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begoniaa:
Eweeeeee. All of this to attract a woman.

Lemme mention your OGs and bosses sef.

Kriss216/Zonefree
ikillbrokehoes
Lilvicky68
Pansophist
AfroKnight
Raalsalghul
Ubunja
Martinez39s
Franchasng
CaveAdullam
IamV
2buffagain
LordKO/RightToReject


See what your gender is writing... All just to get a woman. A woman. Lasan lasan.

So the redpill truths you all have been swallowing, that is supposed to be a magnet or shit have all been in waste? You are the ones now that are supposed to be inventing tricks and doing everything pursuing a woman - as a prize?? Women of any ages at all?

Nahhh, I find this as a disgrace to the legacy of your teachers. That is why I am calling on them to come speak some sense into y'all heads or something.

they don't want somebody like you that's why they are going different ways so as to have many options, did the mention or suggest feminist there? NO, did they suggest woman with plenty body count, NO, did they suggest 30+ ,No..... I think you don't seem to understand Op

GardenOfGod:
Clearly you just rehearse Local Government in Akwa Ibom State that you were taught in primary school. But am not gonna score you any point cos you mixed up everything

lol, I can me mention The whole 31LGA

franchasofficia:
The op is right.


I have a very close friend who is still single and having same issue.


This guy is educated, an Accountant. He heads his company's account department at his young age. Aside being an accountant, he has a flourishing small fintech business with 5 staffs. He lives in what I may call a family mansion alone. He has met hundreds of ladies and none is up to what he desires or what we his close friends consider okay.


He is either meeting hungry, broke opportunists or ladies above 37 with good job though but he want something around 27 to 29.


This guy has tried almost all social media platforms, Facebook, etc still same class of babes.


Right now I de pity him cos it seems his spec of girls aren't in Nigeria again lol


Our Nigerian ladies need to work on themselves and try to upgrade at early age.


The younger ones seems to be immature, unserious and act too foolish. The older ones are more mature, cool headed, financially independent but like the op said, the girlie vibes and beauty is almost gone. The remaining beauty in them is now money induced beauty using beauty products and all those artificial enhancements.



I pity single people of this age, e no easy to find your taste as a well to do young man.



This is where studying abroad at undergraduate stage gives advantage cos it seems the type of chicks op want are all schooling abroad or they schooled abroad and have been taken by their Nigerian course mates and school mates abroad

LMAO

Hunchogee:
Ikono, udung uko get good access roads

what of ibiono ibom?

bigpicture001:
Thannks climbing above average is really very tough... And time is not on my side anymore.. am mid 30...

I am a 300k earner.. and hope to mk that leap by end of. Year to 500k monthly.... But there is still a problem...

I do non formal huzle.. dou legit, but non formal... Wen it's time for ur marriage , den u will see wahalaa... All average ladies with good age wouldn't marry u, if u huzle.. they prefer white collar guyz...

I am a graduate oi.. once taught in a politechnic but left for better huzle and pay... But these class of. Ladies are hell Bent on smooth looking guyz to match thier average income.....for example...I met a federal government teacher lady who is average for a lady..we flowed well, ND don't get me wrong I look very good..but we. Details will be laid on what u do..ND I told her..sh hesitated and stylishly pulled away ...


No b small wahala.. na the thing I dey face now b dat.. well, will get a car a small cheap to maintain car this year to help my cause... My ex has turned out the richest female in my community... It really pains me we huzles together.... Now one zenith smooth dresser guy has taken over her.....another is a non teaching staff lady at a university...we clicked good..but once a guy who is a. Pharmacist came calling sh stylishly slide out.....u see for the. First lady..I earn x2 of the zenith guy,but sh prefers him cuz he will help her fulfill the teenage girls fairy tale dream of me nice guy in suite husband..........for the other one..the title pharmacist blowed her mind........ honestly I want an average class lady..cuz can't keep any down

Only fools trust women!

please no vex oo, what kind of work do you do?

Ballzproblemm:
go to big man church if you wan shop for girls ,go to big men areas if you one shop for girls, go to gym if want working class lady, whatever you do ,do not settle for a broke bitch , highest you f*ck but relationship no no. ,this is 21st century

what about Mall?

ComeToJesus:
Inasmuch as I beleive in empowering indigenous firms, Udom should have stuck with Julius Berger. All these indigenous contractors are ethically fraudulent and do not comply with international benchmarks. Watch how they'll use 5 bags of cement where the standard measurement is 10 bags.


