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Family / Re: My Husband Lied His Concubine Was His Aunt, Made Me Live With Her – Wife by Lsofdk(m): 2:07pm On Aug 18, 2018
KNEO777:
An Oke-Ogbere Customary Court in Ibadan on Thursday dissolved a three-year-old marriage between one Temilade Oyeyemi and her husband, Ayo Oyeyemi , over deception and adultery.

The court’s president, Sulaiman Olaniyi, said, “In the interest of peaceful living, the union between Temilade and Ayo has ceased to be.

“Temilade shall take custody of the two-and-a-half-year-old child produced by the union while Ayo shall pay a monthly allowance of N3,000 for the child’s upkeep in addition to being responsible for his welfare.”

Mr Olaniyi, who also held that no form of deception could last forever advised young men to take care of their parents so as not to incur the wrath of God.

Temilade, 28, narrating her ordeal, told the court that her husband deceived her by presenting his concubine to her as his aunt.

“After I had pledged my future in marriage with Ayo three years ago, he completely deceived me that his concubine was his aunt.

“During the wedding, he introduced the same woman to my family as the only person that could stand in place of his late mother; and my family, unknowingly, accepted his deception.

“Ayo then took me to his mistress’s apartment to live,’’ she said.

Temilade said that the lady gave her all that she needed and she was happy living with the two secret lovers.

“However, I noticed that at around 1 a.m. on most days, Ayo would leave my side on our matrimonial bed.

“He would move to the floor where his secret lover he referred to as his aunt was sleeping to romance and have sex with her.

“He often would blame the hot weather for his usually reason for leaving my side to sleep on the floor.

“It then became clear to me that Ayo and that lady were never related but that they were, in fact, secret lovers.’’



Temilade said that when she was pregnant, Ayo never took care of her but he abandoned his responsibilities to his parents-in-law.

“Ayo is not trustworthy, he is a wicked man,’’ dissolve our union, Temilade said.

The respondent, Ayo, 38, conceded to the dissolution of the marriage after he had denied some of the allegations leveled against him by Temilade.

Ayo, who claimed to be a building engineer, contended that his wife was a good-for-nothing and lazy woman.

“My lord, I am responsible for my cooking and washing; I have all along catered for Temilade’s needs,” Ayo said.

In his testimony, Ayo’s father, however, pointed out that his son was a terrible husband and a fornicator.

“Ayo never told anybody in the family about his wedding and we are surprised about how everything has turned out.

“No one knows the concubine he is parading as his aunt.

“In fact, Ayo has never taken care of me since I had an accident in 2010.

“I am praying this court to settle the matter for them,” Ayo’s father begged.

Some of Temilade’s family members in their separate testimonies presented evidence of how Ayo maltreated the petitioner and prayed the court to terminate the union.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Temilade resides in Agbeni area while Ayo lives in Monatan area of Ibadan. (NAN)

https://www.mojidelano.com/2018/08/my-husband-lied-his-concubine-was-his-aunt-made-me-live-with-her-wife/
3k for child support?
She should have just walked out of the marriage with their child and spare herself listening to this trash of a decision by the judge, because I don't see how this favours her or the child.

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Sports / Re: Tyson Fury: I Can Beat Wilder And Anthony Joshua On The Same Night by Lsofdk(m): 4:23pm On Aug 13, 2018
soberdrunk:
I nor blame Anthony Joshua for "chickening out", That Wilder Guy is a "Wild Animal", i saw one of his fight clips where he punched a fellow boxer and the guy had a seizure and passed out....... angry
What's the name of the boxer? probably a minor. Wilder lacks techniques, besides where was this wild animal when Klitschhko was kicking asses undecided
Travel / Re: My Sad And Funny Lagos Experience by Lsofdk(m): 7:33am On Aug 04, 2018
Oyerinde16:
I sometimes feel anyone successfully scammed in Lagos is either careless, selfish or unlucky, I Never grew up in Lagos n I don't believe in jazz, whenever I am in Lagos I follow designated routes, I don't look for free ride, or cheap once, I will never allow 2,3 or 4 unknown pple box me in a corner, or follow desolate places inform of cutting corners, I'm not familiar to Lagos so if u ask for directions d ans is I don't know, I have walked up majestically to police stations n officer to ask 4 direction, keep ur gadget where its difficult for criminals to access such as bags n keep it close, bail when anyone tells u o dollars or try to derail u off course, finally be security conscious n shine your eyes at all times.....
NB: pls if they point a guy fake or not pls cooperate n hand over their property to them jejely.
Did you say bag... Just say you've just been lucky
Travel / Re: Tanker Explosion At Otedola-Ojodu, Berger Lagos: 20 Cars Burnt (Photos) by Lsofdk(m): 9:56pm On Jun 29, 2018
LethargiQue:


