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Thanks for dis info, but zonal head to which company?

@Pak, may God bless u for saying d truth. I was terribly dissapointed in debrief response, but chose to ignore her. Not all questions deserve an answer.

Whether he is lying or not, is not the issue here. These are real life situations that can help other families in such situtions.

So, my advise is dat u stop playing detectives and give your advice or u can move on.

Family section in nairaland does not mean dat it has to happen to d poster.

So, either u have sometin genuine to say, or keep ur investigative and doubting mouths closed.

Nothing wrong in ur wifes request. If u guys were based in naija, ur wife may probably be working and would have taken up dat responsibility.

Considering d cost of getting househelps over there, ur wife is probably a full time housewife with no income of hers.

She is very right in saying dat most responsible men in naija look for ways to set up their wives, to share family burden.

Hello friends, I need you people to help me understand my wife's odd behaviour.

Please don't get me wrong, my wife and I have known for 19yrs and been married for 14yrs. We have 3kids and very happy together. She is a friend, mother, wife and everything good. I cannot wish for a better woman.

My issue is this: she finds it very difficult to stay naked in front of me, and in all d yrs we have known, she feels very shy to make d first move, even when she feels like being intimate.

My question is, what would make a woman so shy towards her husband of many years?

Please can anyone link me to agents that provide househelps?

I am based in Port Harcourt.

Thanks a lot.

Ur sister cannot love such a two timing pig.

All she is missing is d good bedmatics (intimacy) she was enjoying with him.

Help her by getting her a younger and energitic man.

Abeg, the whole idea of pushing and experiencing avoidable pain is not worth it. What makes it worse is dat u lose the tightness in ur “workshop”.

I personally believe that a Cs is better and easier, and what is more, ur baby's head stays in shape.

My sisters, opt for cs anyday, anywhere.

Now, she has spoilt my expensive blender.

In attempting to wash it, she soaked both the blender and d engine in water. The worst thing she has done so far, is wearing my daughters pant.

I have since sent for d agent, but he has failed to show.

I am kicking her out tomoro, with or without him.

@ifyalways: when I asked her, she said “abeg no vex, I bin tink say d people make mistake”.

My annoyance with her was why she even touched it at all.

As for maltreatment and revenge? If she was being maltreated in my house, u think she would be bold enough to so much as cough? She is very destructive.

She is extremely destructive. God knows how much she has destroyed in the 2months she has spent with me.

I just feel like rearranging her face with slaps.

She is about 22yrs; or could she be possessed?

What care do u mean? She is yet to spend 2months in my house. Even at that, I have observed that she is very forward.

The story is very true.

I bought a brand new laptop and brought it home. I came back from work and found most of the letters on the keyboard on top the table.

I couldn't understand what or how it happened. On questioning my 7yrs old daughter, she said the househelp used knife to uproot the letters on the keyboard, as according to her, the letters were not arranged alphabetically. In the process of her uprooting the keys, many of the sitting were broken.

The laptop cost me 160k, which I am yet to payoff.

I had to leave the house for some hours to calm my temper down before I know what to do.

I am yet to come up with a befitting punishment.

I bought a brand new laptop and brought it home.

Thank u all for ur contibutions. I have shown my sister ur various reponses and she intends to try out some of dem.

Ps: she is not fat, just busty.

The doctor said it was a mild bacteria infection, common with fat people and busty ladies. He prescibed amplicox antibiotics and regualar usage of nixoderm cream. It didn't help much.

She bathes twice daily, however, her under boobs are always damp inspite of being in an airconditioed environment.

Doctors have prescribed but nothing has worked so far. I don't know if anyone has had similar issues, and what d solution was.

My younger sister is fast losing intimacy with her husband!

Her husband avoids her in bed as a result of the fact that under her boobs emit a foul odour and is fast turning very black! She has tried using one or two creams but to no avail.

Please how can she correct this problem, as her once happy life is now turning to sadness. The husband still claims to love her but said he cannot stand d smell hence his keeping away from her. Please help.

As u guessed, her boobs are big and not so firm after 3kids.

