It's thoughtless of one to judge without hearing from both parties involved in such domestic violence or others.

Notwithstanding, Men should learn to handle domestic cases with care. You hardly hear a man fight in his office, it's rear: fight in the office? I have not heard of it. Therefore does it mean these same men who handle domestic issues with "all" violent are not being offended in their various offices? No! Why not employ same courage u had to handle office issues in ur home, even more amicable because your home is your industry.... Don't ruin it with annoyance.............................................

However, I am not supporting women or saying they are saint in all matters......... But, all I am saying is ........ Until a mosquito perches on a man's testicles he will not realised that it's not every issue or case he had to handle with violent.................

My advice: Handle ur wife with the same hand and courage you use to handle the mosquito that perches on your testicle to sting. Be patience man......... Give lecture, she is foreign in your house, until u teach her your cred she won't accord to it all.

You women should be ready to learn from your husbands..... whether he's educated or educated illiterate, you choose to marry him in the first place. Don't run after affluence.... it kills at last.... marry a man that truly loves you.... whether rich or about to or wishing to... you won't experience battle in your expected room/bed of love.

I hope this is enough 4 a wise one....

ladyF:
Which church is that? What happened to the place of forgiveness in the Bible?

It's LadyF again.

How there can you catch a thief and just say you forgive him/her without due discipling..... if u do, you are endangering other innocent people.
Read the Bible; Proverbs 13:24: “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.” ("Whoever refuses to spank his son hates him, but whoever loves his son disciplines him from early on"

An even scarier piece of parenting advice is in Proverbs 23:13-14. It says: “Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die (" Do not hesitate to discipline a child. If you spank him, he will not die. Spank him yourself, and you will save his soul from hell."

All I need to tell u....is..........SORRY.... FROM FRYING PAN TO FIRE.... SAFE BURNT

MUST we continue to be in BONDAGE for the fear of enemies at d Gate?

I wonder..... what we, people are turning to.... your relatives are being killed, their property destroyed or carted away. Every day you wakeup, all u hear is death, scarcity, inflation etc.... Many still, do not see the other side of the coin....... How can grass be waving praise in tone with d wind when a herbivorious enters into the field? or Can rate sing the praise of a cat in its midst in d warren?


Hmmm....! I wonder.....

yarimo:
Progressive people

What really do you mean by "progressive" Peeple?

mywells:
*SATISFYING A WOMAN*
Every responsible man wants to satisfy his family and wife in terms of providing for their basic needs *and also satisfying his wife in bed.* But doing this at the expense of the man's life is what I want to condemn.
It is a common experience these days that *women openly talk about how bad their spouses are in bed,* and most times the woman makes life difficult for the man by throwing abusive words at him.
It is also common to see a lot of products being openly advertised and marketed for enhancement of males sexual performance.
*A lot of women are responsible for their husband's death* because of their excessive demands for sexual satisfaction, and in the bid to satisfy the woman the man take drugs that endanger his health, and their lives are cut short.
If I may ask, *Is sexual satisfaction the basis of relationships or marriage?* Some times some women even ask for bigger joystick and my fellow man will be taking the risk to drink all sorts of drugs just to enlarge his joystick to satisfy the woman.
Is this not just mocking God who created you? At the end *you may die SATISFYING A WOMAN.*


Why not ask the woman to reduce her vagina to fit your joystick size instead?