grin

I didn't know I died in the first place...
Just look who we've here, where the fvck have you been? undecided
Politics / Re: US Reacts To Plateau Killings, Reveals What They Will Do With Buhari by Lsofdk(m): 1:16pm On Jun 27, 2018
Sarkin:
are you thirsty or hungry today?
Even you IPOB lord and savoir Mr Trump isn't as foolish and ignorant as the IPOB criminal elements.
Hatred and wickedness has made IPOB even blind to see the world in good light and God will deal with those responsible for the killings of both the "Christians", people of plateau and the Fulanis.
They evil people that sponsor it just to put this country in disarray know themselves.
Sharap there undecided your senseless blind allegiance won't let you see the truth.
Celebrities / Re: Pictures: Game Of Thrones Kit Harington And Rose Leslie Tie The Knot In Scotland by Lsofdk(m): 10:02pm On Jun 24, 2018
Mariinee:
I know the route. undecided
Oh sad then I'll have to arrange to fly us there cheesy
Celebrities / Re: Pictures: Game Of Thrones Kit Harington And Rose Leslie Tie The Knot In Scotland by Lsofdk(m): 5:18pm On Jun 24, 2018
Mariinee:
We are trying to recreate something. That's the only perfect cave. grin
sad

How will you know if I take you to the wrong cave grin
Celebrities / Re: Pictures: Game Of Thrones Kit Harington And Rose Leslie Tie The Knot In Scotland by Lsofdk(m): 10:58am On Jun 24, 2018
Mariinee:
Are you not the man? Come up with something. sad
Hehehe

That shouldn't be the only cave in Westeros wink

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Celebrities / Re: Pictures: Game Of Thrones Kit Harington And Rose Leslie Tie The Knot In Scotland by Lsofdk(m): 7:37am On Jun 24, 2018
Mariinee:
Oh yeah, that's true. cry
I think we need to visit the cave too. lipsrsealed
Sure grin grin
But how do we get pass the night king

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Celebrities / Re: Pictures: Game Of Thrones Kit Harington And Rose Leslie Tie The Knot In Scotland by Lsofdk(m): 7:24am On Jun 24, 2018
Mariinee:
Wow, they must have really sparked some chemistry. They didn't even act much scenes together. It's nice. embarassed
Inside the cave was enough grin
Properties / Re: Two-Storey Building Collapses In Zaria, Four People Dead (Photos) by Lsofdk(m): 7:04am On Jun 09, 2018
This is what to expect when everyone wants to assume the role of an engineer, this is what a client gets when he/she wants a cheap job, also when he/she will rather pay to be fooled by 3D representation rather than a proper design and detailing drawings of his structure. Sometimes these people don't know why engineers do the things they do and they will feel they can replicate in another site. Just imagine using Y10 and 8 for slab and to top it all using 200 spacing at that, Lord knows what they used in the foundation. RIP to the dead, it's really a pity that those who were merely trying to make a living, fell victims to this collapse.
Romance / Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lsofdk(m): 7:15pm On Jun 07, 2018
MissAprokoMedia:
Please If You Educated read to the END of this Post, If you are less Educated read the 1st 5 lines the middle 5 lines and the last 5 lines


Good Afternoon Guys! I got an Email with "SAY NO TO HOMOPHOBIA in Nigeria" as the Subject matter and after reading that mail, I felt I should write a blog post about this, now I'm not gay for Saying No to Homophobia, I just trying to educate you on the Importance of how you treat Gay people.


