If you are a man and wise enough to live a happy life bereft of sadness and regret, run away from single mom, let me rephrase my words again, if you are a man born of a woman, and your so desire in this earth is to live a happy life devoid of sadness and ,regret, anger, please stay off single mom.

Just yesterday I came back home from where I was temporary residing ,I met this young man not while ago, we talked, discussed and shared past life experience and how those experiences have shaped our world we live in. There is this damsel, that came to visit him, unknown to me,that girl is his new acquired girlfriend whom he deemed fit to tie the knot with. Sharing of information about the girl is of no use to me because I do see her as normal man-woman parole, very submissive, down to earth, washes the guys cloths, cook for the guy, arrange his house /home, pending the time the guy is back from work,these has been the trend for the past one month of meeting this girl,

On my way � from my outing,i just saw the girl and the guy with a little baby, the pretty girl was calling the lady mummy, on sighing this, I couldn't believe my eyes you, immediately , I approached the two love birds and threw my question to the young lady , wait! Is this your child? Guess what the answer was in affirmative,the guy facial look wasn't that great due to the fact this is his first time of hearing that his so-called soon to be wife had a kid,

two scenarios played today and yesterday, one, the lady never mentioned it to him that she has a kid of two years,! And she advised the kids to address this potential mate as her uncle? My people there is a saying that if mad man don bite you once, next time wey you see mechanic, you go take off!

On hearing this statement, this guy full of energy and with future aspirations whom believed he has met the one rebuked her instantly (the reason being that, why hide this only to spill it out at this very moment) which ended up with the guy locking up his house and zooming off, right now this young lady sat in front of the guys sit out filled with bitterness , rage and regrets, while the young innocent kid played with the neighbors kids while the mother thinks about her life. instantly the relationship between the two love birds ended/

Men listen, if you are not ready to wife up a woman, don't plant your seed in her because If you happens to be a victim of such unfair circumstances.
1=you are nothing to her but a potential helpmate,
2=you are just existing there for her and not living for her!
3=you are just the emotional baggage taker, 4=the kid doesn't recognize you neither the biological father because one day, the father will come knocking on her door.
5=you are wasting your energy, time on a failed project, you do score it f9.
6=she might have manipulated you in staying put with her and her kid just for the Child support but know it, since she got pregnant outside marriage, what makes you so sure that the second child both of you will be planning to birth has your DNA !

No matter how much you feigned / claimed to love kids, Seeing a kid that doesn't bear your true DNA and blood will always repulse you. Why it's so is because it's party law of nature. If you are a woman reading this, Close up until you put a ring on that finger on the "Alter of I Do"
because road bend no mean say, you go bend follow waka.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Poco, me sef tire. The truth is, they don't know that we are just managing most of them and tolerating their excesses.

Their warped mentality is really getting absurd. I sometimes wonder if ever they start giving without expecting, won't the world be a better place?

Weetiin you dey feel like ?

mrakeeno:
story

The guy is not having your cookie bla bla bla... as if there are no girls out there

I'm tired of you bunch. Only a low self esteem guy will put up with your poo mentality

The earlier guys realize these bitches need us more, the better. What am I even saying... We are better off without you lot

Spits

Lol.

Bro?I don't know where to start,but I'm going to start from somewhere either,See,One thing you must learn to do is to accept who you are,what you have been through, accept that you have been a chronic masturbator,yes,accept that you have not been in your good form for the past years you have engaged in this deranged act,yes,you have to accept that ,this is temporarily who you are for the time being,and you are ready to retrace your footsteps back to its normal base,because the worst thing that can happen to a living being is self condemnation! after accepting your flaws,you have to accept that this is not who you wish to be!(I can't fathom how a living being will tag himself useless!)
That this is an artificial life which you picked up while learning how to learn as a young man with wide adventure, and you pledged to stop itI don't know the level of your spiritual life, I see people advising you to engage and equip yourself with prayer,but bro,while you pray you have to also help yourself because heaven help those who help themselves, you have to think on how to be productive in this life,,by making resolution not to indulge in such dirty act again, anytime the urge comes,let your mind flash back to the past years you have engaged in it, ask yourself question, what did you gain?what did you achieve? Absolute nothing! Rather you gain depression, low self esteem, shyness and a reserved and secluded life which reduced your output as a young man with great ambition, take a look at those recycled porn movies you watch every day,you will find out that every input,every visualization and outputin it is the same,
I won't advise you to get a girlfriend,don't try it,for now your mental visualization is shattered and every shape that passes by looks like a sex object to you,because if you fail to get the attention of an opposite sex it will lead you back to watching what you destroyed! What you have to do is to get busy,keep away any browsing phone with you and make do with non browsing gadget.
When you wake up in the morning, pray,when you are about to sleep in the night also pray,commit it in prayer and back it up with strong resolution to quit!it won't be easy ,but I assure you, with great commitment and strong resolution,it will be a walk over! Nothing is impossible.

buzuazi:
pls are there jobs in Lithuania?