It is important to note that a *man's sexual performance depends on a lot of factors,* such as stress, diet, medical conditions such as diabetes, and drugs such as antihypertensives, as well as relationship problems.
*How do you expect a man whom you nag, starve, embarrass in public, whom you refuse to support financially, who sleeps for less than 3 hours in a day, to satisfy you sexually?*
Sometimes the woman may go behind the man. Most of the times the women will threaten to go outside for the so called satisfaction and the man will be struggling to take higher doses of the drugs to satisfy her to prevent adultery from his marriage.
But you know what? That woman you want to satisfy at the expense of your own life started having sex before the age of 12 years. She has been experiencing several sexual activities until the age of 25yrs or more before she got married.
*Before her marriage, she has experimented sex widely with many men of different expertise and energy capacities.* Unfortunately, she married you, a single man with single capacity, but *she is already addicted to different sex experiences.* So how can you measure up, just one man, to satisfy her?
Don't die in active service. Please your children, friends and parents will need you alive. Don't die in the attempt to satisfy a woman sexually. *Just do what you can do* and leave the rest to God. *If you die satisfying a woman immediately after your burial other men will come and continue from where you left of.
*Our dear wives and girlfriends, we are begging you to help us live a little longer. If you don't want to join the WIDOWS CLUB, please help us financially, appreciate what we are trying to do for you, encourage us to do more, stop the nagging, go the extra mile to feed us well, give us peace of mind, allow us sleep at night, let the house be the home for also so that we can feel happy coming home after our daily toil, understand our health challenges, understand the side effects of drugs we are taking, protect our weaknesses, don't disgrace us to our children and your friends, and above all pray for us.*
Then we will live longer for you and your children. Our performances then will also improve when you make us feel appreciated.
Men, please do not harm yourself in any way by trying to prove that you are a man. Research has proved that ejaculating 2 -13 minutes is OK. If you can go higher without drugs better; but do not take drugs that will damage your heart.
*NOTE THAT IT IS NORMAL AND NATURAL WITH MANY MEN TO EJACULATE WITHIN 2 MINUTES OF INTERCOURSE.
In fact it is natural with several men to ejaculate fast during the first intercourse so don't take any drug for premature ejaculation, it's not a disease to be treated. The 2nd and 3rd rounds usually take longer before ejaculation. Attempt to take drugs to stay on a woman for longer time may kill you and leave the woman for another man. It may kill you prematurely so be very careful.
Many men have died trying to satisfy women. *THEY DIED IN ACTIVE SERVICE TO WOMEN

u made good points

I wish u were call for public lecture probably youth gathering/sch...

UjuJoan2:
He obviously doesn't trust his brothers and doesn't want them anywhere around you. In his own way he's trying to protect you from whatever it is he doesn't want them to infect you with.

I'll listen to him if I were you!

Realy...... this could probably be d reason.

However, there could also be lasting disagreement btw them b4 u married him or he didn't just like their way of life...
this is common to real born gain christian couple if their family members are not... Try to find out b4 u create prblm in your home.

questions

1... how is his own relationship with them like?
2... how is his character like?
3... Are both of you trueful, born again christians or religious
4... Are d family members more trueful, born again christians or religious than your husband?
5.... Do they care about the well-being of your family physically, and spiritually?
6... Find out if they actually mean well for him and you....
7.... Find out, how was their support and advice to your marriage.

Answers to these questions will enable good and profitable advice..... "woe to that who seeks advice from whom, who has no ideal in d area/issue he/she needs advice".

God bls u.... Pls keep ur home

This is trash........ how can many of you accusing the man without an ounce of blame on the wife, and the sister?

However, the man should be severely punished for his daily stupidity... Come to the wife.... where was she when all these were going on? for two years your husband using your sister, you didn't notice any "kurukere" movement?

Good people what do you expect in a house or family where d wife and the sister competing in "shabi-dressing" if it's possible, let ask the woman how the 16yrs old sis dresses in the house?... again let ask her how close is she to the husband......?

There are some of these women that won't care the way they leave their sis free at the mercy of the husbands knowing/under-minding the uselessness of their characters... Birds of d same feather"....

In Life not after death you must reap what you sowed.......... Repent ......or you perish.... follow christ... not man of God or woman of God or prophet/prophetess...........

Wives watch your husband.... Pray for them..... care about them.... love them..... You wives emulate Christ.... to protect your family......be your husbands' best and closest friend.

Leetunechi:
I met a female soldier online. We quarreled and I even insulted her, but now we have settled. Guess wot? She asked me to visit her at her barracks. I can't wait to meet her.

It appears u want to sign ur death warrant........Hope u return to tell the experience...... Well safe trip.....if u however wish urself.