I was in a chat with a friend of mine and then suddenly the talk about Gay people popped into the conversation and then he said,





I felt he was stupid for saying that because it meant thesame thing, you don't need to prefer any of them if you don't like or support same sex relationship, are you trying to say you will gladly have a Lesbian for a daughter than a gay son,the outcome is same,leaving that aside as guy are trying to say you can date a lesbian and be cool with it, I wonder how you will cope when your Girlfriend prefers another woman's vagina to your esteemed Manhood, same goes for women on having gay boyfriends"


And then I hear some people say:



this makes me cringe at their stupidity, is hate, tribalism, segregation part of the African tradition aswell, We make traditions and can aswell reform it.

I'm not in support of same sex relationships but that doesn't mean I should cast gays away, treat them like dogs, harass them and kill them, emotionally abuse them, deny them of their rights to good jobs (You cant get a Job in a reputable company in Nigeria if you are gay) simply because of their sexual orientation, you have no right to judge them,let God Judge them.

I know sometimes having a gay guy around you might be annoying, but you should learn to accommodate people just as you would accommodate worshippers of other religion, I'm sure if they had a choice they wouldn't choose what they are.. And that if they did choose to be gay, it's their personal choice.

So yesterday, I saw a guy's post on facebook while scrolling through my facebook timeline, he said,
"Who can tell me where to buy thunder that will fire all this gay people in my DM, do I look like gay for your eye? I wonder why these set of people are allowed to roam about, they should be massacred" and then I saw other Nigerian guys, even ladies that are supposed to be soft hearted cheering along with him asking him to cover his Ass with the blood of Jesus, but they failed to observe the following;
He had an artifical curly hair (His natural hair is not curly) so why perm it, since when did curly hair an attribute for women became an African man's thing?
He had a carved eyebrow like that of women (Are straight men allowed to carve eyebrow too? Only gay guys or lady's do )
He had Pink Lips �, it's now rampant, all Nigerian guys now have pink lips, some peel their original lips just to get that pink lips and then they say it's for the sake of looking cute, it's foolishness (As a straight man your goodlucks should be birthed by nature and properly managed by you) it's only women that are known to alter their looks just to look good.
He had a nose ring and a piercing in his ear lobe
He pouts when he takes selfies

Now tell me why he won't be mistaken for a gay if he is not gay, simply commented, if he doesn't want gay's around him he should look like a man and stop trying to look cute.
Imagine a world where gay people are the the majority, how would you feel if you were been beating for touching a woman, you were Been Humilliated for sleeping with a woman, you were denied a source of livelihood because of your sexual preferences? It wouldnt be good right?

As for those that keep saying "Homosexuality was the reason God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, so Gays should be destroyed" - remember that God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah himself, remember that God didnt send a group of angry mob or soldiers to kill them, he was simply fed up and decided to flush them out of the earth himself, God has every right to do that because he created them and gave them a chance to change and when they didn't he judged them, he didn't give humans that right to judge because they too weren't worthy enough, so you see... What you as a Homophobe have been doing to gay people has been wrong, even before God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah Gay guys rapport with straight men, the Bible didn't record anywhere LOT was raped, he lived amongst them but he wasn't influenced by them.


If you're Not been Influenced by Gays then let them be, as long as they are not forcing you to practice it and to Gay men the act of forcing straight guys to have gay relationship with you is WRONG! Respect their sexual preferences as well!!



If you are not gay and a gay guy approaches you kindly tell them, "I'm sorry I don't do men, I love Women" and that is cool and okay! Very matured and if they insist, block them if it's on social media, If they try to harass you... Report to the appropriate authorities and let them be disciplined instead of hurting them, setting them up and castigating them, they will never approach you if you have not been giving them a feeling that you are gay and if they approach you when you don't look gay in any way.... Tell them straight! THAT WAY THEY WILL STAY CLEAR instead of being Homophobic.


