₦airaland Forum

Sweetvie:
Seriously I don't know for girls. I alws type with my own knowledge so I can't know for other girls. If you need bedmatic assistance it doesn't have to be same girl. Apart, there's other way she can repay you than sex. How will you help a person and she will think of you as a mumu? That's stupidity

am surprised you don't that' any girl you give money without asking for sex will call you mugu. It happen. She won't even call you a "real man" na mumu she go call you, she go even discuss you with her friends

Badadvisor:
Our next goal another person gets 10k.
I don't know how I'd pick someone but let's see. You must be a man u fan or gtfoh

bro abeg , I go appreciate anything, even 8f na 1k make i take arrange myself 2404295002, Zenith Bank

Sheriman:
Baba small small now why the hating and rubbishing him like that. I understand the fact that he doesn't know anything about getting a good laptop for the job but at least he would start from somewhere with a low budget laptop later he will upgrade. Many people who later become big in tech today start from somewhere. You don't need this discouragement. You Know he is a newbie, he is not aware to any of these things but I have told him to forget about Android development because of his machine unless he want to blame himself. I advise new people entering into tech to make proper researcuh about which tech field they really want to go before buying a laptop. Not all laptops can perfectly do some tech field.

please I want to go into web development, can Yu recommend a good laptop for me. I have been on a research for laptop for more than 3 months now, I have been getting a commendation that is above my budget. Please help me out

dennisworld1:
what about the soil strength

a good civil engineer can do that too. Under geotechnic

odinson1:
Hey guys i just got My laptop yesterday at 140k from the plaza and i have interests in Programming,coding and graphics designing. I don't have any applications yet on the system,how do i go about my programming journey guys?
The laptop specs are;
8GB Ram
1GB dedicated graphics card
Core i7 processor
Windows 10 pro
I hope these are more than enough for my journey? I also want to play a few Standard games along the way too.
So what do you guys think?

am getting my laptop this week by God's Grace

Architect knows nothing about structural strength, like wise building technologist, bricks layers, surveyor, etc. No matter your years of experience. Only a civil engineer does.

Facebook lite too dey fvck up,

plsdisvirginme:
The highest I have paid is 16,500.
This month alone I have spent almost 101,500.
The truth of the matter is that once you start sleeping with olosho, it is very hard to leave.
May God help me

please give me work,maje I dey earn money

AllDModsAreMaad:
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

my brother family settled with demon last yr. E no reach 6 month. The demon in her manifest. I go make threads on this in soon

sukkot:
I have had issues with 'mad' Nigerians over this madness. you will see people put tire on the road in front of their house so that you will not park in front of their house like did you pay for the road too? Is the road your property?

And when you park there they will leak your tire. Please, do these idiots know that their property does not extend beyond the fence you paid for? You don't own the road. I hate these people with this entitlement mindset. One idiot haas actually leaked my tire because I parked on government road that happens to be in front of his property. You will see these demonic sons of baal disfigure the whole place by putting tires on roads in front of their house so someone does not park there.

This has happened to me in estates too. When you buy a house in a gated estate do you buy the road in front of your house with it? I seriously need an answer to this particular question because I have had troubles with people in gated estates who think the road in front of their house is theirs and no one can park on it?

my dad paid for land, the man that own the road/entrance to the land also sold the entrance for my dad, collect traditional right for the entrance too. Now the entrance has become road to be accessed by about three other compound. People are passing there too. In this Case my father can claim ownership of the place because he paid fully for the entrance that is now road

SenatePresdo:
Impression in an anonymous forum?

I wonder what you guys see Nairaland as.

If it's Facebook or IG, It would have been different.

Most of the things I say here, I wouldn't say them in real life, or if my identity is known.

Anybody can easily Deactivate and that's the end. Why not use the advantage of the anonymous profile and pour out your mind, after all everybody has that side they hide on a normal day.
We ain't all saints after all.

the reason I like nairaland was that i thought it was genuine because it's faceless

sparko1:
It's not just the father or the mother, it's the entire lineage of both parents, if a man from a short people lineage gets tall, there's a good chance most of his children will be short, it's not about him alone.

My dad is 6f, my mom 5.7f, but in her family they have tall people upto 6.2f, I am the tallest in both immediate and extended family at 6.3f. In my dad's side, his father was as tall as I am, his grandfather as well.

Nobody in my family is short, but there's something, every woman on my dad side is full, like yeah fat, but everyone on my mom side is slim. None of us is thick, not to talk of fat.

I don't really understand the science behind height. Because my mom is from tall lineage, her siblings are very tall ( all above 6ft) she as the only female in the family come short. She come marry my dad who is from a tall lineage too. Now now of us tall., That's why I was trying to say maybe children inherite height from their mother. I have see many cases like that.

charlesdinho7:
what happen to WE guys wey no reach 6 ft? say make we chop garri forget about love?

forget 6ft. To me from 5'7" is a good height. From 5.0 to 5.6 8s average.

sparko1:
Really, from your observation, your observation is wrong, height is determined by the father, why width is from the mother. This is not an observation but fact.

bro. My
average height uncle married two wives, tall and Short, children From the tall wife are all tall ( very tall) while children from the short wife are all Short (very short). Now my dad is very tall around 6'2" while my mum is short around 5"5'. All my siblings are all Short, including me, the tallest among 8 children is just 5'7". No one reach my father's height, all of us dey my mum height. One other man from my church that is very short, not even upto 5feet. Wey Marry tall woman. All the children are very tall.