Hmmmmm!

what are u people waiting b4 marriage? what else remain...? hmmmm una try ooooo......

is she sti under 22? or +1.... hope men-no-purse you b4 settling down 4 marriage.

I wish your num 2 desire come2pass....

10 good years u are dating without marriage? pls just go and marry....

hmmmmm! it's well with u.

Where is the peugeot 504 saloon and the bus?


If its true may there souls RIP

How does one fights in marriage... physical fight or spiritual fight...... however, whatever answer anyone may have, my dear readers, a woman or man who marries without Godly process is like a seed on the sandy soil.

Men and women have to be strong in the Lord... write the Laws of the Lord in your heart....

Do't think that today humble man or woman will not change with time.... seek the face of God now before fire ignits... then u can't pray but ran around for solution where there may be none.

Look at mama Explanation it a lesson to all... of us... fight the fight of FAITH... there u have victory... You can't tie your wife or husband with rop but with the Super Sounding WORD OF GOD... Only the undefitable word of God from the right mounth can tie a man or woman.. that thing in between your legs must request... but it's left for you to answer...

Remember! what you plant today must germinate... whether good or evil, moral or immoral...

Good luck to all Family.....

Money2000:


Brand new Prado is about 12 million naira. Don't be ignorant.

You de correct person ... where u get it na leather bag? how much is brand new high model Corola? that is for foreign used model High Lander. Direct foreign Used prado of high model is more than 12m Sir.

nestic:
chaiii...see waist over 2million naira gone...its not my portion

What did you see there that is 2million? who will sell, even prado with k-leg 2 million? it's not bread & tea or butter

if you want 2 help d owner Cry just do it not 2 talk of money... ........ actually it a huge amount bro

frenzyduchess:
And who told you I don't believe in God, Hahahahah, lots of people think church attendance is what will take people to heaven ,no bro, what's important in this life is 1)peace with your self
2) peace with the creator
3) peace with your neighbor
but we focus on the number 2 and skip numbers 1 and 3
This is why we have so many churches yet evil and iniquities abound. We are not even at peace with our selves not to talk of being at peace with the world

dear.... really, but church plays apart but not all.... however u hav to identify with one.... is very important for life worthy of living...

frenzyduchess:
Shey its you people that are looking for God fearing lady na, that's how one fine guy said he won't date me cos I don't attend church

why don't you attend any church? Of all What God has done for you.... what you have seen and what you are yet to see, is it that you still not convinced about the coming of Jesus Christ... You ought to be an ambassador for Christ... Pls.. see to this, and choose a church among the numerous churches... serve God with the whole of your heart and your life will not remain this same...

adetayo234:


You are having very strong problem with simple understanding. The origin of this discuss is that you said humans can't command God, and I've given you Bible verses that showed God wants humans to command him. Please don't infect me with your spirit of confusion.

ya... you can command God concerning His SOn.. and His word (Isa.45:11)

GIVE ATTENTION TO YOUR WIFE AS HUSBAND AND STOP COMPLAINING... SHE HAS TO FIGHT WITH THE ONLY WEAPON SHE HAS....

SOMETHING LED TO THIS... IF NOTHING HAPPENED PRAYER POINTS WON'T BE SO..........

DUTY OF A HUSBAND

1 SEX
2. PROVIDER
3. ADVICE/CANCELLING (AS, HUSBAND, ADVOCATE, HER SPIRITUAL LEADER, PROTECTOR, TEACHER ETC) If u as husband fails in any of these then, your wife seeks help outside, which may share the love she has for you.

many to talk about these but time is not a friend... best of luck

4. LEADER BOTH PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL (be your wife prayer warrior, boast her faith... let her have confidence in you, trust you)

I won't want to criticise, let that aspect be unto the Lord's, whose good news is Preached.

