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Romance › 7 Reasons Why Love May Never Be Experienced by Lsofdk(op): 7:38pm On May 30, 2016

[b]At times i sit and feel pity for LOVE, for the damage done in it's name. So after stumbling on several threads and posts on nairaland and beyond, i decided to do this. They've been arguments recently and in the past pertaining the existence of love, the hurt it has inflicted on it's patients. Having paid attention to these arguments, i knew something was definitely wrong, and the problem ain't from LOVE itself but from HUMANS.
Enough said let's get down to business.

1. The equation of love is never balanced: The quality or quantity of love expressed by both parties is never proportional.
Man 70% + Woman 30% ≠ LOVE
Hence, in most cases one party takes advantage of the other.

2. Humans have misconstrued the meaning of love: Every saturday vows are been recited in churches, despite their vows to love regardless the condition ~~till death~~, it's surprising the rate at which these marriages/relationships ~~built on love~~ collapses. To some, preaching it is a means to an end (sex).

3. Humans are more concerned about the characters of their partners: Many do have list/requirements the supposed spouse/partner is to meet probably in their head or penned down, whereas they do not meet the requirements they set for others. In relationships it's the same, as partners tend to want to influence the lifestyle of their spouse without putting theirs in check. To find the right person, be the right person.

4. Humans think love hurts: Someone hurt you, love didn't or better someone who claimed to love you hurt you. Loves doesn't hurt and neither does one who loves you. One who loves you knows what would hurt you by instinct and would desist from taking those paths.

5. Human don't understand love: Just like everything on earth requires understanding to execute, so does love. You can't practice what you know nothing of. A collection of peoples thought on love would help buttress this point. Most people are more interested in the verbal usage of the word than it's actual meaning.
Love is love, It has never changed neither will it. When surfing the web i stumble into words like "real or true love/unconditional love" these words are also obtainable during interactions with humans which is only affirming some unknown kinds of love(false love/conditional love). To people in this line of thought, love is true and unconditional.

6. Fear to love/fear to love again: This applies to the heartbroken, they've raised their defenses so high, they now see a loving person in same light as those who broke their hearts. Some are scared of loving because they've watched their friends and family pass through emotional pains because of love. There's this igbo proverb which translates to "should we avoid war because of death?", this question extends to other life challenges "should we quit hustling because of failure". Now ask yourself that last question, your answer is as good as mine.

7. I've said much, drop yours.

Just like the saying "good things are hard to find", so is love. the journey of love is not a smooth one, it's like traveling to an unknown land, you will likely fall into wrong routes. Don't quit the journey simply because you took a wrong route, quit the route and continue your journey.

Note: The above equation is not in any way an actual representation of the percentage of love displayed by parties in a relationship.
written by: Lsofdk
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Agriculture › Re: Once In A Desert Lifetime by Lsofdk(op): 2:45pm On May 30, 2016

Creamish:
First thing that comes to my mind is this hairstyle babes do with thread...

[color=teal]lol…this could be the source[/color]

Romance › Re: 10 Tips For Sustaining Relationship by Lsofdk(m): 2:36pm On May 30, 2016

nice one op

Romance › Re: Share Your Experience Of The Game"devil Basket" by Lsofdk(m): 11:21am On May 30, 2016

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]I had no choice[/color]

[color=teal] ah mogbe[/color]

Agriculture › Once In A Desert Lifetime by Lsofdk(op): 10:37am On May 30, 2016

[color=teal]Unique meets Rare!
This Desert Antelope in the Namib Desert of Africa was caught on camera by Wildlife Photographer. Wonder how He’s going to find a Mate now. Or maybe, lady antelopes might just love Unique guys.
Photo Credit: Ettiene Rossouw
source: https://thelivingplanetblog./2016/05/24/once-in-a-desert-lifetime/ [/color]

Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Flatulate In Your Boyfriend's Presence? by Lsofdk(m): 8:28am On May 30, 2016

[color=teal]breakups loading if you're trying it for the first time.
some would take it for disrespect [/color]

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Romance › Re: Counter Thread: 100 Ways To Love Your Husband/ Boyfriend by Lsofdk(m): 7:19am On May 30, 2016

halfricanadian:
Tell me d answer na

[color=teal]ok, you said you have no idea what love is and it hurts, my reply was, you should sit tight and expect my next thread[/color]

Romance › Re: Counter Thread: 100 Ways To Love Your Husband/ Boyfriend by Lsofdk(m): 12:02am On May 30, 2016

halfricanadian:
All

[color=teal]iffa hear

you were asking me jamb qwesions on that thread abi[/color]

Romance › Re: Counter Thread: 100 Ways To Love Your Husband/ Boyfriend by Lsofdk(m): 11:07pm On May 29, 2016

halfricanadian:
Im still growing up

I learn everyday

[color=teal]you just made it difficult, how many can you do? [/color]

Romance › Re: Can You Do This Because Of Love? by Lsofdk(m): 9:41pm On May 29, 2016

halfricanadian:
Expect wat tomorrow

[color=teal]you've forgotten anyway you'll see it tomorrow [/color]