Oga there are jobs in Lithuania but only in the capital city,in fact the pay is very very small compare to western European country,always hold your first year and second year tuition fees,or you can always sign contract with your school to be paying in installation, till you graduate,after graduation head down to western European country, Latvia,Lithuania and Estonia are in per with Poland,all are eastern European countries, but Estonia passed them with margin being the hub of ICT, go and conquer.

innamorat:
Good evening group,please my husband has been in SA for seven months now and since then he has not found anything doing. He applied for permit but its not forthcoming. Please can someone help me out so that he can get something doing. He's a medical doctor but can't apply for jobs because he's yet to get his papers.

He should have applied straight to canny ,

Is not all about marrying a divorcée ,the question should be,who in his/her sane mind will agree to marry an after two ?unless there is a price tag.

Angela777:

Lol. Maybe in Nigeria doesn't exists yet Nigerian men love to talk about love. But real love does exists and I am sorry for you if you never experienced it.

Don't be sorry for me,I'm not a victim of circumstance,all I'm saying is,love don't exist,its personal interest, even in the western and saner world,its interest.

Angela777:

Lol. I am kicking this user and loser fast out of my life. If the guy plays games with me telling he can't afford dating but he claims and wants to marry me, he should go to play HIS games somewhere else. Me, not making it hard for a guy but NOT PAYING for him to make it easy. He (or you) better stay and pay for your African queens, they know how to play games and manage the man who doesn't want to work ... but to live on a woman's money. And I am not scary to be dumped for you or anybody else, better alone, than in a bad company. Also, you forget, nobody in this world is irreplaceable, there are plenty of fish for men and for women.

I am not playing games, I don't like lazy users living on a women's money and oh, yes, yes, yes, dump me fast, please, I am not your mama for to pay for your fun, clothes and food, travels, living and I don't need a gigolo who thinks I should pay for few words of love. Not games, love should work both ways, not only a woman giving all.

Love don't exist.stop confusing yourself, it's a matter of interest nothing else.

AngelicBeing:
Embassy ke, Nigeria embassies abroad are amongst the useless foreign missions you could ever go to for help, from the Ambassador to the gatekeepers, they are bunch of jokers, they are not different from the useless shithole government in Nigeria.

l will rather seek help from other sources than approach a useless shithole embassy called Nigeria embassy, all the useless embassies manned by our useless Ambassadors should be closed, flog out of office with koboko and replaced by Dogs, a dog will show more compassion than the useless criminals called embassy officials nonsense

Don't say what you don't know, Nigerian embassy in Russia is one of the best embassy in terms of rendering help to their citizens,I experience it myself ,don't talk what you are ignorant of.

WORDWORLD:

Op,I'm telling you this from experience,majority if not all ladies above 30 unmarried is a lady with an altitude, I have been in your shoe not once but twice,to an extent the lady opened herself for me to bleep her,I told her no,she has her own money,deals with multimillion naira business, she frequent from Abuja to Lagos and Dubai ,she pays her rent,pays the rent of her younger brother, has two sound car,and pays her bills when due,but those things didn't moved me once.we discuss deeply, things she can't share with her immediate brother, she once said,that any man coming close to her is coming for her money,that she no longer believe in love anymore, this lady opened herself for me to bleep her consecutive times,I told her no,though she resented me at first,but later she came back to her senses,
In your case,I can categorically tell you,that your woman friend is lonely and it seems it has been long,she felt the touch of a man in her life,you being available means her desires will be met,but sooner than later,that feelings will wash out,by then she do realized her mistake of investing in you.its your decision to make,this decision might mar you or make you,remember majority ofwomen above 30 are desperate for marriage not because they want to get married but because of societal pressures.

victorian:






Its truly clear. He cannot cope with the way he's wailing online .

So Baba God , collect this blessing from the guy and give a matured man who deserves such woman . at 35, she's not old .. Am close to 35! And guys are still on my case

not a blessing but a curse my dear.