Talking about Church expansion, I personally see no wrong in it:

Rreasons:

1. it's better for worshipers to walk to their various worship centers. Proximity is a tool that promotes or hinders some people from getting the message or freedom. look at the economy (e.g. nigeria) today, how can many worshipers travelled on bike or cars, etc transporting to their various worship centres? Again, when proximity to residence is considered, too much should also be locked out because of pollutants (noise and others)

2. My dear readers, human being are growing, I mean multiplying geometrically how do you expect to gather these heads under one roof in this unsafe nation? Hum! Let us be realistic, why infighty of preachers?

3. Consider communicable diseases, can't we be real? You want to gather millions of worshipper in one place, tight them as "in-living beings"?


Furthermore, I call to You preachers, to reunite, preach the true message, forget about popularity through which many preachers have missed the true way.


The body of Christ is One, God the trinity is United but men, gospel preachers have segregated it. e.g.
some preach the hands which they can see or reach, some the head, some go for the legs, some the healing, some the wealth, some the blessings, some the salvation etc. These preachers have" brain washed" their members hitting one's head against another restricting them from attending other worship centres because of so many reasons i can't mention here, so these affected worshipers travel far to their various centres signing against others they may come across on their way. I suppose You preachers solve these problems within yourselves rather than sending the rain down to the public to confuse the young believers or worshipers in your various churches, this is a big tears, preacher fighting each others.

Allow your members, your bounded members, your sheep to be free, let them attend their nearby churches/worship centres rather than you going to their areas opening churches on your name. Please Stop segregation, disunited has dealt with Christian body in Nigeria and Nationwide.

Well. I pray one day the "Water overflows its bounds......"

I canvas for freedom and Unity in Christiandom

I really felt a sense of remorse having account with gtb. However, it's over because I have zeroed it.

Others may not be 100% ok, but some are just fairer.

God is gr8.. U may cry cus u couldn't afford certain things u think u need but God will supercedes man's will. He know what we need, when we need it and how to get it. Ours is to be obedient, wait patiently.

cupidkef:



They are coming for you....

Toyota moves market... However, depends on the location... the product has high value in nigeria... So telling someone to run away is ...........

EnigmaticEnigma:


How old is your radiator??

I had the same issue on my Toyota with the car overheating once the AC goes on. It used to take about 10 minutes to overheat.

I can't say I totally solved the problem, but nowadays it rarely overheats with the AC on. I still get that one or two occurrences when the temp spikes a bit with the AC though, but it's very rare now.

I think your radiator might be clogged. Cleaning it won't really do much, as opposed to buying a brand new one, not a second hand please. You can by an aftermarket one if you can't afford the oem one. As long as all the ports are correct and its brand new, no blockage and no internal corrosion.

Next you may want to check you AC gas pressure to make sure your condenser isn't getting waaaay too hot. Ideally the car should have high and low pressure refrigerant sensors, but some of these mechanics may have tampered with them and your AC may be either overfilled or underfilled.

Can you leave your hand on your AC condenser without getting burned

supported.... apart from ur radiator, how "sound" is ur engine. A/c is another load on the engine... did u work the a/c on it or it's factory fitted? However, Ur radiator may be small or clogged. Just as advised above.... go for better one....

wonderful!

Nigeria fell into the pull of recession; there was practical/physical manifestation in the economy and life of Nigerians both rich and poor..... Now! the same Nigerian economy is said to be out of recession but no physical impact.... Hmmmm!..... How much were you paid to make this speech?

GUY ! I will advice you to disagree if they are using the same bathroom, dining room, corridor, toilet, lobby... etc I'm not saying the guy will make advances or your girl will fall but for future saftiness. A word is enough 4 the wise.

thesmallgod:
another funny one
All these can be classified as reptiles except _________.
Select one:
a. snake
b. cat
c. rat
d. lizard

If actually this was a question........hmmmm! that means this change has affected education too dip. No wonder ASUU is embarking on an indefinite strike....... Pls confirm.... If the above was a question.... if yes...... I call for overhauling of our Ministry of Education.... ....

