one month, without apology .

ivandragon:
This is the longest uninterrupted fuel scarcity in Nigeria’s history.

Even Abacha was not this incompetent.

otipoju:
If this one tear you slap, your face must tear.

Sweetplum:
I know all of them. I m a fan of the oldies.
All these actors popular movies are on Netflix. Some sef on YouTube. They are still acting. So it's no big deal that l know them.

*Dolph Lundgren. Famous for Universal Soldiers. Alongside Jean Claude van Damme
* Jean Claude van Damme. Famous for Cyborg
* Arnold Schwarzenegger. Famous for Terminator.
* Sylvester Stallone. Famous for Rambo

Vintage100:
Pls help me I'm a graduate. I really need job. Pls help a brother

olisaEze:
Nigerians still remember the role he played to help PMB into power in 2015. The half truths & misinformation he peddled against GEJ & PEJ on his online newspaper. Just like Charly Boy, Nigerians still remember that he also got paid for his dirty work! He’s no different from any other cashtivist in this country, his party chairman in 2019 said as much! No one is prepared to lift a finger to help him 'take back' the Nigeria he personally delivered to these wicked old men in the first place, know this and know peace.

blingxx:
Something wey don cast when boys still dey chop benefit my friend wey use this tin chop na loader for Dubai now

Omooba77:
https://punchng.com/god-hasnt-spoken-on-nigerias-next-president-adeboye/

benjackugo:
Man Shares Photos Of Physical Transformation His Friend Experienced During Pregnancy

A South African man has shared photos showing the physical transformation his friend experienced during pregnancy, IGBERETV reports.

He shared before and after photos of the lady on his Twitter handle and wrote;



https://twitter.com/kikimasibi/status/1611344162888056834?t=RzhAX7chBoR02DF_5B6zjQ&s=19[/quote]man n woman dey b friend? Make d husband check dem well oooo.

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/CBN-bans-over-the-counter-withdrawal-of-new-notes

CheapHomes1:
Did you ask Google before you said that he talks too much?

CheapHomes1:
Did you ask Google before you said that he talks too much?

Nehe007:
Hmmm,nawa ooo,watin come make her change like dis?

CheapHomes1:
Did you ask Google before you said that he talks too much?

chatinent:
You donnn mean it.


Ok?

You don't want to lose your newly found BankPHB you met in the more and became an item. Clearly, you have not been making your head.

You are the keystone of your problem. No go find work. Dey there dey swallow another person money dey claim female upandan. E go clear.

Naijalarry:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9QH3Dgi1fE



Source- https://gazettengr.com/gazelle-gagaraga-tinubu-mumbles-another-word-salad-about-yahoo-boys-on-campaign-trail/

CheapHomes1:
Did you ask Google before you said that he talks too much?

CheapHomes1:
You haven't answered the question.
What did he say that is too much?

CheapHomes1:
What did he say that is too much?

lhordspy:
A man with a big heart.

If by this 2023 , you still feels Russia is in Ukraine for War. Then something is wrong with you.

Russia is in Ukraine for world peace . It signifies the beginning of the liberation of the world from the shackles of Evil powers, spearheaded by Nato, Eu and the west.

Evil people who go about spending billions of dollars on Medical healthcare and research but still encourages mental disorderliness in the form of homosexuality.

Tito24:
These people just want to frustrate Elon
They want him to loose

mariahAngel:
Acquiring a new skill is a way of adding value to yourself.
Every time you learn something new, you become better than you were.

This year, be encouraged to learn as much skills as you can, so that in the near future, you can be better than you are now.
So that when you look back, you can be proud of the person you have become and what you have been able to achieve.

So, without further ado, what skill(s) are you learning this year?

Jennyclay:
Biko, what is nice about this nonsense? abi don't you have sense?
What's wrong with all these yeye sadist lecturers? .

These are the yeye lecturers that demand sex for grade

They keep forming demi-god.

Nonsense!

inumidun2010:
Well, I don't know if their POLICE FORCE over there is CORRUPT like OURS here...
POLICE work here is a CURSED JOB and I'm not SORRY TO SAY...

Bluntguy:
30000 is very small nah. For Naija 1 million people dey come interview over 500 job vacancies. They still end up extorted of the very little they have and eventually sent home without getting the job.
Vote for Peter Obi if you want to take this country back from the criminals in power.

officialwdhtv:
$3M Dollars Bugatti Chiron spotted been pushed on the streets in Ghana

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm_R4pqrDVK/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Watch Video Here:

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/4weHkgpNLvI