U guys are just talking cos u have never experieneced d evil in most of dis so called house helps. They are EVIL. Have u ever experienced a situation wher ur 2yr old boy who has been walking suddenly starts to crawl, or ur very brilliant child becomes very dull? or ur kids always falling ill and no doctor can diagonize d problem?
How about taking ur child to church and whenever the name of Jesus is mentioned, he screams? All these have happened to many people just because d so called househelp is seeking promotion in d evil world.

It is just unfortunate dat an 8yr old child is involved hence d news. As for me, these hoosehelps deserve whatever dey get

Hello Nairalanders, what can I do? I feel like comitting suicide. I had been searching for a job for over 8yrs after graduating from the University, unfortunately no job was forthcoming neither was I been invited for any interviews. Sometime last week, fate shined on me for the first time and I was called for an interview in a very good oil company.

I informed some of my closest friends on d good news, and they felt it should be celebrated as d company is known for emplying evryone interviewed. We went out, had some drinks and partied for long.

The next was the day of the interview, but alas my alarm did not go off and I ended up sleeping late. I woke up 2 hrs after my scheduled appointment.

Even at that, I still went ahead to rush to the center, only to be locked out.

I am finished! I have just blown away my future! Can I ever get a second chance? I feel so hopeless, helpless, dejected and sad.

Could this be home trouble? I am usually not a deep sleeper.

My dear, u surprise me. Are u not a babe? Do exactly d same to him. Start receiving calls from men, join a BBm group so dat u are always pinging, and join dis making friends online website. Make ur hubby uncomfortable and he might just realise d rubbish he is doing. You have every right to be jealous cos u love ur man. I wonder why most men are very selfcentered.

Hello Port Harcourt nairalanders, any of you familiar with Deworld Int Second school located at Eleme Junction? I need to know how high their staandard is, and how good their boarding facilities are. Please help me with this information to enable me make a quick decision. Thank you.

Hi all, I am based in port harcourt. Getting games here is very expensive hence I decided to go online and seach for cheaper sources. I came across billy/rahoof via nairaland and decided to take my chance. These guys are d real stuff, very legit. I ordered for games for my son. Though skeptical cos I had to pay first into their account, I went ahead to make d payment. I received the games as at when promised, and in good condition. We have been doing biz together ever since, and till date no dissappointment. We are yet to even see ourselves. Anybody dealing with them should feel very safe cos these boys are genuine.

Tell us more pls. What are they into, and what type of job would not require experience? Do they have branch in port harcourt? If possible can we have ur number to call u for further discussions?

Mainstreet Bank, defunct Afribank sacked over 600 staff yesterday. The sacked staff were paid off with just 2 months basic salary and were forced to sign undertaking that they would not sue the bank. The executive directors were spread out in various regions, heavily guarded by Mopol while sharing the letters. It was a very pathetic sight yesterday as staff that had spent over 20 years in the bank, left with nothing. It is very unfortunate.

Goodday all. how do I get to be a distributor for C-way fruit drinks? I am based in Phc.

Why not try Mainstreet bank, former Afribank and u would know the real meaning of FRUSTRATION.

PASTOR CHRIS IS ONLY DEFENDING WHAT HE DOES REGULARLY. AS A MAN WHO IS ESTRANGED FROM HIS WIFE, HOW DO YOU PEOPLE EXPECT HIM TO COPE?

CARRY ON PASTOR CHRIS AND CONTINUE TO HELP YOURSELF

BUT BE WARNED THAT TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING HAS NEGATIVE EFFECT.

YORUBA PEOPLE. UNA TOO THIEF. HABA. UNA NO GET SHAME? !!!![i][/i]

@mukina Do we really have to lie or exagerrate issues to drive home our point? there is no such bridge in bomadi or uvwheru local govt area.
We all agree that GEJ is a big disappointment to all of us, so let us not trivalize the issue or make a mockery of a terrible situation.

GEJ AND PEPE, IT IS TIME TO TAKE A BOW!!!!!!!!!

U ARE NOT FIT FOR THIS COUNTRY AT ALL.

FU CKING THIEVES.