All the roads Akpabio uses Berger to construct are still motorable today.

sometimes cause by how they monitor those boy who controls cement and the batching plant in the company, the engineer in charge would finish the calculation and tell them what to do , those boys will went and reduced the standard so as to steal the remaining cement, I am privilege to work in that section though am under paid and suffering, you there not stop those boys From stealing, except it is monitored by the white man.

Hunchogee:
you don’t understand what make a round 10lanes you no ask questions.hmmm.
See , you don't calculate the lanes of a road by the median, rather you calculate the lanes of a road by the size of the width.

This road is an ten lanes road, certainly not four.

I’m a details: it’s 10lane actually becos the btw the massive divider you have 3lane on each flanks making it 6 while the other 2service lanes have 2 lanes each making it 4 .. so total of 10lanes .. meanwhile the one leading to the airport is 8 lanes ..

are you into road construction?

GardenOfGod:
You just want to comment with a bittered mind or what? Is there any local government in Akwa Ibom thy doesn't have a good road leading to the state capital? Mention them if you know.

ibiono, ikono, eastern obolo, ika, udung uko, ini. Etc

GboyegaD:
Have they fixed the roads linking the villages to the cities? The airport isn't as economically viable to the detriment of other things. I still wonder how we set our priorities.

this is exactly thing I always tell them,. Villages in akwa ibom are really suffering

2*2
4/2
6^2

Shugargal:
Oga I refuse on your last paragraph, Is you guys that pay too much attention to looks that's why you end up disappointed when she starts showing her character. That's one of the reasons many homes are broken because you choose beauty instead of attitude.

on my last paragraph, I was just trying to confuse myself on what happen at first sight when you first meet a girl, she will first look you and compare with her previous fantasies, if you are tall, your hair style, red lips, skin color, your tommy, etc. Before she would listen to you

JBriel:
Preach my brother. You're so on point. Let me cap it up by saying to detect how a lady likes you

If she isn't spending on you

Yearning to see you and more of you

Reciprocating conversations

Bending over rules to meet you in the middle


My dear, you're by your self. Be it platonic or romantic relationships, if a woman falls into this category with you, you're wasting useful time.


Same lady stingy with a guy can be willing to collect loam for another.

Don't dig into the reasons. It's always filled with their nonsensical bullshit. Don't try to spin the reality before you, change them or be patient. Just move respectfully


Just withdraw your attention,end the chats, don't check the timeline. Walk away like you don't care.. e dey pain them die

you are right, any girl that likes you won't stress you from day one, don't forget that they are more concerned about physical attributes of a man more than they way we men are concern about theirs.

Badboibipo:
Girls are really not so bad. Yes many of them have attitude issues and bad personalities but the truth is every girl have genuine kindness and goodness in her but they hardly show it because they DONT like you!
Yes, your girlfriend or even your wife may not like you as much as you like them. You bought her and you may never experience the best version of that girl because she’s not as into you as you are into her.
Have you heard a girl complain about a guy saying hello to her and calling him a “stalker” ? Do you know that same girl will tell her friends that another “perfect gentleman” is following her everywhere and she thinks he’s so romantic?
Two guys doing the same thing to the same girl but different reactions. That’s the life of women, they love the same thing they complain about, it all just depends on who is doing it.
Find a girl that likes you genuinely, stop buying women with money, very wrong move. You will never get the best version of her like that, they will use you and once a better option comes they will dump you in a second.
Don’t impress girls with money, if you truly want a good woman make sure she likes you for anything but not because of your pocket! That’s the worse way to get a woman.

you are right bro, We don't have any woman who is entirely wicked or have bad character, it all depends whether she likes you all not, if she likes you she will respect you, her bad character will not manifest, but if you are not the kind of man she want, you will see all manners of drama and attitude that she will bring from the pit of hell. Same way you will meet a girl and tried to toast or ask her her for sex, she denied you, while the kind of guy she likes won't even stress himself before she fall for him.

Maybe you be handsome man plus your dick size

3kay945:
So it is crime to be short?! Anyway, my pocket has been a saving grace.

Short ko, medium short ni

what is your height

Think9ja:
All these stress just to get a wife?

Tell me why men will not see women as "something, something" in the voice of Governor Ortom after the wedding?

The funny thing is once you get her pregnant, you can bypass this protocol.

Sadly, some people still pass through this stress to marry a girl who has hundreds of body counts and exes.