HltSong:
Thank Allah say I be tall guy(6.1)

Short boys too get bad character. Na why babes no like them. For me o, any fat boy with height below 5.10, na dwarf be dat.

what are you saying, do you know 5'10" person is a very tall person. You that is 6'1" you are only taller than him with 3inchs. Davido is 5'6 but his freshness doesn't make it show, wiskid is 5"2', girls still like them. They can choose them over you that claim 6.1

LifestyleTonite:
They don't love you for being funny. They only love you because they find your height attractive, hence they make excuses for your horrible jokes by laughing. Watch what happens when a short guy tells same jokes.

@Topic

The reason why girls like tall guys is because they want their children to be tall. Height is a key factor in attractiveness. Most girls are short i.e under 5ft5, so they want a guy 6ft or above to complement them.

most children inherite height from their mother not father, speaking From my observation sha.

No be for precedency. You see atiku poster for there??

Man is the price.

Josepin:
Bros be calming down I too didn't receive 5k from anybody when I was in school. You too might do the same with time. Sorry I fall your hand

I can never do The same. I know how I used to suffer in school, I remember drinking Garri for a whole week. I lived in the hostel for complete 5yrs. A small 12×12 room with 16 people in the room, I remember sleeping in the class room pretending as if am doing night class. Anyday i want to sleep in the room it would be 3 people in one tiny foam and 16 people in the room. Wen I become rich like you, I will always help my fellow guys who do not get help from anywhere or who suffer like me. I will never send money to a girl to use and buy data for tiktok and Instagram to showcase herself, while there are brilliant guys in school looking for money to buy data to use for assignments or practice engineering drawing.

That money don go op. Never borrow money to a woman. If you can afford to lose that money here is what Yu should do: if you are the type that like sex, ignore her never ask her for the money again for like one month, after one month, make friends with her again, at
this times you will be fvcking her for Free, Make sure you fvck her upto 20timesor More to complete your money. Olosho na 1k no be 20k

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

through out my 5yrs in the university as an engineering student in the east where things were very expensive, I was not even privilege to see something close to 10k a month. But my fellow man dey send random girl 20k-30k monthly. You have make me remember my University days, am crying in my heart now. There are many guys in school now struggling, but op will never see those ones to help. Na one olosho dey Enter your eyes. SIMPing get level ahswear.

advanceDNA:
He ddnt knkw the girl doesnt need him anymore.....babe don step up her olosho game as soon as she enter higher institution ....

Funniest part be say ..she fit call the baba, scope am say she was angry, apologize and promise baba brezz... and he will still be paying her steady...

have you forgotten that anger is one of the manipulation tools

advanceDNA:
This is funny and pathetic at the same time

Op did not have sex yet he's paying school fees and upkeep and still got burned......


There's level to this thing called simping oooo

Its like some people are born simps

for her to report op to the wife is not an issue to me. The issue is sending her money monthly just like that.

AstraDroid:
Most of them marry for access to every day pusssy?

People could learn to de-couple sex from reproduction. Fertility is no longer an issue, there are biological breakthroughs on that field.

what biological breakthrough? The breakthrough would it favour the poor?

CSTRR:
Infact, most people on nairaland don't earn up to 100k.

Are you guys playing here?

100k is a big boy in Nigeria.

100k na big boy bro

harjay1986:
I get married in 2016 with 55k as salary.... I do drop 20k to stock up , no eating outside save 10k per month for house rent, 10k untoch, the remaining cash for day to day running, coming to dis time I get pay 180k I only add 15k to my food stockup making it 35 using 80k on our building project per month and the rest

you are a real man. No unnecessary spending

Pipefitter:
Ever heard of cutting ones clothes according to ones size. I owned a multi million naira business for years, travelled for vacation and used flights for all local travel then things went south I was broke and lost my business. After a year staying at home I got a job that paid me 16k monthly in 2015 just so I could feed, surprisingly I was never hungry for a day because I planned according to my income. I developed myself in another field afterwards and currently 300k+. I still develop myself the more because of my dreams... A man earning 100k or less today could earn millions tomorrow. It's all about managing your finances and commitment, if the man is lucky enough to get married to a woman with brain that understands that no condition is permanent then the sky Is the limit, not a woman that wouldn't allow him save a considerably amount that will be used to develop skills or a woman that wants to live Instagram life...

Modified: A family than earns 130k monthly can comfortably save 50k depends on how they commute to work because transportation will be the biggest challenge. 10k will be for weekly foodstuffs and they ensure they cook at home that's will be 40k monthly, the remaining 40k is for entertainment, NEPA bill etc.. with 50k saved monthly they can decide to set up side hustle after a year or develop better skills.... Everything must not be like Instagram lifestyle

I'm interested in learning this your skill please

Pipefitter:
This thread is meant to connect pipe and structural fitters in this forum...

Let's discuss challenges,
Current jobs..
Upcoming jobs.

Opportunities abroad if any,

Your experience/pay ..
Finally, questions will be answered for those willing to follow this career path.

Lalasticlala, mynd44

please where can I learn this your skill, I studied mechanical engineering

Rozross:
I’m interested on the breakdown, simply break it down for me on how you spent such money monthly, please

get out, people have different ways of managing their income. On which standard are you telling him to break it. There is no standard 8n spending, there are people who earn 30k yet they manage it well and lived happily

EnyinnaVictor19:
Boss!!!

please teach me blogging na

God is merciful

Kaiser20:
So who will perfect the hacking for APC this time around, maybe Afghanistan hackers, definitely not INEC
Nigerians are waiting for all dem hackers.

it will be done right there at the polling unit. I remember how card readers read fake and clone cards. They guy did right there in my present.