Romance › Re: Can You Do This Because Of Love? by Lsofdk(m): 9:32pm On May 29, 2016

halfricanadian:
God forbid

He wud go for d scholarship

Wats love wen i cant make him become productive

Fear such women

[color=teal]expect it tomorrow

@OP the baba wey do this your jazz strong oh[/color]

Romance › Re: Change Your World With Women With These 13 Books by Lsofdk(m): 1:26am On May 29, 2016*

[color=teal]Fvck those books, get rich and any lady you desire shall be added unto you[/color]https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/dafuq.jpg

Romance › Re: The Most Hilarious Tweet Today! (snapshot) by Lsofdk(m): 12:42am On May 29, 2016

mimzy:
Le.zz smelly.mouth ls.ofdk mu.va ts.om jubre.alguy obiorat.hesubtle

Which of you. Oya you people should confess

[color=teal]you know it's not me na [/color]

Romance › Re: Who Knows Kulboy Please??? by Lsofdk(m): 11:32am On May 27, 2016

ireneony:
u need to know the difference.
She never mention any sexual fantasy on her post. Or saying she wants to bleep him.[
Her motives are genuine

ivyy:
I don't think so dear. Those being termed perverts are being judged by the structure of the message they deliver.

[color=teal]ok, i get[/color]

Romance › Re: Who Knows Kulboy Please??? by Lsofdk(m): 10:10am On May 27, 2016

ireneony:
nice gesture

[color=teal]but the guys who would create such threads are termed perverts[/color]

Events › Re: Happy Birthday IYKEKELVINS!! by Lsofdk(m): 1:11pm On May 26, 2016

[color=teal]HBD iykekelvins wish you the best life gat to offer llnp [/color]

Romance › Re: Apology To An Unknown Nairalander by Lsofdk(m): 7:37am On May 26, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
Lol... She called all of una names...

Una don cast finish...

[color=teal]make i hear say my name follow.
no be name wey dem sabi pronounce dem go mention [/color]

Romance › Re: Apology To An Unknown Nairalander by Lsofdk(m): 4:50pm On May 25, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
I considered too...

But business is business.... its worth...

Money involved is Much... I can't explain all here Sha... but just believe when I say it's worth it...

[color=teal]so you know you yab people online and you were quick to say your moniker, you f**k up oh[/color]

Romance › Re: Lies Nigerian Ladies Tell (with Pictures) by Lsofdk(m): 2:32pm On May 24, 2016*

[color=teal]6. I'll be ready in a minute
7. I'm pregnant
make i call my oga tosyne2much to drop the remaining[/color]

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Romance › Re: Lies Nigerian Ladies Tell (with Pictures) by Lsofdk(m): 2:16pm On May 24, 2016*

[color=teal]1. money ain't love/money isn't everything
2. he's just a friend
3. stop!
4. I'm on my period
5. I've not and would never cheat on you [/color]

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Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 2:12pm On May 24, 2016

ErnieSmallzz:
lmao, aw u take knw?

[color=teal]nothing eludes me
nothing! [/color]

Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 12:21pm On May 24, 2016

kinginvalhala4:
Lol, over a year?
and I have been an active nairalander for 3 unstoppable years now, so bro, I deserve the medal more.

[color=teal]3 what carry the medal dy go till you get rival[/color]

Literature › Re: Surviving Evil (thriller) by Lsofdk(m): 12:17pm On May 24, 2016

skarlett:
kindly stop quoting the epistle, you're making the page lengthy. Make your comment and cc the author if you want but stop quoting please

Nice work lerie, the suspense is top notch

[color=teal]noted and modified [/color]

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Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 12:11pm On May 24, 2016

kinginvalhala4:
Hahahaha, only on the last day would hidden secrets be reviewed.
15? ahhhh, you re damn far ahead of me, lol

If not for this miss Nairaland contest, mine would still have been raging btw 3 to 5.

[color=teal]hahaha i try sha, for over a year? give me some credit .[/color]

Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 12:09pm On May 24, 2016

Suigeneris93:
a resounding Amen! To that

Fine, yours?

[color=teal]going fine with a beautiful weather to compliment it[/color]

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Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 12:05pm On May 24, 2016

Estharfabian:
Lol.

I fell in love with it when I first saw the video on MTV.
It sank deep...Considering the fact that I'm pretty lazy and can't even do my own laundries... can't even fathom the thought of doing other people's laundries. Mbanu!

Not even husby! :-D

[color=teal] isi gini

don't even think it [/color]

Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 11:54am On May 24, 2016

kinginvalhala4:
The end would be suicidal for them.

Those with a heart should please continue sending them so that the population of Nigeria doesn't deplete.
I know you re one with a heart, I trust you baba. lol

[color=teal]hahaha, 15 NL ladies can't come up with a proof i pm'ed them. that's how rare it's i don't just pm any pvssy and mary[/color]

Literature › Re: Surviving Evil (thriller) by Lsofdk(m): 11:48am On May 24, 2016*

Leriebloom:
…

[color=teal]suspense! i love this[/color]

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Romance › Re: Only A Broke, Desperate, Low Self-esteem Guy Will Send Pm To A Nl Girl by Lsofdk(m): 11:38am On May 24, 2016

Estharfabian:
Lol.

Ahugom ihe niile You know It's A song, huh?

[color=teal]yeah i do

Jennifer lopez [/color]

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