Joke apart
Rats are rodents of the superfamily Muroidea. True rats are members of the genus Rattus,
Cat is in Felidae family in the group of mammal classified as mammalia
Snake is in reptile, so is lizard

alagba333:
pls nairalanders, read before u comment. no one has really addressed d issue. he didnt say he wants to leave her but d parents are against it. no one here has commented on dat. pls dude, try ur very best to convince ur parents. a joni of 10yrs is no joke. pls guys, be wary of virgins if u wont marry dem. d blood vessel under the hymen is a covenant. be careful

Now! from your post her parents are chasing you... trying to separate the cord binded by love... Right? That means you still love her

As far as you love her... press on.... do not be tire... do not give up... cus that may be ur pathway success in life..... Really u have made silly mistakes......

In the actual sense of consideration of what happened, it might be evil trying to ruin and hinder u from marrying your rightful wife......

Guy...!
Now my Advice....
1. get born again
2. lead her to be born again
3. let the parents and your parents see these changes of behaviour in & on both of you
4. Press the button of marriage
5. press on against all odds
6. use your parents to press
7. use ur pastors/friends/elders


In all you will scapethrough... is going to be stressful cus wrong foundation has been built... But God is able to help you.....

DO NOT FORGET THE PLACE OF PRAYERS... THE BEGINNING AND ENDING....

alagba333:
pls nairalanders, read before u comment. no one has really addressed d issue. he didnt say he wants to leave her but d parents are against it. no one here has commented on dat. pls dude, try ur very best to convince ur parents. a joni of 10yrs is no joke. pls guys, be wary of virgins if u wont marry dem. d blood vessel under the hymen is a covenant. be careful

Now! from your post her parents are chasing you... trying to separate the cord binded by love... Right? That means you still love her

As far as you love her... press on.... do not be tire... do not give up... cus that may be ur pathway success in life..... Really u have made silly mistakes......

In the actual sense of consideration of what happened, it might be evil trying to ruin and hinder u from marrying your rightful wife......

Guy...!
Now my Advice....
1. get born again
2. lead her to be born again
3. let the parents and your parents see these changes of behaviour in & on both of you
4. Press the button of marriage
5. press on against all odds
6. use your parents to press
7. use ur pastors/friends/elders


In all you will scapethrough... is going to be stressful cus wrong foundation has been built... But God is able to help you.....

DO NOT FORGET THE PLACE OF PRAYERS... THE BEGINNING AND ENDING....

luckydion:


Which Advice do you Need?
I can't imagine someone who had befriended a girl for years, used her to satisfy your premature sexual pleasure and even went into killing your offspring in her, now asking for advice weda 2 marry her....?
Frankly, you may go away but the sin will chase you.....
You may go for deliverance, but the spirit must chase u cus it's blood covenant.
Pray that, the girls is not dead in the cus else u won't see light except by God's unpredicted mercy but his word can't be broken.

It better for the two of u to stick together and ask for God's mercy... if you both agree on no marriage fine..... hmmmm guy...!!!!
Let's be wise!!!! Look b4 u leap...... a word is enough...

Another ISSUE HERE is the law of Karma...... You may run away.. excape... free from her... .... But if God's mercy let you have children the girls will be defiled by idiots... people of no reputation... bringing gr8 shame to you... then you not remember because the scene will not be in any way connected...... for her, if she breaks the cud of love, she may not have issue or suffer b4 she has but if the mercy of God prevails.... her boys may not fine love or entangle in wrong relationship....... Again Let GUYS BE WISE: LOOK B4 U LEAP.....


DOT NOT SHARE YOUR FORBIDDING MEAT WITH YOUR TEETH.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Which Advice do you Need?
I can't imagine someone who had befriended a girl for years, used her to satisfy your premature sexual pleasure and even went into killing your offspring in her, now asking for advice weda 2 marry her....?
Frankly, you may go away but the sin will chase you.....
You may go for deliverance, but the spirit must chase u cus it's blood covenant.
Pray that, the girls is not dead in the cus else u won't see light except by God's unpredicted mercy but his word can't be broken.

It better for the two of u to stick together and ask for God's mercy... if you both agree on no marriage fine..... hmmmm guy...!!!!
Let's be wise!!!! Look b4 u leap...... a word is enough...