Stop making other people's sexual preferences your BUSINESS so that you will live long, stop thinking about how gay people have sex unless you want to try it out, learn to accommodate people, just like you as a Christian you won't like a Muslim to over power you and seize your rights to worship in your faith, same goes with Muslims aswell.

The case of Homophobes and gay people is the same as the tribal war going here in Nigeria, the IPOB'S feel oppressed and cheated and want to break out, but with simple understanding and learning to accommodate people we will be at peace with one another.
You're indeed funny, it's never the same so don't even draw that line of argument, so IPOB's right to break out shouldn't be granted(as I see you proposed a solution) but that of Homosexuals should?
I didn't write this post to offend any body, please if you are offended I'm greatly sorry, and if you feel my opinions doesn't go in line with what you think! It's fine... I accept defeat!


Published by JoelsBlog:
https://joelsblog.com.ng/you-can-dislike-gay-people-its-fine-but-dont-be-homophobic-dont-be-a-homophobe/

Lalasticlala, Mynd44
Romance / Re: Is It Right To Pay back My Ex This WAY? (PART 2) by Lsofdk(m): 7:08am On Jun 01, 2018
Enskynelson:



bros, he wanted to beat the gal o. He listened to the advice that said he shouldnt beat the gal.
Well he did what he thought was right. Don't get me wrong I'm not justifying her action, just saying there are mature approaches to that. But if what he says is true then she got what she deserves.
Romance / Re: Is It Right To Pay back My Ex This WAY? (PART 2) by Lsofdk(m): 7:08pm On May 31, 2018
I had to read up your previous thread. You got some good advises there but you decided to ignore because your mind was made up, reason why I don't even bother myself. Now you're here again and you want us to cheer you right? undecided

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Travel / Re: Lagos Can Never Be Compared With Abuja - Lady Blasts Lagosians by Lsofdk(m): 7:25pm On May 17, 2018
DeOTR:
There's no basis for comparison. I know everywhere there is to know in both cities. Abuja is no where near Lagos.
And besides you can't cover a distance of 13km in 30 minutes anywhere in Abuja in the morning...not when you left home at 7:30 am.
Travelling that far from home to work, she's definitely residing outside the municipal or somewhere within AMAC a bit removed from the city center and there is nothing exciting about living in Abuja slums.
On a serious note, all the high-end neigbourhood in Abuja are equivalent to mid-level in Lagos, no hating.
The Abuja is just central Area which is in no way close. The only problem with Lagos is overpopulation.
Health / Re: Man Dies After Consuming 1000mg Of Tramadol In Benue State by Lsofdk(m): 6:15pm On May 05, 2018
kolawoleibukun:
[s]Nigerians bad oh. why people wicked like this? back in the days na agbo we day drink day well. now Igboh people don finish us. if you see where dem produce fake drugs for Onitsha eh. you go run. some igbos wicked oh. dem just day make powder day sell am to destroy people life. at the end point the person go take am buy expensive cars and houses.

dem day halla say Fulani day kill for benue but the ones way igbohs way kill with fake drugs why nobody day cry over that?

it is unfair to keep walking as if it is not your business. Look well, people are dying and you know. but you are supporting these evil men because they are your brother. It is unfair.[/s]
How does one taking 1000mg of trams correlate with your story undecided Keep scrolling if you have nothing sensible to say.

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Romance / Re: A Man Who Engages In Anal Sex With A Lady, Has Gay Tendencies - NGR Psychologist by Lsofdk(m): 7:30pm On May 02, 2018
Shugavee:
i am not into biology!! But according to stuffs I hv read, homosexuality is more abt who u are attracted to!!! Some guys are not attracted to women n r disgusted by them sexually, a lady has an anus n can sucvk ur dick if u want but u still prefer a man!! A lesbian can get sucked by a man but they want that from a woman, only women make them wet n vise versa But if u r already attracted to a woman n u are sexually arose by a lady u can explore sex n it means nothing
I get your point and I understand perfectly.
You know I was actually thinking you were steering towards whether homosexuality was choice and all those endless debates. Anyways thanks for the briefing

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija's Khloe Wows In Native Attire & Makeup Photos by Lsofdk(m): 4:35pm On May 02, 2018
vizkiz:
I wish I can put her nippleś in my mouth and massage it with my tongue. kiss