It is well.

na that stress dey vex me pass bro, she fit still come give you headache after enough stress and wasting of money

Why wasting your money to do White wedding again?

adewumiopeyemi:
Shey this people no no say this format don cast since ni

E never cast finish ooo, them scam one woman yesterday wey I dey always help to do something on her phone because she no too Sabi phone

RaptObserver:
Start from somewhere. Old keke is okay

thanks so much

Joeboy88:
If my Excellency, the best President so far can ride Keke, then who are you My guy, any hustle that will put food on your table with a clean hand and a peaceful mind, do it asap o....President Olusegun Obasanjo have challenge the youths with that singular act of riding Keke.

thanks

Johndagr8t:
honestly,am losing my little profit

I have experienced this before wen I was still a SIMP, by that time I was not working, I was trying to acquired new skill, I met her around were I was learning work, we started talking and became friends, that was how she started billing me. My redpill mentality help me to caution myself to stop giving her any money. So, Summon courage if you are still struggling from SIMPing and stop giving her the least thing like #100 recharge card, by doing so she will be the one to block you. You need to put your business first, have goal of growing your your medicine shop to a bigger one. You really have a good business that can fetch you money if you are focus

Stop given her, she is not the only girl around you, find another one that is not demanding if you truly want a girlfriend, do you know that' those small small change you spend on her can buy ono pack of paracetamol??

Hi everyone, I have been working for this chinese construction company for more than 2yrs now.

Initially I was employed as a quality control engineer to oversee concrete testing, deflection test, compaction test and many more, but after like three months of taking the role, I was been converted to a full time labourer in the company because they refused to employed more labourers and they don't pay attention to quality.

Since then I have been suffering like a mad man ( doing hard labor) in the company, working from 7am - 5:30 PM everyday earning 2k/day. I am planning of quitting the job to buy an old keke.

Please how is keke business? Will I be making upto 5k daily if I apply the same energy I used in working for chinese.? And buying an old keke, is it a good idea?
would it cause me to make friends with mechanics?

Please if you have done keke business share your experience.

FuckHomophobes:
My Chinese boss at the CCECC was young, kind and playful. I would always play with his fluffy hair then .

His other colleagues would tell him not to relate with us on a friendly level but he doesn't agree to them. I think it was because he was the youngest of all and was in the surveying department. (They respect us gan)

But you see other bosses in other departments? Nah werey dem be. You dare not call them without attaching "Master".

My boss will never let you can him master because he was so passionate towards people.

I work for EEC, still chinese company. Some are nice some are wicked, can you connect me to work in CCECC

okomile:
I have good working relationship with my German, Italian, Israelis and British bosses.
I still keep in touch with them.
They don't accept laziness at work though.
Still miss them.
I have always worked in a construction companies.

are you a civil or mechanical engineer??

YoungDaNaval:
Worked with an Indonesian boss, he's a very nice and friendly man. Worked with a Romanian, this one no get issue, just that he's too holy, you know all these deeper life and choosen kind of holy? Lol

Worked with a Georgian, this one na guy man, I dey give am babes steady.

Worked with a Ukrainian, Omo this one na werey, always acting like he's on drugs, person wey Una dey gist dey laugh the next minute, he Don Change am for you


Oh Les I forget, worked with a Croatian, that one dey target my nyash but God pass am. He get luck, I nearly overboard the werey one day

at the bolded, exactly how my Chinese boss behaves, he would begin to abuse you verbally, scatter the work work you both did together, he wasn't tempted to tear my lab test result which I suffer to conduct, I had to drag it with him. You would see in the next minute, he would come back to beg you.

lathrowinger:
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Crixxx:
Obi. Lady looks smart
Our first lady from Akwa Ibom

she is from Cross River

zionmde:
That guy is a real man
Any man that has total control over konji has already positioned himself for success. A man of respect and dignity

Not these cheap guys who call him a simp yet keep simping for their 3rd legs

I have control over konji, but I'm not successful, I think konji no dey stop who wan succeed

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

you have been scammed Op, many Nigerian girls are using this borrowing format to scam any guy who SIMPed around Them, this happened to me too few weeks ago, met this girl which I liked so much, I asked for her number she refused, I Ignored her for a while, after many months she came by herself to give me the number, the moment she gave me the number my instinct told me that she wants to bill me because she probably saw me as a SIMP, that same evening while we were chatting, she started the billing, she indirectly asked me of 3k saying the Chase her sister out of school that she wish she could get 3k to send to he sister, I Ignored her, month later, she messaged me to help her with 1k to complete something, I Ignored again, few months again she massage me again to borrow her 5k that wen she come back From work she will refund it, I Ignored her the 3rd time , that was how she stopped chatting with me. Girl where no dey gree come my house,

MasonKendall:
What hav3 you benefitted from being a Christian?

too numerous to mention, especially being a born again christian