Romance / Re: A Man Who Engages In Anal Sex With A Lady, Has Gay Tendencies - NGR Psychologist by Lsofdk(m): 4:31pm On May 02, 2018
Shugavee:
Please gay has nothing to do with sex!!! It mainly abt who u are sexually attracted to as a person!! Sex is to be explored... it's still unfortunate that Nigeria still doesn't know the concept of homosexuality!!
Enlighten us please
Romance / Re: A Man Who Engages In Anal Sex With A Lady, Has Gay Tendencies - NGR Psychologist by Lsofdk(m): 4:08pm On May 02, 2018
Smh
Lsodk:
i don't give a damn whose ass you're digging… as long as you're digging ass… you're gay
I support the argument not based on her point of view but mine. Everything has it's function and any deviation from it's intended use is abnormal.
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Lsofdk(m): 6:44pm On Apr 26, 2018
GloryIsaac:


Bro, were you able to find out?
No bro, These interrogations are not easy and we can't just point fingers randomly. Though I don't think anyone in the group will do that
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Bayern Munich Vs Real Madrid : UCL (1 - 2) On 25th April 2018 by Lsofdk(m): 6:46am On Apr 26, 2018
Cadec007:
in the two finals was it not extra time wizardry u used to win?
Oga goan sit down angry show me where extra time wizardry was written on our cup.

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Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Lsofdk(m): 6:54am On Apr 23, 2018
GloryIsaac:
Send me a mail..

Cc lsofdk, vizkiz, papikush, kushykush, obiorathesubtle
Just got your mail. I'll hit up the others bro.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by Lsofdk(m): 6:45am On Apr 13, 2018
GloryIsaac:


Har what shocked grin grin.. with all these 9ja feminism we dey see cheesy grin, you gots start up something nah grin grin
Baba our girls dy humble now grin na only our yankee babe dy disturb. Sure baba we gatz pinch them one of these days.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by Lsofdk(m): 12:49pm On Apr 12, 2018
GloryIsaac:


E dey alright o but stress too much angry, i just dey use this place cool off cheesy grin. How the others nah?, dem don fight again? cheesy
Lol e dy necessary.

Mehn everybody dy alright. Nah nah bro we dy live in harmony now grin
You just reminded me of those fights then grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by Lsofdk(m): 6:34am On Apr 12, 2018
GloryIsaac:


Lmao!, Obi get luck say my nku no dey right now... E for hear am last night grin grin
Lwkmd grin

How e dy go for your side na. Na only for this side person dy see your break light
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by Lsofdk(m): 6:33pm On Apr 11, 2018
GloryIsaac:
Yesssssssss!!!!

ls ofdk come and see o!!

Come and see what the lord has done!!

[img]https://media1./images/b3bb9375f13800b541e686ae6b132443/tenor.gif?itemid=9119741[/img]
grin grin
Lol I still dy wait for Obi, the guy just hide since last night
Romance / Re: See How Ladies Dress Now: Sanity Or Insanity by Lsofdk(m): 12:52am On Apr 06, 2018
jonero4:
my niggar
Lol cool I sight you bro
lowkey28:


I Know you're one of the vasline crew.
[font=serif]Far from that grin [/font
Romance / Re: See How Ladies Dress Now: Sanity Or Insanity by Lsofdk(m): 9:16pm On Apr 05, 2018
These are not the only nylons in the market, they should do for white nylons too grin

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Romance / Re: Guys And Ladies, What's Your Take On Artificial Eyelashes? by Lsofdk(m): 2:07pm On Apr 05, 2018
prechbills1:


Africans are black moneys. ..nonsense
my parents aren't full Africans.

nothing can change the fact that Africans are black monkeys.. useless people
I've come across some of your comments and you come off as being dumb. Keep deceiving yourself black monkey grin
Romance / Re: Five Signs You Are Dating A Woman,not A Girl by Lsofdk(m): 8:46am On Apr 05, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Your imperfections can attract someone it all depends on how you handle such imperfections cool
Okay your opinion

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